It's enough to be beautiful [farming]

??In places like Kaoshan Village, according to the old tradition, as long as there is a newcomer in the family, regardless of gender, it is a big happy event, but like Uncle Zheng and Aunt Zheng, looking forward to it for so many years, it is so easy It was finally pregnant and gave birth to children, and they were still twins. In everyone's eyes, no amount of celebration could be overstated.

?? And Aunt Zheng and Uncle Zheng are more complicated, because there are two godsons, Li Yuan and Qi Changqing.

??Many people think that the most likely reason why Aunt Zheng was able to conceive twins is that she has two godsons.

?? "There is that kind, the couple went to the hospital and couldn't find anything wrong, and they didn't do anything harmful to nature, but they just couldn't conceive. Some old people said that this was a crime done in the previous life, and it will be repaid in this life." If it’s not enough, you have to adopt a child…”

??This kind of speculation is completely unreasonable. It is just a matter of psychological comfort. Some people believe it. Once they are really pregnant, they will say that it is the credit of the adopted son or daughter.

?? It was also because of this matter that many people talked about it, and they were always ignored by everyone. They only felt that Qi Changqing, who was inseparable from Li Yuan and probably just a colleague, suddenly became conspicuous.

??The people who got together chatted a few gossips, and when it came to Aunt Zheng's two children, it suddenly dawned on her.

?? "That Ah Qing who often follows Yuan Yuan also recognizes her godfather and mother."

?? "Is he from the city? How come. I usually look at Lao Zheng's house, and there is nothing special..."

?? Just like Uncle Zheng and Aunt Zheng, they are no different from the people in the village. They usually farm the land and save a little bit of money. It is even because they have no children. , There are even people with particularly bad intentions hinting that they should get a divorce. Maybe they will find each other after the divorce, and they will be able to have children.

??Anyway, they are a very ordinary couple no matter how they look, how can they make people from the city recognize their godfather and mother?

??There are many people who are confused and have many ideas. They are unconstrained.

Some people said: "Maybe I like the environment in our village. Doesn't it mean that there are no fields in the city, and we live in a house like a pigeon cage, and there is cement when we go out. Isn't it different from ours?"

"That's true. Living in the city, you have to ask for money for eating, drinking, and drinking, and you don't know your neighbors. You may not see each other all year round."

?? "Growing up in the city, I have never seen a life like ours in the mountain village."

?? "Maybe people are just curious."

?? Uncle Zheng and Aunt Zheng were just lucky. It happened that Qi Changqing was Li Yuan's classmate, so they met by accident, and then they recognized their godfather and godmother.Such an explanation is in line with everyone's imagination, and everyone is willing to accept such an explanation.

?? As for the real facts, in fact, few people are willing to really ask.

??We only want to believe what we want to believe, nothing more.

??When Uncle Zheng and Aunt Zheng came back and entered the village, everyone stopped discussing how Li Yuan and Qi Changqing were doing. They all came to care about the children.

??The bullock cart was full of people, and it was windy and sunny outside. The child's face was covered with a breathable gauze, which was hard to remove. However, many people gathered around to talk. They all thought it was a happy event. Come and be happy.

?? Waiting to see the bullock cart heading straight to the big house, many people were taken aback.

?? Someone said, "Going to a big house? That's really good. But it's the first time for the child to go home, so you have to live in the old house for a few days first?"

"That's Yuan Yuan's house after all..."

?? "Although he is also a son, he is not his own after all."

?? A bunch of people were chattering, in the name of being good for the child, saying that Uncle Zheng and Aunt Zheng should take the child back to their old house.

?? Li Yuan was so angry that his hands shook.

?? Sometimes he can't tell whether these people are really kind or purely malicious. Obviously, the old house is not as good as the big house in all aspects. Taking care of the children in the old house is definitely not as convenient as the big house, but there are people You can turn a blind eye to this and make such a ridiculous proposal in the name of your own good.

??Some of these people are very old elders, some are similar to Uncle Zheng and Aunt Zheng, and some are just married. They all have festive smiles on their mouths and come to say particularly unpleasant words.

?? There are also people who think that others can't hear them, and privately tell Aunt Zheng: "When you have a child, all you think about is the child, and nothing else compares."

??Implying that there is no need to be nice to Li Yuan anymore, just be nice to the child.

?? It can't be said that people are not kind. They think they are here to help, but what they do is to sow discord.

?? But after all, the bullock cart still arrived at the big house.

?? Waiting for Uncle Zheng and Aunt Zheng to enter the big house, Li Yuan specially opened the door and asked everyone to go in and have a look, and explained: "I have two more brothers at once, and I really can't take care of them. Mom invited relatives to help. The relatives feel that children are rare, and the three of them will not be able to live in the old house."

?? "Go back to the old house when the wine is set up. I usually live here."

??It was only then that everyone realized that those three strangers were here to take care of their children, not just relatives who came to see the fun.

??As everyone entered the big house, they said to Li Yuan: "Three people take care of it, it doesn't take so much, does it?"

?? Li Yuan thought it was funny, as long as he had money, he could hire a dozen or so people to wait on him.

??But I couldn't say that. Li Yuan said: "My parents have been looking forward to it for so many years, and it's hard to have a child. It's rare. The relatives are also anxious. Originally, eight people will come. After discussing it, we called three relatives over."

?? They all care about this child and are willing to take care of it. No one can say anything about it.

?? A group of people followed into the room and looked around, all chatting around the big bed.

?? This said, "When I gave birth, my parents-in-law were busy in the fields, and I took care of the children."

?? That one said, "Now the children are spoiled. Look, the children have grown hair. In the past, when children were born, they didn't have much hair..."

?? "I used to use a small spoon instead of a feeding bottle."

?? "Sometimes there is no milk, so I cook millet porridge for a few hours, and give the child rice soup, and I can support myself."

?? A group of people talked about how miserable the past was, as if implying that life here is very luxurious now.

??The nanny didn't care about these things, and took milk powder, feeding bottles, etc. to make milk powder for the child.

??Some people say, "It is better for children to breastfeed, and drinking milk powder is not nutritious."

?? "Now it's not that milk powder is unhealthy, drinking it is easy to cause problems."

??Anyway, one by one, all with the attitude of someone who has been there, pointing at the two children and saying what they think is correct.

??Aunt Zheng sat on the bed, even though she was smiling, she didn't refute.

?? Li Yuan listened at the door for a while, only to feel that he was about to suffocate.

??After waiting for a long time, the child woke up, drank milk, urinated, saw the child using a diaper, and some people talked in a hurry. There was a lot of noise in the room, and these people left one after another , are still unfinished.

?? After everyone left, Li Yuan closed the door, wiped and disinfected the floor, worked for a long time, then turned on the air purifier, and then spread out on the sofa and did not move.

"Eat some fruit?" Qi Changqing leaned over, "I'm going to wash the fruit, what do you want to eat?"

?? "Mango." Li Yuan said weakly.

??Xu Jinmian didn't know when he would come out, and he looked very leisurely.

?? Li Yuan turned over and lay on the sofa, and couldn't help complaining: "I don't know what they think, why are they so willing to participate in other people's lives? Yes, the conditions were not good before, and the children were supported no matter what. I'm older, but now I have the conditions, why don't I enjoy better conditions, I have to keep talking about how it was before..."

?? In the past, they could survive eating bran swallowing vegetables. Now let them eat bran swallowing vegetables. Who would be willing?

?? "This is a tradition." Xu Jinmian said.

??Uncle Wu changed clothes and came out, his hair was wet, and he held a towel in his hand, but didn't wipe it.

??Xu Jinmian took the towel and wiped his head for him.

?? "In the past, not only the conditions were not good, the transportation was not developed enough, but also some physiological knowledge was not popularized. For things like giving birth, it basically all depends on the experience of the elders, precepts and deeds, and even giving birth is to find Midwives, it all depends on experience."

?? "However, one's experience may not be so perfect, so you have to brainstorm, so when the child is born, no matter whether it is a mother-in-law or a daughter-in-law, they will come to see the child. On the other hand, I am here to pass on my own experience.”

?? "In this way, the newly born, completely inexperienced little daughter-in-law can quickly accumulate a lot of experience, so that she can face some things calmly."

?? This is almost a long, long time ago, people were forced out of the way of life.

??It’s just that in modern society, physiological knowledge has become popular, and there are hospitals. Doctors’ knowledge must be professional. It’s good to listen to doctors in everything. However, the traditional customs have not been cut off.

??Perhaps the people who participated in it didn't know the meaning of saying these words to the newly born daughter-in-law, and some people even came with malicious intentions, but the inheritance is like this, from generation to generation, it has never changed.

?? "Inheritance will not change due to changes in society. Some inheritance may not be suitable anymore, but since it exists, there must be a reason for its existence."

?? Hearing what Xu Jinmian said, Uncle Wu didn't quite agree. He said, "Actually, other places have changed a lot. Only the mountain village has changed a little slower. In the final analysis, this place is relatively closed. It used to be a year-round You don’t see a few strangers, and everyone’s life is actually the same as it was decades, or even hundreds of years ago.”

??Even in the current Kaoshan Village, some elderly people still have spinning machines, simple looms, etc., and even some old people have good craftsmanship, and occasionally they can spin and weave by themselves .

?? "The village still has some changes. There are more young people going out to work now, and the village will gradually change." Xu Jinmian said.

??Uncle Wu still disagrees, "What can people who go out to work have access to, every day is a dormitory factory, and they have no access to other things at all. For example, those who are pregnant and have children, don't they all go back to the village and wait for the birth..."

?? "When the village develops in the future, it will naturally change."

?? "That is also the future."

?? "You must argue with me?"

?? "Obviously it's useless for you to say the messy reasoning. You might as well tell Yuan Yuan directly that we are all living in the village at this stage, so we have to adapt to the environment here, let him bear it, and bear it if we can't bear it." , that’s all right.”

?? Uncle Wu said it very straightforwardly, but although Xu Jinmian said it in a tactful way, the meaning is actually the same.

??Qi Changqing washed the mango, took a small spoon to dig out small balls, and sprinkled some yogurt, brought it over, took a small spoon to scoop up a small piece of mango, and brought it to Li Yuan's mouth.

??Li Yuan was still lying down, so he opened his mouth and ate a small piece of mango, "Sweet."

??Mango is a bit sweet and sweet, but after adding yogurt, the sweetness is finally neutralized, and the taste is just right.

"Why don't you tell your parents to move to the city before the wine is served?" Qi Changqing suggested, "There will always be gossips in the village. Now we all know that we care about children, so we specially invited 'relatives' to take care of them, but When the child is out of the full moon, I'm afraid there will be a lot of gossip."

??Generally, in mountain villages, mothers who give birth to children only have a one-month confinement period. During this period, the mother-in-law or natal family will take care of them. After a month, it is generally believed that the puerpera You can take care of yourself and don't need others to take care of you.