"Married" to a rich woman [entertainment]

[Discussion] After reading the latest issue of "Same Bed, Different Dreams", I want to talk about the views on child sexuality and abuse. Welcome everyone to seek common ground while reserving differences.

0L: Like the title, as the CP fan of the Zheng couple, I watched the show yesterday, thinking it would continue the sweet and cool style as always, but who knows that a dispute arose as soon as the style of painting changed.To be honest, I have been following this show since the trial broadcast until now, and I always thought that Zheng Xiansen and Mrs. Zheng would never quarrel in this life, or I can’t imagine Mrs. Zheng arguing. She has always been quiet and doesn’t talk much, what? It's all easy to say, and you can feel free to comment if you don't have any opinions.The two people's personalities complement each other very well, every movement and stillness, sitting anywhere is like a pictorial visual.This episode made me see a different side of Mrs. Zheng. It turns out that she will fight for her own point of view, and she can also say so much.

My boyfriend and I also went to see the movie "Suyuan". I'm not afraid of jokes that my makeup is all in tears, and my boyfriend is also crying. If it weren't for the scruples of going to the cinema, we would want to hug and cry together.After watching it, I felt very uncomfortable. I couldn’t get back my energy after several days. I also heard about this incident back then. It was so big that the president was forced to come out of the Blue House to apologize and the law was amended, but I never thought of adapting it into a movie. , will bring such a huge impact to the soul.The incident was so fierce back then, and reading the news would at most mean scolding a few scumbags, but it was only after watching the movie that I really wanted to understand the case.

After watching the movie, I also told my boyfriend that I would not have a daughter in the future, even though I like my daughter very much.Just like Zheng Xiansen, it’s not easy for a girl to grow up healthy and safe, and I don’t want her to suffer, among other things, I think that in the future, my daughter will roll on the ground in pain every month at that time like me, I don't want her to come.

Probably this movie shows girls being sexually assaulted, so the focus of the audience is on the protection of girls.As for Mrs. Zheng, she thought of the neglected boy. There are many foreign films with this theme, most of which are about boys being sexually assaulted. It is understandable for her to notice.Mrs. Zheng grew up abroad. Sex education in foreign countries is much more open than in Asia. Movies with this kind of theme are naturally unrestricted, but movies like this in our country have only been available in recent years. As for why, it’s not because of the fig leaf?Of course, the movie itself is not the point, I just want to complain about it.

In fact, there is really the kind of person that Mrs. Zheng said by my side. What should I be afraid of if I gave birth to a son!I didn't think there was any problem before. At most, I felt that there was something wrong. But after watching the program and listening to Mrs. Zheng's words, I realized what those things were wrong.It's ridiculous, and it's ridiculous for those people's blind arrogance.

Boys and girls are essentially children, and they are all very weak existences. Weakness is easy to be bullied.Why do you think boys won't be hurt?Still think men can't be sexually assaulted?It's ridiculous to think about it.

Have you forgotten all the previous cases?A ten-year-old boy was sexually assaulted to death. His father wanted to appeal for justice, but the legal definition of sexual assault is male to female. Therefore, the poor father could not even seek justice. The boy died in an unclear way .Came into this world clean, but left with wounds all over...

The downstairs neighbor of my house is an old teacher. I used to think she was very qualified until after she had a grandson... I don’t know why she started to speak dirty after having a grandson, and she didn’t have any scruples .Until another neighbor scolded her not to bring up a bad child, she said anyway, what is the grandson afraid of?That's ridiculous. Is it okay to swear because it's your grandson?What kind of educational philosophy is this!Fortunately, she is still an old teacher, and she feels that she was really blind before.

I very much agree with Mrs. Zheng's idea, no matter whether you have a daughter or not, if you have a son, please educate him well!Educate them how to respect women and how to protect themselves, instead of just throwing everything aside just because they are sons.No matter how much you disagree, your son is a potential criminal.I don't rule out that the daughter is also a potential criminal, otherwise there wouldn't be a women's prison, right?It's just that I'm targeting the type of people who think that having a son means they're not afraid of anything and don't care about anything.

Another idea of ​​Mrs. Zheng is also right, that is, even though parents have never been parents, they all come from children. They should understand that children are weak existences, and they should have more patience and be more patient with children. Much pampering.Don’t blame this and that every time something happens to your child. The most fundamental thing is to find out your own reasons. There is no right to choose the birth of a child, but parents have the right to choose whether the child is born or not. Since they have chosen to be born, Just take responsibility.Don't wait until something happens to regret it.

What were the children doing before they were born?They picked their parents in the sky, saw you lying on the clouds, thought you were very good, and wanted to be your children, then threw away countless treasures in the sky, came to you naked, like a little beggar with nothing, They pretend to be helpless, but in fact they only have one idea in mind, which is to love you with all their heart.

So, please take good care of your children. This is not just a matter of not having a daughter, but not being afraid of having a son, but whether it is a boy or a girl, they are very weak.

1L: I came in when I saw the same bed with different dreams. Of course, my Mrs. Zheng is different from the coquettish sluts outside. What she said is right. We must remember our past weakness and better educate and care for our offspring. We cannot let criminals take advantage of us. opportunity.

2L: They are both weak and small +1. Both of them are sons in the family. They never think that everything will be fine in the future. The education of the son is not good. It is my family who is hurting, so I must pay close attention to education.

13L: I have watched the melting pot, but I dare not look at Suyuan. After I become a mother, I will not watch any news about children being hurt. I will protect my children well.

25L: No one around me is willing to talk about this topic. I can only talk about it online. In fact, everyone knows that there is child sexual abuse and how terrible it is, but they don’t want to think about it or talk about it.The first reason is that I am afraid that if I talk too much, I will have bad associations. What if it is my own child?The second reason is that sex is still a taboo in our country, and I don't want to talk about it.So in order not to make ourselves and those around us feel sad, everyone chooses to avoid talking about it, but it’s not that child sexual abuse won’t happen if we don’t talk about it. On the contrary, it’s because of our avoiding attitude that those scumbags become more and more rampant.

47L: When I was young, I was touched by teachers and relatives. At that time, I knew it was a fart, and I didn’t dare to tell the adults, let alone question their mistakes. I still feel disgusted by the touch of others.

53L: The people I hate the most in my life are my grandma and my mother. When I was a child, my cousin would sexually assault me ​​every time I went to my grandma’s house and strip me naked.The first time my cousin said to me, cousin, let's go to have some fun... I told the adults countless times, they said that I think too much, I am a boy, and that I have something wrong with my brain , Now in my twenties, I told my mother, but my mother still said I was lying.I hated my cousin who raped me, but I hated even more adults who were indifferent to my pain.

82L: I watched the whole movie in tears, and I dare not watch it a second time. It still hurts to think about it now.

138L: I admire Mrs. Zheng very much. She dares to express her views on things that everyone avoids.

144L: Does anyone think Mrs. Zheng is cold-blooded?I didn't even cry during watching such a movie, that's the kind of person who can say that all boys are potential criminals... She doesn't deserve to be a human being at all.

253L: Funny, do you have to cry to be sad?Now some people are really funny, just like a friend who dies and doesn’t post an INS to express his sadness would not be sad, patronizing sadness, who has the mood to post an INS?There are so many professional mourners, it is really someone else's father who died, crying as if his own father died.

388L: A person who can express such an opinion would not be cold-blooded, on the contrary, her inner world must be very emotional.Some people don't cry not because they are not sad, but because they are too strong. Mrs. Zheng is very worthy of love.

501L: The ignorance of sexual assault and the lack of systematic sex education are the reasons why parents are indifferent to sexual assault.

536L: I finally found a place to confide... At the age of 17, because of cooperating with the police to convict that person, what happened for two years is finally known to everyone.My mother's first reaction was not to feel sorry for me, but to ask me why I didn't tell her earlier, and finally came to a conclusion that I will never forget. My mother said: I asked for everything.The relatives and friends seem to feel distressed, but it seems that there is finally one thing that is enough for them to become givers at no cost.The human nature of the world is nothing more than that, and the hell on earth is nothing more than that.

650L: A group of idiots who look at people with colored glasses. The elders love the younger ones. Is it normal to touch them?Children are ignorant, and you are also ignorant?Shame or not?

779L: Is it necessary to take off your clothes and pants if you love me?It is because there are too many ignorant people like you that lead to more and more perverts.Take your children off and let them touch them!Anyway, it's love.

905L: My relative is like this. At that time, my family only had a daughter. Occasionally when we talked about children, I would be particularly worried about safety issues, but she always said that her family was afraid of her son, and then she stopped talking... I really don't know where the confidence comes from.Anyway, I will protect my child well, and I will also protect my son well. After reading this post, I understand more.

1288L: Mrs. Zheng is so charming when she speaks the truth~~

The author has something to say: Xiao Chengzi’s name has been decided, Zheng Muxi, follow in the footsteps of the Guoli brothers~~Remind me once, the names of the Guoli brothers are Zheng Zexi and Zheng Chunxi, and your goldfish memories are also very good!It is said that Koreans seem to like to jointly apply to the Blue House for the death penalty?I remember that Lee Kwang Soo was cheated before, so speechless o(╯□╰)oPS: Little Lemon at night!It’s the end of the month, so it’s okay to add more, the family has been busy recently, and 100 red envelopes go away~~