Mu Chen

41. Bowen

This is how Mu Chen started his college life. Due to the geographical reasons, his grades in the class can only be regarded as the bottom - several points lower than his classmates in the south.But he has good study habits and a solid foundation. He has accepted these new subjects well. After one semester, he still won the third-class scholarship.

It was only 200 yuan, but it also made him a little happy. Although he also worked in the factory during the holidays, he knew in his heart: it was his father who was helping him to help Yu Yong.This time the money is not much, but the meaning is different.

After shopping in the mall for a long time, I finally bought a pen for Mu Wen and Jiang Cheng. The two of them either wrote prescriptions or signed for reimbursement. Anyway, they needed it.I bought a small box of two taels of tea for Grandpa Mu, and then, only eight yuan was left.

Finally, I bought a green-yellow stone pendant at a small stall in a scenic spot: green is a bright green, yellow is light yellow, and the color is very bright.But what caught Mu Chen's eyes at first glance was that this yellow hair looked like a walking tiger.

Yu Yong is a tiger, and Mu Chen felt that although this gift was a bit tricky, he also put his heart into it, um, so he carefully talked to the stall owner who asked for [-] yuan to get it to [-] yuan.Perfect.

Ding Bowen, like Mu Chen, was at the bottom of the class in the college entrance examination, but this real student got No.1 in the class in the mid-term exam, and the first in the grade in the final exam, which surprised all the students who passed the college entrance examination. Glasses all over the place.

Gu Ning is Mu Chen's biggest gain this semester besides his studies.I thought there would be no more intersections, but because Gu Ning's tutor, Professor Chen, took Mu Chen's cell biology class, and Gu Ning was helping the teacher with chores, the two gradually became familiar with each other.

Gu Ning is a very gentle person. After getting along with him, Mu Chen even saw the shadow of Mu Wen in him - hardworking, knowledgeable, generous, free and easy, kind and tolerant but with a certain degree of advance and retreat, and a clear distinction between grievances and resentments.

Mu Chen has seen Gu Ning's super popularity, and also seen him simply refuse the favor he doesn't want to help, including facing girls and teachers, which makes him who is not good at refusing to admire him.

And Gu Ning also felt that Mu Chen was a very comfortable person: knowing the etiquette and keeping the etiquette, not exceeding the distance, not superficial.Although the two are six years apart, they get along very well. They have similar views and positioning on many things, and their favorite books and songs overlap, which makes the relationship between the two even closer.

After getting along for a long time, Mu Chen realized that Gu Ning should come from a family with very good conditions, whether it was the mobile phone, notebook, the white Poussin he drove, or the daily expenses of dressing and dressing.

But he never heard him mention his family, and he was deeply influenced by Mu Wen's respect for other people's private space since he was a child, so he never asked him once. He didn't know that this made Gu Ning look up to him.

Of course, he never shy away from talking about his beloved home and family, not only that, but he often talks about it.After a long time, Gu Ning is also very fond of his family. During the winter vacation, Gu Ning drove him and Ding Bowen to the station, and brought a big bag of special products for his family.

Muchen's university life was dull and fulfilling, and the courses of clinical medicine were very intense. He also knew that life is irreversible and treatment cannot be wrong since he was a child, which made him take his studies very seriously.

But no matter how busy he is, he will go home on time every winter and summer vacation. In addition to being with his family and Yu Yong, he has been practicing in his own hospital since the first vacation, learning from writing medical records, dispensing medicine, and observing return visits.

By the third year of junior year, his own small hospital could no longer meet Mu Chen's study requirements, Jiang Cheng entrusted his relationship to let him go to the Second Hospital of Y City for an internship, and worked as a holiday worker without salary.

Facts have proved that this kind of study is very effective. Mu Chen asked himself that he did not have a high IQ, but his hard work was rewarded. When he graduated from senior year in 2001, although he failed to keep the postgraduate entrance examination, he successfully passed the exam. A graduate student in our school.

The real top student is Ding Bowen, who was admitted as an exchange student to France in his junior year. He graduated this year with a bachelor's degree, and because of his excellent grades, he has already been recommended to the graduate students of the school.

His mother, Mr. Hu, was very dissatisfied with this.She thought that with Ding Bowen's grades, she should be able to be admitted to Tsinghua University's water conservancy and hydropower major. Even if it wasn't the civil engineering she was looking forward to, it would still be Tsinghua University!

Ding Bowen didn't care much about her dislike of her. Although he could pass the exam, he explained to Mr. Ding that Mr. Hu wouldn't listen to him, and he had no intention of communicating with her at all. The professional water conservancy school is Haida, and he would not choose another school for the sake of fame.

However, Mr. Hu's habitual accusations annoyed him so much that he was ready to return to school early.

In fact, two years abroad does not count, even in the first two years in China, Ding Bowen only went home for the first winter vacation in the first year.The sophomore didn't even go home for the Chinese New Year. He only said that he was working part-time, doing an internship, and had no time.The second time I went home was to go to France, but I only stayed at home for a few nights.

Teacher Ding was sad about this, but he understood his son's feeling of running away.A man who is so introverted and silent, he can't say anything about missing his son and making him go home more.On the contrary, Mr. Hu, who is professional, is supportive.

All in all, since he went to university in [-], this was the third time his son came home, and it was the first time in four years that he came back on time from vacation. Teacher Ding was very angry, "How long are you going to make a fuss? You want your son to be completely unwilling to go home before you are reconciled! How can you be so vain!"

After Mrs. Hu was shocked, she cried and yelled as usual, but this time after her son, her husband also chose to escape.

The teachers all have holidays, and Teacher Ding simply packed a bag and dragged his son out to play for a long time.Take the train, stay in a youth hostel, and walk.

I didn't have a definite plan, but I followed my heart, saw Cangshan Mountain and Erhai Lake, went to Tianya Haijiao, climbed Huangshan Mountain, and finally stayed at the mountain people's house in Shennongjia for 20 days.

Walking in the blue sky every day has greatly released the emotions of the father and son, and also made the relationship between the two fathers and sons unprecedentedly harmonious and close.

Finally, before the end of the holiday, Teacher Ding plucked up the courage to apologize to his son for his cowardice—he thought that his concession would allow his son to grow up in a stable, at least quiet, environment, but he did not expect his wife to make further progress and use The greater desire to control made the son completely lose his childhood.

Ding Bowen also confessed for the first time to his taciturn father about his troubles growing up, his uncontrollable anxiety, and his always negative evaluation of himself in his heart.

And the father who heard all this finally couldn't help crying.

Both father and son are restrained and shy, and have never met each other with sincerity.But at this moment, Ding Bowen still hesitantly stretched out his arms to hug his father.

When returning home, Mr. Hu didn't make any more trouble, but completely ignored the two of them without saying a word.

Teacher Ding proposed twice that the family sit together and have a good talk, and also said that as parents, they should reflect on their own harm to their children, but Teacher Hu remained expressionless and did not respond, and drove Teacher Ding out as usual while sleeping. bedroom.

The school's family building is not big, it's just a two-bedroom, one-living room of more than [-] square meters. From the beginning, whenever there is a quarrel, Mr. Hu will drive people to the small bedroom.

Teacher Ding also had the idea of ​​communicating well, but Teacher Hu had no third option other than accusations and a cold war, so he could only choose a cold war, and the two of them could not speak for a month—at home.When he was away, Mr. Hu still looked like a happy family.

At night, the two father and son huddled on Ding Bowen's bed and chatted.In fact, Ding Bowen and his wife have been living in separate rooms since they lived in high school. Teacher Ding also had the foresight to replace the small bed in Ding Bowen’s room with a 1.5-meter-large bed, but every year when the children come back from vacation, The two will move in together very tacitly.

After more than 40 days of getting along, the two fathers and sons have no estrangement. Ding Bowen rarely asks about their past. Now, Mr. Ding is afraid that his son who has just had a fever will be chilled, and he will not be ashamed, so he tells them one by one.

The two are colleagues, with similar age and appearance, so they were introduced and matched by colleagues: both are motivated, both work well, colleagues can understand and consider each other, and the two families are ordinary and honest people who can live a life and so on.This was a normal marriage in those days.

They got married without falling in love. Of course, even if there is a process of falling in love, Mr. Ding will not find all kinds of flaws in Mr. Hu's character - Mr. Hu has always had a different face to the outside world.

too young.Marriage for marriage's sake.

When he finds out that something is wrong, he wants to get a divorce. The reputation is not good. Outsiders have a good evaluation of Mr. Hu. The reasons for his incompatibility, let alone his colleagues, even his family members don’t agree.

Later, there was a child.In order for the child to have a sound family, he finally gave up his separation...for the sake of the son, but what did the son get?

Ding Bowen persuaded very seriously, "Dad, if you can't do it, you can get a divorce. My mother is not a bad person, but her sick personality is too uncomfortable to get along with. I am also old, and I can understand. You don't have to think about me."

Teacher Ding, "Forget it, who can stand her personality? Except for playing prestige at home, who would like her?"

Ding Bowen?

Teacher Ding, "It's ridiculous that she still can't understand it, and she doesn't want to think about how she was not the last batch in all these years, no matter whether it was a job title or a promotion? She felt that she would lose face after she was really divorced. Don't be so angry, you It's too old, as long as she doesn't harm you, I will bear it."

Ding Bowen, therefore, never tolerated because of love as he thought, but tolerated because of pity.

I don't know what his vain and conceited mother thinks that it is all because of her efforts that their family is today, what will the mother think when she hears this?

Ding Bowen still left early.

He felt that even though he felt sorry for his mother's ignorance, he still couldn't get along with her.Just before leaving, I once again persuaded my father, if my mother still refuses to communicate and refuses to change, forget it, whose life is not life.