The history of raising children from the Republic of China to the 70s

Li Chengye didn't expect that Secretary Chu would have such a high opinion of him, but he still had a humble look, "There are a lot of people with ideas in this world, but those who don't listen to their ideas, naturally there is nothing they can do." Putting these ideas into action, I was also lucky to come to the steel factory." I met a leader like you.

Li Chengye didn't continue to say the following, but Secretary Chu also understood what he meant, and he was naturally a little complacent in his heart. This Maxima is common, but Bole is not. Li Chengye's idea is good, but he also knows people with insight.Thinking of this, Secretary Chu became more and more satisfied with Li Chengye.

"Hahaha, Xiao Li, you work hard in the future, the future of our steel plant still depends on you young people." Secretary Chu laughed, full of encouragement.

"Yes, Secretary Chu."

As far as the superiors are concerned, they always have a lot of patience with talented people, and they will not spare time to chat with them. Whether it is a small chat is also a way to make people concentrate on doing things.Li Chengye felt that Secretary Chu was quite a capable leader, and there were not many factory leaders who would do this in this era.

"I heard that there is an old mother in your family? How is your health?" This is the real stage of chatting about family affairs.

Li Chengye nodded with a smile, "There is still a mother in the family, but she is not very old, so she is still in good health." Li's mother is not much older than this factory, so naturally she is not an old mother.

"Oh, it's good if you are in good health. I heard that you are the only child in the family. There are not many people like you. In general, there are five or six in the family. This way, the whole family can help each other."

Li Chengye: "My mother had a hard time giving birth to me, and my father couldn't bear her suffering, so I was the only one." In the inherent concept, women are like tools to carry on the family line. There are only a handful of people who do this.It's no wonder that Li's mother still couldn't forget after Li's father passed away.Although he hasn't said much in the past few years, he still sneaks in a daze at Father Li's old things from time to time.

This time Secretary Chu was really surprised, but he didn't expect this reason. He was wondering if there was some accident, but he didn't know that it was because of his good feelings.But Li's father has passed away, so he is naturally not good at commenting, he just said: "This is also rare."

"However, your father must be very pleased to have a son like you." He said this from the bottom of his heart. He also has several sons, and the older ones will graduate from high school soon. Now all urban youths are going to the countryside Yes, the few in his family are naturally inevitable.

In order not to go to the countryside, the older one has been making trouble at home for a long time, and he must be asked to help find a job.But he was in this position, but he was stared at by many people, so he was so messed up.It would be over if someone caught him accidentally, but his wife and children couldn't understand his difficulties, and just felt that arranging a job randomly was just a matter of hand.

This has been going on for a long time, and he is also very upset.Of course, Secretary Chu would not tell Li Chengye about this matter, but Li Chengye had naturally heard a lot of things, and understood why the leader was upset.It's just that this matter is not easy to solve, so he didn't answer the conversation, just smiled.

Secretary Chu said to Li Chengye today that these were all for the purpose of getting closer, so he naturally wouldn't get entangled in some bad things, and continued: "You still have two children in your family? I heard they are twins, how old are they?"

Li Chengye: "Yes, the two sons are already 5 years old."

Secretary Chu: "I've been so busy recently, my wife won't complain, right?" Li Chengye's file was transferred here before he returned home, so Secretary Chu and the others naturally didn't know that he was divorced.

Li Chengye was startled, as if it was very difficult to answer.

Secretary Chu asked suspiciously: "What's the matter? Could it be that there is really some conflict at home?"

"As men, we should be more magnanimous. We have to understand that your wife is taking care of the elderly and children at home, and we can't be too fussy." Secretary Chu thought that Li Chengye had a conflict with his concentrated wife, so he immediately persuaded him. He also looks like someone who has been here.

Li Chengye didn't want him to misunderstand for too long, so he hurriedly said, "Secretary Chu, I'm already divorced, and now my mother is taking care of the two children."

Secretary Chu's face became serious now, "Why did you get divorced?" He looked at Li Chengye suspiciously. You must know that there are not many people who will divorce now, especially women, and few will take the initiative. Among those who get divorced, there are also men who abandon their wives and children after they become prosperous, and despise wives and wives.Secretary Chu admired Li Chengye's work ability very much before, and wanted to promote him in the future, but if there was a problem with his character, he had to think about it carefully.

Li Chengye naturally understood his doubts, and quickly said: "It was also a mistake. I was on a mission before, and I was misrepresented as a sacrifice. The news is not well informed, and I was seriously injured. It took too long. When I come back, the child's mother has already remarried."

After all, she is the biological mother of two children, and Li Chengye didn't mean to slander her.After all, there was nothing wrong with the family. It was normal for her husband to sacrifice and remarry, but it was just morally embarrassing.After all, no one thought that Li Chengye was still alive and would come back so soon.

"It's so twists and turns!" Hearing this, Secretary Chu was also very emotional. It was indeed a trick of good fortune, but it also made him feel at ease about Li Chengye's character.

However, when he thought that Li Chengye could be said to be single now, his heart moved again. The person in front of him was a fighting hero himself, with strong working ability. Although he was a little older, he could still be considered a good son-in-law.He didn't have a suitable girl himself, but his uncle's family had two nieces of the right age.

Thinking of this, he tentatively asked, "Then it's hard for your mother to take care of the family alone, she must be very anxious to find you a wife again? Isn't our factory going to hold a blind date party in a few days? ? Have you signed up yet?"

Li Chengye's heart skipped a beat, he probably understood what this person meant, and the current organization is indeed good, not only paying attention to your work, but also your marriage, unfortunately he can't enjoy this kind of kindness.He just made a helpless look, "The two children in the family are still a little scared because of the previous incident, and I have no plans to find one for the time being. Fortunately, my mother is still in good health and can take good care of the children for the time being."

"Besides, as a person, I always focus on my work, so I don't want to delay other girls." He said this with a somewhat depressed look, as if he had no interest in finding a new partner.

Secretary Chu stared, and said a little angrily: "Why are you delaying other girls? There are many good girls nowadays. You can just concentrate on your work, and you can take care of the family if you marry a daughter-in-law."

Li Chengye just shook his head, "I'm fine now. Besides, there are two children at home, and my mother doesn't have a job. I'm afraid I won't be able to support her if I'm looking for a wife. I'm also afraid that they won't be able to get along with each other if they still have a child. "Mother Li also talked about this issue with Li Chengye, but he prevaricated, the reason is that if he finds him again, he must be a second-married person, and maybe he will bring a child himself, so how can he treat his child selflessly? Woolen cloth.

Even if he didn't have a child, what if he and his later wife had a child, what if he was partial?With a stepmother, it is easy to have a stepfather. After all, being under the ear of the child's mother for a long time, it will naturally be eccentric.Li's mother was frightened by Li Chengye's words, so naturally she was in no mood to find a wife for Li Chengye.

But Secretary Chu felt that Li Chengye was just worrying blindly, and said indifferently: "With your current conditions, you can find a first-time marriage. When the time comes to find someone with good character, naturally there will be no such problems." Anyway, he is quite happy If there is such a son-in-law, it is not a problem for a second marriage to have children.

Li Chengye smiled, "You think too highly of me, I'm just an ordinary person, and the little girl is spoiled at home, how can I let someone be a stepmother! After all, stepmother career is very difficult to do of."

He was resolute. Although Secretary Chu felt it was a pity, he was only a boss he had just met not long after all. It was already a bit out of bounds to say so much. Seeing him like this, he had no choice but to give up.He sighed with some emotion, "You, you, alas, there will be a day when you want to understand." He still feels that a woman always needs to take care of a house. After all, Mother Li is just a mother, and many things She can't even do it.

Li Chengye just smiled when he heard this.

After talking about the business and the other things, Li Chengye naturally had no reason to stay any longer, and left Secretary Chu's office without saying a few words.

Before the end of get off work, almost everyone in the factory knew about the allocation of funds from the city and county to the steel factory, and everyone was very excited for a while.We must know that the more new equipment there is, the better the efficiency of their factory will be.After the benefits are improved, various welfare benefits will be much better. Not only that, but the factory will also have more money to build houses, so the probability of them being allocated a house will be greater.This can be said to be a major event related to the development of the factory. Naturally, many people paid attention to it. For a while, people in the factory were talking about the purchase of new equipment.

Of course, many people have a long-term view and think of other things. With the arrival of new equipment, there is a high probability that the production capacity will be increased, and it may be necessary to expand the number of workers by then.Everyone followed their families, so they naturally spread the news to their relatives and friends. It didn't take long for the news that the steel factory would soon recruit workers on a large scale.