Feng Xue

"Even if we are still immature at our age, let alone at the age of school, who would let reproduction be the instinct of human beings? Most people don't think carefully about the issue of having children. If only a couple , then the solution to family problems is nothing more than divorce, but with one more child involved, the problem is obviously much more complicated." Liang Fei said with deep emotion.

Family problems seem to be an essential part of everyone's growth process. Basically, 90.00% of families have various problems. Everyone deals with them in different ways, and the results are also different. If there is no result, the problem will only keep repeating, as if one of the two people must give in to make the family harmonious, but the continuous giving in will cause a new imbalance and lead to another disharmonious result, so it seems that there will never be The standard answer, at least among these friends of Chu Xue, there is no one whose parents can be praised as a model couple.Perhaps it is also because of this that their generation is particularly fond of the tranquility of the family, and they also know that this matter is not something that anyone can give in to, and it is not something that can be maintained as long as there is love. There are too many external factors that will affect this love. , It may also be because of different people or things that you meet every day that make a person change. Some changes happen slowly, and some changes happen suddenly, but the strange thing is that the way of getting along between husband and wife is usually the same , Obviously change is the norm, how can there be something that will never change?But if you think about it again, if the way of getting along with each other does not change at all, then the situation will only get worse and worse. redeem.

"Let's not talk about this disappointing topic. In short, it will always be the children who suffer from it. However, children who grow up in such an environment may repeat all the bad habits of their parents again and again. They still don't know it. The one that makes people feel the most powerless.” In Qi Jun’s view, his brother’s family has the same problems as his parents, the man is becoming more and more authoritarian, and the woman is becoming weaker and weaker. He feels that he is out of tune with that family. , He just wants to be a man who loves his wife, not like his brother and father think that his wife is just their accessory, especially what the woman does seems to be taken for granted, but their efforts cannot be without return.

"Although everyone has their own destiny, parents cannot choose. They basically determine [-]% of a person's destiny, and at least [-]% of a person's destiny. The rest can be controlled by oneself." Rong Yidao .

This topic made Chu Xue very emotional. I have to say that they have grown up, and they would not say such things when they left. In just five years, everyone has more or less matured.

At the same time, Feng Yan was in his car, and Cheng Jun sat on the passenger seat and pulled him to question, mainly asking about Chu Xue's situation. Having said all that, Cheng Jun felt that Chu Xue was too thin, so he told Feng Yan to take him to the hospital for a physical examination.

Feng Yan agreed, although he felt that some problems could not be detected by physical examination, such as sleep, which may only depend on conditioning, and probably also related to emotions and habits, and should not be rushed for a while. Now that he can share the same bed with Chu Xue, it means that the two People's daily life can be inseparable, so it is natural to know if there is any problem in the body.The function of physical examination is to quickly understand. After all, sometimes there is a time lag before major problems in the body can be reflected, and many small problems that have already been reflected are often ignored by people, such as oral ulcers or easy colds, etc. , There are countless diseases caused by living habits. Health is actually daily prevention and maintenance, so as long as you can live together, it is not difficult to understand each other's physical condition.

"Speaking of the physical examination, you haven't told Chu Xue about your own situation, have you?" Cheng Jun thought of Feng Yan because of this, and asked again.

Feng Yan shook his head: "Not yet, I can't hide this matter, and I will definitely tell him when the time comes."

"He said he wanted to open a store, so what about you, behind the scenes? Are you thinking of doing anything else?"

"Dancing is a youth meal. I didn't do it for a long time. I thought about it at that time. I like dancing. I chose this line of work. I plan to grow old, and the work behind the scenes has already been done."

"That's right, you matured earlier than us. At that time, Axue always told us about your dreams and how great you are, but now it's only five years. You should like the stage more, right?"

Feng Yan laughed: "That's right, but many things can't be done forever if you like it, especially the stage. The process of completing a dance drama is very complicated, and it can always be completed by the cooperation of multiple people. Look, there is no shortage of people in every position. Whether I am in front of the stage or behind the scenes, I am just one of them. There is no one who is important and who is not. Maybe in the eyes of outsiders, it seems that the chief is the pillar of the pillar, but if there is no For group dances, he can’t support a show by himself. What about solo dances? Without music, stage decoration and the support of lighting engineers, it’s still impossible. To make the stage well requires the cooperation of too many people. Chu Xue is now It's just stage planning, it's really a good thing he did this job, otherwise I really don't know where to look for it." He was a little grateful, but also a little scared, and couldn't help but said with a wry smile.

"I didn't even ask him what he is doing now, I just cared about what he wants to do in the future." Cheng Jun said, this is also the reason why I heard Jia Sheng say that Chu Xue wanted to open a store.

"He hasn't paid attention to Yunchan in the past few years, but he has done stage planning, which is obviously related to his stage experience." Although Feng Yan didn't ask, he can probably guess that Yunchan's performance is so transparent However, it is not difficult for Chu Xue to find him at all, but Chu Xue is determined to avoid him. If he hides more thoroughly, he will never choose to do a job like stage planning. Although it is small, it is not impossible, which proves that Chu Xue had to choose this line of business to make money and pay off debts, and if not, it would be difficult for them to meet again.

"If it wasn't like this, three years ago, probably that year, he would definitely have come to you. I guess he never thought that you would have an accident."

"It's all over, and it's not an accident to talk about it." Feng Yan didn't say much about this topic. He didn't really want to tell Chu Xue about that matter, but because Yun Chan's information was too transparent, in the end Chu Xue Surely will know.

"Yeah, it's all over anyway, does it count as 'keeping the clouds open to see the moonlight'? Haha." Cheng Jun was very happy for them.

Feng Yan smiled and didn't answer this sentence. The relationship is simple, but sometimes it is quite complicated. Otherwise, how could there be so many resentment against men and women in the world? After all, getting along with each other cannot be pure, just like him and Chu Xue, who have been wasted for five years by accident. When Chu Xue thought he got it, he never got it at all. He didn't care when he lost it. In this way, despite the changes of the years, the affection remains unchanged, and perhaps the two can finally be reunited. In this way, Chu Xue's "gain" is the real gain, and it also allows him to find the "lost" he once had.As for "Shou De Yun Kai", he felt that he hadn't started "Shou" yet, and he would probably be able to call it "Shou De Yun Kai to see the moonlight" when he and Chu Xuebai grew old together.

But life is lived, after losing it is better than getting it at the beginning, and some things have to be let go at a certain time even if they get it, just like the stage dream he once had in his heart, in the end he can grasp it for a short time , can only take a step back.