Trivial Skin of Rebirth

After telling Xiaolong that he was stuttering, Ye Jiawen hurried to see a doctor for consultation. Only then did he know that it is normal for children aged two to eight to stutter. This kind of stuttering is not necessarily a stuttering problem. There may be several reasons. One is that children's thinking develops rapidly, but their speaking skills cannot keep up with the speed of thinking. When they want to speak, they cannot find the right words to say, which results in stuttering.This kind of stuttering in stages, when the child grows up and the language ability improves, it will be cured; there is another possibility that the child is nervous, often scolded by adults, asked by adults, and scolded if he can’t speak clearly. , As a result, the speech became more and more stuttering.

Hearing from Xiang Xiaolong that he was once scolded by his father for stuttering, and that he doesn't like to talk now, there may be the second reason, but Ye Jiawen also hopes that it is mainly the first reason.He said to Xiang Xiaolong: "Xiaolong, you don't stutter at all. You heard from your uncle that you are growing up now and have learned a lot. It is because you have learned too much, so you speak more slowly. Slow down, because you know more than other children, you have to search and search in your little brain, and pick out what you want to say from a bunch of things. This is your smart performance, because you learn too much Hurry up, you are the one who speaks slowly, and other children speak faster, because they are not as smart as you! So you have to talk a lot, practice your speaking skills proficiently, and you will be able to speak better than anyone else. "

Xiang Xiaolong couldn't understand such a complicated sentence, he only understood "Speak slowly because I'm smart".He lacks encouragement right now, so Xiang Qingyun and Ye Jiawen can encourage him vigorously, and praise him for everything he does.So he was finally willing to talk, although he was still often timid and much quieter than other children, but at least he could always say a few words a day.He did have some problems with his pronunciation, and because he was brought to his mother and father before the age of three, he had a strong local accent when he spoke, so that Ye Jiawen often couldn't understand him.At first, Ye Jiawen would ask him what he said, but once he asked him, he would not say any more, suspecting that he had made a mistake, so Ye Jiawen stopped asking later, and tried to guess what he said. Change the subject.

At the beginning of spring, Ye Jiawen and Xiang Qingyun found him a kindergarten and put him in it.Originally, they wanted to wait until summer to arrange for him to enter kindergarten, but with Xiang Xiaolong's current situation, Ye Jiawen and Xiang Qingyun agreed that if he interacted more with children of the same age, he could return to normal sooner.

At the beginning of spring, another big event happened.The Fuzhou police arrested Haiping, charged him with fraud, and sent him back to Province A.He has already spent more than half of the amount he was suspected of defrauding, so he can't recover all of it, only part of it.

The money lender was someone in the bureau. I heard that Haiping was brought to justice, and the big and small accounts were settled together, and he was "served" inside. On the day Haiping went to the court for trial, Xiang Qingtian and his wife also went to the court. Haiping wore a mask and walked with a limp. He didn't know how he was treated in the police station.

Haiping came back, and part of the money was recovered. It doesn't mean that Xiang Qingtian and his wife can break away from the relationship completely.They act as guarantors, and they still have to pay back the outstanding debts of Haiping. They have almost paid off all the debts before, so once the money was returned, the boss returned the house to them, only the car and the money taken away Received it as interest.

Now Xiang Qingtian and his wife finally have a place to stay again, which is considered a blessing among misfortunes.

The house was brought back, and the debts were cleared. The couple sat down and had a good talk, and they were married again.After all, the child is born and divorced, what should the child do?Besides, this small county is so small, there is a little turmoil, and it spreads quickly. A while ago, their affairs were so violent that they would hide when they saw them. They didn't know who to take over when they got divorced.Thirdly, neither of these two people is a vegetarian, who will be awarded the house after divorce?Whoever is awarded the award, the other party can’t get the money. The court can ask the party who took the house to pay the other party, but this matter cannot be enforced. No one is willing to suffer this loss, and there is no money to hire a lawyer.In short, Xiang Qingyun gave in first, and came to the door to apologize with his son in his arms, and they made things up together, and they lived together again.But these days are no longer what they used to be, they are just passing by.The couple has gone through so many things, but in fact they seem to be inseparable, and they each have their own calculations. Whenever they find a way out, they must have kicked the other side without discussion.

When this matter is over, it will be settled after autumn.Xiang Qingtian made a phone call to Xiang Qingyun, scolded his elder brother bloody, talked about seeing people's hearts in times of crisis, and seemed to want to sever ties with him.After Xiang Qingyun's previous life, he also has the potential of a phoenix nirvana. If he used to rush to review that he didn't cut meat to feed his younger brother in the morning, this time he hung up the phone before scolding Qingtian. He couldn't argue, so he simply ignored it.Of course, he was secretly angry, but fortunately, when he saw Xiang Xiaolong, most of the anger disappeared.And Xiang Qingtian's nose was crooked when his elder brother dropped the phone.

The parents of the Xiang family were also very angry when they heard that the eldest son did not go home for the New Year this year because he took Xiang Xiaolong on a trip, and they called Xiang Qingyun to quarrel.

Said to Dad: "Now you are powerful, you are prosperous, you have money to fly, and you don't care about the life and death of your family, right?"

Xiang Qingyun was very powerless: "Why don't I care about you?"

Said to Dad: "You have the money to go out and play, but you don't have the money to take care of your brother! If I confess you so much, you bastard, will you confess your brother's heartless white-eyed wolf?"

Xiang Qingyun said: "Then what do you think of me?"

Xiang Dad said: "Is your surname Xiang? The Xiang family is not as heartless as you! What are you and I doing to help you go to college?"

Xiang Qingyun said sadly: "I don't know why you support me to study, I almost can't read this book. If I sell myself, I will owe you all my life."

Angry at his father, he yelled at him again, he didn't want to hang up his father and mother's phone, so he listened.Fortunately, Xiang Qingtian's matter is settled now, and Xiang's father and mother don't need him to pay for the time being, and it's over after scolding.

No matter how much Xiang Qingyun can communicate, it is his own parents, and no child feels comfortable being scolded by his parents.It's not that he was not confused before, the slavishness that had penetrated into his bone marrow made him hesitate whether handing over all the money in his hand to Xiang Qingtian at this time would get them a good look.

Xiang Qingyun asked Ye Jiawen sadly: "Baby, do I have no conscience? My brother is in debt, and I will go on a trip and not pay him back."

Ye Jiawen asked him, "If you were the one who owed the debt, would your brother help you pay it off?" Then he said, "You wouldn't let them help you pay it off at all."

After Xiang Qingyun was confused, looking at the smiling faces of Ye Jiawen and Xiang Xiaolong, he would wake up again—the fact is so cruel, and he has used it for more than 20 years to prove it.No matter how hard he tried, he still couldn't get what didn't belong to him.Just cherish the people in front of you.

Ye Jiawen was also very angry.He really wanted to tell Xiang Xiaolong that you should see clearly that your grandparents are not good people, and that you should not be filial to them in the future.It was as if in the previous life, Xiang Xiaolong and his father and mother had said a lot of bad things about Ye Jiawen.But after much deliberation, Ye Jiawen swallowed the breath and didn't say anything to Xiang Xiaolong.

Xiang father and mother did that kind of thing because they are rural people, uneducated, and have no vision, so they can't argue with them. I don't do it myself, it's for Xiaolong's good.In any case, it is better not to transfer the hatred between adults to children.Adults' emotions can easily distort children's minds. Children should be allowed to judge and understand what is right and wrong.

In the blink of an eye, it is already the millennium, a new year and a new atmosphere.There are [-] or [-] Malatang restaurants in S City, and Ye Jiawen happily counted the money.At this time, Malatang was already rotten on the streets, and all kinds of Chuanchuanxiang shops were blooming everywhere, but Ye Jiawensheng made an early move and seized the market opportunity. Among the many Malatang shops in S City, his business is still the best.Xiang Qingyun's culinary skills are also improving, every time there is a new Malatang restaurant opened, Ye Jiawen will take him to eat, compare which of the two is delicious, go back to Xiang Qingyun to study the recipe, and keep thinking about it. The method has been improved, and the ingredients have also been brainstormed, and they are constantly innovating, adding such things as "flesh and blood" and "squid slippery" to attract customers.If their business is good, people will continue to ask to join, and if they join, they will earn more money.

Ye Jiawen took advantage of this good opportunity to make money and quickly bought the house in City H. After paying the down payment, there was still a small tens of thousands, so he discussed with Xiang Qingyun whether he should also buy the car as soon as possible.A car is not like a house, it cannot appreciate in value, and it will also be depreciated, but the car does not appreciate in value, the license plate must appreciate in value, in 2012 in S City, you dare to buy a license plate for 6 yuan, which is comparable to the price of a small car .Besides, now that I have a child, it is convenient to pick up and drop off the child, and it is better to have a car.

But Xiang Qingyun and Ye Jiawen had to think a lot about which car to buy.What Xiang Qingyun meant is to buy a cheap one for now, and when the economic situation improves in the future, he can change to a better car.Ye Jiawen disagrees. If you want to buy a car, don’t buy one that is too bad. At least buy a mid-range car. If you don’t have money, you can get a loan first. Buying a cheap car like Santana’s thin body is just a sheet of iron, which is too unsafe.When you have kids, safety is the number one priority.Xiang Qingyun said that now the house is also loaned, the car is also loaned, and Xiang Xiaolong has to spend money to study, and the monthly pressure of taking a loan is too great.Ye Jiawen thinks about it for the same reason, not to mention their house and car, he still has two houses from Qingyun without telling him, the pressure is indeed too great.

In the end, Ye Jiawen said angrily, "I won't buy it! If you want to buy a car, even if you can't afford a Lamborghini, you must at least have a Buick. It's better not to have a Santana!"

In addition to buying a car, there is another thing that gives them a headache, and that is Xiang Xiaolong.

Originally, they thought that Xiang Xiaolong might have a brighter personality after entering the nursery school and meeting many children of the same age.Unexpectedly, after Xiang Xiaolong went to the nursery for a month, instead of getting better, he returned to the state before the Chinese New Year.He became more and more reticent and shy of others. One morning Ye Jiawen wanted to take him to the nursery, but he couldn't get out of bed, saying he was sick.Ye Jiawen hurriedly asked for leave to take him to the hospital, spent a whole morning in the hospital, but found nothing wrong.

Finally, Xiang Xiaolong cried: "I, no, no, I don't want to go to kindergarten."