Trivial Skin of Rebirth

This year, Xiang Qingyun has worked very hard. First, he doesn't want Lu Qing to look down upon him. Second, he hopes to make more money while he is young, and work hard to save money to buy "green boghinis".His grades were indeed good, Lu Qing saw it all, and he didn't avenge his personal revenge publicly, so he gave him everything that was due to him.

In July, Lu Qing sent Xiang Qingyun as the project manager to do a foundation pit treatment project.After Xiang Qingyun took over the project, he was quite busy. He often ran to the construction site and was often away from the company during the day.

Ye Jiawen reckoned that Xiang Xiaolong was almost two years old, and he was always thinking about taking the child over.He has already saved enough 6 yuan in his hands, and he is hesitant to pay the down payment for the apartment in H City, buy a car, and save it for Xiang Xiaolong's studies.That day, he and Lu Qing went out to do errands, and when they passed by a toy store, Ye Jiawen couldn't help but stop and stand outside the window to look at it for a while.Xiang Xiaolong's favorite toy used to be gunpla. In 99, the toy store hadn't stocked these things, so Ye Jiawen wanted to buy some other models to make for him.

Lu Qing found out, walked back to him and asked with a smile, "Bought for your relative's child?"

Ye Jiawen was thinking about the things in his previous life, and blurted out, "My son."

Lu Qing froze for a moment: "You... son?"

Ye Jiawen came back to his senses, looked at Lu Qing's surprised expression, and thought that it would be good if he made it clear, so that Lu Qing would not flirt with him anytime soon.So he said: "Xiang Qingyun and I plan to adopt a child."

Lu Qing frowned, obviously very unhappy.He reached out and grabbed Ye Jiawen's arm, and asked in a low voice, "Is Xiang Qingyun really that nice? Are you really going to spend the rest of your life with him? You're only 24 years old!"

Ye Jiawen felt pain from being pinched, but resisted not frowning, and said calmly: "I've been making calculations for the rest of my life, and I'm not the same as Mr. Lu."

Lu Qing looked unreasonable: "You are so chasing him, you have to? Are you so cheap?"

Ye Jiawen was displeased, so he asked back with a smile, "Am I cheap? Then Mr. Lu thinks how much I should charge? Famous cars and luxury houses?"

Lu Qing glared at him fiercely for a while, then walked away.

In order to adopt Xiang Xiaolong, Xiang Qingyun revealed to his family that he intends to get married.As for how to hide this fake wedding, Ye Jiawen and Xiang Qingyun discussed it, and it was already a waste of time to testify to the family on the grounds that they had no money to set up wine for the time being. You can ask Chen Xing to make a few phone calls to show your voice at home.

As soon as the family heard that Xiang Qingyun was getting married, they insisted that he show his fiancée back to everyone. He said it was a review, but in fact it was an interrogation.Of course, it was impossible for Xiang Qingyun to bring his "fiancée" back, and he found all kinds of excuses to make excuses.The more perfunctory he is, the more unhappy the family is. They feel that the girls in the city are putting on airs, because they dislike their country folks, and they refuse to show their faces when they get married, and they refuse to come back to celebrate the New Year with men. Is it possible that Xiang Qingyun will become the son-in-law after getting married?The daughter-in-law is not going to serve her in-laws anymore?

There was no way for Xiang Qingyun to perfunctory, and finally found a day, invited Chen Xing to the house, and asked Chen Xing to help the family members while calling.There is no telephone in the countryside, so this call was made to the county town. Xiang's parents were at the youngest son's house. Chen Xing first called Xiang's mother. This sound of "mom" is not very applicable. After being polite, I started to ask Chen Xing's parents what they do, what she does herself, how much she earns a month, why she has been refusing to come back with Xiang Qingyun, and whether she dislikes them in the countryside. people.

Chen Xing was enthusiastic at the beginning, but later his face collapsed, his tone was still polite, but his attitude was obviously perfunctory.Xiang Qingyun kept clasping his hands together to apologize to her, and asked her to persevere.

Then the call changed to Liu Sha listening.Liu Sha's tone was so enthusiastic, we will be a family after one bite, and I have already called Chen Xing sister-in-law, but what I said is full of meaning, such as "a family must take care of each other", "we will not distinguish each other from now on" "It's over", "You and your family are welcome", etc. Chen Xing was at a loss when he heard it.In the end, the call was taken by Xiang's mother again, without much preparation, let's get to the point, since your family's conditions are good, you and Qingyun have a lot of salary, and now the younger brother's family is in trouble, can you help him buy a house in S city.

Now Chen Xing was dumbfounded, she endured it, she couldn't hold it back, and said in a not too polite tone: "I'm sorry, I think it's not possible, otherwise you should discuss it with Qingyun."

Then the call was switched back to Xiang Qingyun, unsurprisingly, this prospective daughter-in-law is not good, let Xiang Qingyun weigh it himself.

Before Chen Xing left, she couldn't help but said, "Fortunately, I'm not really your girlfriend. If this is my boyfriend, it's the first time I call my mother-in-law's house and ask my family to pay for my husband's brother's house. It's not over either."

Xiang Qingyun sighed and apologized repeatedly, and sent him back.

Ye Jiawen was a bystander, and his heart was bright.The Xiang family was not satisfied with the daughter-in-law here, so they deliberately raised the matter of buying a house as soon as they came up. The prospective daughter-in-law disagreed, and the prospective daughter-in-law was not filial, so the marriage would not be consummated.The prospective daughter-in-law agreed, so it seems that the daughter-in-law is not as bad as she thought, and the house matter is also settled by the way, let's end it!What a misfortune Xiang Qingyun has such a slow-down family!But these people are his flesh and blood relatives, and he can't get rid of them even if he wants to.

Once this matter was over, Xiang's parents would call from time to time, saying that this woman was not good, that they would not marry Xiang Qingyun, and that they wanted him to go back to the county town to continue their blind date.Xiang Qingyun is already very busy and tired at work, and it is really miserable to have to deal with these.Sometimes he was really angry, and said a few words to his parents on the phone, and his parents immediately made a fuss and scolded him for being unfilial, and scolding him for going to his wife before he got married. It's not about whether parents are dead or alive.

Xiang Qingyun is really sad.It's not that he doesn't know that his parents are eccentric, he has known it since he was a child.One advantage of family planning is that each family has one child, and the love of parents is only given to one child, at least they will not be partial.Throughout the ages, there have been many cases where parents raised multiple children and favored a certain one. For example, Emperor Yongzheng, his mother Concubine De's heart also favored the youngest son Yinti.When there are more children, it is impossible for parents to be completely impartial and unbiased. Even twins will be treated slightly differently. In modern society, families with less education tend to be more partial, especially rural families. There are countless examples of patriarchal patriarchs poaching daughters to subsidize their sons. It seems that daughters are all picked up, and Xiang's parents also dig out Hairong to fill Xiang Qingtian.However, as the eldest son, Xiang Qingyun is far less than the youngest son in the family. Since childhood, he and Xiang Qingtian fought and he was punished alone; he and Xiang Qingtian committed bad things together and he was punished alone; If he makes a mistake, he will also be punished for taking the blame.It's not that children who are eccentric can't understand it, but because they have lived in this environment since they were young, children who are oppressed will sadly take it for granted. They will not resist when they get used to it, and continue to complain while complaining about themselves. Be resigned.Xiang Qingyun is like this, it's not that he doesn't understand in his heart, it's just that he doesn't know how to resist.He was even indoctrinated with the idea that he should give all the good things to his younger brother.If it was in the past, he might have given up the house when his parents said they would give it up, but after he left home and entered the society, he saw a lot and learned a lot, and met Ye Jiawen again, and felt the feeling of being loved, and he gradually began to understand him. What his parents did was wrong, so he didn't let go after being entangled in a house for more than half a year, but some deep-rooted things were still in his mind. Even if he gradually learned to refuse, it would be difficult for him to resist his parents. It's hard to tell your parents what you did wrong.To completely correct him, Ye Jiawen had to take his time.

If Chen Xing is really his girlfriend, and he gets quarreled with like this a few times, he will break up as well, because it is not good for a marriage not to be blessed by the family after all.The problem is that Chen Xing is not his girlfriend. No matter how alarmist his family members say, he doesn't care about it. This is just a target, and he continues to carry this target to cover up.

Xiang's family did not expect Xiang Qingyun to be so firm in identifying this woman, and did another thing that made everyone very unhappy.

Xiang's mother made a phone call to Xiang Qingyun's company, but it was not Xiang Qingyun, but Chen Xing.This time Chen Xing was not entrusted by others, so she didn't have to be loyal. When Xiang Mu came up to talk, she was very rude and asked her if she was making trouble. Xiang Qingyun was a very obedient person in the past. , he didn't help my younger brother if he had something to do, and asked her if she took care of Xiang Qingyun's money.Chen Xing was also brought up as a young lady at home, when had she ever been questioned and scolded like this, she bluntly scolded "You have something wrong".This was terrible, scolding and insults swept in like a tide, Chen Xing couldn't understand those messy dialects, but the fierce tone surprised her a lot. The accusations of the "man" and "shrew" made her almost cry with anger, she called Xiang Qingyun over loudly, and then turned on the phone on speakerphone.

Xiang Qingyun was terrified after hearing a few sentences, quickly picked up the phone, and began to explain comfort in his native dialect, but it was obviously not so easy to let him go on the other end of the phone, everyone around him could hear the loud voice coming from the receiver. Loud scolding.After cursing on the other end of the phone for a few minutes, Xiang Qingyun's face became more and more unsightly. Ye Jiawen couldn't bear it anymore and walked over, grabbed the receiver and said sharply: "Is that enough? This is the company, and you want to make trouble so that Xiang Qingyun loses Are you happy when you lose your job at work! Do you want to talk to our boss on the phone!"

Only then did the drums die down and the phone was put down.

During the following working hours, everyone was in a bad mood, and Chen Xing was the most unhappy. She was kind enough to help, but she didn't expect to get a mess all over her body.Xiang Qingyun didn't expect things to turn out like this, and was afraid of affecting his relationship with colleagues, so he kept apologizing all afternoon, but Chen Xing didn't say anything, and the way he looked at him changed.When she got off work, Chen Xing finally said to Xiang Qingyun: "If I knew your family was like this, I wouldn't help you with this job." Xiang Qingyun was ashamed and sad, and could only keep apologizing.

Back home at night, Ye Jiawen finally couldn't help arguing with Xiang Qingyun after enduring it for so long.

"Your parents are eccentric, don't you know? Have they considered your feelings before doing things? The phone calls are all made to the company, have you ever thought about the consequences for you? House, house, house, talk about it I want you to give the house to your brother! No, it’s not just the house, it’s better that you give your brother two cents for every penny you earn!”

"Then what do you think I should do? They are my parents, should I ignore them?"

"Ignore it?" Ye Jiawen ran to the cabinet and took out a passbook and brought it back. He spread it out and threw it in front of Xiang Qingyun, pointing to a deduction and said, "See for yourself how much we remit to your parents a month." Money. Is this called ignorance?"

Xiang Qingyun fumbled for a cigarette impatiently.

"It's right for you to raise your parents, but do you think it's right for you to raise your younger brother? Your younger brother has hands and feet, and a house and a car at home. Do you think their car and house fell from the sky? Don't think that You didn’t take care of your younger brother. How much money you gave your parents every month can the two old people spend? It’s all in your younger brother’s pocket! Now he has a baby and you need to pay for it. What is this son? Yours or his?"

"Don't say that."

"Then what are you going to do now?"

"I don't know." Xiang Qingyun scratched his hair, "I...don't know." What can he do, parents don't consider his feelings, so what about him?Does he really want to sever ties with his family?impossible.

Ye Jiawen calmed down a little: "Chen Xing is like this now, if one day they find out about our relationship, it will definitely be more intense than now. What will we do then? Do you want to break up with me obediently?"

Xiang Qingyun said hoarsely, "No."

Ye Jiawen walked over, hugged his head tightly, and patted him on the back: "You know, no one is more upset than you. I don't want you to be filial to your parents, but filial piety is not obedience. , are you going to let your parents arrange your life for the next few decades? Honoring your parents is a matter of course, but there should always be a principle and a bottom line. Think about it, just like Haiping, you blindly obey and Giving will make them think that you have no ideas of your own, no bottom line, and everything is taken for granted. If one day you can’t give them what they want, they will think that everything is your fault. Sometimes, it’s time to refuse You should reject what you want, otherwise you are harming others and yourself, and you have given others a wrong perception, thinking that you are much stronger than you can do. You have no ability to save the world, you even yourself My life has been dealt with in a mess."

Xiang Qingyun covered his eyes: "Leave me alone."