Parenting is a technical job

It's the beginning of autumn again, and it's the day when the major schools start school. The gates of every school in the urban area are crowded with vehicles and people. The tranquility of yesteryear.

At position 99 of the Longsheng Cemetery in City B, in this unremarkable remote corner, in front of an unremarkable tombstone, a young man was standing right now.

The staff of the cemetery looked over with some doubts. The young man was not very old, he looked only about twenty.From morning to now, he has stood here motionless for hours.

As a cemetery guard, I am used to seeing parting and paying homage.Some people cry in front of the tombstone, some grieve in front of the tombstone, some narrate the past in front of the tombstone, and some are just perfunctory in front of the tombstone.But the person in front of him, from standing in front of the tombstone from now on, just remained motionless and silent.

It's not that no one is in the same situation as him at this time, but usually those who are silent have an expression that is more mournful than heartbroken.It was the first time this staff member had seen such a young man with a calm face as if he was just visiting the house.

Is it a little inappropriate for you to come to the cemetery for nothing?And still stay here for several hours?The staff member was so slanderous in his heart that he hesitated for the Nth time whether to go forward and ask.

Just as he was hesitating, he suddenly saw another middle-aged man approaching from a distance.Seeing this person, his eyes lit up: If I remember correctly, this person would come here once or twice a year, and he seemed to be visiting the grave of the owner of the tombstone.

"Hello, Mr. Liu, are you here again this year?" The staff greeted with a smile.

The sound seemed to have finally awakened the young man standing in front of the tombstone. He looked up with a somewhat confused expression. After seeing the middle-aged man, there was a flash of astonishment and enlightenment in his eyes.

When Liu Ze saw the strange figure in front of the tombstone, his footsteps involuntarily slowed down.Could it be——a friend he knew before his death?As he thought so, he absent-mindedly followed the staff's greeting, and looked over there frequently.Until the other party also looked over.

When the eyes met twice, Liu Ze was stunned for a few seconds, and his tone was a little surprised: "It's you?"

He remembered this person, and the first time he remembered meeting him was at the veal noodle shop next to the orphanage.After Su Yuan died in a car accident, the lawyer came to him, and he found out that most of Su Yuan's property had been divided into several shares.Most of it was left to the orphanage where he grew up, another part was left to him, and the last part was donated to the China Charity Federation.

Liu Ze would go there that day, and together with his lawyer, he would hand over the money belonging to the orphanage to the head of the orphanage.He was in a bad mood that day, but even in a bad mood he remembered the young man.At the moment when he saw himself, his face seemed calm, but he seemed very excited inside.

He seemed to be able to feel the mood of that young man subtly, but at that time, he was not in the mood to say hello at all.So even though he was puzzled, he just nodded lightly and turned his head to continue healing.And later, when he saw the middle-aged man next to the young man comforting him clumsily and throwing a sharp look at him by the way, Liu Ze no longer had the mood to meddle in other people's affairs.

Liu Ze walked slowly to the tombstone with a dazed expression. The second time I met him, it seemed to be in a jewelry store?It seemed that it was Christmas that day, and when he and his fiancée were choosing their wedding rings, they saw those two people again.The relationship between these two people seems plain, but in fact the relationship between them can be felt by anyone with a heart.

When he saw that the young man just glanced at him and then turned his head to talk and laugh with the middle-aged man, for some reason, he suddenly became a little envious.Are you envious that the other person can live so recklessly, or are you envious that the other person's relationship has a happy ending?Or—is he just envious of the love he once regretted when he lost it?

It was also that night, in the noisy crowd, amidst the chattering selection and comparison of his fiancée, he only remembered the calm young man with a smile.Even that night, the man only saw him once.

This is the third meeting.Liu Ze stood quietly for a while, his thoughts finally got out of the memory, and his eyes finally fell on the young man next to him: "You also know Su Yuan?"

This man stood in front of Su Yuan's tomb and just looked at him indifferently, his expression couldn't tell whether it was sadness or sadness, or anything else.While wondering, he was also a little curious: how did Su Yuan meet such a young friend?Is there a ten year age difference between the two?

Hearing Liu Ze's words, the young man was silent for a while, then turned his head slightly, looked over calmly, and nodded slightly: "I know."

Liu Ze was a little stunned, what kind of answer is this?Then what?Is it a friend or something?Why did you think of visiting the grave today?Don't say all of this, what's the matter with just leaving such an answer?

"He's a good man." After pondering for a long time, Liu Ze finally continued to speak, "Unfortunately, I found out too late." The corners of Liu Ze's mouth were raised, showing a self-deprecating or sarcastic smile, and his tone was a bit lonely : "I always thought that he would be by my side no matter what, even if I had such and such shortcomings. When he left, I wanted to apologize, and wanted to catch up with him and tell him that I was just temporarily infatuated. It's just who You know, he didn't even give me a chance to apologize."

After two years, Liu Ze dissected his original mood for the first time. At this time, he was like an onion. The more he dissected to the end, the more tears filled his heart.

"If I had held him back that day, it might have been a different result, right?" Liu Ze said in a tone of a whisper, "You said, if I had held him back then, wouldn't we have had a different end?"

"No." The young man next to him was just listening silently, but when he heard this, he abruptly interrupted Liu Ze's words.These three words were decisive and seemed to be full of magical power, which made Liu Ze look at him in surprise: "No?"

"Of course not." The young man didn't seem to be very talkative, and he didn't even want to say too much about the reasons. He just repeated the words in a persistent tone, and then set his eyes on the tombstone again.The expression of the middle-aged man on the tombstone is stubborn, earnest and persistent, as well as a little bit of warmth and serenity hidden underneath.

"Perhaps, you are right." The two were silent for a long time again, and Liu Ze finally let out a long breath with a bitter expression: "You know Su Yuan better than me, and he will never forgive me again. People, if you fall into it, you will be deeply in love, and once you cut off the relationship, you will be cleaner than anyone else."

Liu Ze said with a sigh. Not long after he finished his words, the young man rarely looked at them.He turned his head to look at Liu Ze, and said in a serious tone: "Are you married?"

Liu Ze was stunned for a few seconds, and then immediately remembered the chance meeting at Christmas that year, presumably he saw him choosing a wedding ring, so he asked this question, right?Liu Ze nodded, his tone was a little melancholy, and his mood was waning: "I'm married, and the child is one month old."

"Oh." The young man nodded, looked into his eyes seriously and said, "Treasure."

cherish?Looking at this young man, Liu Ze suddenly felt that he seemed very mysterious. The few times the two met, he seemed to have an inexplicable emotion towards him.This kind of emotion is particularly obvious at this time, Liu Ze couldn't help but ask the doubts in his heart: "Do I know you?"

After the young man heard this, he smiled slightly: "If you knew me, you wouldn't ask such a question."

That's right, Liu Ze smiled awkwardly.Turning around, I continued to think hard, but why did I suddenly feel like an old friend?

There was silence between the two again, but this time the silence was broken by an outsider.

"Far away, it's time to go!" A voice sounded in the distance, Liu Ze looked back and saw a middle-aged man in a black formal suit standing there.After seeing him, the middle-aged man was taken aback for a moment, and then turned his attention to the young man: "I've been here for several hours, and I won't be able to catch the plane if I don't leave."

"Here we come." The young man nodded, under his calm and natural tone, there was a little joy and joy that was not noticed by others.He turned around and walked a few steps, suddenly thought of something, and looked back at Liu Ze: "I won't come here in the future, if you have time, please come and sweep the grave for me, please?"

"Okay." Even if he didn't say this, he still did it.Liu Ze watched the young man drift away, until he was about to reach the middle-aged man, he thought of something, and called out: "What's your name?"

The young man kept walking, only the voice drifted over: "My name is Su Yuan!"

Su Yuan no longer cares about the impact of the words 'My name is Su Yuan' on Liu Ze.That's it, that's fine.From now on, everyone will return from bridge to bridge, and road to road, with a word of treasure, each moving forward on the road of life.

"Aren't you going to come back again?" When Su Yuan saw himself getting farther and farther away from the horizon and closer to the sky, reluctance and nostalgia suddenly appeared in his heart.

Born here and raised here, living in the present for decades.For the rest of his life, he will go to a strange country to continue his life. This sense of strangeness and alienation makes Su Yuan, who has always claimed to be calm when encountering problems, feel a little melancholy in his heart.

It may be that Su Yuan's nervousness is too obvious, or it may be that his absent-minded expression is too leaky.Su Jingzhou glanced at him, and held his hand firmly: "With me here, don't be afraid."

Although these words were suspected of coaxing children, but Su Yuan was suddenly surprised, and he was really not afraid.

The flight is so convenient, and it’s not like you’ll never come back, so what’s there to worry about?Besides, I am still an exchange student now, and after two years, I have to return to China to get my diploma.

So, take this experience as a long journey.Perhaps after two years, I will realize that I have fallen in love with life in that Nordic country.Thinking of this, Su Yuan's heart gradually calmed down, and he gradually became drowsy. When he woke up, the sky was already full of morning glow outside the window.

Looking at the vast blue water and beautiful coastline in the distance, looking at the buildings standing quietly in the morning sun, watching the plane landed at Copenhagen Airport smoothly.

Su Yuan suddenly had a feeling that the shackles of the soul were being opened, and several emotions suddenly surged up in his heart.He has been to this airport many times before, but he has never been in the mood he is today.As if the spiritual prisoner for many years suddenly regained his freedom, Su Yuan tightly held Su Jingzhou's hand.

Hello Denmark.

Andersen, hello.

From now on, hold your hand and grow old with you.