Together

Xing Wenfei often spends time with Ms. Wang, even now.

Because of his busy work, he rarely has time to go out for vacation and rest, but he still spends holidays with his mother. Sometimes he goes on a business trip, and it happens that the business trip is not busy, and his mother also happens to have time, so she is often willing to accompany him. Go, the two mothers and sons will walk around the place.

At this time, when his mother blocked the door, Xing Wenfei realized that he had been thinking about Qin Su all the time and had forgotten his mother, and immediately felt guilty.

In fact, Ms. Wang has a lot of things and fun of her own, but her son is the most important part of her heart. She has to call her son every day and see her son every once in a while.

Xing Wenfei ate supper with his mother. While her mother was making facial masks, he sat opposite her and told her a little about work. Ms. Wang is the boss of several companies. It's just money, she seldom does anything, although she doesn't do anything, after all, in this circle, there are all kinds of news, so she can often give Xing Wenfei some advice, if Xing Wenfei finds it useful, she will adoption.

The two chatted until late at night, Xing Wenfei went back to his room to take a shower, and Ms. Wang took his mobile phone to watch.

Xing Wenfei knew that his mother must still suspect that he was in a relationship, so she let her check. He had just transferred all the chat records with Qin Su to the cloud, and deleted all the information on the phone. It was impossible for his mother to check. What's the matter.

Ms. Wang doesn't have to check her son's cell phone, but Xing Wenfei used to be completely unguarded against his mother. If his mother wanted to use the cell phone, he couldn't refuse. This made Ms. Wang develop a habit of checking her son from time to time. cell phone habits.

After Xing Wenfei took a shower, he found his mother still sitting in his bedroom, so he said, "Aren't you going to bed? Go to bed early, and you will be in good health! This is your mantra, but you don't follow it?"

Ms. Wang was still holding his mobile phone and said, "Haven't you called your dad recently?"

Xing Wenfei said: "There is nothing to talk about, so I didn't fight."

Unlike having to call Ms. Wang every day, Xing Wenfei and his father never called to say hello when they had nothing to do.

Ms. Wang said: "We still need to contact more. Now those wild species also have inheritance rights, it's not like you don't know."

Xing Wenfei saw that Ms. Wang's face was somber, with a gloomy look on her whole body, she was completely different from the smiling face just now.

Xing Wenfei sat beside her, put his arms around her body, and teased her with a smile: "Okay, okay, when your son becomes richer than your husband, you won't look down on his things Yes. From now on, you can go to Dad and tell him, judging by your talent, you can do nothing but keep a mistress! You are not as good as my son! What use is there for you!"

Ms. Wang was stunned for a moment, and was instantly amused by her son, and said, "Yes!"

Ms. Wang went back to her room to sleep happily, while Xing Wenfei put away all the cheerful expressions she had just shown in front of her mother, let out a sigh of relief, and sent Qin Su a WeChat message: "Husband, have you slept yet?"

Qin Su is still replying to the emails of the students. A student from another school wanted to apply for his master's degree, so he sent him an email to inquire. Although Qin Su knew that the student was not sincere after reading the email content, it is estimated that a template has voted for many tutors, but Thinking of what happened when he was applying for a master's degree, he still responded to the email.

Qin Su feels that she can often learn a lot from students, or reflect on a lot of things. The self in her 30s has a lot more experience and experience, and sometimes she is no better than a young student in her twenties in some respects. Know more, so, to give sincerity and respect to everyone is the most basic quality of a person.

If you go out to participate in academic forums of your peers, you can often see seniors who still come to the forum to give reports or listen to reports at the age of 90 or 90, and see that they still have a pure and passionate enthusiasm for scientific research in their twilight years. , have the spirit of learning and researching every bit of scientific progress, be gentle to the younger generation, be humble and simple.Qin Su always felt ashamed, reflected on what she did not do well, and reminded herself to do better.

Life is only a few decades, and the things that can be done are actually extremely limited. Qin Su doesn't want to leave this world in regret for not doing anything well.

After answering all the emails, Qin Sucai noticed that there was a WeChat message on the phone, he clicked in and saw what Xing Wenfei had sent him, he was stunned for a while, and then blushed and replied: "Not yet. Was that your mother just now?"

Xing Wenfei sent him a video request, and Qin Su didn't want to answer it because he didn't want to talk to him face to face, but he had to accept it, so he had to.After all, he didn't want Xing Wenfei to have any difficulties.

Xing Wenfei's face appeared on Qin Su's screen. After taking a shower, he was wearing loose pajamas, sitting on the bed, his hair was blown fluffy, his black eyes were big, and he looked younger than when he had his hair done during the day A lot, just like big boys in their 20s.

Thinking of him calling her "husband", Qin Su couldn't help but blushed subconsciously, blushing with joy and embarrassment, and said, "Is that your mother just now?"

Qin Su was also wearing pajamas, sitting on the sofa in the bedroom holding a laptop, Xing Wenfei stared at him carefully, wondering whether it was Qin Su who was originally a 360-degree good-looking person, or because of Xing Wenfei's own boyfriend filter, I always feel that Qin Su is very good-looking no matter what, at this time I wish I could fly to Qin Su's side, hug him and kiss him enough, so that I can relieve the pressure from both parents.

"Yeah." Xing Wenfei pursed his lips and nodded: "I'm sorry just now, I hung up the video all of a sudden."

Qin Su thought it would be worse not to hang up the video, "It's nothing. Fortunately, you hung up, otherwise I will hang up too."

Xing Wenfei said coquettishly, "Why did you hang up?"

Qin Su: "What do you think? Do you want me to talk to your mother?"

Xing Wenfei said: "Then talk!"

Qin Su was taken aback for a moment, not knowing whether he was joking or really meant it. After thinking about it, he felt that it was more likely that he was joking, which would be embarrassing for Xing Wenfei, so he stopped asking, and said: "Is your mother looking for you?"

Xing Wenfei: "It's nothing special. She often comes to see me. She just wants to chat with me."

Qin Su thought for a while and asked, "Is the relationship between your parents already very bad?"

Xing Wenfei forced a smile, "After the law came out that illegitimate children and legitimate children have equal inheritance rights, my mother didn't want to tolerate my father at all, and the relationship became worse and worse, and the two of them didn't see each other for a few times a year. However, my mother let me and my father get along well."

Qin Su actually didn't understand the behavior of Xing Wenfei's father. He couldn't understand that a person loved several women at the same time, he couldn't understand the behavior of cheating, and he couldn't understand that some people regard having several partners as an honor. What pleasure can he get in showing off, because he finds it dishonorable?

Since he couldn't understand it, Qin Su felt that he had no right to speak. He could also hear that Xing Wenfei was very sad about this matter. As a child, he must be very uncomfortable.

Qin Su's parents have never had any major conflicts about divorce, so he can't empathize with Xing Wenfei's pain in the matter of his parents. He just judged rationally that Xing Wenfei was very sad, so he comforted him: " This kind of thing is really difficult as a child, if you have anything you want to talk about, you can tell me, I won't tell it."

Xing Wenfei laughed and said: "I don't think I have enough time to talk to you, so I don't want to talk to you about my parents' messy things. If you want me to say, it's all my dad's problem, I can't control myself I can't see that he has any real love, is it to enjoy conquering women? But it doesn't look like it. I don't quite understand what he thinks about this matter. Or is it just driven by animal instinct? "

Qin Su: "..."

Qin Su found that Xing Wenfei seemed to love his mother more than his father.

Qin Su thought about it for a while, and really wanted to help Xing Wenfei, so she said: "With regard to your parents, do you want the relationship between the two of you to ease and the husband and wife to be harmonious in the future, or do you not have this kind of thinking, and tend to To protect your mother's interests more?"

This question is very important, because it determines what Xing Wenfei wants to do and where the pain comes from.It's one thing to do it or not, it's another thing to think about it.

Xing Wenfei often thinks clearly about business matters, and his input and output are well-organized, but he is often contradictory about his parents.Because although he is more inclined towards his mother who is weak and loves him more, he is not without feelings for his father.He did hope to achieve a bigger cause than his father, but it was absolutely impossible to take revenge on his father just to save face for his mother.

The most real desire in his heart is that his parents can respect and love each other, just like Qin Su's parents, even small conflicts are like dog food.

But judging from a rational point of view, he knew that this was impossible. His father was not an emotional person, and it was impossible to understand his mother's feelings. After so many years of being cold-hearted, his mother even hated his father. For the benefit of his family and himself, he suppressed this hatred and kept a calm face.

Xing Wenfei said: "Impossible. It is impossible for the two of them to get along in harmony. Qin Su, let's not discuss this topic. This topic only upsets me."

In fact, Xing Wenfei seldom expresses his emotions in front of others, even with his parents.

In front of my mother, I always report good news but not bad news. In front of my father, I just need to show my career excellence.Father doesn't care about his human fragility and sensitivity, while mother cares too much, so, in front of the two, he is a good son, not one has a good side, but there must be a bad side people.

At this time, after showing this distress and pain in front of Qin Su, Xing Wenfei immediately felt that something was wrong, and wanted to tell a joke to divert Qin Su's attention, but before he could say it, Qin Su said: "I know You are uncomfortable and upset, so I hope I can help you."

Xing Wenfei frowned and said: "No one can help with this matter. After being with you, sometimes I think, this world is so big and there are so many people, two people can be together, get married, and even give birth My child, this is such a small probability, but many people don't regard this relationship and bond between people as something rare and worth cherishing and maintaining. Qin Su, you are a biologist, you say Said, people are obviously social animals, but why some people can't take good care of their companions? Not talking about love, just talking about being together for so many years and having a child, why don't they have this kind of love at all. "

Qin Su watched Xing Wenfei from the video, and saw his frowning, helpless and sad expression on his face, and felt sorry for him.Qin Su's childhood has not been smooth sailing, but he will not have such a painful choice to punish Wenfei.As a researcher, his focus is on pathogens, both socially and in the scope of his work. In fact, they are relatively simple. Compared with people like Xing Wenfei, who rely on contact with people to work, he is actually not as good at interpersonal communication. Xing Wenfei has rich experience.

Qin Su thought for a while, and answered more seriously: "Modern man, as a late Homo sapiens, is of course a socialized animal. When facing difficulties from the outside of the human being, the human being is a whole, but the internal resources of the human being are certain. , there must be internal competition. There is a unified relationship between human beings and society. It is a big subject to balance the unity and difference between individuals within human beings. The entire history of human development may be faced with this problem. Therefore, This is something that cannot be changed. It can only be solved for individuals. Look at the comments on the Internet now, there are contradictions everywhere in human beings, people with the role of protectors, but more people need and hope to be protected people."

"If there is no way to solve the problem of your parents, I'm afraid you can only delay it. As a junior, there is no good way. I think you want to stand on your mother's side, but you don't want to hurt Your dad, is that right?"

Xing Wenfei thought why not.

He whispered: "He is my father after all." No amount of contradictions can change this.Besides, his father had never treated him badly at all, and he had always loved him.Although this love is impure, it cannot conceal the fact that he still loves him and treats him well.

Qin Su sighed, "Then take your time. You can let your mother have other hobbies, and don't put your mind on someone who is not worth it."

Xing Wenfei smiled: "I think so too, and I did it before. But my mother still cares about it. But, I don't want to think about it now, Susu, I just called you husband, you Shouldn't you call me that, otherwise, wouldn't it be unfair to me!"

Qin Su: "..."

Qin Su couldn't stand being so unruly all of a sudden, and said, "Go to bed quickly. My parents received the dishwasher from you and said it's very useful."

Xing Wenfei thought to himself, if only my parents were like yours.

Although money is very important, people really cannot buy happiness with money.At least he felt that her mother was not as happy as Qin Su's mother.