prince meets king

After finishing speaking, he frankly told Xie Yuan about his relationship with Duan Rong.It is very different from the pink and soft atmosphere in general love narratives. Gu Zhe used psychological terms such as the process of visual obscenity, sexual instinct, resistance, and hysterical patients, making Mr. Duan's ecstasy seem to be stripped away. The copper wire covered with rubber is very naked and weak.

After listening to Xie Yuan, the judge said that this person is not very good.He was neither just, nor prudent, nor temperate, so that the only virtue of courage degenerated into recklessness.Of course, the most important thing is - he seems to be out of his mind.

Gu Donglin said yes, although he is handsome, wealthy, romantic and talented, he is a bourgeois who is rich, passionate, dissolute, boring, depressed but doesn't know it.But it's good to be friends.

Xie Yuan was puzzled: Hey, no, I use such an adjective to describe your friend, and it makes sense.If you use such an adjective to describe your friend, it would be too wanton.When you mentioned him, you lacked the gentleness, courtesy, and frugality of being a friend. You clearly placed him in the dimension of a lover, and then you were deeply critical of him.Ordinary friends, if they are a little more frivolous, they will be considered cute, such as me.

Gu Donglin thought about it for a while: "Well...he is too aggressive and eager to conquer, and he has aroused all my animal instincts suppressed by reason. I can't be gentle, courteous and thrifty to him at all. He made me believe that there is an animal in this world. It's called pretendtobe, and the purpose is to throw it away after going to bed to enjoy the spiritual superiority, so that I almost want to copy it and give it back to him before then."

Xie Yuandao Hold Live Hold Live, if you practice the sage's study and uphold the doctrine of the mean, you must be gentle, courteous and thrifty, don't let a bourgeois who is rich, passionate, dissolute, boring, depressed but doesn't know it ruin your practice .As a decent person, you can't play with your feelings when you play anything. He is not clear about you and you can't be led bad by him.Forgive him that, even under normal circumstances, the sexual drive is very much governed by higher mental activities, not to mention that he is very likely to be impotent.

Gu Donglin murmured that it's not that I haven't been loved before, and I'm not a sheep at the end of the road. He always treats me as a simplenaive Cinderella, thinking that with a little favor, he can establish an unequal personal attachment relationship... Ridiculous!He even signed a contract with me!My girl treats me really well, doesn't she? That's how you let me really see the world, didn't you?He went straight to the point, without embellishment at all, with an unscrupulous appearance, I really want to thank him.

Xie Yuandao must hold on to it. The joy of love lies in the fact that two people's identities, status, appearance, talents, virtues... everything is completely incompatible, but they can be together.Everyone loves the story of Cinderella, because what good was she other than making the prince fall in love with her?Not anymore.Love is so unreasonable.And the most amazing thing is that even if you fall in love with someone who is not very good, you will be paralyzed very well.Anyway, what was that man's name?Oh, Duan Rong... Duan Rong's thoughts are still understandable.Besides, what do you do with his general knowledge?He thinks he is a prince and you are Cinderella, are you Cinderella?You are the philosopher king!In the past, it was said that he was a doctor of the Five Classics of Taixue.If I put you under Tong Zhongshu's door again, and just be any kind of staff member, that's going to be a horse race in front of the palace, participating in political affairs-doing top-level design, isn't it?Why are you so angry with the boss of the Beijing Grass Stage team?He messed up to the end, and there are traces in history, that is, Li Guangli, who contributed to Mrs. Li, then withered immediately, right?You can't argue too much with him.

Gu Donglin said that it could also be Lu Buwei, but he is still full of spirit after all. "Ah, ah, I just don't want to be reconciled to being made by him... I am always regarded by others as someone who can be played with casually. No matter how high-minded I am, I always want to go whoring him, from someone who looks down on you The pleasure of being honored."

Xie Yuan said that you are wrong.Your mentality is hesitation, and hesitation itself is a statement.Two months is not a short time.Time is life, and if you are willing to give him a part of life, things will definitely not be as simple as you said.I know you too well, and the relationship you don't want to maintain will never last two hours, so just let it be.

Gu Donglin muttered, after all, he made my quality of life take a big step forward.Although I am temperate, it does not mean that there is no greed and hypocrisy in my soul.Alas, I really love his sports cars and villas.

"Think on the bright side. I think the two of you have been four words from the beginning to the present - inexplicable. If it wasn't... what's the name of that person? Duan Rong? Oh, if Duan Rong hadn't been so reckless I think you have become strangers for a long time. Someone must take the initiative.” Then the subject changed, “But when two people are together, we must learn to rule and be ruled, and rule and be ruled more naturally. "

Gu Donglin said I couldn't handle it well.I originally thought that I was the rational one, and he was the passionate one, and I should completely control it, but then I found that emotion is not a matter dominated by reason, and the distribution of powerandright is very problematic.I can't help it.I always feel hot and feel small.

Xie Yuan smiled, saying that you have studied politics for more than ten years, and the core business is the acquisition, maintenance, growth, weakening and loss of power. You have to deal with a completely untrained mind who is still using all kinds of direct and violent A savage with no means, can there be no way at all?If you want to rule more naturally, you can't be aggressive with him. Politics is charm, domestication, captivity.After all, he is a bourgeois with money, social status, and social capital. If you make him a better person, that is also a kind of advancement for society.And you can have him replace fifty laborers in the vineyards outside the city.

Gu Donglin thought for a while.

"You mean... it's wrong to take the road of fighting for power?"

Xie Yuan said Exactly.There can be inequality between you, but you have to let him know that this is not the inequality of status, but the differential order logic of the patriarchal system, which is the three cardinal principles and five constant principles.The ruler guides his ministers, the father guides his sons, and the husband guides his wife. This is not a system of power and rights, but a system of responsibilities and obligations.If he wants to control you so much, you should let him understand that in essence, the husband is the guide for the wife, not to regard the husband as the sky, but to find the husband when something goes wrong.If he wants to be your parent, he has to do practical things for you, he has to be a cow and a horse during the day, and a bull and stallion at night, and he has your family's stamp on his ass.But he himself does not understand this set, he does not understand ethics, and he does not live in an ethical society. He has no god in his heart, let alone prudence, the god of the earth. Always wanted to climb into his bed.So you have to establish a whole set of body politics system for him, instill patriarchal logic, morality and justice from his living habits.Take that child as an example, you definitely don’t want to put an end to Xiaosan, crying, scratching, hanging, etc., you want to fundamentally kill the concept of Xiaosan from his mind, so that he will form thinking when he thinks of it Settled, thinking that this is slutty, stupid, indecent, and unseemly, and forms antibodies on its own.and so on.You have to make him believe in what you say, and you have to have an absolute right to speak in terms of value. Others can let him go and give him the illusion of ruling.That's real control, see?And his current love provides you with a very good means, a powerful tool.But in view of the fact that love is self-centered and free in nature, it is capricious and animal passion, so if you want to make an ethical leap in the end, you must enter into a marriage contract with him.

Gu Donglin thought: "Brother, this is not right. If something goes wrong, find your husband... Don't you think there is something wrong with this?! Why am I placed in the position of a woman? According to your deduction, there will always be Tragedy like anal sex will happen one day. Tsk tsk, I used to take it for granted, but now I think about it, someone... has to stuff his dick into you, it's still sticky and wet, it's really annoying Creepy. What we do to women!"

Xie Yuan said, no, no, don't worry, pure gay men generally masturbate to each other, trust me.Gu Donglin was suspicious, and asked, did you just masturbate to each other with the beautiful man who paid tribute?Xie Yuan was silent for a while, and said, no, it's done.But these are two situations that cannot be compared in the same breath.

Gu Donglin said it was wrong again, you can't help others take me

Curved.I still can't figure it out myself.

Xie Yuandao is a bystander. One of you is an indifferent expert, and the other is a shameless womanizer. Someone must give advice.When you tame him, you can completely keep silent and let everything be confused. This state of ambiguity is used for this.Anyway, if you can't get away for a while, you should take this opportunity to try it out. If he can get better, that's of course the best; if he is still like this, then let him go back to where he came from.Although the process will be difficult, once the revolution is successful, you can sit back and relax—the husband guides the wife and the husband guides the wife. If something goes wrong, you can find your husband.I'm not as lucky as you, or else I'd find a rich bourgeois and ask him to give me an outline so that I can be a hands-off shopkeeper.

Gu Donglin Xin said that I heard something, rubbed his hands, and said that he hadn't done domestication for many years, so he was afraid he was unfamiliar.And when he saw his aloof appearance, he just wanted to beat him up, not to mention he was carrying a mop bottle.

Xie Yuan said indifferently: "You are really raw. He brought a mistress out to hang out, not to express hostility, but to express the demand for punishment. In a word-too cheap to itch. Understand?"

Gu Donglin looked back at Duan Rong again.

"Punishment?"

"Punishment."

As soon as the voice fell, the phone died immediately.