Ghosts and gods do not enter the door

"What child?" Guan Yi stroked his chin with a puzzled expression, not knowing what she was talking about.

When Ding Mujing told her this, he remembered that when they came in on the first day, he saw a child.Although the child seemed to be having fun, he faintly seemed to be separated from other children.

According to Li Baoen, the child was adopted several times at the beginning, but was sent back every time, for unknown reasons.And the experience of being adopted and sent back these few times made him a little reticent, and he was even bullied by other children because of this.

Through sorting out the information of the orphanage, Ding Mu learned that: before a child is adopted, in order to protect the child's psychology, reduce the sense of estrangement between the two parties, and reduce the retirement rate, the child must spend at least half a year with the adopter. There is a "run-in period" ranging from one month to one month. Only when both parties confirm and agree can they truly live together.

Once one of the two parties raises an objection, the adoption is also likely to be suspended.

Thinking of this, Ding Mu was a little puzzled. Since the two parties were not unhappy when they first met and got along well, why did they stop living together once they started living together?Since he disagreed with the adoption, why didn't he bring it up when there was no contact at the beginning, instead of sending the child back after the adoption process was completed?Adoption and retiring also need to go through procedures, both of which are extremely troublesome, why not be afraid of going through the trouble?Why not minimize the damage to both parties when nothing happens?

Is it the adult's irresponsibility or the child's abnormal behavior that caused such behavior?

Or, rather, both?

Ding Mu has no way of knowing, he can only imagine based on the existing clues.At this time, he was very envious of the detectives in those film and television dramas, who could get a glimpse of the whole leopard just through a few details.

If it is the reason of those families, if it is because they cannot accept a new member appearing in their family and in their life, then two adults, when making a decision from the very beginning, should be If someone raised an objection, they would give up their minds when they first contacted.It should not be regrettable after all the formalities have been dealt with.

People have remorse, even if he is looking forward to this matter very much, he will inevitably want to see another ending, this is normal, and it is not a useless emotion.And this kind of repentance will slowly change because of what happened next, or increase or decrease. Either continue to regret and make a decision, or face reality and move on.

When the child behaves, there are countless reasons for the couple to reverse the decision to adopt, and there are countless reasons for the couple to make up their mind to adopt.A couple who are expecting a child but can only obtain a child through adoption, it is impossible that they did not do their homework before adopting, and it is impossible that they are not prepared for the problems that the child will show.

Therefore, if it is really the reason of the family, it will be manifested very quickly at the very beginning, inability to run in, not compatible with each other, inability to understand each other, etc. These problems will all be manifested and resolved during the "run-in period".

Therefore, family reasons can be passed.

Then, it may be the child's own reasons.If it is really the child's reason, then why did he not show it during the "run-in period", but after living with the adoptive parents not long after?This time is not very long, not as long as "the time sees people's hearts".Did he deliberately hide his abnormality, and only let himself go after he was adopted, "exposing" his true face?

This child has lived here for so long, but he didn't feel any abnormality at all?

Ding Mu didn't believe it.

Even a child as young as Beibei could feel it, and even started to resist weakly. He didn't believe that a child as big as Kong Jiashu didn't feel that something was wrong.

The things taught in this orphanage every day are so "different", how can an older child who has begun to grow up be so dull that he can't see it at all?

Maybe he saw it.

Ding Mu guessed that maybe this Kong Jiashu saw the abnormality of this orphanage, so he tried hard to hide this sense of abnormality during the "run-in period", eager to escape from here quickly and explain the evil of this orphanage to the outside world.Maybe no one believed him and felt that he was talking crazy, or some people believed him but felt that what the child said was beyond their ability to bear.Whatever the reason, they retired him and did him a disservice.

Second abandonment is more hurtful and sad than first abandonment.

This is not a trivial matter such as whether to eat or not, whether to drink water or not, but a matter related to a family and the fate of many people.

It was hard for him to imagine how Kong Jiashu felt when he was abandoned.

He thought like this, until he slowly felt the chill creeping up his spine again—the staring feeling that could drive people crazy hit him when he stopped shaking the hand bell at some point, as if A snake stuck to his spine and climbing up.

Cold, creamy, vicious and loathsome.