planting fields, raising children

Very early on, Jing Xing had already found an excuse for the child's appearance.The people in the village are very warm and honest, and at the same time they are very mean-spirited and kind-hearted. Jing Xing and his father suddenly appeared in Shouhe Village when he was a child, and he was watched by people since he was a child.I don't know why, but when he was a child, someone told him that he was not Jiang's mother's son, and asked him if he missed his own mother, and how his stepmother treated him, and so on.There are also children who are probably heard by the adults in the family when they are gossiping, and they often laugh at him for not having a mother.

At that time, Jiang's mother was so angry that she ran to the door of the family with a knife to find someone to fight, and then she calmed down.But there were still people gossiping somewhere that Mama Jiang couldn't see. Jing Xing had been sensitive since he was a child, so he felt quite hurt at the time, and felt awkward for a while.If he didn't have a father by his side, he would definitely feel that he was an abandoned child that no one hated.And Jiang's mother was indeed very kind to him. As he grew older, some small waves in his heart gradually calmed down.

So although he could use the excuse that Chenchen picked it up, he didn't want to make Chenchen feel that he was abandoned by his biological parents because of some gossip in the future, and he didn't want Chenchen to suspect that they were not his own father and son because of other people's words.Although children need wind and rain to grow up, Jing Xing does not want these things.

Very early on, Jing Xing 'sent' Grandma Jiang and Mother Jiang to the village to spread some specious news.Ask them to mention that when they are chatting with someone, he has a girlfriend who is abroad and planned to get married, but the girlfriend insists on living abroad.Jing Xing didn't want to leave the motherland, so he had to break up.

The words that spread must not be so straightforward. As experienced gossip players, Grandma Jiang and Mother Jiang are very good at handling such topics, knowing what to say and what not to say.They first find someone to chat with, and it is easy for women to talk about their children and grandchildren when they chat. They ask what the children are doing now and whether they are married. Deliberately.As an outstanding young man in the village, the other party would definitely ask if Jing Xing had a partner or not.

Mother Jiang and Grandma Jiang took advantage of the situation and sighed, saying that they were the ones who delayed the child, and Jing Xing's girlfriend was capable and wanted to go abroad.Jing Xing was not happy, so the talk would collapse.The two had a good relationship at first, the girl was from the city, she was beautiful, from a good family background and had a high degree of education, it was not easy to see them coming from the countryside, but they couldn't agree on this.After all, the girl's family members are all abroad, and there is only one family, and she doesn't want to be too far away from her parents, right?No, Jing Xing came back sad, he was struggling outside alone, he was afraid that he would be even more overwhelmed.

Speak a little bit, say a few words and sigh how good and sensible Jing Xing was since he was a child, how stupid he is when he speaks foreign languages, etc.There is a stick and a stick that makes people tickle, and it also leaves a lot of room for imagination.

And the other party will follow the praises of being capable and sensible, patriotic and family-loving, what is there to do in this foreign country, yellow-haired and green-eyed, and they will be frightened when they come out at night.I heard that people still eat raw meat, which is very scary.Shouhe Village has no information and belongs to a backward area. Many people of the older generation have never left this place in their entire lives.The farthest place is the village, and I haven't even been to the county seat.But now many people who go out to work, like to brag when they come back, so they spread rumors.

The speed of news dissemination in the mountain village was very strong, and it didn't take long for the old and young in Shouhe Village to know that Jing Xing had such a capable girlfriend in the past, and everyone ran away from the country, and it was said that he would take a spaceship to live on the moon.

From time to time, when a few runny-nosed babies met Jing Xing, they would ask Jing Xing if he had been to the moon, whether there was Chang'e on it, and whether there was a jade rabbit.Telling Jing Xing directly to Speechless, the word spread was too distorted.

After Chen Chen came out, he said to the outside world that Chen Chen's mother was pregnant when the two broke up, and it was not easy for the girl to remarry with the child, and Jing Xing also wanted the child, so he gave the child to Jing Xing to raise.In the end, I don’t know how to spread it, saying that foreign children are not allowed to go, and if they go, they will become monsters.

Such things in rural areas are not uncommon, especially now that more people go out to work, so there are more such things, and it will be fine after a few days of gossip.The household registration was also quickly completed. If you have money and Chen Xiangdong, it doesn't matter.

Although the child was born, the Jiang family's "relief" has not been withdrawn. As soon as the Spring Festival comes to Shouhe Village, they will eat from the beginning of the village to the end of the village, and the men will not have a sober day.If you don't go, or if you don't drink, people will say that you look down on their family.

Jing Xing is now regarded as the little boss in the village, he is a capable person, and he will be stared at even more.Especially those hired companies, if you don't go, it will be very disrespectful, and others will think more about it.So he simply didn't understand, and said to the outside world that Jing Xing had just finished the operation and couldn't go out.In this way, if you want to call people, you can’t come into the house to drag them around. During the Spring Festival, people are invited to eat, and if you don’t go, someone will pull you out of the house.It would be fine if they were all old men, but it is often old ladies and middle-aged women who come in to talk, so you are embarrassed if you don't go.

As for being sick, people will say that you have to eat when you are sick, so what's the point of going to their house to sit and sit.But it's hard not to be drunk this time, and there's no way to refuse.Jing Xing's situation couldn't be explained clearly to others, Jiang's mother paid special attention to Jing Xing's health because Jing Xing's father had been in poor health.During the confinement period, Jing Xing was not even allowed to take a bath. Jing Xing begged for a long time, and the home installed a bathroom heater and promised to come out as soon as he washed it, so he reluctantly agreed, and he didn't even think about going out to drink with others.

As a result, Xiao Yang and Jiang Gaoshan suffered a lot. The two of them were dizzy throughout the Spring Festival, especially during the three days from the first to the third day of junior high school, they didn't wake up.

During the Spring Festival, every family will treat guests. The more people who come, the bigger the face and the more auspicious.No one likes to go to Aunt Lv's house for treats. It is laughed at in the village, and it is very unlucky.Although it was inconvenient for Jing Xing's family to enter, they also set up wine, and the place to treat guests was in the small bamboo building before.At that time, it was overcrowded, and many tables, chairs, benches, bowls and chopsticks had to be moved from other homes.This is a very face-saving and festive event, and most of the credit comes from Jing Xing's transformation of the barren hills.

More people go home during the Spring Festival than during the autumn harvest. When they heard that Jing Xing needs people, the treatment is not bad. Many people, especially those who have married, want to find a job in Jing Xing, so they all take this opportunity to get close coming.At the banquet, I asked Xiao Yang and Jiang Gaoshan about the news, and asked if they needed someone.That day, Jing Xing was tightly wrapped up by Jiang's mother, and she showed her face at the door, and said that if everyone is interested in working with him during the Chinese New Year, after their family's "relief" is over, come over to him.Then he left in a hurry, the big guys saw that he seemed really uncomfortable, and they didn't come down for dinner together at home, so they didn't make trouble with him, and turned their enthusiasm to Xiao Yang and Jiang Gaoshan.

Xiao Yang is cheerful and easy to get close to. Jiang Gaoshan's three daughters are all closer to him than Jing Xing.So the big guys will not treat him differently because he is a foreigner, and even think that he is obviously from the city, but he is really close, which shows that this person is really good, and young people are willing to tie up with him.

Jing Xing is not like he didn't know what to do with Xiao Chenchen a few days ago, and he is very proficient in changing diapers, breastfeeding, and hiccupping.Chenchen is also very obedient, besides eating, drinking, and sleeping all day long, she doesn't make trouble at all.In the first few days, I had to wake up several times in the middle of the night to feed. Later, I could basically sleep until dawn. I woke up once or twice at most in the middle, and I could sleep for seven or eight hours in a row.Moreover, the pooping time is basically fixed, not at night, and the diapers generally do not need to be changed, which saves a lot of trouble.

For this reason, Jing Xing was still very worried that he would be hungry, and wondered whether to wake him up to feed him.But I read in the book that sleep is very important for children, don't wake him up, he will wake up naturally if he is hungry.Jing Xing just gave up, but he was still worried, struggling all day long between waking up and not waking up.But when he saw that Chenchen changed his appearance every day, getting fatter and stronger, he felt relieved.

Jing Xing thought that all children are like this, isn't it written in the book that a newborn baby can sleep for twenty hours.Mother Jiang laughed directly when she heard it, and said that it was because Xiao Chenchen cared about you so well, and it was hereditary. It was also like this when Jing Xing was born, and he never made trouble.On the other hand, Jiang Gaoshan was a complete brat and made a lot of trouble.

Jiang Gaoshan has been restless day and night since he was born, and he can't live without people.For a while, he had to walk and swim in his arms before falling asleep, and when you stopped and leaned against a wall, he could howl until the house collapsed.For other children, you just let them cry and sleep when they are tired, but Jiang Gaoshan is not. You can howl for as long as you want, the sound is so loud and bright that no one in the room can sleep.

No way, at that time Jiang's mother and Jing Xing's father could only take turns taking him in this way at night, and during the day, Jiang's grandma and Jiang's grandfather took him.Mother Jiang said that at that time, watching the dark sky gradually brighten, she felt like crying. At that time, she had to work to earn work points during the day, and her whole body was floating.Fortunately, Jing Xing, who was only less than one year old at that time, was very well-behaved, otherwise the two children would be so noisy and they would collapse.

Jing Xing had heard Jiang's mother say these things before, but he didn't feel very deeply.Now that I have children, I realize how difficult it is to be a parent. Even if Chenchen is so well-behaved, he can't be very calm when he sleeps at night.Needless to say, breastfeeding needs to be tossed for at least half an hour each time.I have to get up from time to time to check whether it is covered properly, whether my nose is pressed by the quilt, and so on.

During the Spring Festival, everyone was very busy, and only Jing Xing was idle, so Jing Xing took care of the matter of bringing Chenchen by himself.At first, Mother Jiang was worried that he could not do well, and worried about his wounds, so she wanted Chenchen to sleep with her at night.Later, seeing that Chen Chen was so well-behaved, Jing Xing slowly got involved, and let Chen Chen sleep with Jing Xing.

Every night, Mother Jiang helps Chenchen take a good bath, and prepares the milk powder in the boiling water bottle and puts it aside. It's also easy to get up.And there are several baby bottles, so if you eat several times at night, you don’t need to get up and clean them.

In the early morning of the New Year's Eve, Liang Haoquan sent a text message to wish him a happy new year. Jing Xing looked at it, waited for a while, and finally picked up his mobile phone to reply the group text messages sent during the Chinese New Year, and received a reply not long after.The two started text chatting through the air in the middle of the night. It was the first time that they used to call directly for everything.

I think we should find a time to have a good talk.

I don't think there's much to talk about between us.

Don't you want to say something about children?

If you also want to find a surrogate, I can help you introduce a reliable one.

You know what I'm talking about.

So I answered seriously, but I don't think I can help you, your network is much more than mine.

There was no reply from Liang Haoquan for a long time, and when Jing Xing was about to sleep, Liang Haoquan called.Jing Xing was a little helpless, Liang Haoquan must have discovered something, if he was a woman, Liang Haoquan would definitely be able to identify Chenchen as his son.But he is a man, so Liang Haoquan got tangled up, and that's how he came up with the temptation just now.

If it was someone else, they would ask directly if they had doubts.But Liang Haoquan didn't, because it was too unbelievable, too mysterious, it was just a big joke.Liang Haoquan's self-esteem does not allow a chance to be ridiculed. Those who stand on the higher ground have been going smoothly since childhood, and the most fearful thing is to fail in embarrassment.Even when he pursued Zuo Xiaozuo at the beginning, he never spoke directly, and all kinds of courteous opponents may not understand his intentions.

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