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Shu Fei said: "Children are very difficult to take care of. I remember that Ruirui made me very uncomfortable at that time, but this is not a reason for you not to raise or educate your children. Let's talk about today, you have made several mistakes. First, what did you say when Qiqi was arguing with you to ask you to pay the 5000 yuan? You said that the child was out of vanity. However, Jing Ruiming has always done this, and Qiqi also agrees He is used to what he does. If you refuse so simply and rudely without discussing it, no wonder Qiqi will make a fuss. This is the style of parents who refuse to communicate well with their children. After a long time, the children will not speak their minds to you. This is just the beginning, when she reaches puberty, she won't tell you anything, if there is no problem, forget it, if there is a problem, it will be a big problem!"

Xiao Fan said with a bitter face: "Then what should I say?"

Shu Fei said: "I think you can explain this situation clearly to Kiki. For example, now you live with her alone, and let her know how the financial situation is. You don't lack this information. 5000 yuan, but, keep the 5000 yuan, maybe it can be used for more valuable things, such as buying a big item for the family, or going on a trip together. "I am the parent and I have the final say, your child must obey unconditionally", the child is an adult who has not yet grown up, and should be treated equally, you can discuss this matter with her, and then make this decision together .”

Xiao Fan asked: "Then if after talking for a long time, she still decides to spend the 5000 yuan? Doesn't that mean it's useless work?"

Shu Fei said: "If she still decides to spend the sponsorship fee of 5000 yuan, she can spend it. However, the discussion between you and her will never be useless. The work will be in the future, you know? Satisfy her this time, and next time When she wants to have a similar consumption again, you can tell her: "Look, I originally planned to save money for this consumption, but last time because you made a fuss and wanted to spend money to pay the sponsorship fee, although Dad Disagree, but, in order to respect your idea, Dad still pays. So, now this item of consumption can’t be done’. If she makes trouble again, you insist, ‘It’s impossible to have many choices in life. If you choose this One means the loss of the other, and the greedy often get nothing'."

Xiao Fan nodded and said, "Oh, that's how education is done."

Shu Fei said: "Actually, it is reasonable for Jing Ruiming to keep paying this money. His educational philosophy is different from ours. He may promote elite education. I hope that Qiqi will be the most shining and the best at all times. Do you think I think, as a representative of a young performer, Qiqi dresses brightly and speaks confidently to the audience. Does it feel like standing on the top of a pyramid overlooking all living beings? In fact, it is also a great improvement for children , can broaden her horizons, and she can stand higher and see farther in the future."

Xiao Fan said depressedly: "Come on, it's still too much money to burn."

Shu Fei said: "Forget it, you can discuss this issue with Jing Ruiming as a topic in the future, and that's all I've said. Your second mistake: when Qiqi is watching TV, if you reason with her, will she be happy?" ?Children need guidance. You should sit next to her at this time, accompany her to watch this episode of cartoons, then turn off the TV, and then reason with her. Right, children are human beings, and you should also respect She, don’t teach her when you think it’s convenient. She’s not happy if your child is interrupted while watching TV vigorously, and knowing that you interrupt her watching TV just to teach her a lesson, she has a resistance in her heart So, your education is doomed to fail before it even begins."

Shu Fei analyzed many phenomena that he saw today to Xiao Fan, just like breaking a cake to see the sandwich inside, so that Xiao Fan can see the essence through the phenomenon and understand the reason.

In the end, Shu Fei came up with a sentence: Xiao Fan, from now on, he will spend all his time playing with his mobile phone and watching TV with Qiqi, even if it is a child watching TV, he can watch TV with him. Guide the children to discuss together and take the opportunity to educate.In short, if you educate Xiao Nizi like spring breeze and rain all the time, you will definitely be able to correct it.

Seeing Xiao Fan's open-minded and sincere attitude of being teachable, Shu Fei felt relieved, and suddenly remembered what Jing Ruiming said on the phone that day, and couldn't help frowning: Jing Ruiming himself said that he treats this foolish boy as his wife, he should He liked him, but what about Xiao Fan, he was so dumbfounded that he didn't realize how much he liked Jing Ruiming.Then if he really didn't feel anything for Jing Ruiming, even if he went back after a lot of effort, if the fundamental problem was not resolved, he would have a falling out and move out again after a while.No, today I simply took advantage of the victory to pursue and solved several core problems!

Shu Fei then said: "The last point I want to ask you is that Jing Ruiming definitely likes you and has feelings for you. What about you, do you like him? After so many years, there should be some foundation of feelings, right? If not, what we just said is empty talk, we have no feelings, what are we doing?"

After listening to Shu Fei's analysis, Xiao Fan knew that Jing Ruiming actually liked him in private, but he was stubborn and refused to say it out loud, so he immediately felt a sense of comfort, oh my god, that boy Jing Ruiming is so boring, so Emma couldn't stand the excitement because she had been secretly in love with her brother for so many years. Her brother was so attractive that he actually took Jing Shao down.

Xiao Fan was very happy in his heart, while pretending to be reserved, stroking his forehead and frowning, he said: "Well...it's really hard to say. Let me tell you, he's a little... that... moody, dark Uncertain... When he treats you well, hey, that's really thoughtful, you think of everything, it feels like your whole body is soaked in hot water, warm, that Sometimes, I can still like him a little bit. But when he treats you badly, it's too difficult to serve. His face is drawn so long, and it's so cloudy that it can fucking drip. Then, here it is You're picking faults there, whatever you do is wrong anyway, if you argue with him, he's still full of reason, with a venomous tongue that can't be resisted! At that time, do you think I can like it?"

Shu Fei said: "Has a bad temper, is moody, and feels like a roller coaster ride, isn't that the case?"

Xiao Fan said: "That's right, that's right, and he feels very good about himself. When we're not arguing, we can get by so-so. When we quarrel, no matter whether it's justified or not, he acts like everyone else is wrong. His posture of being invincible in the universe alone is not someone else's fault, he is not wrong at all, which is great. In fact, I am very sloppy, and I usually don't care about him, but he insists on pointing it out to me. When I’m in a good mood, hey, I still don’t accept it. Oh, so, I think he’s quite likable sometimes, and sometimes he’s so annoying that I don’t want to talk to him.”

Shu Fei stroked his chin and deduced: "Tell me, could he have some disorder caused by long-term sexual dissatisfaction?" Jing Ruiming's words "he punished me for four years" were really shocking Deaf.

Xiao Fan let out a "puchi" laugh, and said, "Pull it down.If he gets out of tune, isn't it the same for me?Why am I not out of tune?Still so energetic! "

Shu Fei glared at him, and said: "Because you have a unique way of thinking, you don't think things that people think are hard, I'm convinced you!"

Xiao Fan chuckled.

Shu Fei said: "Actually, I think you should stop worrying about the issues above and below. Let me tell you, there is a colleague in our unit who has already come out publicly. It is a small subject, the kind below. Some people are curious, so they always ask him evasively, is it uncomfortable to be treated like this or not down there? Guess what happened? My little colleague is not shy at all, he is very high-profile, and often They are all saying: You straight men, you only know that piling on the top is very happy, but you don’t know that it’s more comfortable on the bottom!”

Xiao Fan hummed and said, "I don't feel comfortable."

Shu Fei smiled and said, "It's probably because you didn't master the tricks and lack technical content. It's okay. After you go back, let him practice more, 'practice brings true knowledge'."

Xiao Fan said unconvinced: "It's up to me to let him practice, why doesn't he let me practice?"

Shu Fei said: "If you're so lacking in both, and you still want to be on top, then I'm going to complain about Jing Ruiming!"

Xiao Fan yelled, "Hey, what's wrong with me? Are you my brother? You don't even help me!"

Shu Fei said with a smile: "Well, it's up to you to negotiate and resolve the issues above and below, so I can't help you. You, try to convince him after you go back. If you can't be convinced, just stay here and enjoy it. Anyway, the following The scenery is also very good.”

Xiao Fan laughed and scolded: "Hey, the scenery below is so beautiful, Shu Fei, you can find one to enjoy it tomorrow."

Shu Fei said: "Go away! I'm here to give advice and advice for you, and you're still mocking me?"

Xiao Fan hastily raised the white flag to surrender, and said, "All right, all right, I was wrong, can't I be wrong?"

After Shu Fei told Xiao Fan, he felt that the matter was over. No matter what happened to them in the future, anyway, as a friend, he could only help so much. I hope they will be well.

Shu Fei was in a very happy mood, and suddenly caught a glimpse of a large pile of local products on the cabinet, and remembered Gao Yuan's inexplicable running away in the afternoon, so he asked Xiao Fan strangely: "You are really addicted today." Huh? You haven’t played enough on your phone, and you still call Gao Yuan to ask him out to ‘Fight the Landlord’? Do you know him that well? Just rashly call him and ask him out to play!”

Xiao Fan yelled at his injustice, and said, "Where did I ask him out? It was your Ruirui who said it. Hey, I didn't understand what was going on, so Ruirui called, and then, a few minutes later, Gao Yuan is here."

"What?!!!" Shu Fei was taken aback, and hurriedly asked Xiao Fan to explain the ins and outs of the matter.

After listening, Shu Fei said to himself: "Why is Rui Rui like this? It's strange, I know he likes Uncle Gao, so it's not like that."

Xiao Fan said casually: "If Ruirui is not a five-year-old child, I thought he fell in love with his Uncle Gao, or else, Uncle Gao fell in love with Ruirui, so, seeing each other every day is like three autumns .”

Shu Fei frowned and said, "Don't talk nonsense."

Xiao Fan suddenly felt blessed, and said: "Perhaps, the drunkard's intention is not to drink. Uncle Gao fell in love with not the smart and lovely little Rui Rui, but the even more lovely Rui Rui's father, so... Excuse, sneaking into Chen Cang! Hahaha, I am a genius, a genius!"

Shu Fei punched him and said, "Nonsense!"

On the contrary, Xiao Fan said seriously: "Hey, don't tell me, this is really a wise way. Shu Fei, I used to always think about finding a girl for you, why didn't I think about it for you What about looking for a man? Anyway, your son is already born, so it doesn’t matter about the heir, it’s the same as finding a man or a woman. But you look like this, hehehe, you’re more likely to recruit men.”

Shu Fei gritted his teeth and said, "You want to die, don't you? Say it!"

While running to avoid Shu Fei's pursuit, Xiao Fan continued to say without fear of death: "Really! I think it's better for you to find a man. Think about it, if you want a woman, you have to find someone with low qualifications, like Mr. Xiong last time." If you don’t come, I want to give you half of the house. If you are looking for a man, Shu Fei, you must be a little shou. If you look for a little Gong, you can choose a good condition, such as tall, rich and handsome like Gao Yuan. Hey, this is good Mr. Gao is the darling of the business world and a billionaire. With Mr. Gao joining, he will definitely boost your family’s gdp! Besides, as you said just now, the scenery below is also very good! Hahaha!"

Shu Fei finally caught him, and he was beaten up all over the place, cursing at the same time: "Bastard!"

The two laughed and quarreled for a while, Xiao Fan said: "Hey, it's just a joke, if Gao Yuan is really interested in you, what will you do?"

Shu Fei's eyes were a little wandering, and after a long time, he said in a low voice: "Impossible, people just like men so they can't be like me. What's so good about me? Besides, I really can't...I'm afraid...Aren't you Do you keep asking me more than four years ago, why did I leave here without saying hello to you? I was scared back then."

Shu Fei fell into thoughts of going west, and intermittently told Xiao Fan about the old story.

Xiao Fan gritted his teeth and said, "The bastard director is still so bad? When will I meet him? I'll beat him to death!"

Shu Fei said: "He still lives in our community, but he moved away not long ago, I don't know why."

Xiao Fan said: "Forget him as a kid! Otherwise, I will beat him up once I see him!"

Shu Fei said: "Oh, at that time, when I saw a man with mental disorders, I always felt that he would be punished. I couldn't find a job and went to work, so I hid back to my hometown. After my mother died, I I just took Ruirui to SZ City. At the beginning, I was very anxious and often suffered from insomnia. Later, I went to see a psychiatrist. I was really in a dilemma. Go back to my hometown, there is no way out, work outside, I can’t hide from people Work. At that time, I looked at Ruirui and thought to myself, I must pass this hurdle, otherwise what should I do? Hold Ruirui and starve to death? I finally made it through. So, don’t give me any more Make that kind of joke!"

Xiao Fan nodded and said: "Okay, but I think this matter is very disturbing. In fact, the probability is very small, and most people are good, right? You must not 'one' I was bitten by a snake in the morning, and I was afraid of well ropes for ten years, because I missed a big bowl of good soup because of the two rat droppings! In case you meet someone like me in the future, who is handsome and positive Yes, don't miss it!"

Shu Fei said angrily: "Bah! You are so positive! You are actively receiving treatment and trying to take medicine to consolidate the curative effect!"

Just as he was talking, suddenly the room was pitch black.

Both Shu Fei and Xiao Fan screamed: "Damn it! Is it a power outage or a trip?"

In the end, it wasn't that Shu Fei's family was out of power, but the whole unit was out of power, probably because the fuse of the unit was blown.

Shu Fei got up immediately and said, "I'll go down and have a look."

Xiao Fan said: "Why don't you go down and see, there must be someone who can't bear it and will fix it, and I'll call after a while."

Shu Fei said: "You are a real person! If you wait for others to repair every time, wouldn't the old repairers be depressed? I'll go down and have a look, help take care of the flashlight and so on. Let's do everyone's work. I happened to throw away the trash by the way, and gnawed such a big pile of meat and bones today, so as not to attract mice."

Xiao Fan said: "Hey, I wanted to talk about you first, why didn't you tell Gao Yuan to throw the trash down when he went downstairs?"

Shu Fei said: "You don't have a fever, do you? Gao Yuan brought us a lot of delicious food and drink, and when we left, you asked someone to carry a big bag of garbage. Do you treat your friends like this?"

Xiao Fan muttered, "Isn't that the way? Anyway, there is a garbage station downstairs, so he just threw it away. Besides, why do you tell me to throw away the garbage every time I come to your place?"

While talking, Shu Fei changed his shoes and went out, saying: "Isn't it because I know you too well that I can order you around? Do we know Gao Yuan that well? We know so well that we can ask someone to throw garbage? You are so heartless! I'm going down!"

After Shu Fei went out, Xiao Fan said to himself, "Maybe in the future you will know more than just throwing garbage!"

After Shu Fei went downstairs, he saw a group of people gathered at the door of the unit. Some people were shining flashlights, some were holding test pens, and some were holding wrenches.Shu Fei also stopped, and followed the enthusiastic people to say a few words. Although it didn't help, he also expressed that as a resident, he would never stand idly by when encountering such public problems.

After about five or six minutes, the fuse was repaired, and the apartment building was bright.

Shu Fei and the neighbors said goodbye with a smile, and pushed open the door of the unit to the garbage station five or six meters away to throw out the garbage.

Under the dim street lights, a tall and slender figure jumped into Shu Fei's eyes.

Shu Fei stopped in surprise, stared at the person a few meters away, and asked, "Gao Yuan, it's so late, why...it's so cold here."

The person standing under the light was indeed Gao Yuan, with red light flashing between his fingers, the dim light blurred his handsome facial contours, and the whole person looked lonely and indifferent, which made Shu Fei inexplicably feel a little unspeakable in his heart melancholy.

Gao Yuan was a little dazed, "Ah?" He said, half surprised and half pleasantly looking at Shu Fei, he didn't expect that the person he was thinking about would appear in front of him like falling from the sky.

It is said that after Gao Yuan left Shu Fei's house, he thought about the resolute words Shu Fei said during the card game in the afternoon, and couldn't calm down for a long time. He also thought that Xiao Fan could stay overnight at Shu Fei's house with Xiao Fan, and his heart was like being caught by a cat. same.Although Gao Yuan knew that Xiao Fan and Shu Fei were relatively simple and good buddies, how could he not feel uncomfortable when his wife was wearing pajamas, sleepy and open-eyed, and others looked at her open-hearted appearance?But now he has no position and no qualification to say anything against it.

Swayed by this feeling of not being able to think about anything and worrying about gains and losses, Gao Yuan didn't feel cold at all, and he wasn't in a hurry to go home to keep warm. He just walked around the apartment building of Shu Fei's house while thinking about things, blinking his eyes. He actually walked for more than two hours, and finally couldn't bear it any longer. He said he would just smoke a cigarette right under his window and leave, but he unexpectedly ran into Shu Fei.

Gao Yuan's complexion was not very good, his lips were black, and he didn't know if it was blown by the cold wind, but he tried to hide it and said: "It's okay. I'm just a little annoyed. I smoke a cigarette here."

Shu Fei unconsciously repeated his words: "Smoking? How long have you been smoking? It's freezing cold, why don't you go home and smoke?"

Gao Yuan threw the smoke in his hand towards the trash can, only to see a little red fire flashing across the dark mid-air, and then fell into the big trash can, and everything returned to silence.

Gao Yuan concealed, "I'm going home now, goodbye."

When walking past Shu Fei, Gao Yuan suddenly stopped, turned his head and stared at Shu Fei's side face, hesitant to speak.

Shu Fei's heart was moved, and he raised his eyes to look at Gao Yuan.

In Gao Yuan's eyes, there was one kind, or rather, many kinds of emotions, which made his eyes look extraordinarily bright in the vast night, and looked at Shu Fei with a warm light.

Shu Fei hesitated and said, "You... have been standing here since you came out of my house?" After more than two hours, it would freeze to death, wouldn't it?What is he doing here?

Looking at the position where he was standing, if he looked up, he should be facing the window of Shu Fei's bedroom.

"It seems that this star is not from last night, for whom will the wind and dew stand at midnight."

Shu Fei's mind suddenly flashed the famous love quotes that have been sung from ancient to modern times, and at the same time, he automatically imagined Gao Yuan standing downstairs, looking up at his window obsessively, regardless of the cold weather... Shu Fei couldn't help shaking off goose bumps.

Uh...impossible?Gao Yuan is truly tall, rich and handsome.In Shu Fei's memory, he only knew two Gao Fushuai in reality, one was Gao Yuan, and the other was an alumnus from the class next door in college. Girlfriend, it is said that she got married with a starlet who had participated in "My Fair Princess" in the end, and she was very happy. Therefore, in Shu Fei's imagination, being friends with someone like Gao Yuan would be the best. A capable friend is a network, a helper, and someone, but I never thought that I would have anything else to do with him.

A person like him who can almost be said to be standing on the top of the pyramid, would he have thoughts about me, a single father who is struggling with a child?

I must be thinking too much!Shu Fei told himself fiercely in his heart, smiled at Gao Yuan, and said, "Oh, what a coincidence, I can meet you even when I throw trash."

In the end, this smile is a bad thing!

Maybe this gentle and pleasant smile dazzled Gao Yuan's eyes, maybe it was the gloomy and bright crescent moon tonight that inspired Gao Yuan's heart, making Gao Yuan who was still hesitant to move forward seem to have been given a shot in the arm Generally speaking, he opened his mouth suddenly, and said the words buried in his heart like a ghost: "Shu Fei, I want to tell you something. That is, the person I told you about last time—the one who has a crush on me." People, in fact, I made up words. The truth is, in fact, I have a crush on someone, but... well, forget it, I really don't know how to say it, can you... can you understand?"