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This episode has nothing to do with the main text!All theories are for reference only!

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Hello everyone, welcome to my love talk teaching class.

In response to the eager expectation of the majority of students, this course is specially offered this semester. It is just some shallow opinions of my own, but I hope everyone can gain something.

Let's first look at an error demonstration:

"Zhanlin's always serious face suddenly gave him a weird smile, forced a grin on the corner of his mouth, and asked: 'The moon is so big tonight, I wonder if it's big in your place?'"

"Zhan Lin panicked, but calmed down again, and asked: 'It's quite wet outside, I wonder if it's wet in your place?'"

"With the determination to kill with one blow, Zhanlin asked the third sentence: 'Are you a cone? Otherwise, why would I want to lick all over your body.'"

The above is a very typical case of mistakes. Applying the love words circulating on the Internet regardless of the occasion and place, the result can only be counterproductive.

There are three reasons for the error in the specific analysis: first, this kind of love talk is not suitable for the ambiguous period or the early stage of love, it is a little frivolous, and it will make the other party feel unwell; Love words, lack of novelty; third, try to take shortcuts and use ready-made love words, without adapting to the actual situation, just like mechanically inserting formulas when doing a question without analyzing specific problems. If I correct the test paper, I will not even have the steps will give.

So what exactly is a successful love story?

I divided love words into three levels: Straightforward (straightforward), Euphemistic (tactful), Obscure (obscure).

First of all, the simplest and most effective way in a short period of time is to express your love to the other party frankly.

Love words like "ILOVEU" and "IFANCYU" are cheesy but timeless. I think no one can resist their partner saying "I love you" in the most sincere tone.What needs to be noted is that when using this kind of straightforward love words, the demeanor should not be twitchy, and the tone should not be awkward.Once the user has an awkward emotion, the other party will also be infected by this emotion and feel at a loss, and the effect will be greatly reduced.Also, don't say such things in a flirty or joking tone, it's okay to show a little shyness, but the tone must be strong and sincere.

Although straightforward love words are simple in speech skills, they require a high level of demeanor and movement. They are easy to learn but not easy to refine. Once used too much, they will lose their effect. At this time, it is very important to learn tactful love words.

What is euphemism?Saying love but not expressing love clearly will make the other party have a dim and throbbing feeling like looking at flowers in a moon mirror in the water. This kind of statement may be more abstract, so let's continue to illustrate with examples.

"Xu Weichen walked up to him slowly, and said softly: 'To give an easy-to-understand example, if it's the first time for me to associate with my peers, I will feel excited, but after continuously interacting with different peers, this matter It would bring me less satisfaction.'

Xu Weichen's voice became smaller and smaller, until in the end only He Zhan could hear, "So, I will look forward to falling in love with a kid like He Zhanzhan." '"

This case uses the method of embedding flowers and trees to seamlessly graft business affairs into love words, so that the other party's heartbeat is mistaken for an illusion because they can't grasp the real feeling, and the effect of love words is quite significant.

Euphemistic love words require users to have strong language organization and associative skills, and to flexibly use common or common things in life into love words. The other party said, "I received a surprise from you today", and attached a photo of strawberries. The rest does not need to be elaborated, and it will naturally produce results.If the other party's comprehension is poor, you can also send "strawberries are not as sweet as you", which will produce different effects on different people, and also need to be adapted to local conditions.

Finally, it is also the most difficult thing to do - implicit love words, if you have a partner who responds as slowly as He Zhan, then you don’t need to master this point, because the time limit for love words has already expired when the other party understands the meaning, and then advanced Words can only be spoken to the wind.

The difficulty of cryptic love talk lies in the need to set a premise, such as giving the other party a nickname, here is an example of "SpongeBob SquarePants", let the other party know that he is "SpongeBob SquarePants". point in time to say "I like SpongeBob SquarePants" in another way, echoing the long-established premise.The effect of such love words is the most significant, if the other party is a caring person.

To sum up the above three points, euphemistic love words should be used in the highest proportion, constantly bringing new ideas to the other party, straightforward love words can only be auxiliary and not the main force, implicit love words are icing on the cake, not a rigid requirement, and students who have the ability to learn also This can be studied.

The above is the content of today's love talk teaching, just my personal opinion, please refer carefully.The most important thing is that the methods and methods are only auxiliary, and what really impresses the other party is the sincerity that is willing to spend time for him/her.

Thank you again for attending my class, and I wish you all the best love.

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It's not that someone has been asking Xu Weichen to teach love stories, but now it really happened.

Zhanchen won't finish tagging for the time being, maybe I'll add another episode if I think of it, thank you for your support!