How can it not be dusty

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After all, Xu Weichen's thoughts should be more mature. Although he was really angry, he quickly grasped the core of the contradiction.

The problem is that he imposes what he thinks is good for He Zhan on him, and He Zhan also has blind trust in himself.The reason why teacher-student love has been criticized is because the teacher is always in a relatively strong position, and there are natural class differences between the two parties in the relationship, which makes the student always passive.

Xu Weichen is also in love for the first time, he is a little too arrogant, He Zhan should be an independent individual with his own thoughts, and should not be his vassal, so after he calms down, he can fully understand why He Zhan lied to him.

He is usually a little too strong towards He Zhan, and he always instills in him the idea of ​​"I am your teacher, you must listen to me" consciously or unconsciously, so that He Zhan dare not talk to him when he has a problem, but chooses Yang obeys and Yin violates.

This is not good, trust in love is very important, he must let He Zhan feel that they are not against each other.

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Xu Weichen didn't take He Zhan back to his home tonight, and let He Zhan sleep in the dormitory for a night. He needs to calm down and think about countermeasures. With He Zhan beside him, all he can think about is sex.

Poor He Zhan finally got through the application to live off-campus, and was going back to the dormitory again. His roommates couldn't help laughing at him: "What's the matter, He Zhan, who went out to hang out with wild men for a few nights and then was driven back?"

He Zhan had already come out to his roommates, but they didn't know that the wild man was Xu Weichen, he said calmly, "You don't understand, it's fun to live apart once in a while."

"Hey He Zhan, have you seen the confession wall recently? It's very lively. Someone compared the tone and it seems that they are all posted by the same person."

He Zhan has a lot of friends, and the space is incomplete. He clicked into the confession wall space, and sure enough, a lot of words began with: Mr. Wall, anonymous contribution!

The content is similar, they all start with a friend of mine, and the things are trivial things, such as "What should I do if my best friend is too sloppy?", "How to tell a person that he is a fool quietly", "Why are the sweet and sour pork ribs in the cafeteria smaller?" etc., the writing style is extremely childish, and it looks like a little fool at first glance.

He Zhan happily brushed all the way over, and asked his roommate: "I heard that the man who runs the confession wall is a man, don't some girl have a crush on him, right?"

"The operation of the confession wall seems to be automated by the third year. There is a man in science and engineering. It should not be very good."

"Who told you that there are no handsome guys in science and engineering?"

He Zhan didn't have any interest in scrolling down, and picked up the class news.He is usually active in the class, mainly because the counselor talks a lot, and everyone likes to tease him, which is quite interesting.

He was scrolling through the news, and suddenly there was a new one, which was all members of Aite, so He Zhan clicked on it to read.

The cutest, cutest old Wu: It’s our college’s turn to lecture on the mental health of college students this week. The location is at the University Student Activity Center. The time is tomorrow at [-]:[-] pm. Students who are free can go to see it. The speaker is Professor Xu. Sign in Activity points can be added. @all members

Mental health talks?Professor Xu?

No, is Xu Weichen's business scope so wide?

He Zhan poked the counselor privately: Teacher, is the professor Xu I think of tomorrow's mental health lecture?

The cutest and cutest old Wu: Yes, weren't you in his office when I went to talk to him about this matter?Weren't you there when I took him to the activity center.

Is this what Ganqing was talking about that day?

The cutest and cutest old Wu: He Zhan, you should go too. I also listened to Professor Xu’s lecture at the business school last time. It’s really good for college students’ employment and mental health.

He Zhan doesn't care about the employment of college students, but he cares about Xu Weichen.

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He Zhan had Xu Weichen's class on Friday afternoon, so he wondered whether he should go to Xu Weichen at noon, but considering that Xu Weichen told him yesterday that he needed to separate from him and think about how to resolve the conflict, he chose to go to the library.

That's why people are also cheap, and they don't listen when they speak well, and they have to quarrel before they know how to compromise.

During class in the afternoon, He Zhan frequently hinted at Xu Weichen with his eyes, but the other party didn't accept the signal at all, and just pretended that there was no such person throughout the whole process, and didn't even call him to answer questions alone.

He Zhan panicked, Xu Weichen went back and thought about it all night, and finally decided not to let him go, right?

He finished two classes in fear, and when everyone was gone, he walked up to Xu Weichen, "Xu Weichen, why did you suddenly become so indifferent?"

Xu Weichen leaned over and kissed him, "Cold?"

He Zhan was happy at once, "Not indifferent, not indifferent."

He asked again, "Then what have you been thinking about this night?"

"You'll know in a while."

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Xu Weichen didn't give him permission, so it was useless for He Zhan to ask. Finally, he said that it was time to prepare for the lecture, and He Zhan also left for the activity center. Go early to grab a good seat.

After waiting for more than ten minutes, Xu Weichen finally came onto the stage, still looking polite, smiled politely at the hundreds of students in the audience, and clicked on the PPT.

There was a commotion in the audience, and the theme displayed on Xu Weichen's PPT was-college students' love and mental health.

This is completely different from the topic of the business school speech!

Xu Weichen said into the microphone: "Considering that the School of Literature has a relatively large proportion of love groups, I temporarily switched the theme."

There was a burst of laughter from the audience, but He Zhan couldn't laugh. He had a bad premonition in his heart.

Xu Weichen switched the PPT and asked the audience: "What do you guys understand about the word 'falling in love'?"

When this kind of topic came up, this group of college students was more active than one another. Some people answered more formally, love is about heart-to-heart communication, and some people shook their wits and said that it had nothing to do with me.

Xu Weichen locked on the pair belonging to He Zhan among hundreds of pairs of eyes, looked at him and said, "Is there any classmate who is in a relationship, can you share your love experience with you?"

He Zhan almost couldn't help laughing out loud in public, he raised his little hand in coordination with Xu Weichen, and shouted loudly: "Professor, I."

Xu Weichen looked unfamiliar with him, "Then ask this classmate to talk about your love troubles?"

He Zhan thought about it seriously: "Other things are fine, what if my partner is a control freak?"

The students present burst into laughter. He Zhan is quite famous in the Faculty of Arts, the kind everyone knows, and most people's impression of him is that he conflicted with Xu Weichen in class, thinking that He Zhan stood up to cause trouble .

Who knew that Xu Weichen would reply him seriously: "This classmate raised a very good question, so can you explain it in detail?"

He Zhan said in his heart what the fuck you look like, don't you know? On the surface, he said politely: "In detail, he has a strong personality and wants to control me in everything, but I don't really care about it." How do you like being controlled by others? It was alright at the beginning, but later on I became angry when I was controlled too much, especially because I like street dancing and he refused to let me dance. This is a bit of a bottom line problem, and then I quarreled with him.”

Xu Weichen asked him: "Then does he know that hip-hop is your bottom line?"

He Zhan was stunned for a moment, "It seems... I don't know."

"This touches on a very important issue. Regarding communication, from the very beginning you thought that you were on opposite sides. You chose to hide instead of discussing. You covered up the problem in order to make the other party happy. In the end, the contradictions became bigger and bigger until Explosion." Xu Weichen analyzed to him clearly.

At first, He Zhan felt a little ashamed, and in front of hundreds of people, he pulled out the short stories of the two parents. Unexpectedly, Xu Weichen really analyzed it with him, and used the name of the lecture to reason with He Zhan. .

Xu Weichen continued: "If your significant other is present, I want to tell him that equality in love is also very important. Regardless of their status or status, two people in love are always equal. No one has to listen to the other. , and no one has to compromise, he should say sorry to you."

He Zhan raised his eyebrows and smiled, "Okay, I accept."

Xu Weichen looked at He Zhan earnestly through the sea of ​​people, his eyes were full of tenderness, "But for lovers, you should be honest enough, no matter whether it is good or bad, you should have no reservations, you think you can do it ?"

He Zhan said: "He will know after this lecture is over."

Xu Weichen smiled, "Thank you for sharing, please sit down."

He Zhan started the lecture, and Xu Weichen narrated around He Zhan's little troubles in love—in fact, his own. was flirting with him.

It's amazing, he's out of breath now, how could such a good Xu Weichen be willing to be angry.

He nodded to the blue hair next to him: "Green hair, I decided to shake hands with Xu Weichen and make peace, he is actually quite a nice person."

Lan Mao: "...My name is Lan Mao, what, my name is Chen Fang Qiuyang."

Chen Fangqiuyang slowly typed on the phone: Mr. Wall, anonymous submission, what should I do if my friend is obsessed with creating a persona that doesn't fit with my boyfriend?

Mr. Wall: ... This student, are you addicted to submitting articles?If you really hold back your thoughts, we will meet in the cafeteria tomorrow, can you talk to me?