I suspect you are not a good student

Evening self-study posted the weekly test results, and everyone was dumbfounded by the scores followed by the first name on the head.

Xia Wanli stopped talking and returned to the third row, but Chi Che, as the second child of Wannian, was finally dumbfounded.

Usually, everyone is clearly active in the top three of liberal arts at the level of [-]. Why did Xie Chuhong directly come to [-] this time?

Seeing the score, Zhou Shiyi found that Xie Chuhong was not as relaxed as everyone imagined.

He had already said to himself that everyone already thought he was very good every time he got a score of [-] in the test, but if he really performed well and got a score of [-], which is not embarrassing or embarrassing, then everyone would respect him. In an instant, my expectation changed from Hong Kong University to Qingbei.

Xie Chuhong finally met what he feared the most. After reading his scores, many people said that their school will leave Qingbei this year.

Even Chi Che intervened: "If you continue like this, it's time for my mother to treat you to dinner, Xie Chuhong."

Xie Chuhong was helpless: "Your mother is not my mother. I took the [-] exam, so why would you invite me to dinner?"

"I want to ask you what your secret is." Chi Che said, "If you take the [-] exam twice, my mother can really do it."

No one would believe that his mother could do this.

"At least wait until I get [-] in the exam." Xie Chuhong teased.

Qingbei recruits students from Hong Kong, and each year it costs [-], but Hong Kong University only needs [-].

The levels of middle schools in Hong Kong are not clear. Almost every school has good students and poor students. Although the No. [-] Middle School is a provincial key, it is still a little worse than those in other schools. Usually, there are a few Hong Kong universities in the first few sections of liberal arts. It's time for the grade director to set off firecrackers, let alone a sudden six hundred and six like Xie Chuhong.

"Six hundred and sixty-six are barely enough to pass the Qingbei threshold. Whether you can get in is a problem, and you can't choose a major." Xie Chuhong laughed, "And this is a weekly exam."

Chi Che seriously shook his head: "You don't understand, my mother pays attention to the equality of exams, and all exams are equally important in my mother's eyes, so it doesn't matter whether you take weekly exams or individual exams."

"Then if your mother invites me, it's better to ask for a tithe." Compared to his own grades, Xie Chuhong is obviously more concerned about his deskmate, "I think it's miraculous to think that he failed in math and can still pass a single line."

Zhou Shiyi who failed math again: "..."

The Disciplinary Committee just came back after reading the results: "Zhou Shiyi is really invincible. When we first came to our class, we could only get [-] at the bottom of the exam. In just a few days, we jumped up to [-]."

Zhou Shiyi waved his hand immediately: "It was taught by Chu Hong."

But Xie Chuhong didn't give face: "I teach you math every day, and you only passed the monthly exam in math. How can I teach you well?"

Zhou Shiyi scratched the back of his head: "Yes, it will take some time..."

How humble he was in front of his classmates on the spot, but as soon as he got home at night, he started to look for Qiu Yun and Zhou Changde with his report card, and the first sentence he said when he entered the door: "Dad! Mom! I failed math again!"

Uncles and aunts are incredible: "...you didn't pass the exam, why are you so silly."

Zhou Shiyi: "But I passed five hundred and three! I can pass one line!"

Uncle and aunt: "!"

Qiuyun hugged Zhou Shiyi's profile and chirped, "Why is my son so good!"

Zhou Shiyi looked at Chuhong in embarrassment: "Didn't you say it's time to kiss?"

"Oh, I'm happy!"

Qiuyun's flattery made Zhou Shiyi feel embarrassed: "It's just a weekly exam, not a big exam."

Qiu Yun only felt that the annoyance she had been made by the boy group couple during the day disappeared immediately: "The weekly exam is also an exam!"

Xie Chuhong thought that a few compliments were enough, but Zhou's mother took Zhou Shiyi's arm and began to ask questions while sitting on the sofa.

Trying to figure out how this total score came about, why I failed in mathematics before, but this time I was able to pass [-] in the exam.

Xie Chuhong sat down and thought about it carefully. The last monthly exam seemed to have such a process.

It's just that he was a little absent-minded at the time and didn't take it to heart.

"His mother will ask very carefully every time." Zhou Changde put the cut fruit plate in front of him.

Xie Chuhong thanked and continued: "Auntie is very concerned about tithe."

If it were him, even if Yan Ruoruo wanted to hear it, he wouldn't want to talk about it.

It is difficult to explain to the parents clearly about those random questions and subjects, but Zhou Shiyi answered everything in detail.

Quite proficiently using various rankings and the data of the whole class and the whole grade to give Qiuyun a specific concept, even explaining which day to study which question type to what time.

Really, one speaks patiently, and the other listens patiently.

It is difficult to convince people that this is not a habit that has been accumulated for many years.

Zhou Changde asked the child in front of him, "Did you do well in the exam this time?"

Xie Chuhong smiled: "No, I did well in the exam."

Speaking of this, Zhou Shiyi had to interject, and raised his head and shouted: "Chuhong passed the six hundred and sixty exam!"

Qiuyun: "!"

"Why are you not happy at all after taking the [-] exam, so I dare not ask you how much you passed the exam!" Qiu Yun glared at her son as she spoke, "Can you learn from others, who are [-] times higher than you? Sandu is so calm!"

Xie Chuhong didn't even know how to explain this question.

Zhou Changde said: "You can make preparations, and I may come to ask you later."

"what?"

"Just to ask how you passed the exam."

Xie Chuhong didn't understand, what's the point of asking, isn't that how he got it?

Qiuyun corrected: "Of course not! I haven't seen anyone else pass the test like that. You must have done a lot of hard work that others haven't done."

Xie Chuhong choked up.

Regarding what he did for the score, he never thought about describing it to anyone.

Zhou Shiyi helped him answer.

"I know that Chuhong organizes his notes between classes. Although it is very simple, there are only a few words in Gogou's notes, but he sorts them out every day."

"Throw away the draft paper when it is used up, and throw away the materials after writing, because the useful points have been written down separately, so there are very few things."

"There is also a special notebook for scoring. It only writes numbers. I didn't know what it was for before. Later, Chu Hong told me that it was calculated for due scores and mistakes. Every time, I will look for problems very seriously."

"I don't procrastinate when I do my homework, and I start writing when I get it, unlike me who procrastinates."

……

"Chuhong doesn't go to bed early every day, but he is doing useful things."

"I seldom use messy things when playing on my mobile phone, it is very purposeful..."

"No, wait." Xie Chuhong was already confused by this list. If Zhou Shiyi didn't say it, he wouldn't be able to remember that he was like this, "I don't like to brush messy things, what does it have to do with my exam?"

"Of course it has something to do with it!" Qiu Yun and Zhou Shiyi's unanimous denial startled him.

"It's a matter of habit." Qiu Yun said earnestly, "It's not your brain that makes you get high marks in the exam, it's the habits you've developed."

Later, Zhou Changdecai told him in private that this was Qiuyun's parenting scriptures from somewhere, saying that children should not be praised, but should be encouraged.

Xie Chuhong didn't understand the difference between the two.

"Praise is to say that you are great only when you get a good result, but encouragement is to guide you to speak out about the efforts you have made to achieve this result."

The difference is that they focus more on the process, make it clear that "success" consists of hard work, and they are not afraid to pay no matter what the final result is.

Zhou Changde pointedly told him: "I won't feel ashamed that I can't complete the challenge."

Xie Chuhong was stunned.

In his ear, Zhou Shiyi was still talking about the minutiae that he never cared about.

Xie Chuhong thought that Qiuyun would only be polite after listening to it, but she touched the back of Zhou Shiyi's head and said, "I'm mentally balanced, I shouldn't always secretly think that you are inferior to your brother."

"I've always been very balanced." Zhou Shiyi grinned in satisfaction.

As a person who sticks with Xie Chuhong every day, he actually hates that everyone always attributes Xie Chuhong's good grades to his innate intelligence.

The reason why good people are "easy" is because they have done it thousands of times, and when they show it to you, it has long been the result of practice makes perfect.

Qiu Yun happily patted her son on the shoulder: "Hurry up, son, you can still be saved."

"...I'm rushing, I'm rushing."

Qiu Yun clicked her tongue: "Sure enough, there are no geniuses at all."

Hearing this sentence, Xie Chuhong suddenly felt relieved.

I even felt that my previous concerns were a bit naive.

During the period of moving into Zhou's house, Xie Chuhong gradually got used to the life of four people in one room.

Every day after school, there is prepared fruit, and he will be asked for his opinion at breakfast the next day. Sometimes there are few study arrangements, so the family sits together and chats casually, caring about their school life.

An Yi made him forget about the things in Beijing, sometimes smelling the smell of the food, he would think that he was back when Xie Hecheng was still there, and he was very divided.

The only thing that reminded him of the difference was Monday.

"Brother, save me a sip of soy milk!"

Xie Chuhong played volleyball with them recently, and he was sweating and cold, and caught a cold when the wind blew, and his head was dizzy. He didn't get up from the bed after hearing the alarm clock early this morning. It was his brother who sat on the table and found that he hadn't come out yet. , just call.

Zhou Shiyi waved at him: "Come over and have a drink, take your breakfast to the classroom, and I've already put the paper in your bag for you."

He now hears Xie Chuhong call "Brother" every day, and it's kind of like taking care of others.

As soon as Qiuyun heard the shout in the kitchen, she took the last cup of five-grain soymilk left in the soymilk machine and put it in a sealed cup, and was walking out saying "there is soymilk here", when she was stunned by the scene on the dining table .

The remaining half of "no points" is stuck in the throat, unable to get out.

Xie Chuhong didn't even think about it, picked up Zhou Shiyi's leftover soy milk and poured it into his mouth, and stretched out his other arm to ask Zhou Shiyi to put on his school uniform jacket.

The movements of the two were intimate and natural, and they managed to save Qiuyun a little at once, and then scattered them.

Zhou Shiyi looked up and called her.

"It's time to go, Mom, I've already packed Chuhong's breakfast."

Qiu Yun regained consciousness slowly: "Okay... There is still a cup of soy milk here, put it in your bag too, you go to the door to change your shoes first."

Zhou Shiyi never noticed this, Xie Chuhong's nose was still stuffed, and wanted to take his bag, but Zhou Shi saw that his nose was red, pitiful, and offered to help him carry it.

Later, when Qiuyun drove them to school, she watched Xie Chuhong leaning on his son's shoulder through the rearview mirror.

Zhou Shiyi frowned and checked his temperature several times, before going to the infirmary to buy cold medicine.

Xie Chuhong was annoyed by his reading, and he said fiercely, as if coquettishly: "Stop reading, your brain is going to explode!"

Zhou Shiyi quickly shut up: "Okay, you sleep."

The early morning sunlight slipped in through the half-open car window, and Zhou Shiyi raised his hand to block Xie Chuhong's eyelids. The boy could sleep soundly in his arms within a ten-minute journey.

Qiu Yun finally swallowed what she wanted to say, and only told her when the car stopped at last: "If you are really uncomfortable, remember to ask the class teacher for leave."

But Zhou Shiyi didn't seem to hear her, and he just watched Xie Chuhong get off the car wholeheartedly.

Note:

1. Different schools have different admission lines in different provinces, and the score status is also different. Don't get entangled, it's all my fault.

2. In order to raise these two cubs, at a young age, I present today’s parenting book (?

In terms of education methods, praise is the main focus, and it is easy to cultivate children's fixed thinking mode. They have burdens when meeting challenges, and shrink back because they are afraid that they will not be able to complete or receive praise.

Encouragement is the main way to cultivate children's growth thinking mode. Using inquiry or description to ask questions like "how did you do it?" will make children pay more attention to the process of hard work and not be afraid to meet challenges.