There is a wife at home

Since hearing Fu Wei's words last night, Guo Jingjing deliberately got up early today and came to the school. The uncle who opened the door hadn't gotten up yet. When he heard someone knocking on the door, he thought it was someone. He came so early and opened the door with his clothes on. It turned out to be the school Newly recruited substitute teacher.

The old man froze for a moment, and opened the school gate, Guo Jingjing called out: "Master, good morning."

The uncle was walking back. He was surprised by the shout and looked back at Guo Jingjing, thinking: This kid is usually like a stuffy gourd. He walks with the wind, and he passes by in the blink of an eye. Why is he still here today? Know how to say hello?

"Well, you're early too." And it's not normal early.

After the uncle finished speaking, he went back to the house. He didn't understand why the substitute teacher came so early today. He put on his clothes when he got back to the house, grabbed the rice and threw it into the pot to cook the porridge. He turned on the TV and put it on for morning. News, and then began to boil the water.

I don’t need an electric kettle to boil water. The kettle I use is half a meter high. A full pot of water can hold three water bottles. In the small shed with cement tiles next to the student’s carport, the old man usually uses it. He sorted out the branches picked up by flowers and plants in the school, and after drying them in bundles, he piled them there. When the water was boiling, the stove was placed on the small iron shelf. The middle of the kettle was hollow, and the firewood was put into it. Just burn it.

This morning there was a news about a kindergarten driver hurting a little girl. The old man was so angry that he sat there gnashing his teeth for a while, until the porridge boiled on the stove overturned the lid of the pot, and there was a bang on the ground. Pat leg: "Oops, my boiled water!"

Electric kettles consume a lot of electricity. Boiling water can save money. The key point is that the hollow area of ​​the kettle is too small to fill in too much firewood, so someone must watch it when it is burning, so as to prevent the fire from being dismantled. It's gone.

The uncle patted his thigh and walked out quickly, and saw Guo Jingjing, who thought he had left early, was standing beside the kettle, picking up sparks with tongs, the red glowing fire shone on the young man's face, full of vigor.

The uncle squinted his eyes for a while, turned around and turned off the porridge on the stove first, then took the boiling water bottle and came out.

Walking in front of Guo Jingjing, Guo Jingjing quickly put down the pliers and stood aside. The uncle put down the water bottle and looked at the fire. It was very prosperous. On the branches of the magnolia tree, the dry leaves like boats were dyed by the fire. .

The uncle looked up at Guo Jingjing and asked, "You came so early, did you come to see me for something?"

Guo Jingjing nodded honestly: "Yes."

"Then why didn't you ask me when I opened the door? Standing here for so long?"

Guo Jingjing said, "You're not dressed properly, it's cold in the morning."

This means that the uncle understands it. To put it bluntly, he is afraid that he will be frozen. The uncle did not expect this stunned young man to be quite careful.

"Then why don't you come in and ask me?"

Guo Jingjing thought for a while and said, "It's not convenient, you don't like me very much."

The uncle was taken aback, he had seen someone who said that he didn't like me behind his back, but he had never seen someone say that directly in front of him, he laughed in his heart, the wrinkles at the corners of his eyes deepened, he nodded and said: "That's right, I don't like you very much. Too irresponsible, nowadays, few children of your age are likable, they are all spoiled young masters by the family."

Guo Jingjing pouted, with displeasure written on his face.

The uncle saw it, hehe smiled and said: "Why? I'm old, can't I just say a word to you?"

"Okay," Guo Jingjing deserved affirmation, "but you have to tell the truth."

"Hey!" The uncle was amused, "I dare say that you are a young master, do you think I have wronged you?"

"En!" Guo Jingjing really dared to nod.

The uncle was stared straight at him, this kid... the ability to irritate people is really not ordinary.

Guo Jingjing said again: "Grandpa, it's not that I didn't dare to come to school yesterday. I was sick. I was caught in the rain and had a fever, so I couldn't come." Taking a deep breath, he nodded and asked Guo Jingjing, "It seems that you also have a problem with me? Then what is the meaning of you running around me this early in the morning?"

Guo Jingjing said, "I want you to be my teacher and teach me how to be a good teacher."

The uncle now only has the strength to roll his eyes. Is this the attitude of looking for him as a teacher?Are you sure you didn't come to ask for an account?Guo Jingjing said without giving the uncle time to refuse, and said with a distressed face: "Guo Xiaonian is very unpopular in class, and everyone doesn't like to play with him. In fact, Guo Xiaonian has nothing wrong with him except for his stubborn temper. Okay, the last time he fought with He Dongdong, I actually thought that he probably didn't really hit anyone, but Lin Qian said that he did. If he really didn't fight, it means that the children in the class not only don't play with him, And don't like him very much."

The uncle's eyes darkened. What's the situation? He hasn't agreed yet. This kid is fine, so he started directly.

"Yesterday, Guo Xiaonian was taken to the office, and Teacher Zhao called him..."

"Ms. Zhao beat the child again?" This point successfully aroused the uncle's attention, "What age is it now? Do it if you don't move it, you have to reason with the child, all the children are smart now, what? Can’t communicate? Let’s get started!” Guo Jingjing blinked and looked at the uncle, really angry. He thought for a while and said, “Mr. The uncle's eyeballs almost popped out, "There is only one baby in every household now, and it's not like she hasn't encountered parents coming to school to argue, why is she so clueless!"

Although the uncle accused Mr. Zhao of not beating someone, he also cared about Mr. Zhao in his words.

The two discussed the issue of beating the child, and Guo Jingjing just entered the uncle's hut.

The uncle served Guo Jingjing a bowl of porridge that he planned to keep for dinner, and the two sat facing each other on a somewhat worn-out table. "Mr. Zhao was very angry when he was young, and he always had a straight face. The older he got, the more fierce his aura became. He believed that under the stick, there would be high-achieving apprentices. At that time, the child was disobedient. When he said that Teacher Zhao was coming, he immediately behaved. Sitting still, some children can directly cry in fear, alas, but the children in the past were dumbfounded, and it was normal for them to be beaten by the teacher, and no one would go back and tell their parents, but it is different now. Now the children are all spoiled. Such good milk grows up, like little adults, don’t look at them small, what do you say they don’t understand? Let me tell you, they all understand! That little thought is like a bright mirror.”

"Then what does it take to be a good teacher?"

The uncle turned his head to look at Guo Jingjing, Guo Jingjing had a serious expression on his face.

The uncle smiled and said: "It's actually very simple. Don't think too much of yourself, and don't think that children are ignorant when they are young. In fact, children are the most sensitive in the world. They look like they have a small radar on them." , who is really good to him, who is not good to him, they are very sensitive, and if you are too good to this child, it will make him depend on you, and if you are not good to that child, it will make him fear you , So, when you get along with children, you can’t do it according to your own preferences, your goal is not to like who or not, but to create a learning atmosphere that makes all children happy.”

It was almost time for school, the uncle got up and cleaned up the bowls and chopsticks, and when he went to Guo Jingjing to collect the empty bowl, Guo Jingjing stood up and handed the bowl up with both hands. It seems that he misunderstood before, if this is the case, then teach him more.

While washing the dishes, the uncle said: "Don't be serious with the children, you have to be patient with them, teach them things don't use indoctrination, you have to subtly change them, don't just know how to yell at the children, you should If you can't remember it, you still can't remember it, and it will make the child feel disgusted or self-defeating. In fact, children nowadays are under a lot of pressure. Maybe you have experienced it and you don't think it's a problem, but what are the children doing? They don't understand, they are small and have little experience, so their ability to withstand pressure is naturally small, it's nothing to you, but it's a big deal to them; You can’t do it yourself, so why ask your students to do it? Teachers also do things wrong, and you apologize when you make a mistake. Many teachers will think, oh, if I admit that I was wrong, how much do I have to do in front of the students? It's embarrassing."

The old man spoke very vividly, and even his expressions were in place. Guo Jingjing found it very interesting, and sat there all the time, like a student who listened carefully.

"Actually, if you don't admit your mistake, it will make the students look down on you even more. If you admit your mistake, then you have set an example for your children. The first grade you are leading now, right? Children of this age love to imitate. Their ability to imitate Very strong, and no matter what you do, he will instinctively learn from you, imitate you, and then become a habit. What is the hardest thing to change in this world? Isn’t it just those habits that you develop unconsciously? ..."

This morning, until the time of going to school, the uncle talked a lot with Guo Jingjing. The key point is that the expression of the uncle’s language is very interesting. Many people don’t like to chat with the elderly. They feel bored and tired. In addition, the uncle gave him examples, telling a lot of truths like telling a story, Guo Jingjing listened and felt that he had really benefited a lot.

When class was about to start, Guo Jingjing hurried into the office and found that the colleagues who had dinner with him yesterday started to greet him today.

"Good morning, Mr. Guo." "Morning, Mr. Guo, have you had breakfast yet?"

"Have eaten, thank you."

Guo Jingjing sat on the office chair, although his face was still expressionless, but he was still very excited until Mr. Zhao came. Mr. Zhao still had a face that no strangers should enter, his hair was coiled behind his head, combed meticulously, When walking past Guo Jingjing, Guo Jingjing got up and said, "Mr. Zhao, if what happened yesterday made you feel uncomfortable, I apologize to you." He told the old man what happened yesterday, and the old man told him , Although Mr. Zhao did something wrong, saying that she is not qualified to be a teacher in front of other teachers is disrespectful to her education career for so many years. For this, he should apologize to Mr. Zhao.

"No, I can't bear it," Teacher Zhao obviously didn't appreciate it. At this moment, the bell for self-study had already rang, and Teacher Zhao raised his eyelids to look at him. "Are you going or should I go? After all, the principal has already said hello to me, it doesn't matter if you go or not."

"I'll go. I will attend my morning self-study in the future. Thank you, Mr. Zhao, two days ago."

After Guo Jingjing finished speaking, he picked up his textbook and walked out of the office door. Fu Wei chased after him and patted him on the shoulder.

"Mr. Guo, you are honest. Teacher Zhao is very fussy. Aren't you making yourself uncomfortable by apologizing at this time?" Guo Jingjing pursed his lips and said, "Whether she accepts it is her problem. The important thing is, She is a senior, it was really wrong for me to say that in the office yesterday, since I was wrong, I should apologize to her, so that I can have a clear conscience."

Fu Wei was speechless for a while, so he gave Guo Jingjing a thumbs up.