The old lady of the Lin family in Honglou

Fate is sometimes so simple, and it will appear in other ways after going around in circles.

As soon as Tongyu came in, she saw Yinglian pouting her mouth. After greeting her grandmother, she stepped forward to touch her little sister. This was the interaction between their sisters.Seeing that Yinglian was still pouting, he patted her head, "What's wrong with Yinglian? Who messed with our good sister?"

Daiyu shook her head and looked at Yinglian curiously, "Sister Lian is angry?"

"Sister Tongyu, a big brother came here just now, he is so rude, looking around is not counted, but he even peeked at me and my sister, I glared at him angrily, but he still laughed." Yinglian pulled Tongyu and said complained.

"Hehe, it's not a lady for Yinglian to do this."

"Hmph, that's because that person was too rude. Grandma, don't you think so?" Yinglian puffed her mouth and leaned on Lin Lin.

"Hehe, it was her rudeness that offended our Yinglian." Lin Lin said with a smile.

"Grandmother, I was at my mother's just now, and my mother praised them a lot. It's a pity that Tongyu didn't see that sister Baochai." Tongyu asked with some doubts.

"Sister, Sister Baochai followed her mother with a smile on her face. She looked much better than her brother, but I saw her sitting there upright, it was hard work, isn't that sister tired? Look She seems to be laughing all the time? She is far worse than her sister, not as good-looking as her sister." Yinglian said quickly.

"Also, I think that sister seems to be saying that she is better than me, how strange?"

"Our family, Yinglian, is really careful in observing, but Yinglian will have to study hard with the nanny in the future, otherwise, if you go out to visit other people's homes, they will tell you if you don't do well." Lin Lin taught along the way.

Although Zhen Yinglian won't live in Lin's house for long, she will still be able to teach what needs to be taught. Lin Lin asked Jia Min to arrange a foster mother for Zhen Yinglian. Although Yinglian is young, maybe she has experienced many things and is very obedient , Learn everything very carefully.

"I will listen carefully to Mammy's words." Yinglian said seriously.

"I will also listen to Mammy." Daiyu also said beside her.

"Hehe, our Daiyu also wants to be a lady from childhood." Tongyu laughed beside her.

"That's for sure, Daddy likes Daiyu the most." Daiyu said with her head held up proudly.

Everyone laughed, Lin Ruhai really liked Daiyu very much, and even took Daiyu out to go shopping in person, although Tongyu was also very envious, but she also knew that it was uncomfortable for her to go out with her father like that, and besides, her father also took her for outings, Now there are a lot of things to learn every day, and I have to review and comprehend after class, so I don’t have so much time.

Although Yinglian can't go out, every time Daiyu brings back a lot of things, she is very happy. After all, she is a guest, and it is difficult for Uncle Lin to take care of her alone, so it is better to be obedient.

Jia Min felt that Tongyu was divorced from her, so she was attached to Daiyu. According to her own ideas, she wanted to train Daiyu to be a talented girl from an early age. The original Tongyu was much stronger.Yinglian also learned a lot on the side.

Daiyu is very obedient and obedient, she can learn whatever she is taught, Lin Ruhai is not willing to give up, and takes Daiyu out to play at intervals, after a few times, everyone in the house knows that the Patriarch's favorite is the little lady.

"You have to remember that Tongyu is the same, no matter where you are, you can praise others when you see good things. It's fine in your heart, but you still have to remind yourself that you can't know like others?"

Lin Lin hopes that these children can pay more attention to their lives. When they go outside, they are always very picky. They don't want the best, but they can't be gossiped by others. It will have a great impact on the children who have not left the cabinet, especially Tongyu. I have to prepare to say goodbye, otherwise Lin Lin would not let Lin Ruhai often take Tongyu to the countryside for outings. It was rumored in the early years that the influence of Tongyu's poor health is not easy to break, so I had to use actions to explain Tongyu's The body is very good, so as to dispel people's doubts.

After the two little ones went out, Lin Lin said to Tongyu, "Did you see the guests?"

"Well, I saw it from a distance, but I don't think it's as good as I heard." Tong Yu nodded.

"Hehe, I want to see you. It was my grandmother who told me not to let you come. They are very different from our family. There is no need to come here specially. Since you have seen it, just follow your own judgment." Jia Min asked Tongyu left school early, and Lin Lin let Tongyu go to class as usual, but when the class was over, Mrs. Xue and the others happened to go out, and Tongyu could be seen from a distance in the veranda.

"This Mrs. Xue is the younger sister of your little aunt. Her husband's family is a wealthy businessman in Jinling. Her vision is a little bit bad. That daughter was brought up by her side. On the surface, she learned the rules well, but she was too rigid. It's far away, if you hire a nurturing nanny, it's not bad compared to you, that young master is obviously the kind who is spoiled and reluctant to be educated."

"Grandmother, their family is a wealthy businessman, so they won't be able to afford to hire a husband?" Tongyu asked doubtfully.

"Hehe, there's a lot to say here, and we don't know what it means. But you have to remember, what is important for this girl when she gets married in the future, one is that the husband and wife are of one heart, this woman must Guard your own heart and distinguish what is good for you. Even if your husband will put all his thoughts on you in the future, you must maintain a certain amount of reason, otherwise you will suffer a big loss. If your husband is eccentric, then you should Note that the most important thing is to live a good life and live comfortably.”

Tongyu knew that her grandmother was teaching her, so she listened carefully and remembered.

"Being like your father is good to your mother, but there are not many people like ours in the world. Your younger brothers and sisters don't live here, otherwise the family will not be so clean. There are many struggles in the back house. Yes, first for favor, then for heirs, and finally for property, these nuns have taught them, you can't be careless, you have seen how other brothers and sisters get along outside, if you are careless Yes, it will suffer in the future."

"Grandma raised your father, and she has exhausted a lot of her mind. Now looking at your father's achievements and seeing your brother's future, she is satisfied. She doesn't want to take care of other things, but there are a few families like In our family, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law and brother-in-law is a very important subject, the mother has already explained it, and she will teach it carefully, and you should remember it carefully, these are all related to your future." Lin Lin Looking at Tong Yu said.

"Secondly, they are heirs. You must take good care of your body while you are young, and give birth to a son-in-law earlier. It is best to have a few more children. This is the guarantee of your future life. Only then can you stand firm in your husband's family." , otherwise the pressure will increase over time, and the greater the pressure in the heart, the less likely it will be to conceive. You have a poor foundation, you must pay attention to exercise more, taking too much medicine will also affect the body, it is really inconvenient to practice secretly in the room , Grandma has taught you, and there are many ways to exercise in the room, but these are not elegant works, just let people guard against others."

Tongyu's health is not good. In the past two years, Lin Lin has taught a lot of indoor exercise methods, and Tongyu is also practicing seriously. The people around Tongyu don't know.Tongyu also knew that her health was inseparable from these things, so she said seriously that she would pay attention.

"The other thing is to raise your children. You must raise your children strictly, and you can't pamper them. Otherwise, you will be harming them. Only by raising them well can you live a comfortable life in the future and survive in your husband's house. "

"Like Mrs. Xue, she comes from an official family, and her natal family is powerful, so she naturally thinks she is superior in the eyes of her husband's family. Because of her natal family relationship, people in her husband's family dare not do anything to her, and she gave birth early in the morning. The eldest son, the husband's family will naturally support her and spoil her, do you think she has stabilized herself?"

Tongyu was puzzled, and looked at her grandmother seeking solutions.

"Everyone around is holding it up. If you are not clear-headed, you will easily lose yourself. Like Mrs. Xue, if she hadn't spoiled Xue's son everywhere and intervened in her husband's education, Xue's son would not have developed such a temperament. The eldest son shoulders the inheritance of the family. If he is not well-bred, he will either be bullied by others in the future, or he will be too arrogant to commit crimes. If the younger generation is not promising, basically this family will not be left behind. Mrs. Xue just can't see her own situation clearly. in self-destructive future."

Tongyu was puzzled, "How could it be so serious?"

"A wealthy businessman must have a lot of property in his family. Can such a person, without the ability, be able to keep such a large amount of wealth? Mrs. Xue thinks very highly of herself. If she can't let go, the relationship with her husband's family will naturally be bad. If something happens in the future, her family will be slaughtered lambs, and there will be no one in the clan to help and protect, after all, the interests are there."

"If Mrs. Xue's family has another heir, and the Xue family's ability is not good, will they hand over Nuo Da's family to him? If there is competition, there will be struggle. Will Mrs. Xue's life in her husband's family be as carefree as it is now? ?”

Tongyu was greatly impacted, she never imagined that her grandmother could tell so many things just by seeing Mrs. Xue once.Although my grandmother is teaching myself, there are many things that are difficult to understand, so I have to remember them first, sort them out later, and remind myself to pay attention in the future.

Seeing Tongyu thinking seriously, Lin Lin knew that Tongyu had listened to her words.

"Then Mrs. Xue is from an official family, but she forgot that her husband's family is a merchant. Although she has a lot of money, she is always prejudiced and looked down upon in society. With the daughter of the Xue family by her side, she will naturally be affected and behave everywhere. It's very good, it's really a good thing, but they have forgotten their own status. If the ladies of the official family are of equal origin, it's okay, but unfortunately they are not. After a long time, if the daughter of the Xue family develops an eye higher than the top, future Life will be unsatisfactory everywhere, and you will hit a wall everywhere.”

"So, children, no matter what happens in the future, you must position yourself properly so that you can do the right thing and live a happy life. Grandma just hopes that all of you children will live well."

"Well, grandma, I will have a good life in the future." Tongyu has learned a lot and knows a lot.Especially the monthly correspondence with my brother. I know my responsibility. It’s just because I’m not in good health, so my family has never mentioned it. Let me live comfortably. It’s okay if I don’t know. Now that I know, I have to work hard. , Try to do what you can do, so that you can live up to your grandmother's careful teaching.

Lin Lin said that she didn't hide it deliberately, and soon Jia Min knew something, and many thoughts flashed in her mind.