ask for a body to marry
Chapter 3 (24)
Reposting comments is very lively, and some discussions have few people, so they can only hang around in a few small circles and attract no one.This time, a topic appeared several times on Tian Lin's homepage. Although the popularity was not as high as the others, it also had thousands of comments and over ten thousand reposts.Most people in the circle have expressed their views on this, with mixed opinions.
This is what has occupied a lot of topics in the past few years and has been brought up every year-single birth.
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In the past, only a few provinces and cities had their own single childbearing policies, most of which were related to registration and whether to pay social maintenance fees.The proposal this time is to allow single births, not to apply to the whole flower country, not to charge social maintenance fees, and to register for household registration.
At the same time, in order not to conflict with the basic national policy of family planning, only one child is allowed during the single period. If married, the couple can only have one child even if they meet the requirements... There are a lot of regulations. Single parenthood.
Speaking of children, Tian Lin is actually not sure whether he likes children or not.Uh, since childhood, Tian Lin has never had much contact with children.I can only say that I don't seem to hate it, but I can't say that I like it very much, and I really want one.
However, as soon as the news came out, Tian Lin looked at his own stomach for a while, and Lin Tian's stomach for a while, always feeling that if there was a child inside, it would look very strange.And if Lintian is pregnant, will she also have a child in her womb, and will the child be twins when she is born.
Being sized up by such strange eyes, how could Lintian not respond.But now that she is in class, she can only use her eyes to tell Tian Lin to calm down and not to get angry anytime and anywhere.Without understanding the situation, it is normal to think that Tian Lin is thinking about something obscene. After all, the two of them have been messing around a lot recently.As I get older, I let go more and more.
After Tian Lin saw it, he continued to read the comments, took screenshots of all the interesting content in it, and prepared to watch it with Lin Tian after class.In addition to the proposals proposed by some people, there are still many big Vs who are taking this opportunity to popularize the policies of some provinces and cities that allow single births, and some people will educate everyone about how singles can obtain high-quality sperm.
After all, women who choose to have a single childbirth are most concerned about whether the next generation’s genes are good, and the sperm bank in Huaguo, which requires only a college degree or above, is enough to make most women give up. No matter how you look at it, it is not reliable .
Basically, all the attention is paid to single births of women, and it is rarely mentioned for men.Some caring people said it was discrimination, and it was also sprayed back. After all, there are no women. Where can a child come from? People who have only one cell should not say that the child is their own.
Now, under these topics, arguing started again. Everyone took turns giving examples and swearing about the truth, which was very lively.But in this case, it's easy to lose your mind.After Tian Lin said a few words, he stopped reading that Weibo.Similarly, I basically ignored the private messages and comments I received from strangers.She didn't come to quarrel, she was just collecting information to share with Lin Tian.
After knowing this, Lin Tian didn't show much interest in it.You have to wait until you can stabilize yourself to have a baby. Letting a life into this world casually is irresponsible to him/her.
Difficulties at work, things in life, her own research, and the title she wants to get, all these things are piled up in front of Lintian. Now she has no time to think about her children.As for some information, it is not too late to check until it is really necessary to consider.Now that technology is updating so rapidly, what should I do if these contents are outdated after a few years.
Tian Lin thought so too, wanting to have a child was just something she felt after seeing the news.Speaking of giving birth and raising a child, she imagined it based on what she had heard, seen and seen, and she felt that it was a hard job.
Moreover, Tian Lin felt that she should be sterile, after all, she didn't come to her aunt, and she didn't have symptoms of ovulation.Even when Lin Tian became a human being when she came to her aunt, she only felt like liquid was flowing, but in fact there was nothing.
She and Lintian also felt the same in this regard. In other cases, no matter where Lintian hits the pain or she feels the pain, the other person will not feel it, unless the two of them bump into each other.Only in an unexplainable part, they have a strange similar feeling.This also saves them a lot of work at some special moments.Just one person is enough.
Of course, these feelings are still related to the distance. When they are about ten meters away, the connection between the two will fade away.It will not happen that Tian Lin is too passionate at home, causing Lin Tian to be abnormal when he is in class.
As for why this situation happened and whether there is a possibility of solving it, Lin Tian and Tian Lin also tried to explore.However, after all, it is an indescribable part, and it can only feel under certain conditions.At that time, who still has time to care about the issue of empathy, do they have more important things to do.
However, since he only felt that there was no blood, Tian Lin could only excuse that he could not conceive.According to the biological knowledge she has learned, she should not have such a thing as ovulation, how can she get pregnant without eggs.But Tian Lin didn't doubt at all, if Lin Tian was pregnant, would she have sensory problems.
Although you won't feel it if you stay ten meters away from the forest field, as a partner, how can you keep a distance from your lover.Maybe when Lin Tian gave birth, he could accompany him in the delivery room.Think about it, people give birth on the bed, and you feel it next to you.Her ability to tolerate pain is not as strong as Lin Tian's. After all, she has only had the feeling of pain for more than ten years, and because of the small number of injuries, she has no endurance.
Don't worry that Lin Tian, who was on the bed, hadn't started shouting yet, but was still enduring and gathering strength.I couldn't stand it and yelled out, and then I was kicked out by the doctors and nurses in the name of hindering the delivery.Just thinking about it makes me feel sick.
But it's really too early to think about this now. Tian Lin deleted the picture of rolling outside the delivery room with his stomach in his arms after being kicked out by the doctor in his mind, and he would definitely not become a human by then.But if she doesn't become an adult, if Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei are no longer there, wouldn't Lin Tian have a child alone?If they were there and he didn't show up, it would be even more unreasonable.
In other words, no matter what, she must appear as a human being, and as Lintian's partner, she cannot back down.But now I just think about that scene, and my heart is trembling, if that day really comes.Tian Lin shuddered. It's really great that Lin Tian doesn't want to have a baby now, and she doesn't want to have one either.There are two people in the family is enough, one more mouth would be troublesome.Well, the world of two is very good, no third party is needed.
Lin Tian didn't know yet, but he only talked to Tian Lin a few times during the break.Tian Lin has already thought of something far away.During class time, compared to Tian Lin who just sat there and didn't listen to the class, she focused more on the ppt and the blackboard.After all, there are still some students who don't listen to the lectures very much. In order not to let his mind get stuck, Lin Tian can't see or worry, just read the handouts, or write on the blackboard, and try to look down as little as possible.
After the morning class, Lin Tian has no afternoon classes. Normally, she would go to the laboratory at this time, but today Tian Lin felt that something was wrong, and she had the illusion that she suddenly became stupid. For the sake of her own body and mind, Lin Tian decisively They took people home and asked why.
Countless painful lessons in the past told her that if she found something wrong with Tian Lin, she should immediately counsel her.Don't suffocate people, you will be the one who gets hurt in the end.Although no major disasters have occurred so far, it cannot be taken lightly.My life is closely related to Tian Lin, and when something happens, there is no time to cry.
Tian Lin was thinking about a lot, first about the child, and after making a decision that he would not have children in the near future, preferably not in his lifetime.She also thought about the issue of marriage related to the return of children. Marriage was out of reach for her and Lin Tian.But which couple didn't think about it?But how many people got that little book?
Same-sex marriage has been legal abroad for many years, and I don't know how many couples have registered.But in Huaguo, it can only become one of the topics. There are same-sex/lover appeals every year, and people bring it up every year, but so far there is still no legal time.
No matter how much public opinion helps, there are still a large number of people who do not agree, and even think that homosexuality is pathological and anti-human.As many people appeal on the Internet, there are as many people saying disgusting.The change of concept cannot be corrected in a moment. It has been more than 20 years since it was abolished in textbooks, and the concept of "this is a disease" can still be seen in scattered speeches.I have to say, the future is slim.
Once a person thinks too much, it is not easy to stop, and it is especially easy to develop in a strange direction.Tian Lin began to think about marriage, but later it became about what would be on the marriage certificate if it was approved, what would everyone say, how many people would register... In short, from the very beginning, can not stop.
Especially once he and Lin Tian can get married, what will their future life be like.After returning home, I won't worry about my parents separating people, after all, they are all married.And the marriage certificate is said to be legal, so they can do more embarrassing things.They don't have to worry about being found out by neighbors and there will be some bad messages.
After thinking about it, Tian Lin turned to the land of pollution. A bag of decontamination rice can no longer save her mind.When Lin Tian led people home, holding Lin Tian's hand, Tian Lin could think of what his hands could be used for, and really wanted to throw himself on Lin Tian as soon as he got home.
However, this ideal has not been realized. On a March day, it was still cold outside. Lin Tian, who could figure out what she was thinking when he heard his lover's laughter, pushed him into the water.Calm down first and then have a good talk. This is also the first step in many of their conversations.
As for the marriage that Tian Lin is thinking about, I don’t want to talk about it. From being proposed to trying out a policy and finally implementing it, it will take ten or twenty years for a policy to be completed. Now she can only think about it for herself. In the name of getting angry.
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If there is no success in one year, there will be three, five or even ten years, and the policy will always change. As long as you live longer, you will get better and better.Whether it is Lin Tian or Tian Lin, they didn't regard this proposal as certain to be realized, but just yelled at the possibility in their hearts, and when chatting with others, they all talked about their lifetimes.
However, the story of such a lifetime was realized three years later.Of course, at this time, Lin Tian was busy publishing papers and preparing for the title evaluation, so he paid much less attention to this aspect.Tian Lin is busy with his own business, and at least he has sold the film and television rights, so he has to do some publicity for the film.Although the copyright fee is so much, you can also take the opportunity to advertise the new article, right?
In addition to them, there are still people who pay attention to single births.Those netizens who applaud single births on the Internet may not necessarily agree with this policy, but many people in the lesbian community think it is a good way to have their own children with their partners.Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei are no exception.
When Lin Tian contacted Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei for the nth time, he discovered that something was wrong between the two opposite people.This is the first time they have met in the past two months, because two months ago, the two suddenly wanted to travel to the United States.Originally, he wanted to take advantage of Lintian's summer vacation to take her as a guide, but because of school affairs, Lintian couldn't make the trip.
Afterwards, the two played in the United States for more than two months, posting photos in Moments every day to abuse dogs.Even if Lin Tian and Tian Lin are no longer abused by the photos showing affection, and can make better moves, they still can't resist seeing someone idle when they are busy.
At that time, Lin Tian also said that summer vacation is the best time to make up lessons. Zhang Meimei didn't take advantage of this period to go to class every day to earn money, but went out to play instead. It was a waste of a good opportunity.Tian Lin automatically understood this as resentment from his fellow teacher.
Zhang Meimei is a tutor. If she doesn't want to take on the job, she won't get a commission. The basic salary is pitifully low, and she may even be fired.Lin Tian is a teacher at the school. He has necessary class tasks and scientific research tasks. He is not very independent, and of course he will be dismissed if he fails to complete them.In contrast, during the summer vacation, one can go out to play, and the other can only stay at school and run around at home. Sure enough, life is different.
But when it comes to work, Tian Lin has a question, how did Li Xilian get two months off.Not to mention resigning, she gritted her teeth last year to buy the house and took on the mortgage. If she resigns now, she is really not afraid of not being able to repay the loan.
However, when we met and asked this time, it turned out that Li Xilian was more courageous. She really resigned and found a new job.The salary after the job-hopping is twice as much as it is now.As for the money for going out to play, it was all earned from trading in stocks before.
Tian Lin and Lin Tian also tried stock trading, but Lin Tian lost interest in it after a few times.It is too troublesome to watch the stock price change every day and choose the point of buying and selling from time to time.Moreover, the possibility of making money is too small, and it takes a long time. She doesn't have that much time to look at stocks.
Tian Lin is different. She has a lot of time and can change the size of the screen at any time. It is no problem to check Weibo with one hand and watch stocks with the other.But I don't know if it's her bad luck or something else. The stocks she is optimistic about earn less and more, and often lose money when buying, and try to rise when selling.
Every time Tian Lin can't figure out whether a stock is going up or down, he can only watch the money shrinking, and finally put a few stocks in his account, and check it every week or two, and he can still see some gains .
But this time when he asked Li Xilian for advice, Tian Lin realized that he forgot to apply what he learned to practical things.As a half-programmer, she usually writes programs to check whether the stock is at the price in her mind, and when it arrives, she starts to keep an eye on the price and manipulate buying and selling.
Unlike Li Xilian, she wrote an algorithm based on the stock's trend over the years.According to the algorithm to deduce the possible trend of which stocks.Algorithm parameters are adjusted every day according to whether these companies have major news and whether there have been recent events with high public opinion.Inferenced in this way, it is possible to predict the rise and fall of about half of the stocks on the second day and the third day.Although the accuracy rate is not high, it is enough to operate stocks in a short period of time.
Lin Tian looked at Tian Lin helplessly and pulled Li Xilian to ask for advice on stocks.The two of them were talking so enthusiastically that they didn't have time to care about the other two people beside them.As for the dishes on the table, there was no time to eat them.
Moreover, Tian Lin leaned forward involuntarily as he spoke.It was Lin Tian who quickly rescued a plate of cucumbers, otherwise Tian Lin's clothes would suffer.However, the clothes that Tian Lin "thought" would not be stained with soup. If there is no change at all, wouldn't it reveal his identity?
Thinking of this, Lin Tian turned to Tian Lin and said, "Then if you want to know about stocks, you might as well just sit there." Anyway, this booth can seat six people, and three people can sit on one stool.And sitting in the past can also chat better, face to face is nothing, shoulder to shoulder is better, isn't it?
But Lin Tian just talked about it, who has seen four people eating together, three people sitting on one side and one person on the other.It is estimated that the leader and his subordinates eat together, and this will happen.But they are two couples, of course couples should sit and eat together.Moreover, the two sides are close, and it is easier to do something.Of course, in public, they didn't really do anything.
However, Tian Lin passed away obediently, passed away... Seeing this scene, Zhang Meimei couldn't help laughing.Lin Tian's stunned look was really funny.It would indeed be a sad thing if her lover abandoned herself to find someone else because of a casual remark.It is estimated that after returning home today, Tian Lin's life will be difficult.
After all, Zhang Meimei didn't expect Tian Lin to come just like that.Now it's time to eat, even if she eats very little, she can't stop her lover from eating.Didn't you see that Lin Tian on the opposite side has turned his grief and anger into appetite, has he gorged himself, and even picked up some chopsticks for himself by the way.
After several pushes, Li Xilian didn't respond.The content of her discussion with Tian Lin has changed from stocks to programs.After all, the accuracy rate of forecasting is not so high now, and the forecast period is too short, only a few days.Only short-term investment can be made, and there is no way to catch big fish in the long run.Some design content still needs help from others, and people like Tian Lin who have divergent thinking and ideas are exactly what she needs.
Talking about it like this is naturally endless.But as soon as they stopped, both of them found signs that their lover was angry.Discussion can be discussed later, if you can't coax your lover well, what will you do at night.Li Xilian is okay, just hug her more, pick up some chopsticks and talk softly.After all, Zhang Meimei just felt that she ignored other people and didn't consider her own and Lin Tian's thoughts.
But Tian Lin was different, she didn't eat all the time, but brought food for Lin Tian.Lin Tian ate every mouthful of food, and he was very gentle when talking to Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei, and he was the same to Tian Lin as before.But Tian Lin always felt a little alienated, and what she was most afraid of was not saying a word, but kept accounts in her heart, and finally settled the general account.
In fact, Lin Tian was not very angry in her heart. After all, she knew Tian Lin's character. Except for writing and programming, there were very few things that could make her focus so much.Over the years, seeing the state of Tian Lin collecting materials, writing outlines, and writing key chapters, I am no longer surprised by this situation, and I have become accustomed to it.
Moreover, Tian Lin only paid less attention to his surroundings and increased his attention to Li Xilian.It is much better than the situation when writing an outline, drilling into the computer for a few days without appearing, or drawing a word on the paper without hearing a word, which requires a lot of effort.
If Tian Lin couldn't even hear his own words, and only focused on one point, it would be a shame.As a partner, even if you can't even call your girlfriend, it will definitely be embarrassing, you can't eat, and you just want to leave here.Fortunately, he is just too obedient now, and he can't even understand the meaning of the words.
After this embarrassment passed, the four of them started chatting again.The main force is Lin Tian, Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei. Tian Lin has been reflecting on how to avoid this.Not just this time, every time she hears or sees such things of great concern, she only has these things in her mind, and forgets about Lin Tian.
She even heard the people next to her talking about a concern when she was eating on campus, so she stayed and waited for them to finish talking before leaving, letting Lin Tian go back to the classroom alone.Fortunately, Lin Tian didn't know the main reason at the time, he just thought she heard some material again and wanted to type, so he left without disturbing her.
However, this kind of problem cannot be cured in a day or two. Tian Lin has been in this state for many years. Even after he has the most important person in his heart, he still does not let go of these important things.I can only figure it out slowly in the future, so that when something happens again, I forget that there is someone next to me, and I forget that I still have a lover.
After talking about some things in the United States, Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei also showed Lin Tian the photos they took, including the university that Lin Tian attended.Seeing the familiar school gate and buildings, Lintian couldn't help but miss it.I don't know if I will have the chance to go again in the future.
But what Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei want to talk about this time is not just about visiting those places in the United States.The meal was eaten, and the scene of the trip was exposed. The two hesitated whether to talk, and finally Li Xilian spoke.
"Now I have good news for you, you are going to be a godmother, are you happy?"
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""Pregnancy Encyclopedia", "How to Protect Your Baby", "Recipes for Pregnancy"... It's not you and me who are pregnant, Li Xilian will take good care of people, you might as well think about the future if you worry about it. Like contacting the hospital, building a file, contacting Confinement sisters and the like, you can't think about it when you're in labor."
Lin Tian was shocked when he first heard the news that Zhang Meimei was pregnant.After going to the United States for two months, she brought back a child. If there was no conspiracy, she would not believe it at all.But Zhang Meimei doesn't seem like someone who would mess around with others, or that the law and order in the United States has become so chaotic, and I don't know if Chinese laws can control Americans.
Li Xilian explained the sperm bank to Lintian with a smile on her face.There, the donor's information is everything.As long as you give money, you can check all kinds of information. The two first browsed some open information, and then selected a few candidates after picking their eyes.
Then they start from the most basic appearance, and look at each other's situation bit by bit.Including education, work experience, childhood situation...all the materials that can be found have been read.In the end, they got a person who both parties agreed to. The two searched through his resume and even went to see the real person before finally deciding on the candidate.
The next thing is that it is not suitable for children. Li Xilian said vaguely, but basically described the process of how to produce fertilized eggs.In short, after confirming, the two began to play cautiously.It is also the first time for a family of three to travel.
Lin Tian was taken aback when he heard this, but he can still do this, instead of going to the hospital to do it himself, are you really not afraid of waste?But there was really no waste, the baby was successfully conceived, and it was also very tenacious.Zhang Meimei hadn't had any accidents after playing for so long, and there was no problem on the plane. The two of them were also big-hearted.
Compared to Lin Tian who was thinking about where he could help after hearing the news, Tian Lin's expression and thoughts were as if they were pregnant with the child.I have already bought the e-book and downloaded the app on the computer, and I am waiting to meet Zhang Meimei someday and practice it.
What Lin Tian turned to was a book with "pregnancy", "mother-to-be" and "baby" written on a whole page.It's not that these books are not good, but it's better to have no books than to believe in them. Li Xilian will definitely find the most suitable method of raising a baby. What Tian Lin read has no scientific basis, and it is easy to cause conflicts.At this time, as long as there is one person speaking, it is enough. If there are too many people, differences will easily arise, and in the end the most suitable method cannot be adopted.
Tian Lin also knew that he was too impatient. After all, the arrival of a baby must go through many steps.And the content she checked couldn't be said to be of much use.But, if you don't understand something, it's hard to speak.Could it be that when they were talking about parenting, did they and Lin Tian listen?Always have some knowledge base.
Moreover, Tian Lin really likes to see children, she has long wished that she and Lin Tian could have a child.But Lin Tian didn't want to give birth, and couldn't give birth himself, so he could only stare at other people's children.
Especially after Lu Wei and her relationship eased, Lu Wei expressed great interest in when the two of them would have children.At this time, it is fortunate that the homosexual is the daughter, not the son, and there is no need to worry about the problem of offspring, and the daughter can give birth by herself.But when the daughter will be born is also a question.
Lu Wei wants to have a grandson. She will retire soon. It is fine to retire early to take care of the children.While still young, help my daughter lead the next generation.Calculated according to the time, when the child can go to kindergarten, Lin Xing'an will almost retire.They can also go out for a walk together to feel the great rivers and rivers of the motherland.And the pressure on the daughter is not so great.
But Lu Wei was not sure whether it was a daughter or A Ling.As for Tian Lin's name, I was afraid that they would think it was Lin Tian's name upside down, which seemed fake. When Tian Lin applied for his ID card, he used "Jing Ling".
The sound of "jing" is the same as "mirror", and mirror represents Tian Lin's origin. Among the surnames of hundreds of families, this word is closer to "mirror". "Ling" is the name of "Tianlin".When everyone shouted, they all used the title "A Ling".Including Tian Lin's acquaintances, no one knew her name was Tian Lin. This name seemed to be the exclusive name between Lin Tian and Tian Lin.
Didn't Lu Wei know that she wanted her daughter to have a child of her own?Let A Ling give birth to their child earlier, or give birth to one of them.But if it's the latter, she probably can only bring a baby. After all, she is not young anymore, and her physical fitness cannot keep up with young people.
Of course, it was not easy to tell her daughter about this matter, so she chatted with A Ling, hoping to use Tian Lin's hand to influence her daughter.At any rate, the needs of the elderly must also be considered, and now that they are all older, they will become elderly mothers at a later date.Lu Weihe didn't want her daughter to be one of them, it was really too dangerous.She would rather they had no children to adopt or no children at all.
Lin Xing'an tried his best to organize his wife's request to hold him back. Now Lin Tian can't say that he has a firm foothold in City B.Then go to have a baby, how to raise it.Lu Wei said that when she received her home, could it be the same at home as in city b?Not to mention the environment after kindergarten.There are early education classes for children when they are one or two years old. Can the environment in city l have that in city b?
So in terms of having a baby, Lin Xing'an also made an agreement with Lin Tian, and she will talk about it after she can settle down. If she is an advanced mother by then, then don't force her to give birth.If you want a child first, adopt one, if you don't want it, then the two of you can live a good life.It is indeed easy to have accidents with multiple children in the family, especially children who cannot have the blood of their parents. It would be bad if they became the source of quarrel between the two.
Up to now, Tian Lin's position in Lin Xing'an's heart is still that of his daughter's partner who may break up at any time. No matter what Lin Tian and Tian Lin do, he still has the idea of breaking up because of sex.Lin Tian found that he couldn't change his father's thinking. Fortunately, there was Lu Wei at home who had been captured by Tian Lin.The husband and wife can just reconcile, so that Lintian and Tianlin can relax a little bit.
Tian Lin's thoughts on having children, from knowing that single childbirth has been widely proposed, until the policy was fully implemented.After Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei had a child, her thoughts suddenly exploded.Maternal love swelled so suddenly that Lin Tian couldn't react, and could only watch Tian Lin run to Zhang Meimei every day.Of course, it passed after becoming a prototype, avoiding the possibility of being known by them.
But Tian Lin's wish to watch a little life grow soon came true.Li Xilian took Zhang Meimei and moved to near Lintian's house.This is related to her new job, which is thousands of miles away from the original rental house.Li Xilian quit the house, delivered the things to a few friends in city b, and took Zhang Meimei to the United States.
Before she came back, she asked these friends to help find a house, because she was not sure whether Zhang Meimei would be able to conceive, so she set the standard very high.In the end, the one that met the standard and was closer to the company was the one near Lintian's house.
It took a week, and Li Xilian moved her things to her new home one after another, and then successfully moved in.Zhang Meimei lived in a hotel because she was afraid of bothering Lin Tian and Tian Lin.Of course, Tian Lin wanted to say that it would be no trouble, and that it would be easier for her to watch the child grow up closer.But Li Xilian still rejected Lin Tian's invitation. After all, they are friends, not lovers.Lintian rented a room that couldn't accommodate four people.
After moving, it was more convenient for Tian Lin to visit.I don't know if it was because of reading the book or something else, but after knowing the dangers of the first three months, Li Xilian didn't want Zhang Meimei to go out for a long time.Now that the month is small, others can't see it, so what if someone accidentally hurts it.Tian Lin undertook most of the grocery shopping tasks, and then ate and mixed at Zhang Meimei's place every day.
Fortunately, because she had to deliver meals to Lin Tian and Li Xilian, Zhang Meimei believed her reason for eating less and more meals, and did not have too much doubt about Tian Lin's eating less.There is no doubt that Tian Lin has to go to the toilet every time after eating.Successfully avoided Tian Lin's identity from being discovered.
And Tian Lin also began to pay attention to his behavior after being scolded by Lin Tian for how many loopholes he had.After all, she doesn't want to test a friendship with her biggest secret.Just like Lin Xing'an said, be careful at all times, love can easily deteriorate, don't be hurt by love that deteriorates.The same applies to friendship as well.
Li Xilian adapted well to Tian Lin who appeared at home every time.She understands her lover, and she won't empathize with her because of this.But Lin Tian also pointed out that the situation of the pregnant woman is unstable, and Li Xilian still needs to comfort her.As for controlling his own Tian Lin, Lin Tian has given up hope.Humans can't stop this guy, not even Lin Tian, especially after becoming a couple, it's healthier to resolve conflicts in bed and quarrel.
Li Xilian was also speechless about Lin Tian's behavior of dumping the pot.Since she said clearly that she couldn't control others anymore, Li Xilian could only pay close attention to Zhang Meimei.Because every time Li Xilian and Lin Tian went home together, they could see the reluctant Tian Lin coming out of the house, and then followed Lin Tian step by step.
Therefore, the face-to-face meeting between Li Xilian and Tian Lin is at noon every day when delivering meals and when returning home at night.Sometimes Tian Lin left without saying a word.
Fortunately, nothing happened between the four of them.This maintained a peaceful relationship until Zhang Meimei gave birth.On the first day of May, Zhang Meimei started.
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Tian Lin was the first to notice that something was wrong with Zhang Meimei, and immediately ran downstairs with her in his arms, while manipulating the taxi app on his mobile phone.After Zhang Meimei yelled for pain for 10 minutes, she was sent to the hospital where the files had been established.After a preliminary understanding of the situation, the doctor sent Zhang Meimei to the ward. It is still too early to be alive, and it is only the initial pain.
And Zhang Meimei's age is already considered an advanced maternal age.Although the fetus is not big, but its physical fitness is not as good as those young people in their 20s, it is estimated that the delivery time will be very long.
While going to pay, Tian Lin called Lin Tian and Li Xilian.Lin Tian has no class today, the school hospital and home are basically in a straight line, and when she came, she was just able to bring home things, but she left in a hurry and didn't take many things.For this birth, Zhang Meimei would at least say that she would stay in the hospital for a few days, so she still needed the things she needed to prepare.
Li Xilian stopped talking, and when she heard the news that Zhang Meimei was about to give birth, she immediately asked her boss for leave.Not only does she want to ask for today's leave, but she also needs to be with her in the hospital, and there is also postpartum care. Even if she is not as good as a professional, she can't leave Meimei to others.
After Li Xilian rushed to the hospital, Lin Tian came late with a lot of things.In addition to the supplies already prepared, there are also Zhang Meimei's personal belongings.In the ward, three women surrounded Zhang Meimei. This combination without a man attracted everyone's attention. However, it is not uncommon for her husband not to show up when she was born this year. Everyone just looked at her and didn't bother to ask.
There was also a pregnant woman who lived next to her, and she kept crying out for pain.Her husband sat on the sidelines, unable to say anything, and didn't know where to move his hands and feet.People who are not sure whether it is mother-in-law or mother have been helping to wipe sweat and feed water and porridge.
"Call out the pain, don't hold back."
Li Xilian turned her head and saw that although she had everything on her side, she was short of food.Although Zhang Meimei had eaten before coming here, she couldn't keep herself from being hungry afterwards.Especially for things that require a lot of physical strength, such as childbirth, nutritional supplements still have to keep up.
"What do you want to eat, I'll order it?"
There is no time to go back and do it now. Love meals take time.Li Xilian opened her phone, found a pile of food that was easier to digest, and decided to leave Meimei alone.
This is what has occupied a lot of topics in the past few years and has been brought up every year-single birth.
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In the past, only a few provinces and cities had their own single childbearing policies, most of which were related to registration and whether to pay social maintenance fees.The proposal this time is to allow single births, not to apply to the whole flower country, not to charge social maintenance fees, and to register for household registration.
At the same time, in order not to conflict with the basic national policy of family planning, only one child is allowed during the single period. If married, the couple can only have one child even if they meet the requirements... There are a lot of regulations. Single parenthood.
Speaking of children, Tian Lin is actually not sure whether he likes children or not.Uh, since childhood, Tian Lin has never had much contact with children.I can only say that I don't seem to hate it, but I can't say that I like it very much, and I really want one.
However, as soon as the news came out, Tian Lin looked at his own stomach for a while, and Lin Tian's stomach for a while, always feeling that if there was a child inside, it would look very strange.And if Lintian is pregnant, will she also have a child in her womb, and will the child be twins when she is born.
Being sized up by such strange eyes, how could Lintian not respond.But now that she is in class, she can only use her eyes to tell Tian Lin to calm down and not to get angry anytime and anywhere.Without understanding the situation, it is normal to think that Tian Lin is thinking about something obscene. After all, the two of them have been messing around a lot recently.As I get older, I let go more and more.
After Tian Lin saw it, he continued to read the comments, took screenshots of all the interesting content in it, and prepared to watch it with Lin Tian after class.In addition to the proposals proposed by some people, there are still many big Vs who are taking this opportunity to popularize the policies of some provinces and cities that allow single births, and some people will educate everyone about how singles can obtain high-quality sperm.
After all, women who choose to have a single childbirth are most concerned about whether the next generation’s genes are good, and the sperm bank in Huaguo, which requires only a college degree or above, is enough to make most women give up. No matter how you look at it, it is not reliable .
Basically, all the attention is paid to single births of women, and it is rarely mentioned for men.Some caring people said it was discrimination, and it was also sprayed back. After all, there are no women. Where can a child come from? People who have only one cell should not say that the child is their own.
Now, under these topics, arguing started again. Everyone took turns giving examples and swearing about the truth, which was very lively.But in this case, it's easy to lose your mind.After Tian Lin said a few words, he stopped reading that Weibo.Similarly, I basically ignored the private messages and comments I received from strangers.She didn't come to quarrel, she was just collecting information to share with Lin Tian.
After knowing this, Lin Tian didn't show much interest in it.You have to wait until you can stabilize yourself to have a baby. Letting a life into this world casually is irresponsible to him/her.
Difficulties at work, things in life, her own research, and the title she wants to get, all these things are piled up in front of Lintian. Now she has no time to think about her children.As for some information, it is not too late to check until it is really necessary to consider.Now that technology is updating so rapidly, what should I do if these contents are outdated after a few years.
Tian Lin thought so too, wanting to have a child was just something she felt after seeing the news.Speaking of giving birth and raising a child, she imagined it based on what she had heard, seen and seen, and she felt that it was a hard job.
Moreover, Tian Lin felt that she should be sterile, after all, she didn't come to her aunt, and she didn't have symptoms of ovulation.Even when Lin Tian became a human being when she came to her aunt, she only felt like liquid was flowing, but in fact there was nothing.
She and Lintian also felt the same in this regard. In other cases, no matter where Lintian hits the pain or she feels the pain, the other person will not feel it, unless the two of them bump into each other.Only in an unexplainable part, they have a strange similar feeling.This also saves them a lot of work at some special moments.Just one person is enough.
Of course, these feelings are still related to the distance. When they are about ten meters away, the connection between the two will fade away.It will not happen that Tian Lin is too passionate at home, causing Lin Tian to be abnormal when he is in class.
As for why this situation happened and whether there is a possibility of solving it, Lin Tian and Tian Lin also tried to explore.However, after all, it is an indescribable part, and it can only feel under certain conditions.At that time, who still has time to care about the issue of empathy, do they have more important things to do.
However, since he only felt that there was no blood, Tian Lin could only excuse that he could not conceive.According to the biological knowledge she has learned, she should not have such a thing as ovulation, how can she get pregnant without eggs.But Tian Lin didn't doubt at all, if Lin Tian was pregnant, would she have sensory problems.
Although you won't feel it if you stay ten meters away from the forest field, as a partner, how can you keep a distance from your lover.Maybe when Lin Tian gave birth, he could accompany him in the delivery room.Think about it, people give birth on the bed, and you feel it next to you.Her ability to tolerate pain is not as strong as Lin Tian's. After all, she has only had the feeling of pain for more than ten years, and because of the small number of injuries, she has no endurance.
Don't worry that Lin Tian, who was on the bed, hadn't started shouting yet, but was still enduring and gathering strength.I couldn't stand it and yelled out, and then I was kicked out by the doctors and nurses in the name of hindering the delivery.Just thinking about it makes me feel sick.
But it's really too early to think about this now. Tian Lin deleted the picture of rolling outside the delivery room with his stomach in his arms after being kicked out by the doctor in his mind, and he would definitely not become a human by then.But if she doesn't become an adult, if Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei are no longer there, wouldn't Lin Tian have a child alone?If they were there and he didn't show up, it would be even more unreasonable.
In other words, no matter what, she must appear as a human being, and as Lintian's partner, she cannot back down.But now I just think about that scene, and my heart is trembling, if that day really comes.Tian Lin shuddered. It's really great that Lin Tian doesn't want to have a baby now, and she doesn't want to have one either.There are two people in the family is enough, one more mouth would be troublesome.Well, the world of two is very good, no third party is needed.
Lin Tian didn't know yet, but he only talked to Tian Lin a few times during the break.Tian Lin has already thought of something far away.During class time, compared to Tian Lin who just sat there and didn't listen to the class, she focused more on the ppt and the blackboard.After all, there are still some students who don't listen to the lectures very much. In order not to let his mind get stuck, Lin Tian can't see or worry, just read the handouts, or write on the blackboard, and try to look down as little as possible.
After the morning class, Lin Tian has no afternoon classes. Normally, she would go to the laboratory at this time, but today Tian Lin felt that something was wrong, and she had the illusion that she suddenly became stupid. For the sake of her own body and mind, Lin Tian decisively They took people home and asked why.
Countless painful lessons in the past told her that if she found something wrong with Tian Lin, she should immediately counsel her.Don't suffocate people, you will be the one who gets hurt in the end.Although no major disasters have occurred so far, it cannot be taken lightly.My life is closely related to Tian Lin, and when something happens, there is no time to cry.
Tian Lin was thinking about a lot, first about the child, and after making a decision that he would not have children in the near future, preferably not in his lifetime.She also thought about the issue of marriage related to the return of children. Marriage was out of reach for her and Lin Tian.But which couple didn't think about it?But how many people got that little book?
Same-sex marriage has been legal abroad for many years, and I don't know how many couples have registered.But in Huaguo, it can only become one of the topics. There are same-sex/lover appeals every year, and people bring it up every year, but so far there is still no legal time.
No matter how much public opinion helps, there are still a large number of people who do not agree, and even think that homosexuality is pathological and anti-human.As many people appeal on the Internet, there are as many people saying disgusting.The change of concept cannot be corrected in a moment. It has been more than 20 years since it was abolished in textbooks, and the concept of "this is a disease" can still be seen in scattered speeches.I have to say, the future is slim.
Once a person thinks too much, it is not easy to stop, and it is especially easy to develop in a strange direction.Tian Lin began to think about marriage, but later it became about what would be on the marriage certificate if it was approved, what would everyone say, how many people would register... In short, from the very beginning, can not stop.
Especially once he and Lin Tian can get married, what will their future life be like.After returning home, I won't worry about my parents separating people, after all, they are all married.And the marriage certificate is said to be legal, so they can do more embarrassing things.They don't have to worry about being found out by neighbors and there will be some bad messages.
After thinking about it, Tian Lin turned to the land of pollution. A bag of decontamination rice can no longer save her mind.When Lin Tian led people home, holding Lin Tian's hand, Tian Lin could think of what his hands could be used for, and really wanted to throw himself on Lin Tian as soon as he got home.
However, this ideal has not been realized. On a March day, it was still cold outside. Lin Tian, who could figure out what she was thinking when he heard his lover's laughter, pushed him into the water.Calm down first and then have a good talk. This is also the first step in many of their conversations.
As for the marriage that Tian Lin is thinking about, I don’t want to talk about it. From being proposed to trying out a policy and finally implementing it, it will take ten or twenty years for a policy to be completed. Now she can only think about it for herself. In the name of getting angry.
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If there is no success in one year, there will be three, five or even ten years, and the policy will always change. As long as you live longer, you will get better and better.Whether it is Lin Tian or Tian Lin, they didn't regard this proposal as certain to be realized, but just yelled at the possibility in their hearts, and when chatting with others, they all talked about their lifetimes.
However, the story of such a lifetime was realized three years later.Of course, at this time, Lin Tian was busy publishing papers and preparing for the title evaluation, so he paid much less attention to this aspect.Tian Lin is busy with his own business, and at least he has sold the film and television rights, so he has to do some publicity for the film.Although the copyright fee is so much, you can also take the opportunity to advertise the new article, right?
In addition to them, there are still people who pay attention to single births.Those netizens who applaud single births on the Internet may not necessarily agree with this policy, but many people in the lesbian community think it is a good way to have their own children with their partners.Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei are no exception.
When Lin Tian contacted Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei for the nth time, he discovered that something was wrong between the two opposite people.This is the first time they have met in the past two months, because two months ago, the two suddenly wanted to travel to the United States.Originally, he wanted to take advantage of Lintian's summer vacation to take her as a guide, but because of school affairs, Lintian couldn't make the trip.
Afterwards, the two played in the United States for more than two months, posting photos in Moments every day to abuse dogs.Even if Lin Tian and Tian Lin are no longer abused by the photos showing affection, and can make better moves, they still can't resist seeing someone idle when they are busy.
At that time, Lin Tian also said that summer vacation is the best time to make up lessons. Zhang Meimei didn't take advantage of this period to go to class every day to earn money, but went out to play instead. It was a waste of a good opportunity.Tian Lin automatically understood this as resentment from his fellow teacher.
Zhang Meimei is a tutor. If she doesn't want to take on the job, she won't get a commission. The basic salary is pitifully low, and she may even be fired.Lin Tian is a teacher at the school. He has necessary class tasks and scientific research tasks. He is not very independent, and of course he will be dismissed if he fails to complete them.In contrast, during the summer vacation, one can go out to play, and the other can only stay at school and run around at home. Sure enough, life is different.
But when it comes to work, Tian Lin has a question, how did Li Xilian get two months off.Not to mention resigning, she gritted her teeth last year to buy the house and took on the mortgage. If she resigns now, she is really not afraid of not being able to repay the loan.
However, when we met and asked this time, it turned out that Li Xilian was more courageous. She really resigned and found a new job.The salary after the job-hopping is twice as much as it is now.As for the money for going out to play, it was all earned from trading in stocks before.
Tian Lin and Lin Tian also tried stock trading, but Lin Tian lost interest in it after a few times.It is too troublesome to watch the stock price change every day and choose the point of buying and selling from time to time.Moreover, the possibility of making money is too small, and it takes a long time. She doesn't have that much time to look at stocks.
Tian Lin is different. She has a lot of time and can change the size of the screen at any time. It is no problem to check Weibo with one hand and watch stocks with the other.But I don't know if it's her bad luck or something else. The stocks she is optimistic about earn less and more, and often lose money when buying, and try to rise when selling.
Every time Tian Lin can't figure out whether a stock is going up or down, he can only watch the money shrinking, and finally put a few stocks in his account, and check it every week or two, and he can still see some gains .
But this time when he asked Li Xilian for advice, Tian Lin realized that he forgot to apply what he learned to practical things.As a half-programmer, she usually writes programs to check whether the stock is at the price in her mind, and when it arrives, she starts to keep an eye on the price and manipulate buying and selling.
Unlike Li Xilian, she wrote an algorithm based on the stock's trend over the years.According to the algorithm to deduce the possible trend of which stocks.Algorithm parameters are adjusted every day according to whether these companies have major news and whether there have been recent events with high public opinion.Inferenced in this way, it is possible to predict the rise and fall of about half of the stocks on the second day and the third day.Although the accuracy rate is not high, it is enough to operate stocks in a short period of time.
Lin Tian looked at Tian Lin helplessly and pulled Li Xilian to ask for advice on stocks.The two of them were talking so enthusiastically that they didn't have time to care about the other two people beside them.As for the dishes on the table, there was no time to eat them.
Moreover, Tian Lin leaned forward involuntarily as he spoke.It was Lin Tian who quickly rescued a plate of cucumbers, otherwise Tian Lin's clothes would suffer.However, the clothes that Tian Lin "thought" would not be stained with soup. If there is no change at all, wouldn't it reveal his identity?
Thinking of this, Lin Tian turned to Tian Lin and said, "Then if you want to know about stocks, you might as well just sit there." Anyway, this booth can seat six people, and three people can sit on one stool.And sitting in the past can also chat better, face to face is nothing, shoulder to shoulder is better, isn't it?
But Lin Tian just talked about it, who has seen four people eating together, three people sitting on one side and one person on the other.It is estimated that the leader and his subordinates eat together, and this will happen.But they are two couples, of course couples should sit and eat together.Moreover, the two sides are close, and it is easier to do something.Of course, in public, they didn't really do anything.
However, Tian Lin passed away obediently, passed away... Seeing this scene, Zhang Meimei couldn't help laughing.Lin Tian's stunned look was really funny.It would indeed be a sad thing if her lover abandoned herself to find someone else because of a casual remark.It is estimated that after returning home today, Tian Lin's life will be difficult.
After all, Zhang Meimei didn't expect Tian Lin to come just like that.Now it's time to eat, even if she eats very little, she can't stop her lover from eating.Didn't you see that Lin Tian on the opposite side has turned his grief and anger into appetite, has he gorged himself, and even picked up some chopsticks for himself by the way.
After several pushes, Li Xilian didn't respond.The content of her discussion with Tian Lin has changed from stocks to programs.After all, the accuracy rate of forecasting is not so high now, and the forecast period is too short, only a few days.Only short-term investment can be made, and there is no way to catch big fish in the long run.Some design content still needs help from others, and people like Tian Lin who have divergent thinking and ideas are exactly what she needs.
Talking about it like this is naturally endless.But as soon as they stopped, both of them found signs that their lover was angry.Discussion can be discussed later, if you can't coax your lover well, what will you do at night.Li Xilian is okay, just hug her more, pick up some chopsticks and talk softly.After all, Zhang Meimei just felt that she ignored other people and didn't consider her own and Lin Tian's thoughts.
But Tian Lin was different, she didn't eat all the time, but brought food for Lin Tian.Lin Tian ate every mouthful of food, and he was very gentle when talking to Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei, and he was the same to Tian Lin as before.But Tian Lin always felt a little alienated, and what she was most afraid of was not saying a word, but kept accounts in her heart, and finally settled the general account.
In fact, Lin Tian was not very angry in her heart. After all, she knew Tian Lin's character. Except for writing and programming, there were very few things that could make her focus so much.Over the years, seeing the state of Tian Lin collecting materials, writing outlines, and writing key chapters, I am no longer surprised by this situation, and I have become accustomed to it.
Moreover, Tian Lin only paid less attention to his surroundings and increased his attention to Li Xilian.It is much better than the situation when writing an outline, drilling into the computer for a few days without appearing, or drawing a word on the paper without hearing a word, which requires a lot of effort.
If Tian Lin couldn't even hear his own words, and only focused on one point, it would be a shame.As a partner, even if you can't even call your girlfriend, it will definitely be embarrassing, you can't eat, and you just want to leave here.Fortunately, he is just too obedient now, and he can't even understand the meaning of the words.
After this embarrassment passed, the four of them started chatting again.The main force is Lin Tian, Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei. Tian Lin has been reflecting on how to avoid this.Not just this time, every time she hears or sees such things of great concern, she only has these things in her mind, and forgets about Lin Tian.
She even heard the people next to her talking about a concern when she was eating on campus, so she stayed and waited for them to finish talking before leaving, letting Lin Tian go back to the classroom alone.Fortunately, Lin Tian didn't know the main reason at the time, he just thought she heard some material again and wanted to type, so he left without disturbing her.
However, this kind of problem cannot be cured in a day or two. Tian Lin has been in this state for many years. Even after he has the most important person in his heart, he still does not let go of these important things.I can only figure it out slowly in the future, so that when something happens again, I forget that there is someone next to me, and I forget that I still have a lover.
After talking about some things in the United States, Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei also showed Lin Tian the photos they took, including the university that Lin Tian attended.Seeing the familiar school gate and buildings, Lintian couldn't help but miss it.I don't know if I will have the chance to go again in the future.
But what Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei want to talk about this time is not just about visiting those places in the United States.The meal was eaten, and the scene of the trip was exposed. The two hesitated whether to talk, and finally Li Xilian spoke.
"Now I have good news for you, you are going to be a godmother, are you happy?"
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""Pregnancy Encyclopedia", "How to Protect Your Baby", "Recipes for Pregnancy"... It's not you and me who are pregnant, Li Xilian will take good care of people, you might as well think about the future if you worry about it. Like contacting the hospital, building a file, contacting Confinement sisters and the like, you can't think about it when you're in labor."
Lin Tian was shocked when he first heard the news that Zhang Meimei was pregnant.After going to the United States for two months, she brought back a child. If there was no conspiracy, she would not believe it at all.But Zhang Meimei doesn't seem like someone who would mess around with others, or that the law and order in the United States has become so chaotic, and I don't know if Chinese laws can control Americans.
Li Xilian explained the sperm bank to Lintian with a smile on her face.There, the donor's information is everything.As long as you give money, you can check all kinds of information. The two first browsed some open information, and then selected a few candidates after picking their eyes.
Then they start from the most basic appearance, and look at each other's situation bit by bit.Including education, work experience, childhood situation...all the materials that can be found have been read.In the end, they got a person who both parties agreed to. The two searched through his resume and even went to see the real person before finally deciding on the candidate.
The next thing is that it is not suitable for children. Li Xilian said vaguely, but basically described the process of how to produce fertilized eggs.In short, after confirming, the two began to play cautiously.It is also the first time for a family of three to travel.
Lin Tian was taken aback when he heard this, but he can still do this, instead of going to the hospital to do it himself, are you really not afraid of waste?But there was really no waste, the baby was successfully conceived, and it was also very tenacious.Zhang Meimei hadn't had any accidents after playing for so long, and there was no problem on the plane. The two of them were also big-hearted.
Compared to Lin Tian who was thinking about where he could help after hearing the news, Tian Lin's expression and thoughts were as if they were pregnant with the child.I have already bought the e-book and downloaded the app on the computer, and I am waiting to meet Zhang Meimei someday and practice it.
What Lin Tian turned to was a book with "pregnancy", "mother-to-be" and "baby" written on a whole page.It's not that these books are not good, but it's better to have no books than to believe in them. Li Xilian will definitely find the most suitable method of raising a baby. What Tian Lin read has no scientific basis, and it is easy to cause conflicts.At this time, as long as there is one person speaking, it is enough. If there are too many people, differences will easily arise, and in the end the most suitable method cannot be adopted.
Tian Lin also knew that he was too impatient. After all, the arrival of a baby must go through many steps.And the content she checked couldn't be said to be of much use.But, if you don't understand something, it's hard to speak.Could it be that when they were talking about parenting, did they and Lin Tian listen?Always have some knowledge base.
Moreover, Tian Lin really likes to see children, she has long wished that she and Lin Tian could have a child.But Lin Tian didn't want to give birth, and couldn't give birth himself, so he could only stare at other people's children.
Especially after Lu Wei and her relationship eased, Lu Wei expressed great interest in when the two of them would have children.At this time, it is fortunate that the homosexual is the daughter, not the son, and there is no need to worry about the problem of offspring, and the daughter can give birth by herself.But when the daughter will be born is also a question.
Lu Wei wants to have a grandson. She will retire soon. It is fine to retire early to take care of the children.While still young, help my daughter lead the next generation.Calculated according to the time, when the child can go to kindergarten, Lin Xing'an will almost retire.They can also go out for a walk together to feel the great rivers and rivers of the motherland.And the pressure on the daughter is not so great.
But Lu Wei was not sure whether it was a daughter or A Ling.As for Tian Lin's name, I was afraid that they would think it was Lin Tian's name upside down, which seemed fake. When Tian Lin applied for his ID card, he used "Jing Ling".
The sound of "jing" is the same as "mirror", and mirror represents Tian Lin's origin. Among the surnames of hundreds of families, this word is closer to "mirror". "Ling" is the name of "Tianlin".When everyone shouted, they all used the title "A Ling".Including Tian Lin's acquaintances, no one knew her name was Tian Lin. This name seemed to be the exclusive name between Lin Tian and Tian Lin.
Didn't Lu Wei know that she wanted her daughter to have a child of her own?Let A Ling give birth to their child earlier, or give birth to one of them.But if it's the latter, she probably can only bring a baby. After all, she is not young anymore, and her physical fitness cannot keep up with young people.
Of course, it was not easy to tell her daughter about this matter, so she chatted with A Ling, hoping to use Tian Lin's hand to influence her daughter.At any rate, the needs of the elderly must also be considered, and now that they are all older, they will become elderly mothers at a later date.Lu Weihe didn't want her daughter to be one of them, it was really too dangerous.She would rather they had no children to adopt or no children at all.
Lin Xing'an tried his best to organize his wife's request to hold him back. Now Lin Tian can't say that he has a firm foothold in City B.Then go to have a baby, how to raise it.Lu Wei said that when she received her home, could it be the same at home as in city b?Not to mention the environment after kindergarten.There are early education classes for children when they are one or two years old. Can the environment in city l have that in city b?
So in terms of having a baby, Lin Xing'an also made an agreement with Lin Tian, and she will talk about it after she can settle down. If she is an advanced mother by then, then don't force her to give birth.If you want a child first, adopt one, if you don't want it, then the two of you can live a good life.It is indeed easy to have accidents with multiple children in the family, especially children who cannot have the blood of their parents. It would be bad if they became the source of quarrel between the two.
Up to now, Tian Lin's position in Lin Xing'an's heart is still that of his daughter's partner who may break up at any time. No matter what Lin Tian and Tian Lin do, he still has the idea of breaking up because of sex.Lin Tian found that he couldn't change his father's thinking. Fortunately, there was Lu Wei at home who had been captured by Tian Lin.The husband and wife can just reconcile, so that Lintian and Tianlin can relax a little bit.
Tian Lin's thoughts on having children, from knowing that single childbirth has been widely proposed, until the policy was fully implemented.After Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei had a child, her thoughts suddenly exploded.Maternal love swelled so suddenly that Lin Tian couldn't react, and could only watch Tian Lin run to Zhang Meimei every day.Of course, it passed after becoming a prototype, avoiding the possibility of being known by them.
But Tian Lin's wish to watch a little life grow soon came true.Li Xilian took Zhang Meimei and moved to near Lintian's house.This is related to her new job, which is thousands of miles away from the original rental house.Li Xilian quit the house, delivered the things to a few friends in city b, and took Zhang Meimei to the United States.
Before she came back, she asked these friends to help find a house, because she was not sure whether Zhang Meimei would be able to conceive, so she set the standard very high.In the end, the one that met the standard and was closer to the company was the one near Lintian's house.
It took a week, and Li Xilian moved her things to her new home one after another, and then successfully moved in.Zhang Meimei lived in a hotel because she was afraid of bothering Lin Tian and Tian Lin.Of course, Tian Lin wanted to say that it would be no trouble, and that it would be easier for her to watch the child grow up closer.But Li Xilian still rejected Lin Tian's invitation. After all, they are friends, not lovers.Lintian rented a room that couldn't accommodate four people.
After moving, it was more convenient for Tian Lin to visit.I don't know if it was because of reading the book or something else, but after knowing the dangers of the first three months, Li Xilian didn't want Zhang Meimei to go out for a long time.Now that the month is small, others can't see it, so what if someone accidentally hurts it.Tian Lin undertook most of the grocery shopping tasks, and then ate and mixed at Zhang Meimei's place every day.
Fortunately, because she had to deliver meals to Lin Tian and Li Xilian, Zhang Meimei believed her reason for eating less and more meals, and did not have too much doubt about Tian Lin's eating less.There is no doubt that Tian Lin has to go to the toilet every time after eating.Successfully avoided Tian Lin's identity from being discovered.
And Tian Lin also began to pay attention to his behavior after being scolded by Lin Tian for how many loopholes he had.After all, she doesn't want to test a friendship with her biggest secret.Just like Lin Xing'an said, be careful at all times, love can easily deteriorate, don't be hurt by love that deteriorates.The same applies to friendship as well.
Li Xilian adapted well to Tian Lin who appeared at home every time.She understands her lover, and she won't empathize with her because of this.But Lin Tian also pointed out that the situation of the pregnant woman is unstable, and Li Xilian still needs to comfort her.As for controlling his own Tian Lin, Lin Tian has given up hope.Humans can't stop this guy, not even Lin Tian, especially after becoming a couple, it's healthier to resolve conflicts in bed and quarrel.
Li Xilian was also speechless about Lin Tian's behavior of dumping the pot.Since she said clearly that she couldn't control others anymore, Li Xilian could only pay close attention to Zhang Meimei.Because every time Li Xilian and Lin Tian went home together, they could see the reluctant Tian Lin coming out of the house, and then followed Lin Tian step by step.
Therefore, the face-to-face meeting between Li Xilian and Tian Lin is at noon every day when delivering meals and when returning home at night.Sometimes Tian Lin left without saying a word.
Fortunately, nothing happened between the four of them.This maintained a peaceful relationship until Zhang Meimei gave birth.On the first day of May, Zhang Meimei started.
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Tian Lin was the first to notice that something was wrong with Zhang Meimei, and immediately ran downstairs with her in his arms, while manipulating the taxi app on his mobile phone.After Zhang Meimei yelled for pain for 10 minutes, she was sent to the hospital where the files had been established.After a preliminary understanding of the situation, the doctor sent Zhang Meimei to the ward. It is still too early to be alive, and it is only the initial pain.
And Zhang Meimei's age is already considered an advanced maternal age.Although the fetus is not big, but its physical fitness is not as good as those young people in their 20s, it is estimated that the delivery time will be very long.
While going to pay, Tian Lin called Lin Tian and Li Xilian.Lin Tian has no class today, the school hospital and home are basically in a straight line, and when she came, she was just able to bring home things, but she left in a hurry and didn't take many things.For this birth, Zhang Meimei would at least say that she would stay in the hospital for a few days, so she still needed the things she needed to prepare.
Li Xilian stopped talking, and when she heard the news that Zhang Meimei was about to give birth, she immediately asked her boss for leave.Not only does she want to ask for today's leave, but she also needs to be with her in the hospital, and there is also postpartum care. Even if she is not as good as a professional, she can't leave Meimei to others.
After Li Xilian rushed to the hospital, Lin Tian came late with a lot of things.In addition to the supplies already prepared, there are also Zhang Meimei's personal belongings.In the ward, three women surrounded Zhang Meimei. This combination without a man attracted everyone's attention. However, it is not uncommon for her husband not to show up when she was born this year. Everyone just looked at her and didn't bother to ask.
There was also a pregnant woman who lived next to her, and she kept crying out for pain.Her husband sat on the sidelines, unable to say anything, and didn't know where to move his hands and feet.People who are not sure whether it is mother-in-law or mother have been helping to wipe sweat and feed water and porridge.
"Call out the pain, don't hold back."
Li Xilian turned her head and saw that although she had everything on her side, she was short of food.Although Zhang Meimei had eaten before coming here, she couldn't keep herself from being hungry afterwards.Especially for things that require a lot of physical strength, such as childbirth, nutritional supplements still have to keep up.
"What do you want to eat, I'll order it?"
There is no time to go back and do it now. Love meals take time.Li Xilian opened her phone, found a pile of food that was easier to digest, and decided to leave Meimei alone.
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