ask for a body to marry
Chapter 3 (24)
If you want to eat, you have to buy it.If you can't buy it, please ask Tian Lin and Lin Tian to watch it first, and she will go back and make it.
For the recipes that have not been touched, when it is the first time to do it, whether it is Tianlin or Lintian, the craftsmanship is not very good.This is the conclusion Li Xilian has come to after eating countless times.So she is not at ease to ask either of these two people to go back to cook, and it is better to try it by herself.
Zhang Meimei was also polite, pointing to the food on the picture, one by one.Every food on it looks so tempting, even if you just finished eating, you can't help but want to eat it when you see the food on it.
At this time, Li Xilian didn't care about the money issue, so she started calling one by one to order.To be honest, after seeing the picture, Tian Lin also had the idea of wanting to eat.Sure enough, she was born in a foodie country. Even non-humans like her can't resist the temptation of delicious food. Even though they know that eating it won't have any effect, they still can't help but want to try it.
When the food came, Li Xilian imitated the aunt next to her and fed it mouthful. After three or two mouthfuls, Zhang Meimei snatched the bowl.This speed is too slow.She is still in labor pains, and the interval between each labor is more than ten minutes, which is enough for her to eat.
But the so-called extreme joy begets sorrow, that's all.Li Xilian caught the bowl when Zhang Meimei fell down, thankfully only half of the bowl was not spilled.The time interval between labor pains ranged from ten minutes to several minutes.And the pain was so severe that Zhang Meimei felt that she could no longer bear it.
Seeing Zhang Meimei like this, Li Xilian couldn't help regretting why she thought about having a baby in the first place.Obviously they checked the birth situation and said they were afraid of the pain at that time, but the idea of wanting a child and making this home more like a home was circling in their minds.In the end, she decided to have one, but the difficulties that followed made Li Xilian want to give up.
In the later stages of pregnancy, Zhang Meimei had difficulty turning over at night and suffered from cramps easily, so she couldn't sleep well every night.There is a child in the stomach, which puts a heavy burden on the lumbar spine and internal organs. When standing, I feel back pain.
Fortunately, the child is relatively well-behaved and eats whatever is given.Zhang Meimei did not experience morning sickness several times, avoiding suffering in the early stages of pregnancy.But no matter whether the pregnancy is good or bad, when giving birth, there are still many people who are going well, and many people are suffering.
Just like now, Zhang Meimei just experienced a pain and reached out to eat again.Now she always feels exhausted and wants to eat.Taking advantage of the gap, how can I be worthy of myself if I don't eat something.
The doctors and nurses all entered the ward at this time, and the four of them saw that the woman next to her was about to give birth.What happened to Zhang Meimei just now made them ignore their surroundings. This woman has been shouting for a long time.And the aunt next to her kept asking when she would enter the delivery room, but the doctor said there was no rush, the cervix was not fully dilated, so wait now.
Several people wanted to know more about the situation, but Zhang Meimei felt the pain come again.This feeling is similar to that of my aunt, but the frequency and pain are much higher than those of my aunt.At this time, Zhang Meimeicai regretted having a baby. In the previous few months, she could work hard to overcome whether it was discomfort or various minor problems.But giving birth, this ultimate pass is really hard to pass.
It's a pity that it's too late to say anything now. Ten months ago, there was still a possibility of regret.Three months ago, if I really didn't want it, I would accompany her for the operation after contacting i.After all, compared to a child who has never met, your lover is more important.But at this point, it's useless to say anything.Li Xilian could only regret why she let Zhang Meimei die in the first place, since she was in better health.
"Feed me some more, that's all."
She didn't know whether the food she ate turned into strength or she thought it would be over in a day at most. Zhang Meimei regained some strength, and then pushed Li Xilian.I didn't hear the doctor next to me just say to eat more, so I can work harder later.She needs to eat more to gather enough strength to give birth.She also wanted to see the baby as soon as it was born, and she didn't want to pass out because of the baby.
Li Xilian took the contents of the bowl inside, and in order to maintain the heat, Lin Tian put the bowl in boiling water to keep it warm, lest Zhang Meimei find it cold when he wanted to eat.Tian Lin has already gone back to cook porridge, and he is going to take over from Lin Tian at dinner time, and bring them meals by the way.
But when she came over, she realized that the woman next door who was about to give birth when she left hadn't entered the delivery room yet.Doctors and nurses said that the dilation of the cervix is slow, and it is not yet time to give birth.The aunt who was waiting should have gone out to eat too, and the husband was watching by the side, talking one after another, already a little impatient inside.
In the past hour, people surrounded Zhang Meimei.Her cervix is about to open, and everyone is watching her reaction and preparing to adjust the plan.Originally, Li Xilian wanted Zhang Meimei to sleep for a while before giving birth, but the pain was so intense that Zhang Meimei couldn't sleep no matter what.At this time, painkillers and anesthesia seem to lose their effect.Zhang Meimei's only feeling is pain.
Li Xilian kept holding Zhang Meimei's hand, trying to give her strength.Tian Lin watched from the side, his face turned pale.The gap between imaginary childbirth and actual childbirth is too great. She never thought that it would be so painful, and there would be times when no measures would work.She didn't want to give birth, and she didn't want Tian Lin to give birth either.Instead of this, it is better to adopt a child after meeting certain conditions.Or don't have children, just live in a two-person world.
Although the woman next door opened her cervix before Zhang Meimei, Zhang Meimei was much faster in this regard.After being stimulated by a few words from Li Xilian, she quickly drove to Three Fingers, and finally entered the delivery room at ten o'clock in the evening.
Lin Tian also rushed to the hospital at this time, and the three of them entered the delivery room together. Zhang Meimei held Li Xilian on the left, and Lin Tian on the right. Tian Lin just stood beside her head and watched because her face was pale and her calves were trembling.
This time it was nearly two hours of tossing, and Li Xilian kept shouting, encouraging her to work hard beside Zhang Meimei.At this time, it is impossible to give up.The child is about to be born, and a new member of the family will be ushered in immediately. It is only the last step. After birth, he will be relieved, and he will not have to run around with more than ten kilograms of things.
In short, Li Xilian will say whatever words can stimulate people.Not surprisingly, at 5:2 on May 0.Zhang Meimei finally felt relieved. The baby was born, and she lost a few catties of flesh all of a sudden, and felt like she was going to float.
Li Xilian held Zhang Meimei's hand and cried happily.It's really not easy, if there is a next time, she will be born again.She couldn't bear Meimei to suffer any more.
She didn't think of a child, but Zhang Meimei did.Try to raise your head, just want to see how your child is doing.She must be of mixed race, so she must be very beautiful.Although everyone says that children are as ugly as monkeys.But many people say that the more they look at their children, the more beautiful they feel. Mothers can always see things that are different from others.She also wants to see the baby.
After Zhang Meimei's life was over, Lin Tian took out his hand and gave it to Li Xilian. That was the world of the two of them.Now no one can get in, including that little kid.After asking about the situation of the doctor Zhang Meimei, Lin Tian and Tian Lin turned their attention to the child.Well, the picture is right, children are really ugly.
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For our future child Zhang Lelan, the first words she heard from her mother were not joyful words such as "my baby", but "This is really born by me, it's too...not that the mother looks after the child Do you have your own filter?"
Li Xilian nodded when she heard the words, "I think the baby is very good-looking. Although he has many features, his nose and lips are more like yours, but I don't know what color the eyes are." She said, and put the baby in front of Zhang Meimei Made it together.
"In your eyes, I'm just...so ugly?"
Li Xilian looked at her child and then at her lover, and felt that everything she said would be wrong, so it was better not to say it.The child has been ugly for the past few days, and it will be fine when it is opened. This is the public conclusion she has seen from the Internet.She believed that in a few days Meme would like the child too.
After putting the child next to Meimei, Li Xilian took out the soup that Lin Tian had sent over. There was a thermos cup and hot water. Now the soup and porridge were still hot, just right for Zhang Meimei to eat now.It is said that during this period of time, you need to look around to replenish your physical strength, but you should not eat too much, which is not good for your body.
Zhang Meimei stared at her daughter who was placed next to the pillow, and at a glance she felt that her ten months of hard work had been wasted.But at such a close distance, no matter how you turn your head, you will see it, so what should she do.After being helped up to take a few mouthfuls, exhaustion flooded her body, Zhang Meimei shook her head at the spoon stretched out, she wanted to sleep.
"Son, shouldn't it be put over there?"
When she was sleeping, she still saw the child, and Zhang Meimei remembered the pain she had suffered.And she was also afraid of the child falling out of the bed.Even if Li Xilian couldn't watch it, she had been on guard all day today, so it was time for her to rest.
Li Xilian hugged her daughter, sighed, shook her baby, and said in a regretful tone: "You, my mother didn't want to see it when she was born, hey, follow me from now on." , put the person on the crib.Then there was an earth-shattering cry.
The sound was louder than being slapped when he was just born, and it immediately alarmed Tian Lin who was sitting next to him.She ran to the table as fast as she could, looking for milk powder and hot water.Whether it's pulling or peeing or being hungry, always be prepared first.
Zhang Meimei also took a look at her breasts. Although she felt bloating and pain in the late pregnancy, there should be no such thing as milk now.Forget it, the milk powder is milk powder, this is the foreign milk powder they entrust Daigou to buy.In Huaguo, a place where food problems are everywhere, none of them can believe in domestic milk powder.
Before taking two bites, the child stopped.Still howling, Li Xilian unwrapped her swaddling clothes and didn't see any signs.I had no choice but to hold the child, pat her gently, and sing a lullaby with a different key.However, the child didn't appreciate it. Li Xilian sang a song that she rarely sang in a few years, but made her cry even louder, as if she wanted to cry out all the grievances that were rejected by her mother.
Li Xilian coaxed the child in circles, but the child didn't show any face.In desperation, she put the child into Zhang Meimei's arms who had been supported by Tian Lin.Probably because he lay down next to his mother and felt the smell of his mother, the child gradually fell asleep.Li Xilian was finally able to carry the child back to the crib, and smiled apologetically at Tian Lin: "Go back to sleep first, I'm here."
Tian Lin shook his head, pointed to the corner just now, and asked Li Xilian to go to rest first.She is not sleepy at all, and accidents are most likely to happen when she is sleeping. Tian Lin has found that she has changed back to her original form many times when she wakes up.If she changed back to the original due to negligence now, I'm sorry for her and Lintian's concealment for so many years.
Zhang Meimei had already fallen asleep because she was too tired, Li Xilian sighed, giving birth to a child is really hard work.The parturient woman on the bed next to her has been in for several hours, and she hasn't come out yet.She was also tired, and fell asleep with her clothes on against the wall.
Li Xilian's sleep has not been deep, but this time she was too tired, she was woken up by the crying of the child.As soon as I looked up, I saw the mother in the next bed came back.Sitting beside her was her husband, nodding his head, looking exhausted.On the crib at hand, the baby was still crying.But there was no thought of standing up and taking a look.
And next to his own crib, Lin Tian was coaxing the child.It didn't take long for the child to shake, and the crying became quieter, but the child next to him was still crying, and my daughter seemed to start crying again.
Li Xilian stood up with difficulty, and her waist was sore all night.After moving her body, she took her daughter from Lin Tian.Putting it next to Zhang Meimei again, she didn't cry much, even if there was a baby crying next to her.
Lin Tian handed Li Xilian a piece of paper, which was written when Tian Lin was there at night.Including when the child urinated, when he pulled, and when and how much milk he took, all are clearly written.
Afterwards, she went to wake up the husband of the pregnant woman next to her. His wife was still in bed, and the child was still crying. He was able to fall asleep even though he had no caretaker other than him.I was afraid that calling him would wake up Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei, but now I can push him with my hands.
After the man woke up, he was still confused for a while, not knowing what to do in a daze.It wasn't until Lintian said something about your child that he reacted to see how the child was doing.As soon as the swaddle was opened, there was a foul smell.The child is already pulled up in the trousers.The man took a step back, looked at Lintian, saw that she didn't seem to come up to help, and then approached the child to pull out the diaper between his legs.
Seeing that the person woke up, Lin Tian didn't care about the affairs there.Although the child looked pitiful, she had other things to do.But before that, let's persuade Li Xilian to go back first.They are not young anymore, Li Xilian didn't sleep much last night, if she doesn't rest now, don't Zhang Meimei stand up, she will fall down.
Li Xilian had to wait for Zhang Meimei to wake up before leaving. Even Lin Tian only ate a few mouthfuls of the food brought by Lin Tian, and kept staring at Zhang Meimei's sleeping face.After reading some precautions for confinement given by the doctor in his hand, Lin Tian stared at the child from the side.
However, after Zhang Meimei woke up, Lin Tian felt the disadvantage of not having Tian Lin again.She was almost blinded by the sweetness between the lovers.As soon as Zhang Meimei woke up and didn't start asking the child, she was fed by Li Xilian.Still unable to sit up now, Li Xilian feeds Zhang Meimei carefully small mouthfuls, so as not to drip onto her chin or onto the hospital bed.
Zhang Meimei didn't realize until the child was crying that not only she wanted to eat, but also her daughter.There is already milk in the chest, but it is still inconvenient to feed in this position.Li Xilian dragged the child to rub against Zhang Meimei's chest, and finally found the right position.
Breastfeeding is not an easy job. Although a newborn baby has no teeth, its sucking power is not small.Fortunately, the child is still young and does not eat much, so she is not so tired, but when she thinks that she will be fed seven or eight times a day for the next year, and the child will have teeth in the later stage, it will hurt even more to bite.Zhang Meimei felt that the sky was dark.What should I do if I don’t regret before giving birth, but regret after giving birth?What else can I do, the one born by myself, the one I hope to be born, I have to work hard to raise it.
"Are you uncomfortable?" Li Xilian saw that Zhang Meimei's expression was not right, so she wiped her body and covered her with the quilt. "It's really impossible, let the child eat milk powder, you will suffer too much if you feed it."
Zhang Meimei didn't say a word. Before giving birth to a child, everyone said that breast milk is good, and the child must eat breast milk.But what about the mother's feelings?If you don’t feed it, you will feel swelling and pain. If you feed it, your breast/head will feel uncomfortable being sucked by the child.To feed the baby, you can't go out all the time.Everyone has been calling for the establishment of a mother and baby room, but when Zhang Meimei went shopping, she hardly saw women with children going in and out of it.Now many mother and baby rooms are still decorated, just put there as props during the inspection.
It fell into silence here, and the aunt next to her heard their words. "Breastfeeding is good for children. Feed them as soon as they are available, and they will grow strong if they eat. Hey, it's not like my wife. It's been a day and the milk hasn't come down yet. The girl can only eat these milk powders."
As he spoke, he glanced at the daughter-in-law on the child's bed. The young woman didn't say anything, but just stared at the child in her arms.It was obviously her child, and she hadn't hugged it yet.Even if it is a daughter, it is still her daughter.
Li Xilian patted Zhang Meimei's head, but didn't say much.It seems that the family members of clinical mothers are not very easy to get along with. Fortunately, they only need to stay for a few days, and they can leave when Zhang Meimei can be active for a long time.
After experiencing being rejected for opening the window, being told to change a thin quilt, being nudged for scrubbing the body, and even being nagged about taking good care of my daughter.Li Xilian was angry, and when the doctor came, she strongly demanded to be discharged from the hospital.It's okay to share a ward with others. Everyone is a mother and has children.Being in the same ward with a patriarchal, old-fashioned, and talkative aunt is simply torture.
If it were in the original, Li Xilian would have gotten the person out long ago, or she could just take Meimei to change the hospital bed.However, only this aunt can take care of the child of the woman next to her, and the husband can't do anything, and keeps making trouble.I couldn't remember the steps after teaching it several times, which made the child cry.The mother stayed on the bed all the time.And hospital beds, which are missing in hospitals, are not replaced casually.
Fortunately, after four days in the ward, they were finally able to leave.The daughter in her arms was named Zhang Lelan. According to what was agreed at the beginning, each person would choose a word to form the name.But with the characters chosen by the two, only Le Lan could form a more pleasant name.Li Xilian wanted her to be happy, Zhang Meimei just followed her own name, Mei Lan Zhu Ju, Four Gentlemen.
After helping for several days in a row, Tian Lin was exhausted.When I think that being discharged from the hospital is just the beginning, the child has to be brought up slowly, starting from being able to turn over, and learning to crawl, sit, walk, and talk all the way... and these will take decades.When she grows up, she still has to worry about this and that, worrying about her for the rest of her life.She doesn't want to give birth anymore.
But because of the previous temptation to Lu Wei, Tian Lin couldn't tell Lu Wei directly that they didn't want children anymore because they saw other people having children.This kind of thing that needs to change Lu Wei's concept can only be planned by her and Lin Tian.On the first day back home, Tian Lin solemnly raised this point.
"Lin Tian, let's not have any more children, okay?"
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"Do you think my performance these years means that I want a child?"
Tian Lin shook his head, even when Lu Wei mentioned the matter of having a baby in front of them, Lin Tian didn't talk to them very much, and most of the time it was Tian Lin who talked.It was really too bad, Lin Tian said that there was no time now, and he had no energy.In short, it has been evading.
"Then it's fine, we don't have children, okay? Just the two of us, how about living a good life?"
There is still a difference between not having children and not having children. Not having children is just that they will not have children, and they can still adopt/adopt children.No, then no, the two of them lived together in a two-person world.
Leaving aside the hurdles of parents, in Tian Lin's view, having a child in the family is troublesome, but it is also very happy.She saw how Zhang Meimei gave birth, so she didn't want Lin Tian or herself to suffer that kind of pain in the future.But don't?That is the real two-person world.Although the world of the two is also very good, but always feel that something is missing.
"When there are only the two of us in the family, you are more relaxed. If there are more children, should you talk about it or not? Say, one more person knows, it will be more dangerous. If you don't tell, you will Be prepared to hide it for the rest of your life.”
"At that time," Lin Tian recalled the scene at home, when she had to hide Tian Lin's affairs from her parents, making herself almost autistic.After all, whose child would go into the house after class. "The two of us are in the house, leaving the child outside, is it suitable? And we have to play every time, aren't you tired?"
As soon as Tian Lin thought about his situation, he fell silent.Home is indeed the last comfortable place for her. She can become a human being if she wants, and restore her original shape if she wants to. She doesn't have to worry about being seen, and there will be no one at home except Lin Tian.And when others come, they have to knock on the door.
But what if there is a child?As mothers, they must have at least one person with their children.At that time, she couldn't change her form as she wanted.Although it might be better to let the children know, if a big living person appears and disappears for a while, will the children be afraid?If I told others about this, would they think it was childish talk or would they rather believe it or not?
"Besides, I hope you have a relaxing place, and I also hope that I can live a good two-person world with you now. It's not good for us or her to have another person. "
"I know that you are a little envious of Zhang Meimei now. Although she has suffered a lot, she has a small life to accompany her. However, each person has his own way of life. You are definitely not willing to let you live her life. "
Now Zhang Meimei has been buried between diapers and milk and rice. The family has hired a confinement lady, which can indeed help a lot.But she still has to do many things by herself. After all, confinement sister-in-law can't stay for a lifetime, she still has to take care of herself.And what about Tian Lin?You can not eat or drink, just think about changing clothes at will, and they are all clean clothes.Can you take care of a small child?
When it comes to taking care of people, Tian Lin remains silent.Let alone taking care of a child, even at home.She only cooks breakfast, and she cooks it in the microwave. Lintian eats lunch and dinner at school, and Lintian cooks it on weekends.The clothes are all Lintian's. Lintian washes the small pieces by himself, and the big ones in the washing machine.Tianlin can clean up the house, but this small apartment is only more than 20 square meters and is still occupied by tables and beds. There is nothing to clean up.Other fields and forests are good at doing, but they do very little.
If there is one more child, will Lin Tian still have to take care of her to watch?And there are all kinds of follow-up things, going to kindergarten, elementary school, middle school... these are all troublesome things.The healthy growth of a person needs the help of parents and the support of society.Asking himself, Tian Lin found that he could not afford to grow up alone.
"I always feel that there is an extra child in the family. There is sweetness and burden, and the burden, I still can't bear it."
Tian Lin sighed, he felt that he didn't grow up much, if he had another child.Sure enough, Lin Tian refused?Maybe in Lintian's view, there is not much difference between raising himself and raising a child.Thinking of this, Tian Lin became depressed.
"And children need someone to accompany them. Although you are at home, I remember that you often go to various places to find inspiration, and you often get into the computer and can't get out. Have you ever thought about how your children feel when they look at an empty home? Can you Remember to pick up the kids?"
Tian Lin didn't know what Tian Lin was thinking of, but it was enough for her to think of responsibility.Although it is often said that taking responsibility is what everyone says, and Tian Lin has never committed any non-responsibility behavior in normal times, but in Lin Tian's view, those are trivial matters with little impact.And a child is a life, which is a big deal.Small things are fine, but can Tian Lin do big things?She didn't even dare to say that she would be able to raise a child well.
Moreover, Tian Lin likes to run outside, and many times he just left a message and left.Although Lin Tian doesn't know where Tian Lin will go, she must have wandered in cities with rich cultural heritage.Lin Tian ignored many notes when he got up in the morning, but could the child accept this mother who was always playing and disappearing?
Although Tian Lin will remember to give Lin Tian a good morning kiss when he is not obsessed with the scenery, and then go to that city.But in more cases, she suddenly appeared in the house at night.After that, I started to record inspirations, circling around the room, and talking about a bunch of things I didn't understand.This looks like a manifestation of neurosis, and it will scare the child.
Once when Lin Tian went to a meeting in X City in the west, he saw Tian Lin suddenly appearing in the hotel.This person also greeted her and said that she had only been walking for more than ten hours, but Lin Tian caught up unexpectedly.Then I followed Lintian to live in City X for two days, watching Lintian hold meetings from morning to night, but I went to the food court to eat and go to the surrounding attractions to enjoy myself.
Tian Lin, who loves to play so much, looks after the child, that is really the tragedy of the child.This time she was able to go to Zhang Meimei's house to report all day long on weekdays, which surprised Lin Tian. He didn't expect the child to be so attractive.But with a child by his side, can Tian Lin persevere?Lin Tian didn't understand at all.
So the best way is not to have a child inserted between them, it is enough for the two of them to live together.They don't have to worry about a person's growth, and don't have to worry about a person's future.As long as two people live happily for a lifetime, that's enough.There are nursing homes for old people, and they can also ask someone to take care of them.If she couldn't move anymore, she could also apply for euthanasia, but she didn't know if there would be Tian Lin in the days after her death.
Tian Lin felt that he had been persuaded by Lin Tian, and the thoughts in his heart could not be realized in reality.Raising a child is really not an easy task.She easily grew up by relying on Lin Tian, not a child.
"Then we won't have children, we won't raise any more, just two of us, we won't be alone."
Having made a major decision all at once, Tian Lin throws Lin Tian on the bed, and the two of them will have more fun.It's fine for the two of them to live together, but there is still a problem in this.Tian Lin put down the pornographic thoughts in his mind, and asked Lin Tian a very inappropriate question.
"Then how do we tell mom? Back then I said a lot about wanting a child, and mom seems to be looking forward to having a grandson?"
I almost forgot, just the two of them discussing the result is nothing, and what about Lu Wei?It's fine if the daughter doesn't get married, it's fine if the daughter falls in love with a woman, and if the daughter doesn't have children, it's a bit hard for Lu Wei to see.There is no woman who does not have children, what will happen when she is old.
"Procrastinate. I'm on the rise in my career. If I have a baby, I won't have a job in the future. If I don't have a job, I won't have a source of income. How can I raise my children and myself?"
Although you won't lose your job if you have a baby, as long as your research has results and the paper can be published, you won't be fired.After all, the teaching task is not important for college teachers, but the research task is important.But Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei definitely didn't understand.As long as it is serious, they can't lose their daughter's future for the unborn child.
And she has been pregnant for three years, although she can't see how Zhang Meimei's situation is now, but if she takes out the books she taught students, she must have forgotten most of them.If I have been stupid for three years and have no results for three years, I will be fired.It's not easy to be a college teacher.
"As for you, will mother ask you about having a baby? Or you say you can't have a baby. There are so many cases of infertility now, just find someone who is difficult to cure with modern medicine."
To be honest, Lin Tian is not sure whether Tian Lin can get pregnant.It is unknown whether Tian Lin has egg cells or not.Moreover, Tian Lin likes to become a prototype. After becoming a prototype, some real objects will fall off, including the food eaten.What about fertilized eggs?Will it also fall off.There are also nutrients. Now Tian Lin is relying on the mirror to kiss himself, including close physical contact, so what should the child do?Relying on Tian Lin, relying on the mirror?By the way, whether children can enter the mirror or not.
No matter how you think about it, Lin Tian can't even imagine how Tian Lin is pregnant, it's too strange, okay?So Tian Lin still said that she was infertile, so that her parents would not expect too much from her.And I can use the dragging formula to create an image of not wanting children for the sake of my career.In the future, he and Tianlin can sleep and fly together, and live a good life together.
After Tian Lin listened to Lin Tian's words, he didn't care about Lin Tian who was lying down, and took out the computer and started to check the information.No matter what, you have to come out with a disease similar to your own situation. If you are taken to the hospital for an examination, you can still pass the test.If the difference is too much, they think it's bad for her to lie.
Lin Tian also turned over her phone. She hasn't read today's news, and hasn't checked Weibo. As a teacher who keeps pace with the times, she can't keep silent when her colleagues talk about the news tomorrow.
The first thing to pick out was the news that same-sex marriage was legal again in a country.A lot of people commented that it would be nice if Hua Country was like this, and Lin Tian also left a message and forwarded it.If same-sex marriage is legal, they can get married and become a legally recognized couple.I don't know how long this lifetime will take.
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"The little baby is so cute, look at her skin, how white it is, oh, I'm bubbling."
Ever since Zhang Lelan was born, Tian Lin continued to go to Zhang Meimei's house every day during the day.In just a few days, she understood what a little devil is.The child cried like a little devil.But when she's asleep, that's really a little angel.
Especially after the long blooms these days, they are indeed white and fat, which made Tian Lin fully understand what the little buns in the novel mean.It really looks like a small bun, and people can't help but want to poke it.
But after these days of lessons, Tian Lin now only dares to watch from the sidelines, trying not to touch the child with his hands.Normally, if you can't hug, don't hug, if you can, stay away.
Probably because every time Tian Lin approached Zhang Lelan, the little guy would cry earth-shatteringly.Others just coax her, but when it comes to her, the more she cries, the louder she is.Tian Lin had to be forced to give up getting close to the child.
It was fine when I was in the hospital, and there was no problem in the first few days at home, but these days, this situation has become more and more common.Tian Lin could only watch around cautiously, not daring to take a step beyond the threshold, so as not to make the child cry again.
The child's dislike made Tian Lin more and more courageous, and he kept an eye on the baby's changes every day.Now Tian Lin also understands more and more what those people who post the baby think. It is a kind of happiness to have such a beautiful child at hand and watch her grow up every day. Of course, he has to post it.
Especially after knowing that he would not have children, Tian Lin decided to spread his love for children on Zhang Lelan.Fortunately, she still knows how to measure, she will choose the time well every time, she will not disturb Zhang Meimei for too long, and she will return home before Lintian gets off work.There is another reason why Lin Tian didn't say anything, that is, under such circumstances, Tian Lin promised to update.
As a writer, Tian Lin is an exemplary model.The specific performance is that it is updated every day with trepidation. Since the fame has become more and more popular, the days of breaking the update have become fewer and fewer.And every article, no matter whether it is written well or not, and how everyone responds, it will be guaranteed to be completed, even if it is unfinished.Since she became famous, there have been fewer unfinished episodes.If everyone thinks that the writing is not good, reduce the sub-plots and finish writing the foreshadowing.
After watching Zhang Lelan's growth chronicle, Tian Lindan felt that he could write something related to children.If you can, try writing children's literature as well.It is probably no longer the case that I let my children grow up reading the books I wrote.But it's okay to let a friend's child grow up reading your own book.
Write as soon as you think of it, Lintian was very surprised when Tian Lintian gave him a paper to write the outline.Before Tian Lin wrote books, he thought about it on his own, especially in recent years, when he rarely discussed with Lin Tian.It's so rare to have an outline these days.
"Are you writing a new type?"
Most authors have one type of writing. It is rare for Tian Lin to change his type after so many years of writing.Moreover, Tian Lin used to write articles on the Internet, but now it looks like he is going to go out of the publishing style.Moreover, the type of children's literature is completely different from the previous ones.
"I have written too many emotional lines. Now I can show it to children. Naturally, it can be too clear. You see, most of the fairy tales are about the princess and the prince together. They are basically together as soon as they meet. Some say they have experienced it. How about a love-and-dislike twist?"
Those ups and downs, soul-stirring love stories, no
For the recipes that have not been touched, when it is the first time to do it, whether it is Tianlin or Lintian, the craftsmanship is not very good.This is the conclusion Li Xilian has come to after eating countless times.So she is not at ease to ask either of these two people to go back to cook, and it is better to try it by herself.
Zhang Meimei was also polite, pointing to the food on the picture, one by one.Every food on it looks so tempting, even if you just finished eating, you can't help but want to eat it when you see the food on it.
At this time, Li Xilian didn't care about the money issue, so she started calling one by one to order.To be honest, after seeing the picture, Tian Lin also had the idea of wanting to eat.Sure enough, she was born in a foodie country. Even non-humans like her can't resist the temptation of delicious food. Even though they know that eating it won't have any effect, they still can't help but want to try it.
When the food came, Li Xilian imitated the aunt next to her and fed it mouthful. After three or two mouthfuls, Zhang Meimei snatched the bowl.This speed is too slow.She is still in labor pains, and the interval between each labor is more than ten minutes, which is enough for her to eat.
But the so-called extreme joy begets sorrow, that's all.Li Xilian caught the bowl when Zhang Meimei fell down, thankfully only half of the bowl was not spilled.The time interval between labor pains ranged from ten minutes to several minutes.And the pain was so severe that Zhang Meimei felt that she could no longer bear it.
Seeing Zhang Meimei like this, Li Xilian couldn't help regretting why she thought about having a baby in the first place.Obviously they checked the birth situation and said they were afraid of the pain at that time, but the idea of wanting a child and making this home more like a home was circling in their minds.In the end, she decided to have one, but the difficulties that followed made Li Xilian want to give up.
In the later stages of pregnancy, Zhang Meimei had difficulty turning over at night and suffered from cramps easily, so she couldn't sleep well every night.There is a child in the stomach, which puts a heavy burden on the lumbar spine and internal organs. When standing, I feel back pain.
Fortunately, the child is relatively well-behaved and eats whatever is given.Zhang Meimei did not experience morning sickness several times, avoiding suffering in the early stages of pregnancy.But no matter whether the pregnancy is good or bad, when giving birth, there are still many people who are going well, and many people are suffering.
Just like now, Zhang Meimei just experienced a pain and reached out to eat again.Now she always feels exhausted and wants to eat.Taking advantage of the gap, how can I be worthy of myself if I don't eat something.
The doctors and nurses all entered the ward at this time, and the four of them saw that the woman next to her was about to give birth.What happened to Zhang Meimei just now made them ignore their surroundings. This woman has been shouting for a long time.And the aunt next to her kept asking when she would enter the delivery room, but the doctor said there was no rush, the cervix was not fully dilated, so wait now.
Several people wanted to know more about the situation, but Zhang Meimei felt the pain come again.This feeling is similar to that of my aunt, but the frequency and pain are much higher than those of my aunt.At this time, Zhang Meimeicai regretted having a baby. In the previous few months, she could work hard to overcome whether it was discomfort or various minor problems.But giving birth, this ultimate pass is really hard to pass.
It's a pity that it's too late to say anything now. Ten months ago, there was still a possibility of regret.Three months ago, if I really didn't want it, I would accompany her for the operation after contacting i.After all, compared to a child who has never met, your lover is more important.But at this point, it's useless to say anything.Li Xilian could only regret why she let Zhang Meimei die in the first place, since she was in better health.
"Feed me some more, that's all."
She didn't know whether the food she ate turned into strength or she thought it would be over in a day at most. Zhang Meimei regained some strength, and then pushed Li Xilian.I didn't hear the doctor next to me just say to eat more, so I can work harder later.She needs to eat more to gather enough strength to give birth.She also wanted to see the baby as soon as it was born, and she didn't want to pass out because of the baby.
Li Xilian took the contents of the bowl inside, and in order to maintain the heat, Lin Tian put the bowl in boiling water to keep it warm, lest Zhang Meimei find it cold when he wanted to eat.Tian Lin has already gone back to cook porridge, and he is going to take over from Lin Tian at dinner time, and bring them meals by the way.
But when she came over, she realized that the woman next door who was about to give birth when she left hadn't entered the delivery room yet.Doctors and nurses said that the dilation of the cervix is slow, and it is not yet time to give birth.The aunt who was waiting should have gone out to eat too, and the husband was watching by the side, talking one after another, already a little impatient inside.
In the past hour, people surrounded Zhang Meimei.Her cervix is about to open, and everyone is watching her reaction and preparing to adjust the plan.Originally, Li Xilian wanted Zhang Meimei to sleep for a while before giving birth, but the pain was so intense that Zhang Meimei couldn't sleep no matter what.At this time, painkillers and anesthesia seem to lose their effect.Zhang Meimei's only feeling is pain.
Li Xilian kept holding Zhang Meimei's hand, trying to give her strength.Tian Lin watched from the side, his face turned pale.The gap between imaginary childbirth and actual childbirth is too great. She never thought that it would be so painful, and there would be times when no measures would work.She didn't want to give birth, and she didn't want Tian Lin to give birth either.Instead of this, it is better to adopt a child after meeting certain conditions.Or don't have children, just live in a two-person world.
Although the woman next door opened her cervix before Zhang Meimei, Zhang Meimei was much faster in this regard.After being stimulated by a few words from Li Xilian, she quickly drove to Three Fingers, and finally entered the delivery room at ten o'clock in the evening.
Lin Tian also rushed to the hospital at this time, and the three of them entered the delivery room together. Zhang Meimei held Li Xilian on the left, and Lin Tian on the right. Tian Lin just stood beside her head and watched because her face was pale and her calves were trembling.
This time it was nearly two hours of tossing, and Li Xilian kept shouting, encouraging her to work hard beside Zhang Meimei.At this time, it is impossible to give up.The child is about to be born, and a new member of the family will be ushered in immediately. It is only the last step. After birth, he will be relieved, and he will not have to run around with more than ten kilograms of things.
In short, Li Xilian will say whatever words can stimulate people.Not surprisingly, at 5:2 on May 0.Zhang Meimei finally felt relieved. The baby was born, and she lost a few catties of flesh all of a sudden, and felt like she was going to float.
Li Xilian held Zhang Meimei's hand and cried happily.It's really not easy, if there is a next time, she will be born again.She couldn't bear Meimei to suffer any more.
She didn't think of a child, but Zhang Meimei did.Try to raise your head, just want to see how your child is doing.She must be of mixed race, so she must be very beautiful.Although everyone says that children are as ugly as monkeys.But many people say that the more they look at their children, the more beautiful they feel. Mothers can always see things that are different from others.She also wants to see the baby.
After Zhang Meimei's life was over, Lin Tian took out his hand and gave it to Li Xilian. That was the world of the two of them.Now no one can get in, including that little kid.After asking about the situation of the doctor Zhang Meimei, Lin Tian and Tian Lin turned their attention to the child.Well, the picture is right, children are really ugly.
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For our future child Zhang Lelan, the first words she heard from her mother were not joyful words such as "my baby", but "This is really born by me, it's too...not that the mother looks after the child Do you have your own filter?"
Li Xilian nodded when she heard the words, "I think the baby is very good-looking. Although he has many features, his nose and lips are more like yours, but I don't know what color the eyes are." She said, and put the baby in front of Zhang Meimei Made it together.
"In your eyes, I'm just...so ugly?"
Li Xilian looked at her child and then at her lover, and felt that everything she said would be wrong, so it was better not to say it.The child has been ugly for the past few days, and it will be fine when it is opened. This is the public conclusion she has seen from the Internet.She believed that in a few days Meme would like the child too.
After putting the child next to Meimei, Li Xilian took out the soup that Lin Tian had sent over. There was a thermos cup and hot water. Now the soup and porridge were still hot, just right for Zhang Meimei to eat now.It is said that during this period of time, you need to look around to replenish your physical strength, but you should not eat too much, which is not good for your body.
Zhang Meimei stared at her daughter who was placed next to the pillow, and at a glance she felt that her ten months of hard work had been wasted.But at such a close distance, no matter how you turn your head, you will see it, so what should she do.After being helped up to take a few mouthfuls, exhaustion flooded her body, Zhang Meimei shook her head at the spoon stretched out, she wanted to sleep.
"Son, shouldn't it be put over there?"
When she was sleeping, she still saw the child, and Zhang Meimei remembered the pain she had suffered.And she was also afraid of the child falling out of the bed.Even if Li Xilian couldn't watch it, she had been on guard all day today, so it was time for her to rest.
Li Xilian hugged her daughter, sighed, shook her baby, and said in a regretful tone: "You, my mother didn't want to see it when she was born, hey, follow me from now on." , put the person on the crib.Then there was an earth-shattering cry.
The sound was louder than being slapped when he was just born, and it immediately alarmed Tian Lin who was sitting next to him.She ran to the table as fast as she could, looking for milk powder and hot water.Whether it's pulling or peeing or being hungry, always be prepared first.
Zhang Meimei also took a look at her breasts. Although she felt bloating and pain in the late pregnancy, there should be no such thing as milk now.Forget it, the milk powder is milk powder, this is the foreign milk powder they entrust Daigou to buy.In Huaguo, a place where food problems are everywhere, none of them can believe in domestic milk powder.
Before taking two bites, the child stopped.Still howling, Li Xilian unwrapped her swaddling clothes and didn't see any signs.I had no choice but to hold the child, pat her gently, and sing a lullaby with a different key.However, the child didn't appreciate it. Li Xilian sang a song that she rarely sang in a few years, but made her cry even louder, as if she wanted to cry out all the grievances that were rejected by her mother.
Li Xilian coaxed the child in circles, but the child didn't show any face.In desperation, she put the child into Zhang Meimei's arms who had been supported by Tian Lin.Probably because he lay down next to his mother and felt the smell of his mother, the child gradually fell asleep.Li Xilian was finally able to carry the child back to the crib, and smiled apologetically at Tian Lin: "Go back to sleep first, I'm here."
Tian Lin shook his head, pointed to the corner just now, and asked Li Xilian to go to rest first.She is not sleepy at all, and accidents are most likely to happen when she is sleeping. Tian Lin has found that she has changed back to her original form many times when she wakes up.If she changed back to the original due to negligence now, I'm sorry for her and Lintian's concealment for so many years.
Zhang Meimei had already fallen asleep because she was too tired, Li Xilian sighed, giving birth to a child is really hard work.The parturient woman on the bed next to her has been in for several hours, and she hasn't come out yet.She was also tired, and fell asleep with her clothes on against the wall.
Li Xilian's sleep has not been deep, but this time she was too tired, she was woken up by the crying of the child.As soon as I looked up, I saw the mother in the next bed came back.Sitting beside her was her husband, nodding his head, looking exhausted.On the crib at hand, the baby was still crying.But there was no thought of standing up and taking a look.
And next to his own crib, Lin Tian was coaxing the child.It didn't take long for the child to shake, and the crying became quieter, but the child next to him was still crying, and my daughter seemed to start crying again.
Li Xilian stood up with difficulty, and her waist was sore all night.After moving her body, she took her daughter from Lin Tian.Putting it next to Zhang Meimei again, she didn't cry much, even if there was a baby crying next to her.
Lin Tian handed Li Xilian a piece of paper, which was written when Tian Lin was there at night.Including when the child urinated, when he pulled, and when and how much milk he took, all are clearly written.
Afterwards, she went to wake up the husband of the pregnant woman next to her. His wife was still in bed, and the child was still crying. He was able to fall asleep even though he had no caretaker other than him.I was afraid that calling him would wake up Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei, but now I can push him with my hands.
After the man woke up, he was still confused for a while, not knowing what to do in a daze.It wasn't until Lintian said something about your child that he reacted to see how the child was doing.As soon as the swaddle was opened, there was a foul smell.The child is already pulled up in the trousers.The man took a step back, looked at Lintian, saw that she didn't seem to come up to help, and then approached the child to pull out the diaper between his legs.
Seeing that the person woke up, Lin Tian didn't care about the affairs there.Although the child looked pitiful, she had other things to do.But before that, let's persuade Li Xilian to go back first.They are not young anymore, Li Xilian didn't sleep much last night, if she doesn't rest now, don't Zhang Meimei stand up, she will fall down.
Li Xilian had to wait for Zhang Meimei to wake up before leaving. Even Lin Tian only ate a few mouthfuls of the food brought by Lin Tian, and kept staring at Zhang Meimei's sleeping face.After reading some precautions for confinement given by the doctor in his hand, Lin Tian stared at the child from the side.
However, after Zhang Meimei woke up, Lin Tian felt the disadvantage of not having Tian Lin again.She was almost blinded by the sweetness between the lovers.As soon as Zhang Meimei woke up and didn't start asking the child, she was fed by Li Xilian.Still unable to sit up now, Li Xilian feeds Zhang Meimei carefully small mouthfuls, so as not to drip onto her chin or onto the hospital bed.
Zhang Meimei didn't realize until the child was crying that not only she wanted to eat, but also her daughter.There is already milk in the chest, but it is still inconvenient to feed in this position.Li Xilian dragged the child to rub against Zhang Meimei's chest, and finally found the right position.
Breastfeeding is not an easy job. Although a newborn baby has no teeth, its sucking power is not small.Fortunately, the child is still young and does not eat much, so she is not so tired, but when she thinks that she will be fed seven or eight times a day for the next year, and the child will have teeth in the later stage, it will hurt even more to bite.Zhang Meimei felt that the sky was dark.What should I do if I don’t regret before giving birth, but regret after giving birth?What else can I do, the one born by myself, the one I hope to be born, I have to work hard to raise it.
"Are you uncomfortable?" Li Xilian saw that Zhang Meimei's expression was not right, so she wiped her body and covered her with the quilt. "It's really impossible, let the child eat milk powder, you will suffer too much if you feed it."
Zhang Meimei didn't say a word. Before giving birth to a child, everyone said that breast milk is good, and the child must eat breast milk.But what about the mother's feelings?If you don’t feed it, you will feel swelling and pain. If you feed it, your breast/head will feel uncomfortable being sucked by the child.To feed the baby, you can't go out all the time.Everyone has been calling for the establishment of a mother and baby room, but when Zhang Meimei went shopping, she hardly saw women with children going in and out of it.Now many mother and baby rooms are still decorated, just put there as props during the inspection.
It fell into silence here, and the aunt next to her heard their words. "Breastfeeding is good for children. Feed them as soon as they are available, and they will grow strong if they eat. Hey, it's not like my wife. It's been a day and the milk hasn't come down yet. The girl can only eat these milk powders."
As he spoke, he glanced at the daughter-in-law on the child's bed. The young woman didn't say anything, but just stared at the child in her arms.It was obviously her child, and she hadn't hugged it yet.Even if it is a daughter, it is still her daughter.
Li Xilian patted Zhang Meimei's head, but didn't say much.It seems that the family members of clinical mothers are not very easy to get along with. Fortunately, they only need to stay for a few days, and they can leave when Zhang Meimei can be active for a long time.
After experiencing being rejected for opening the window, being told to change a thin quilt, being nudged for scrubbing the body, and even being nagged about taking good care of my daughter.Li Xilian was angry, and when the doctor came, she strongly demanded to be discharged from the hospital.It's okay to share a ward with others. Everyone is a mother and has children.Being in the same ward with a patriarchal, old-fashioned, and talkative aunt is simply torture.
If it were in the original, Li Xilian would have gotten the person out long ago, or she could just take Meimei to change the hospital bed.However, only this aunt can take care of the child of the woman next to her, and the husband can't do anything, and keeps making trouble.I couldn't remember the steps after teaching it several times, which made the child cry.The mother stayed on the bed all the time.And hospital beds, which are missing in hospitals, are not replaced casually.
Fortunately, after four days in the ward, they were finally able to leave.The daughter in her arms was named Zhang Lelan. According to what was agreed at the beginning, each person would choose a word to form the name.But with the characters chosen by the two, only Le Lan could form a more pleasant name.Li Xilian wanted her to be happy, Zhang Meimei just followed her own name, Mei Lan Zhu Ju, Four Gentlemen.
After helping for several days in a row, Tian Lin was exhausted.When I think that being discharged from the hospital is just the beginning, the child has to be brought up slowly, starting from being able to turn over, and learning to crawl, sit, walk, and talk all the way... and these will take decades.When she grows up, she still has to worry about this and that, worrying about her for the rest of her life.She doesn't want to give birth anymore.
But because of the previous temptation to Lu Wei, Tian Lin couldn't tell Lu Wei directly that they didn't want children anymore because they saw other people having children.This kind of thing that needs to change Lu Wei's concept can only be planned by her and Lin Tian.On the first day back home, Tian Lin solemnly raised this point.
"Lin Tian, let's not have any more children, okay?"
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"Do you think my performance these years means that I want a child?"
Tian Lin shook his head, even when Lu Wei mentioned the matter of having a baby in front of them, Lin Tian didn't talk to them very much, and most of the time it was Tian Lin who talked.It was really too bad, Lin Tian said that there was no time now, and he had no energy.In short, it has been evading.
"Then it's fine, we don't have children, okay? Just the two of us, how about living a good life?"
There is still a difference between not having children and not having children. Not having children is just that they will not have children, and they can still adopt/adopt children.No, then no, the two of them lived together in a two-person world.
Leaving aside the hurdles of parents, in Tian Lin's view, having a child in the family is troublesome, but it is also very happy.She saw how Zhang Meimei gave birth, so she didn't want Lin Tian or herself to suffer that kind of pain in the future.But don't?That is the real two-person world.Although the world of the two is also very good, but always feel that something is missing.
"When there are only the two of us in the family, you are more relaxed. If there are more children, should you talk about it or not? Say, one more person knows, it will be more dangerous. If you don't tell, you will Be prepared to hide it for the rest of your life.”
"At that time," Lin Tian recalled the scene at home, when she had to hide Tian Lin's affairs from her parents, making herself almost autistic.After all, whose child would go into the house after class. "The two of us are in the house, leaving the child outside, is it suitable? And we have to play every time, aren't you tired?"
As soon as Tian Lin thought about his situation, he fell silent.Home is indeed the last comfortable place for her. She can become a human being if she wants, and restore her original shape if she wants to. She doesn't have to worry about being seen, and there will be no one at home except Lin Tian.And when others come, they have to knock on the door.
But what if there is a child?As mothers, they must have at least one person with their children.At that time, she couldn't change her form as she wanted.Although it might be better to let the children know, if a big living person appears and disappears for a while, will the children be afraid?If I told others about this, would they think it was childish talk or would they rather believe it or not?
"Besides, I hope you have a relaxing place, and I also hope that I can live a good two-person world with you now. It's not good for us or her to have another person. "
"I know that you are a little envious of Zhang Meimei now. Although she has suffered a lot, she has a small life to accompany her. However, each person has his own way of life. You are definitely not willing to let you live her life. "
Now Zhang Meimei has been buried between diapers and milk and rice. The family has hired a confinement lady, which can indeed help a lot.But she still has to do many things by herself. After all, confinement sister-in-law can't stay for a lifetime, she still has to take care of herself.And what about Tian Lin?You can not eat or drink, just think about changing clothes at will, and they are all clean clothes.Can you take care of a small child?
When it comes to taking care of people, Tian Lin remains silent.Let alone taking care of a child, even at home.She only cooks breakfast, and she cooks it in the microwave. Lintian eats lunch and dinner at school, and Lintian cooks it on weekends.The clothes are all Lintian's. Lintian washes the small pieces by himself, and the big ones in the washing machine.Tianlin can clean up the house, but this small apartment is only more than 20 square meters and is still occupied by tables and beds. There is nothing to clean up.Other fields and forests are good at doing, but they do very little.
If there is one more child, will Lin Tian still have to take care of her to watch?And there are all kinds of follow-up things, going to kindergarten, elementary school, middle school... these are all troublesome things.The healthy growth of a person needs the help of parents and the support of society.Asking himself, Tian Lin found that he could not afford to grow up alone.
"I always feel that there is an extra child in the family. There is sweetness and burden, and the burden, I still can't bear it."
Tian Lin sighed, he felt that he didn't grow up much, if he had another child.Sure enough, Lin Tian refused?Maybe in Lintian's view, there is not much difference between raising himself and raising a child.Thinking of this, Tian Lin became depressed.
"And children need someone to accompany them. Although you are at home, I remember that you often go to various places to find inspiration, and you often get into the computer and can't get out. Have you ever thought about how your children feel when they look at an empty home? Can you Remember to pick up the kids?"
Tian Lin didn't know what Tian Lin was thinking of, but it was enough for her to think of responsibility.Although it is often said that taking responsibility is what everyone says, and Tian Lin has never committed any non-responsibility behavior in normal times, but in Lin Tian's view, those are trivial matters with little impact.And a child is a life, which is a big deal.Small things are fine, but can Tian Lin do big things?She didn't even dare to say that she would be able to raise a child well.
Moreover, Tian Lin likes to run outside, and many times he just left a message and left.Although Lin Tian doesn't know where Tian Lin will go, she must have wandered in cities with rich cultural heritage.Lin Tian ignored many notes when he got up in the morning, but could the child accept this mother who was always playing and disappearing?
Although Tian Lin will remember to give Lin Tian a good morning kiss when he is not obsessed with the scenery, and then go to that city.But in more cases, she suddenly appeared in the house at night.After that, I started to record inspirations, circling around the room, and talking about a bunch of things I didn't understand.This looks like a manifestation of neurosis, and it will scare the child.
Once when Lin Tian went to a meeting in X City in the west, he saw Tian Lin suddenly appearing in the hotel.This person also greeted her and said that she had only been walking for more than ten hours, but Lin Tian caught up unexpectedly.Then I followed Lintian to live in City X for two days, watching Lintian hold meetings from morning to night, but I went to the food court to eat and go to the surrounding attractions to enjoy myself.
Tian Lin, who loves to play so much, looks after the child, that is really the tragedy of the child.This time she was able to go to Zhang Meimei's house to report all day long on weekdays, which surprised Lin Tian. He didn't expect the child to be so attractive.But with a child by his side, can Tian Lin persevere?Lin Tian didn't understand at all.
So the best way is not to have a child inserted between them, it is enough for the two of them to live together.They don't have to worry about a person's growth, and don't have to worry about a person's future.As long as two people live happily for a lifetime, that's enough.There are nursing homes for old people, and they can also ask someone to take care of them.If she couldn't move anymore, she could also apply for euthanasia, but she didn't know if there would be Tian Lin in the days after her death.
Tian Lin felt that he had been persuaded by Lin Tian, and the thoughts in his heart could not be realized in reality.Raising a child is really not an easy task.She easily grew up by relying on Lin Tian, not a child.
"Then we won't have children, we won't raise any more, just two of us, we won't be alone."
Having made a major decision all at once, Tian Lin throws Lin Tian on the bed, and the two of them will have more fun.It's fine for the two of them to live together, but there is still a problem in this.Tian Lin put down the pornographic thoughts in his mind, and asked Lin Tian a very inappropriate question.
"Then how do we tell mom? Back then I said a lot about wanting a child, and mom seems to be looking forward to having a grandson?"
I almost forgot, just the two of them discussing the result is nothing, and what about Lu Wei?It's fine if the daughter doesn't get married, it's fine if the daughter falls in love with a woman, and if the daughter doesn't have children, it's a bit hard for Lu Wei to see.There is no woman who does not have children, what will happen when she is old.
"Procrastinate. I'm on the rise in my career. If I have a baby, I won't have a job in the future. If I don't have a job, I won't have a source of income. How can I raise my children and myself?"
Although you won't lose your job if you have a baby, as long as your research has results and the paper can be published, you won't be fired.After all, the teaching task is not important for college teachers, but the research task is important.But Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei definitely didn't understand.As long as it is serious, they can't lose their daughter's future for the unborn child.
And she has been pregnant for three years, although she can't see how Zhang Meimei's situation is now, but if she takes out the books she taught students, she must have forgotten most of them.If I have been stupid for three years and have no results for three years, I will be fired.It's not easy to be a college teacher.
"As for you, will mother ask you about having a baby? Or you say you can't have a baby. There are so many cases of infertility now, just find someone who is difficult to cure with modern medicine."
To be honest, Lin Tian is not sure whether Tian Lin can get pregnant.It is unknown whether Tian Lin has egg cells or not.Moreover, Tian Lin likes to become a prototype. After becoming a prototype, some real objects will fall off, including the food eaten.What about fertilized eggs?Will it also fall off.There are also nutrients. Now Tian Lin is relying on the mirror to kiss himself, including close physical contact, so what should the child do?Relying on Tian Lin, relying on the mirror?By the way, whether children can enter the mirror or not.
No matter how you think about it, Lin Tian can't even imagine how Tian Lin is pregnant, it's too strange, okay?So Tian Lin still said that she was infertile, so that her parents would not expect too much from her.And I can use the dragging formula to create an image of not wanting children for the sake of my career.In the future, he and Tianlin can sleep and fly together, and live a good life together.
After Tian Lin listened to Lin Tian's words, he didn't care about Lin Tian who was lying down, and took out the computer and started to check the information.No matter what, you have to come out with a disease similar to your own situation. If you are taken to the hospital for an examination, you can still pass the test.If the difference is too much, they think it's bad for her to lie.
Lin Tian also turned over her phone. She hasn't read today's news, and hasn't checked Weibo. As a teacher who keeps pace with the times, she can't keep silent when her colleagues talk about the news tomorrow.
The first thing to pick out was the news that same-sex marriage was legal again in a country.A lot of people commented that it would be nice if Hua Country was like this, and Lin Tian also left a message and forwarded it.If same-sex marriage is legal, they can get married and become a legally recognized couple.I don't know how long this lifetime will take.
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"The little baby is so cute, look at her skin, how white it is, oh, I'm bubbling."
Ever since Zhang Lelan was born, Tian Lin continued to go to Zhang Meimei's house every day during the day.In just a few days, she understood what a little devil is.The child cried like a little devil.But when she's asleep, that's really a little angel.
Especially after the long blooms these days, they are indeed white and fat, which made Tian Lin fully understand what the little buns in the novel mean.It really looks like a small bun, and people can't help but want to poke it.
But after these days of lessons, Tian Lin now only dares to watch from the sidelines, trying not to touch the child with his hands.Normally, if you can't hug, don't hug, if you can, stay away.
Probably because every time Tian Lin approached Zhang Lelan, the little guy would cry earth-shatteringly.Others just coax her, but when it comes to her, the more she cries, the louder she is.Tian Lin had to be forced to give up getting close to the child.
It was fine when I was in the hospital, and there was no problem in the first few days at home, but these days, this situation has become more and more common.Tian Lin could only watch around cautiously, not daring to take a step beyond the threshold, so as not to make the child cry again.
The child's dislike made Tian Lin more and more courageous, and he kept an eye on the baby's changes every day.Now Tian Lin also understands more and more what those people who post the baby think. It is a kind of happiness to have such a beautiful child at hand and watch her grow up every day. Of course, he has to post it.
Especially after knowing that he would not have children, Tian Lin decided to spread his love for children on Zhang Lelan.Fortunately, she still knows how to measure, she will choose the time well every time, she will not disturb Zhang Meimei for too long, and she will return home before Lintian gets off work.There is another reason why Lin Tian didn't say anything, that is, under such circumstances, Tian Lin promised to update.
As a writer, Tian Lin is an exemplary model.The specific performance is that it is updated every day with trepidation. Since the fame has become more and more popular, the days of breaking the update have become fewer and fewer.And every article, no matter whether it is written well or not, and how everyone responds, it will be guaranteed to be completed, even if it is unfinished.Since she became famous, there have been fewer unfinished episodes.If everyone thinks that the writing is not good, reduce the sub-plots and finish writing the foreshadowing.
After watching Zhang Lelan's growth chronicle, Tian Lindan felt that he could write something related to children.If you can, try writing children's literature as well.It is probably no longer the case that I let my children grow up reading the books I wrote.But it's okay to let a friend's child grow up reading your own book.
Write as soon as you think of it, Lintian was very surprised when Tian Lintian gave him a paper to write the outline.Before Tian Lin wrote books, he thought about it on his own, especially in recent years, when he rarely discussed with Lin Tian.It's so rare to have an outline these days.
"Are you writing a new type?"
Most authors have one type of writing. It is rare for Tian Lin to change his type after so many years of writing.Moreover, Tian Lin used to write articles on the Internet, but now it looks like he is going to go out of the publishing style.Moreover, the type of children's literature is completely different from the previous ones.
"I have written too many emotional lines. Now I can show it to children. Naturally, it can be too clear. You see, most of the fairy tales are about the princess and the prince together. They are basically together as soon as they meet. Some say they have experienced it. How about a love-and-dislike twist?"
Those ups and downs, soul-stirring love stories, no
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