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On the way home, Lin Xing'an noticed that her daughter had her head down and didn't know what she was thinking.As soon as he stopped, he saw his daughter also stop.Lin Tian looked up and saw that his father stopped before reaching the intersection.She looked at her father with questioning eyes. It couldn't be that the grade director said something, and it was inconvenient for her father to tell her mother.

Lin Xing'an paused for a moment, and then said: "What's wrong this afternoon, did something difficult to solve happen?" The daughter kept looking thoughtful, not like she was preparing for the exam.He suspected that it had something to do with those two girls, but he didn't know what happened to him.

"Father, tell me..." Lin Tian thought about her words. She really didn't know what to say about what happened this afternoon. "Why would someone bully others?" This was the most incomprehensible thing for her. Can't make it through?The examples in the books are too far away for her, but in life, this is the first time she has experienced such a thing.

"Did something happen?" Hearing what his daughter said, Lin Xing'an's heart ached.It's not that he doesn't know the situation of No. [-] Middle School. As the best middle school in the city, people with money and power all want to put their children here.But some of those children were really not good in character.If the daughter meets them, or is targeted by them.Lin Xing'an took his daughter's hand and looked her over carefully. She looked fine on the outside, and asked his wife to take another look after returning home.

"Tell Dad, have you met those people from Class [-]? Did they treat you?"

"I saw them bullying a girl," Lin Tian said hesitantly, "then Zhang Meimei and Li Xilian appeared, and those people left."

"Zhang Meimei and Li Xilian?" The names of her classmates rarely appeared in her daughter's mouth, and these two people should not be in the same class as her daughter.And the name Li Xilian is a bit familiar.

"It's the two girls who were with me just now. After they appeared, the girl who beat someone left." Lin Tian was going to say that Li Xilian's great achievements helped many bullied people escape.But when she thought that Tian Lin had told her about those things, and that Tian Lin's existence was an unspoken secret, she stopped talking.I asked Lin Xing'an again: "Why do some people bully others?"

Lin Xing'an finally remembered Li Xilian. She was the first in her grade in several exams, and her name had been on the bulletin board for half a year.The daughter's probably encountered a scene where someone was bullying a classmate, and was stopped by Li Xilian.It's his daughter's question, and he really can't answer it.He thought for a while and said, "Let's go home first, okay? Dad will tell Tiantian when we get home." This is a public place, and he has to think about how to say it.Lin Tian nodded and followed Lin Xing'an to continue walking.

Along the way, Lin Xing'an was thinking about how to tell his daughter about incidents of school violence.Before that, he wanted to protect his daughter forever and prevent her from accessing these contents.Even after discussing with Lu Wei about teaching their daughter some social things, they still couldn't bear to say those dark things.They didn't expect these things to be so close to their daughter, and they couldn't stop them if they wanted to.I have to say it this time, I hope my daughter can bear it. Saying it now is much better than knowing it after suffering a loss in the society.

After arriving home, Lin Xing'an went to cook first, and told Lin Tian to do his homework first, and talk about those things after dinner.Lin Tian obediently agreed, but as soon as she returned to the room, she began to ask Tian Lin who followed her all the way without speaking, "Tell me, why is this? Why do they bully their classmates at will, and why doesn't that girl run away? You told me , and there are many such things, isn’t it true?”

Tian Lin also suffered the same trouble as Lin Xing'an, and told Lin Tian everything directly, is it really all right?Even if it was her back then, after finding out about school violence, it took several days to recover after checking the news on the Internet.At that time, Lin Tian thought that she wanted to avoid studying and read books at home, so she specially put back all the books she took from her parents, and put all the books borrowed from the library in the living room. She had read all the books left in the house. of.But she still stayed in the mirror for a few days, and only went to the computer at night to see if there was anything else going on.

Those few days were the days when Tian Lin's understanding of the world deepened. Negative news filled her mind. She didn't want to read it, but she also wanted to know why it happened, and whether such things still existed in this world.Those things affected her thinking, and finally vented in the text, she added a lot of negative energy.Later, after seeing Lin Tian's smiling face a lot, and staying with Lin Tian for a long time, he slowly recovered.At the same time, he kept his identity even tighter, did not dare to act recklessly, and tried to stay as close as possible to Lin Tian.There are so many wonders in this world, if someone other than Lin Tian can see her, will she be treated the same as those female ghosts who were burned to death?

And besides worrying about herself, she was also worried about Lin Tian, ​​would Lin Tian become a victim of school violence, would someone bully her?After observing for many days, she was sure that Lintian had not been affected and knew nothing about school violence.At that time, she also thought that it would be good if Lin Tian never knew about it, and it would be good if those things kept away from Lin Tian.But I didn't expect that what happened this time was so close to Lintian.

Facing Lin Tian who was sitting in front of him, waiting for him to give an answer, Tian Lin felt that there was something called responsibility in him.She had to tell Lin Tian well, and she couldn't let Lin Tian be like her back then, because she watched too much all at once, confused her mind, and even had bad thoughts about this world.She can vent in the text, but Lin Tian doesn't have any channels to vent. What if she keeps it in her mind and doesn't say it, like those anti-social people?Tian Lin silently deleted the "creating a clean environment for children: too much negative news, the girl said she doesn't believe in this world."Lin Tian is not like that.But how should I tell Lin Tian now?

"You know, we are still young, so the world we see is that big." Tian Lin made a circle with his hand, "But this world is very big." She waved her arm and drew a circle. "We're going to see more and more things, and there's always something different than what we knew, but it's there."

"That is to say, is it normal for those people to bully others? Isn't it wrong? Why is it normal?" Lin Tian asked.

"This is not normal, but everyone is used to these things happening." Tian Lin doesn't want Lin Tian to think that this is a normal thing. These are all wrong, but they are all powerless to solve, and finally become a kind of default existence . "There are a lot of things in this society, the kind that you know is wrong, but you can't stop it, you can only watch it happen."

Lin Tian was silent for a while before asking: "It's wrong for those people to bully others, but can't we stop it? Why can Li Xilian stop it? Seeing her coming, that girl ran away." According to Tian Lin, This is not the only thing Li Xilian stopped, why can she do it.

"Because... because she is better than them." Tian Lin thought of several excuses, but he didn't know how to explain these things to Lin Tian.If you look at the essence of bullying others, you can only bully others by being stronger than others. "Only when you are stronger than others can you do those things. The same is true for bullying others. Those people bully are weaker than them, and Li Xilian can help those weak because she is stronger. And not every time Those people can be driven away. Several times, it was Li Xilian who ran away with the bullied people, and Zhang Meimei was pulled out by her in this way."

"As long as you are stronger than them." Lin Tian repeated this sentence, "Is it because you are strong that you can treat the weak like this? Is it because you are strong that you can help the weak? What is it like?" She is not sitting on a chair, but in Turning circles in the room, this is her consistent expression of thinking.Many things were in a mess in her mind, what Tian Lin said, what she saw, and her own guesses...

Seeing Lin Tian like this, Tian Lin worried that she would go astray. She just wanted to come out to help Lin Tian think, when she heard a knock on the door, accompanied by Lin Xing'an's voice: "Tian Tian, ​​it's time to eat."

Lin Tian went out the door absent-mindedly, still circling those things in his mind, as if there was a bend ahead, and he couldn't turn it around.Seeing her daughter like this, Lin Xing'an exchanged glances with Lu Wei. "Eat first. If you think too much, your brain will not be enough." After the meal, he wanted to have a good talk with his daughter.