When attacked and worn as a farmer's daughter-in-law

When Shen Dujuan got married, Mrs. Zhang left her a box of silver, which was only from the family, not counting the savings she had saved when she was a girl.So far, Shen Dujuan has been married to Wu's family for more than ten years. Over the years, Wu's family has been stable and stable, and she would not ask her daughter-in-law to subsidize it. There are only a lot of private houses.

Besides, daughters-in-law can always think of various ways to save money.Even if Shen Dujuan only saves two hundred cash a year, after more than ten years, she should have three or four taels of silver.What's more, the youngest son-in-law's family suddenly became prosperous a few years ago. The youngest daughter wants to save face, and the gifts for relatives are not bad. The New Year's money for the younger generation is at least ten yuan per person, and it will increase every year.

The money in Shen Dujuan's hands may not be less than five taels, even if it is less, there will definitely be four taels.The eldest daughter said that if she took out most of her family's wealth, it would be good to pay three or two. The gap was six times. Mrs. Zhang was so angry that her breathing was a little short of breath, and she took a few sips of water before she calmed down.

The matter is a foregone conclusion, since it has been done, then simply let the eldest daughter be fulfilled.Mrs. Zhang decided to talk to the old man later, and send some food to the eldest son-in-law's family. If nothing happened, people would complain about it.

Mrs. Zhang was angry, not only because the eldest daughter was too generous, but also because of the problems caused by the matter itself.Getting along with people does not mean that you will be praised by others if you do a good job yourself.Mrs. Zhang herself didn't think that what she did must be right, but she did at least one thing better than her eldest daughter.She keeps everything in line with the two sisters-in-law, so she won't be as stupid as the eldest daughter, giving away most of her family wealth without considering others.

Shen Dujuan felt happy doing this for a while, but she didn't know that the comparison between her two siblings fell into the dust.She won the favor of her in-laws and her husband, but she also offended her two sister-in-laws, and she might even offend her two younger uncles.Whether it's good or bad, it's hard to say.

"You go out, I'll be quiet first." Mrs. Zhang raised her hand and waved the eldest daughter back.As the wooden door closed with a "squeak", the upper room was quiet, forming two worlds with the noisy main room next door.

Mrs. Zhang is really upset now. The eldest daughter's family has plummeted, and the youngest daughter's family has climbed too high. If this continues, they probably won't even dare to climb the door of their in-laws.Things in the world are so elusive, if it's too bad, it's too good to be too good, it's reasonable to say that it's right, but we can only focus on the present, no one knows what the future will be like, just like her two daughters.

Today is the second day of the first lunar month, so you have to be happy. Mrs. Zhang rubbed her face and tried to pull out a smile. After trying a few times, she felt that her expression was normal and she would not be seen as a problem, so she got up and entered the main room.

Seeing that it was getting late, it was estimated that the eldest daughter's family would leave after sitting down for a while, so Mrs. Zhang took the time to tell her wife about it.

Father Shen immediately dismissed the eldest son-in-law and called the four sons to the upper room to discuss matters.

"That's the way it is, what do you think is the best way?" Father Shen stared at his sons with piercing eyes after finishing speaking.He is half a hundred now, and after working for a few more years, it is estimated that he will not even be able to go to the field. He has started to let go of many things slowly, try to listen to the opinions of his sons, and he himself will be the last check.

As the eldest son, Shen Jiahai was the first to speak without hesitation: "Father, I think mother's proposal is very good. The eldest brother-in-law, father and mother are very easy to get along with, since the eldest sister has already done this, we might as well help. Woah Blessings are impermanent, this time the eldest sister’s family suffered a disaster without reason, besides, the uncle in-law’s health is about to heal, unlike those who are lazy and eat their own food, they get up after a few years. I think it’s better for our family to help more. Money is not good, if you give it, it will probably be used by the eldest sister to fill the hole in the house, it is better to give food, just give it what you want."

"What do you think?" Father Shen looked around at the other three sons.

"What Big Brother said is feasible." The three Shen Jiahu brothers unanimously agreed with Shen Jiahai's approach.

"How much is appropriate? If it's too little, it won't be of much use, and if it's too much, our family can't afford it." Father Shen asked, and at the same time he was constantly thinking about it.

Seeing the three younger brothers looking at him in unison, Shen Jiahai felt a little stressed.This matter is really difficult to decide, after thinking for a while, he finally said: "Father, do you want a load of food?"

Father Shen lowered his eyes slightly to deliberate and deliberate, and finally made a decision: "Then let's do it this way, just give me a few catties of wheat, and replace the other coarse grains such as sweet potatoes, potatoes, and corn. If I give finer grains, I guess my in-laws may be reluctant to eat them. The rewards prepared earlier in the morning are full."

After making a decision, Mrs. Zhang immediately took her daughters-in-law down to discuss the matter.

Wu Dongping didn't notice anything unusual at first, but when he got up to say goodbye to his father-in-law, he didn't understand anything when he saw those two baskets.He glanced at his mother-in-law, and sure enough, her eyes flickered a little, and she didn't dare to look at him.It's actually nothing to talk about it, it's just that he looks a little unsightly.

Originally, the Wu family and the Shen family were well matched, even better than the Shen family.Now the Wu family's family situation is not as good as before, even the father-in-law's family is not as good as it is, not to mention there is an incredible brother-in-law poking there.Thinking of this, Wu Dongping felt a little cramped at first, and now letting his father-in-law and the others know that his family even spent more than half of the little money saved by his daughter-in-law, he was even more ashamed to face others.Fortunately, he is an out-and-out farmer with a darker complexion, otherwise he might lose his composure on the spot.

"Father, I can't accept these." Wu Dongping calmed down and quickly refused.During this period of time, he has met all kinds of people. There are relatives and friends who are afraid that they will come to borrow money, and they will not see customers behind closed doors. more common.These two baskets weigh at least one hundred and eighty catties, which is worth a lot of money.Even though he was very grateful for the father-in-law's act of righteousness, Wu Dongping didn't accept it so brazenly anyway.

"Why are you refusing? These are all for my three grandchildren. It's none of your business." Father Shen gave him a long look, and kicked the eldest daughter's family out of the house like chasing chickens, "Okay , it's getting late, these are not valuable items, hurry up and pick them up and go home."

The village is full of people, so it's not easy to argue with the old man about this matter. Wu Dongping pretended to be nothing, with a sullen smile, and quickly walked out of the village with baskets. Shen Dujuan did the same.After dealing with the acquaintances, the two of them laughed so hard that their faces froze.

After entering the small alley where there were not many people, Wu Dongping complained softly to Shen Dujuan: "How can this matter bother my parents again? You see, this time they have cost them money. The family's foreign debts are already enough, and if I add this, I don't know." When will it be over?"

Shen Dujuan smiled with a good temper: "Then why don't you help my natal family more in the future?"

"Hey, listen to you. The children are growing up, and they really can't be hungry." After finishing speaking, Wu Dongping paused for a moment, "Xiaowen is almost at the age of marriage, and the family looks like this. Let's do more work. No matter what, I have to save some money for the children."

Shen Dujuan naturally agrees with this, but what should be said is: "Don't be tired, if you hurt your body, the little money you earn will not be enough to buy medicine."

"Well, I know."

Time flies by, and it's February in a blink of an eye.

During the New Year's Eve, there is basically nothing else to do except visits and contacts with relatives.This is different in February. The work in the fields has to be picked up slowly to prepare for the next spring plowing.

Recently, the Shen family is very lively.Shen Jiahe's triplets are about to turn [-] days old, and it looks like they are going to have a big event.Of course, this big event is based on the full moon banquet, which is incomparable to the grandeur of getting married.

No, Mrs. Zhang yelled at him early in the morning.

"Boss, take a look again, have you bought all the vegetables? Tell me quickly if there is anything missing, and let the boss buy it."

"For the second family, are the melon seeds and peanuts ready?"

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Fang Tianlin has long been used to this kind of life.Most of the peasants get up at dawn and fumble around, as if they have endless work to do in a day.Especially today, the Shen family got up very early, before the rooster crowed outside, there was noise from the yard.

Thinking that her mother-in-law and the others were busy with their three children, Fang Tianlin lost sleepiness, and when he woke up, he put on his clothes and got up.After tidying himself up, he turned his head and looked at the three children on the bed who were having a good dream, and the corners of his mouth turned up unconsciously.

I don't know if it's because of the pregnancy and childbirth, but Shen Jiahe is very concerned about the three babies, and the vigilance when he sleeps at night, even he, who has been a soldier for several years, can't help himself.He would wake up at the slightest sign of trouble in the children.Fortunately, the children are very well-behaved and know how to love their parents. Since the full moon is about to come, they seldom toss.

Fang Tianlin and his wife woke up two or three times at most at night, and more often they only need to wake up once, and they can sleep until dawn.Otherwise, the two of them really don't know what they will be tossed into.Even so, both of them didn't sleep well at night, so they could only catch up on sleep at noon.

Fang Tianlin really didn't know whether to be thankful, or to express his dissatisfaction with Shen Jiahe's treatment of him differently from the children.He got up so loudly that it didn't wake Shen Jiahe up.Fang Tianlin could only comfort himself by saying that even the louder noise outside couldn't disturb him. Such a small noise is actually nothing.

Taking care of children is really hard work, even if Fang Tianlin and Shen Jiahe are happy about it, it can't cover up their hard work.These are three children, not one or two. No matter how well-behaved the children are, they still have to do one thing.When it's time to feed, when it's time to urinate, and when you wake up, you have to communicate and interact with them... After doing everything, Fang Tianlin and his wife spend most of the day explaining it.

Fang Tianlin would not feel that he was superior to others, but his knowledge was wider than that of everyone in Jingchao, which was obvious and no one could refute it.He knew the importance of early education for children, and he couldn't do it if he asked him to put the child on the kang and ignore his own business.Your own children can't lose at the starting line.

In fact, Fang Tianlin himself didn't know exactly how to do it.After all, he doesn't even have a boyfriend in modern times, let alone raising children, but he still has common sense.Modern information transmission methods are diversified, and he was passively indoctrinated with a lot of information in this regard.

Fang Tianlin knew that since the children were still young, it might not be very effective to do so, but he still asked Shen Jiahe to play with his three sons.More interaction between parents and children is not only beneficial to the intellectual development of children, but also deepens the relationship between each other.

Love is something that must be well maintained. Give children enough love, and the possibility of them growing crooked will be greatly reduced.

Ever since she learned that her third son was pregnant, Mrs. Zhang always looked confused every time she faced her third daughter-in-law.It is definitely not okay to treat the third daughter-in-law harshly. She can't do it for nothing but her third son.The third son and three little grandsons need to be taken care of by the third daughter-in-law.But it was difficult for her to pretend that nothing happened, and she could only let time smooth out her helplessness.

Although you can't train the third daughter-in-law ruthlessly, it's okay to let him do a little more work.As soon as Mrs. Zhang saw Fang Tianlin, she ordered him to chop firewood.She wanted to ask the third daughter-in-law to fetch water, but there were so many sons in the family, it didn't matter if she asked the daughter-in-law to pick one or two, if there were too many, others would poke her back.Others didn't know, and thought that she, a mother-in-law, didn't want to see her daughter-in-law.She was happy for a while, but the reputation of the old Shen family was about to be ruined, and it was not worth it.

Fang Tianlin had no opinion on this.He has put his son to sleep, so why don't he vent his anger on being a parent?The small matter of chopping firewood is really nothing to worry about. If it can make the in-laws feel good all day long, it will be worth it. Just treat him as a different kind of colorful clothes to entertain relatives.

On the day of the triplets' hundred days, there were unexpectedly many visitors, and even a few strangers appeared.Judging by their behavior, they don't seem to be from poor families, but they think they are wearing cotton clothes, and they are hiding it well if they don't have anyone to follow.

The excuses of these people were very consistent. They all heard that there were triplets in Guangyan Village, and they wanted to come over to enjoy themselves.

The door is a guest, there is absolutely no reason to push it out, not to mention that they did not come empty-handed, they all brought a gift, which is even more impossible.Most of the relatives and friends of the Shen family are honest farmers who plan their food in the soil, and Shen Lin's husband-in-law's family has become the leader among them.

Father Shen immediately signaled his eldest daughter-in-law and younger daughter to come and entertain these family members.Thinking of the performance of my little daughter on the second day of the new year, I still reminded her not to hold her hand too much, otherwise it would not be nice to offend guests.

These people are not new daughters-in-law, the youngest one is estimated to be 25-[-], and the older ones are even past their age.Their goal was very clear. After sitting down, they asked the host to see the three little children.

Mrs. Yao saw that there was a gloomy look on the brows of these people, and when she thought about their sudden visit to the door, there was nothing she didn't understand, so she immediately got up and took them to see the child.

Shen Jiahe went to entertain guests early in the morning and was not in the room, but there was no adult Fang Tianlin in the room.It is not only these strange guests who come from afar to see the children, there are many people who share the same idea.Those are triplets. How many people can have this honor and be born safely?What if you don't see each other.

These are all family members, most of whom are women. From the time the guests entered the door until now, there has never been a quiet moment in the room.When you come to visit as a guest, it's always a good idea to take care of yourself, and if you have the conditions, you will put on a little rouge and face powder.It's not obvious when there are few people, but when there are more people, the smell of makeup and powder is really unbearable for Fang Tianlin, let alone the children.No, even Shen Bi, who had always slept soundly, began to wrinkle her little nose, and opened her eyes to stare at Fang Tianlin.

In order not to let his baby continue to suffer from this crime, Fang Tianlin whispered about it to his sister-in-law.

Mrs. Yao immediately greeted everyone with a smile: "There are too many people here, don't you think it's crowded? Let's go and chat with me outside, so you can reserve a seat first. If you go late, you can only chat with people casually." Join the table."

The people in the room also thought about it, children are cute and make people happy when they look at them, so it is not as affordable as a banquet.If this is a table with those who have the unique level of grabbing food, this meal will not be easy to eat.

Fang Tianlin gave a thumbs up to his sister-in-law in his heart. When she said this, everyone hurried away, and the room became much quieter, leaving only the five people who had just entered the door.

In the past year, Fang Tianlin did not recognize all the relatives and friends of the Shen family, but it was very rare that five people did not know each other all at once, not to mention that these people did not look like they were from farming households.He didn't think much about it, he just took a look around and invited the five of them to sit down.

Unexpectedly, the five people's minds were all on the child. They only exchanged greetings with Fang Tianlin for a while, and then they got up and went to the big cradle in the center of the room.

Seeing that there was nothing wrong with him, Fang Tianlin went to the window and opened a crack to diffuse the strong smell of powder in the room.

"Oh, these three children look so good!" A young woman bent down and looked at the three brothers lying side by side, especially the one in the middle who was biting her fingers and giggling to enjoy herself. A mother's love that has nowhere to vent has been vented.The eyes of the young woman are full of longing, if only she could have such a lovely child!She tried her best to hide her emotions, then turned her head and asked, "Sister-in-law Fang, can I hug the child?"

"Yes." Fang Tianlin was a little worried, bent over and picked up Shen Zhang, demonstrated it himself, and then handed the second son to the young woman.

With such skill, Fang Tianlin roughly knew that these people probably had been married for several years and could not have children. This is because they are eager to have a child, and they will not let go of any opportunity.

Someone raised the head, and the other four were no longer reserved, and picked the one they were happy with one after another, and held them in their arms for a while, refusing to let go.Of course, they wouldn't miss the other two, each of them hugged each other, but the one who was more suitable for their eyes was hugged longer.

The five of them seemed to be well-bred. Although the movements of hugging were very unfamiliar, they all controlled their strength so that they would not hurt the child carelessly.They didn't stay for long, after congratulating Fang Tianlin, they prepared to get up and bid farewell to the master's family. Before leaving, they did not forget to leave another gift.

These people gave gifts when they entered the door, and of course the Shen family had to return gifts, but the value was definitely not equal.After Fang Tianlin thought for a while, he stopped them, turned around and found a package from the cabinet, and packed a bottle of honey water for each of them, saying that they could drink directly and nourish the body.He got honey occasionally when he went to the mountains. As for the water, it is naturally spatial water. Except for the ones he eats on weekdays, the rest is stored in the water space by him, so it will not deteriorate.

These gifts were given to the children in private, and no one else knew about it except Fang Tianlin.He didn't know the specific value of these items, but seeing that they were not cheap, he didn't intend to make a public announcement, and put them all into the water space.

"Ah! Ah!"

Shen Zhang's call caught Fang Tianlin's attention.As soon as he lowered his head, he saw two pairs of black eyes staring at the place where the gift was placed just now, and then the two children looked at him in the same way.

Fang Tianlin froze, his body was a little stiff, he would not guard against the three babies against anyone.He has observed for a long time. Although these three children are very smart, so smart that he, a father, is a little ashamed, but he can be sure that his three sons were not born with memories, and they have no clue about everything around them. Cognition also needs to be taught by him as a father.

"Like these?" Fang Tianlin knows that the memories of his infancy will be forgotten when he grows up, but he doesn't think the same is true of his sons.He locked the door, took out a jade lock, a silver bracelet and a gold clasp from the water space, and placed them in front of his sons.

Shen Zhang immediately stretched out his chubby little hand, put it on the golden scorpion, and shouted happily, "Ah! Ah!"Shen Huang wandered around the remaining two accessories for a while, and finally fixed his eyes on the jade lock.

Fang Tianlin clutched his forehead, wondering if his sons were born money lovers, or did they know the difference between good and bad at such a young age?But no one taught them this?After clearing up his mood, he stuffed the golden locket and the jade lock into the hands of his two sons respectively.The jade lock is relatively big, and if the child plays with it, there will be no accidents, but Jin Kaizi can't do it. He has to keep an eye on it all the time to prevent the second son from stuffing it into his mouth.

As a result, Shen Zhang had a great time playing with the golden scorpion in both hands, but he didn't intend to put it in his mouth at all.

Of course Fang Tianlin wouldn't rest easy on that, he wouldn't let such a preventable tragedy happen in the slightest.

Shen Zhang is always very lively, but Shen Huang is much quieter.The jade lock is not very big for an adult, but for a child who has just turned [-] days old, it cannot be held with one hand.Compared to Shen Zhang playing with the golden lock happily, Shen Huang held it in front of his eyes for a moment and looked at it, then lost interest in it, his arms naturally drooped by his side, and the jade lock just lay quietly on it .

Fang Tianlin saw the performance of the three children at the moment.The eldest son did not participate in it, and slept soundly beside him.The behavior of the second son is also very easy for people to understand. It may be that he likes things that are bright yellow and orange, and he is having a lot of fun.What the younger son did was a bit interesting. It seemed that he was not very satisfied with the jade lock, but even so, he did not throw it aside.

Is it because he gave it to him, even if it's not good, he still has to keep it?For a while, Fang Tianlin's brain was wide open, his thoughts were flying, and he entered a state of unconstrained style, but he didn't know how accurate his guess could be.

When his thoughts returned to reality, Fang Tianlin was amused by himself.He probably thought too much, no matter what, the children are not so smart as to be so heaven-defying!It must be so, he reassured himself.

Taking the jade lock from his son, Fang Tianlin looked at it for a long time, but couldn't figure out why, so he stuffed it back into Shen Huang's hand.

After what happened just now, Fang Tianlin paid more attention to his sons.