This situation

Is being a psychologist a good career?In terms of income, it doesn’t count—the training experience money paid in the early stage and the training experience self-study, in other industries, there may be relatively high income or a prominent reputation.

Yes, psychological counselors do not have a good reputation, even though we are so fond of the psychologists in film and television novels.However, it is precisely this love of novelty that makes the world often think that psychiatrists are also neurotics, and psychological counselors have mental problems.Similarly, they will feel that if a person is not seriously ill, he will not go to a psychiatrist. Similarly, most people who go to a psychological counselor have neurological problems.The subtext is that not looking for means that there is no psychological problem.

According to such a statement, there is nothing to say, you can't wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and naturally you can't let a person who is unwilling to admit or does not realize that he has a problem to solve the problem.

Others find the effects of psychotherapy or counseling unpredictable.Except for the obvious results of behavior modification and focus therapy, other consultations usually take a long time, especially psychoanalysis.To spend a considerable amount of time and money on something that you don't know what the outcome will be is, in many people's eyes, a luxury and an extremely unwise act.Not to mention, they hope to become famous overnight, to see results with one drop, and to lose weight with one drop.

Ever since, there are many people who have thought about finding a psychological counselor, but very few people actually do it.Looking at it this way, the money path of psychological counseling is very intuitive.

Then, as a female white-collar worker in a foreign company who was born in a non-major class and had a bright future, why did she give up all her previous exams and studies and choose to become a psychological counselor?

Song Jiayan and countless people who have paid infinite money and energy to become a psychological counselor will tell you that it is not that they chose this profession, but that this profession called her.Like nuns and nuns, she felt a calling and guidance from the heart.After a series of study, training and practice, Song Jiayan can almost see that his consulting path is extending towards infinity.

Xuanming was introduced by a friend—in this industry, friend-to-friend is the most common way of hooking up.Song Jiayan knew that psychological counseling was not Xuan Ming's original wish, Xuan Ming only wanted to satisfy his mother's request.She presupposes countless possible resistances, ridicule, silence, lies, and demands to leave. . .There is no such person, and her attitude is so natural that she wants to come, but occasionally there will be some other meanings in her words. At that time, she will show a little child's smug smile after playing a prank, sly and innocent.

Xuan Ming is a fortune teller, whose real name is Liu Cong. Except for her mother and old classmates, few people call her by her real name.When she asked her if she wanted to call her Xuan Ming or Liu Cong, she smiled ambiguously and said, "The name is a code name, you can do whatever you like."

A name is a code name, but it is not just a code name.It represents a kind of identification, identification with identity.

When Song Jiayan called Liu Cong by his real name, Xuan Ming showed no surprise nor any objection.She didn't meet her because of fortune telling, she was just one of her many visitors.

In front of Song Jiayan, Xuan Ming expressed a lot of direct thoughts, hardly concealing them—she always thought that since she spent money to hire professional people to do professional things, why should she hide it if she looked trustworthy?If it's a play, it's better to wait for someone to spend money to find her.She was so straightforward that Song Jiayan was terrified.

Song Jiayan seldom met someone who would believe that she was willing to speak out about private matters after meeting once or twice.But if what she said was true, why did I still feel so far away from her?She looked at Xuan Ming who was talking eloquently, occasionally frowning and thinking about how to describe it, and couldn't help feeling dazed.

During the last consultation, Xuan Ming suddenly said that he didn't know what Song Jiayan looked like with his hair tied up.Song Jiayan was surprised that the person in front of him was more interested in her than in consulting.This is a good thing for the consultation itself, but for herself, she does not have the confidence to solve it smoothly.In front of this person in front of her, she often has a feeling of clumsiness.She spoke truthfully about how she felt in that moment.Xuan Ming was not as surprised as other visitors, and was not disappointed. Instead, he smiled and said that everyone has their own areas of expertise and their own way of thinking about problems. It is extremely difficult to fully understand each other's thoughts in one flower and one world. matter.

Is this being empathized by the visitor?

Now that Xuan Ming mentioned how she tied up her hair, Song Jiayan continued to ask what made Xuan Ming think of this question.

The question itself made Xuan Ming puzzled, she was stunned for a while before saying it, and thought of it while walking on the road.A look of inexplicable disapproval.

Walking out of the consulting room, Liu Banxian didn't call her to ask how she was doing like the first time.Counseling is not surgery or exorcism, it can give immediate results.After the consultation, sometimes I feel good, sometimes I feel bad, and sometimes I want to cry.In the process of consultation, when it comes to sad places, emotions and tears that want to cry are always symptoms after stepping out of the door.Hearing that many people would cry in the consultation room, Xuan Ming felt that he was at a disadvantage for not doing so.

After lunch, Xuanming sat in the Mingming Hall and dozed off. Sister A entered the room with a light green lisianthus in her arms.

"Hey, sister A, someone sent flowers~~"

Sister A said: "I ordered it with "Flowers", and the flowers will be delivered to my door every few days, and the varieties are free. "

"Is there a flower? The name of the store? I feel disheartened. The boss is so good at pretending."

Sister A cut it and said: "Who do you think is not pretending? Maybe the boss has some experience."

"Okay. How did you come up with the idea of ​​buying flowers?"

Putting the plain eustoma in a vase and tidying it up, Ms. A nodded in satisfaction. "It's a matter of flowers" she was satisfied with the random flower delivery service. The quality of the flowers delivered several times in a row was good, which was very to her liking. Xuan Ming, who was always picky, didn't make any criticisms, and he had no objection either.She lazily replied: "Didn't you say that flowers attract peach blossoms? Put them here to attract noble people and introduce some good business. Guan Ning also said that putting some flowers here will make you more lively."

"Ah... Is this because we think our business is not good enough? Or is it that Miss A is thinking of spring? Autumn is now, and spring will only be after winter." Stretching his waist, Xuan Ming moved his eyes to the computer screen, opened the script "Hai "The optimized divination software made a hexagram. "Huh? Hey!"

Then he dialed the phone, only to realize that it was class time, and just about to hang up, he picked up the phone, and the background was very quiet. "Guan Ning, Guan Ning, aren't you in class?"

Guan Ning lowered his voice and said, "Ah, it's Xuan Ming. I don't have class this afternoon. I'm looking for books in the library." In class a few days ago, I mentioned Sternberg's triad theory of love, passion, commitment, and intimacy. .After searching some information, in addition to "Love Psychology", Sternberg also wrote "Love, Please Take Your Seat", which mentioned the love script. She found it very interesting, thinking that there is no class this afternoon, and she will go to the library to look for books after lunch. .Just after arriving at the library, Xuan Ming's phone call came, hearing the eagerness in her voice, she smiled unconsciously and asked, "Did something good happen to you?"

"Yeah, good thing. But, it's not me, it's you, it's you." Xuan Ming on the phone narrowed his eyes with a smile.

"Huh? I didn't buy a lottery ticket."

"You are a lottery guy, there is nothing good in this world except winning the lottery! I was taking a nap in the room just now, and suddenly I had a thought, counted my fingers, and guess what happened?"

"What is it?"

"Peach Blossom Luck, Peach Blossom Luck! You will meet very, very big peach blossoms in your life, so take good care of them."

"..." Peach Blossom... Daduo... Was caught peeping and couldn't meet again?After being confessed, does it count if you witness dog blood and become friends?

Guan Ning's silence made Xuan Ming a little dissatisfied, she shouted: "Hey, please give me some feedback."

"Ah, I'm sorry. I just thought that I was confessed by my senior a few days ago. I don't know if it counts."

"Yo, what then?"

"Then, I became friends with senior sisters. Sometimes I met senior sisters in the cafeteria and we would eat together, and sometimes I met them during self-study, and then there was no more."

"Cut... don't like senior sister, do you like senior?"

"No, no, men and women are not the problem, the problem is that I don't know what liking is."

Going to the library to find information is to study what is like?It was indeed something Guan Ning would do.Ah, nerds are cute sometimes, Xuan Ming suppressed a smile and said, "Xiao Ningning, when you like someone, you will naturally know what liking is."

"Hey, senior sister said the same thing." Guan Ning wrinkled his face bitterly, the phone by his ear was already a little hot, "Xuan Ming?"

"what?"

"Peach Blossom you said, just in case I like someone?"

"Liking is a good thing."

"I saw a senior a few days ago. She used to be a weak person, but now she can kick down bad guys with one kick. She is very strong and handsome." Guan Ning raised his hand and looked at his wrist. The white wrist is still brilliant. "But I, but I, need a thread?"

"Are you questioning my ability? Fate is about cause and effect. If you really like someone, it is useless to escape. There are only four words of letting nature take its course. Guan Ning, I will protect your life, even though there is no There is no cure, but I will always do my best to keep you safe."

Guan Ning sniffed, Xuan Ming is so powerful, she said that it must be possible, I just need to believe her.Well, trust her. "Thanks."

"Oh, you're welcome, guest, the bill will be sent to the house."

"puff……"

After hanging up the phone, Xuan Ming sighed.The insufficiency of congenital disease is Liu Banxian's empirical judgment. After she practiced cultivation, she secretly used her spiritual power to investigate. People have three souls and seven souls, while Guan Ning only has one soul.Usually such people are either born in the womb or die early.Like Guan Ning, he was hanged by the red thread with a single effort, not crazy, not stupid, well-fed and loved by his family-although he lost a lot of freedom of movement, it is a blessing in misfortune.

It is said that before Guan Ning was born, Yun Jin had conceived, all of them were stillborn in the womb, and none of them survived for more than five months. Later, I don't know what method Yun Jin and his wife used to make Guan Ning be born smoothly.

It is not impossible to cure such a broken soul, find the incomplete part of the soul, and extradite it to Guan Ning.Just one more soul and one soul, Guan Ning's fate can be stabilized.However, God knows where and how that broken soul will exist, let alone encounter it.After getting acquainted with "Sea", Xuan Ming used the power of "Sea" to search and research again, and discovered a profound technique that can search for soul breath, and discussed it with several experts.Even if one could find the aura of the soul with a soul searching method comparable to the forbidden technique, experts still felt that it was very inoperable.

If the fragments of the soul are stored on the object, the technique of extradition is not too difficult.If the fragment of the soul is on another person, that is to say, Guan Ning shared the same soul with the person.Not to mention that the technique of extradition is complicated and requires very high demands on the performer. If there is a little carelessness, all three parties will be damaged. Who would like to share their soul with others?The soul is related to spiritual power, and its importance is equivalent to the inner alchemy of a goblin.

The author has something to say: two days of exams this weekend, and two updates this week.