Mr. Chen walking the dog

Chen Yuwen speaks sincerely, and his expression is very serious. When he speaks seriously to a person, it seems that there is a magnetic field around him, which can make people believe what he said.

Gu Aifang's eyes turned red again when she heard it. She looked at Chen Yuwen carefully, and the more she looked at it, the more she felt that the child in front of her was different from the person she imagined to bring Chen Xiqing down - gentle and talking. In the process of listening, it can be heard that this child is very polite, and he must have a good tutor.

Why do families with good tutors have homosexuality?Gu Aifang didn't understand, she asked Chen Yuwen with red eyes: "You like...you like boys, does your family know?"

"They all know and respect my choice. I have always been very grateful for their understanding and support."

In fact, Chen Yuwen is also in the process of chatting, and gradually understands what kind of person Gu Aifang is.It can be seen that this woman has no evil intentions and has a soft temperament. Simply put, she is actually a relatively conservative and very quiet woman.

She is not very assertive, and she is not very receptive to new things.However, if such so-called new things appear around and are accepted by others, her acceptance will be correspondingly higher, and it can be seen that at that time, her thinking will become "other people's homes are like this" Ah"——Chen Yuwen grasped this point, and slowly told her about the family affairs, instilling a thought.

When Gu Aifang heard that Chen Yuwen's grandmother went to school to reason with a group of teachers and students who discriminated against Chen Yuwen, her eyes and even her mental state were different.

"...Really?" It seems that I don't really believe that such a thing will happen. Children are gay, shouldn't they be educated behind closed doors?This is a shameful thing, and the less people know about it, the better.Why are some parents not only not educating their own children, but also educating other people who say that their children are not good?

Why is it that Chen Yuwen's grandma, as someone who is a generation older than herself, can accept it?

"Yes, Auntie." Chen Yuwen recalled that time, he stood with his head down at the back door of the classroom, watching the little spiritual gardener chattering with the group of people in the classroom, his words were so sharp that the group of people were speechless.

Later, some people couldn't make sense, so they swear at the spiritual gardener.Think about it, how inappropriate it is for a high school student to be violent in the face of a thin old man. Chen Yuwen has never been so angry when he was scolded countless times at school. The gardener exploded immediately, jumped on him and beat him up.

Later, Chen Yuwen always remembered the encouraging smile from the spiritual gardener to him, no matter whether he was in school or transferred to other schools. At an age when the world view, values, or his own beliefs were not yet firm, at such an age, there was a need for On the way of the guide, the spiritual gardener encourages and supports him.

At that time, Chen Yuwen really felt that the spiritual gardener of his family was the goddess of his life, although after he returned home, he was scolded by the spiritual gardener for beating someone.

Gu Aifang listened to each sentence, and it was the first time she knew that there were still families that treated gay children in such a way.

Such tolerance is unheard of.

Then, was the method used to Chen Xiqing wrong?People who sneer at the mention of homosexuality, who mock, are they... aren't they right?Helping these children return to the right path, isn't it...wrong?

She couldn't figure it out.

Speaking of which, isn't Gu Aifang's character easily persuaded by Chen Xiqing?But the truth is not, Chen Xiqing can influence her, but after all it is not as deep as Father Chen's so-called authority.

As for Chen Yuwen, as a "child of someone else's family", she will believe her words with sincerity, but she doesn't know whether she will be influenced by Chen's father again soon.So he thought, after a while, he might need to trouble the military division's spiritual gardener to come out once.

Not for anything else, just to help Gu Aifang be firm: homosexuality is not a dirty disease, it is enough for two people to like each other and be serious about each other, and the happiness of children is more important than outsiders' pointing.

What's more, as for the elders, there is actually no need to interfere too much in the lives of adult children.

"Auntie, liking the same sex is not a disease, it's not something to be ashamed of. As long as you really like it and live together seriously, you will be very happy." Chen Yuwen said, Gu Aifang looked into his eyes .

Gu Aifang's eyes were indeed very similar to Chen Xiqing's. At this moment, besides the shock of hearing new things and the unbelievable indigestion in those eyes, there was also a feeling of embarrassment to speak.

Chen Yuwen "Auntie, tell me."

Gu Aifang paused for a few seconds, then raised her head and asked, "Xiqing's grandpa..."

"Grandpa, grandpa is fine now." Chen Yuwen was very well prepared, and brought over a set of information about his grandfather's illness and treatment. Although Gu Aifang might not understand those indexes and the like, Chen Yuwen still Expand page by page, turn it into simple language bit by bit, and tell her that grandpa is doing well now.

Finally, she took out her mobile phone and showed Gu Aifang a photo of her grandfather.

The long-term depression made Gu Aifang very fragile psychologically. When she heard that her grandfather was fine, and then looked at the grandfather with the flesh growing back in the photo, she... cried again.

"Don't worry, Auntie. Both my uncle and grandfather are doctors. I found the best doctor for Grandpa Xiqing. There is no problem with medication, so..."

Chen Yuwen tried his best to calm her emotions, chatted with her, and talked a lot, from grandpa's recent situation to Chen Xiqing's recent situation, Chen Yuwen also showed Chen Xiqing's photo to Gu Aifang, and then the topic changed to How did the two know each other? A smile gradually appeared on Gu Aifang's face, and they just chatted like this, and it was noon in a flash.

Chen Yuwen found that the closer it was to Chen's father's return, Chen's mother became more anxious.Sure enough, at eleven o'clock, Chen's father came back with a dark face. He swept away the gifts in the living room and Chen Yuwen sitting in the living room, and shouted in a rough voice: "Who are you? Who asked you to come? Get out of here." !"

Chen Ma stood up, her expression was full of uneasiness, she twisted her lips, and advised: "Jian'an, don't be angry."

Chen Jian'an yelled at Gu Aifang: "What's the matter with you?!"

After being yelled at like this, Gu Aifang's eyes were wet. Seeing that the mood she had just calmed down became bad again, for a moment, Chen Yuwen really wanted to beat up Chen's father on the spot - this is the attitude ?He yelled at Chen Xiqing's mother and beat Chen Xiqing with injuries all over his body.

I really want to do it, but it's not suitable.

Looking at the way the husband and wife get along, there is always something wrong with Chen Yuwen that cannot be explained.

He believed that Chen Xiqing didn't know what was wrong, and if he knew, he wouldn't come back—Gu Aifang needed his son's protection.

Indeed, Chen Jian'an and Gu Aifang's way of getting along with each other only existed in the last two years. Chen Xiqing was always outside, so he didn't know about it; as for Gu Qin, he was usually at school, and when he returned home, he just vaguely felt that the atmosphere was not good. That's all.

Chen Yuwen stood up, looked directly at Father Chen, and said, "Hello, Uncle."

Chen Jian'an was taken aback, after all, the other party was not his son, so it's not good to just yell at him.

Treat different people in different ways.

For example, Chen Ma, what Chen Yuwen needs to play is to play the role of a caring junior, lower her posture, try to make her believe that she will be good to Chen Xiqing, and try to make her feel at ease-because she still loves Chen Xiqing in essence .Facing a mother who loves her child, or the mother-in-law, what needs to be done is to reassure her.

Another example is Dad Chen, who has to be tough on him, or come up with something, not to mention deterrence, but to show his cards first, family background, social status, connections, financial resources, even if it is hinted, it must be hinted clearly Baibai——I didn't come to beg you. You have no ability to stop me from doing what I want to do. I came to visit only because you are Chen Xiqing's father. The most important thing is, don't treat Chen Xi casually. Green hands.

As for him yelling at his daughter-in-law, or the deeper level that outsiders don't know about, Chen Yuwen can't care about it now, so he can only talk about it later.

Facing Dad Chen, Chen Yuwen set his posture neither high nor low, just right, if it was too high, it would not suit his status as a junior, and it would be true, but if it was too low, it would make Dad Chen's character step on the ground. on the head.

Find a good location, carry a bunch of sincere gifts, and be polite. When the two of them are talking, they speak properly, without offending Father Chen, and they can speak in such a way that he can weigh them up. Don't give in on issues of principle, and be firm. take a stand.

In the evening, Chen Yuwen invited Chen Jian'an and his wife to drink and eat.

Chen Jian'an is used to being domineering and lawless at home, but does he know how to judge people?Yes, he knew that Chen Yuwen couldn't be provoked, and he didn't scold the other party whenever he wanted.

From Chen Yuwen's words and all aspects he unintentionally revealed, Chen Jian'an also knew that he had a lot of background.

A person will never hit the head of a gun for no reason.

The first meeting between Chen Jian'an and Chen Yuwen ended when Chen Jian'an's face was flushed from drinking.

Chen Yuwen stayed in the same hotel at night, lying on the hotel bed, remembered the last time he slept in the same bed with Chen Xiqing, and went to pick up his grandfather the next day.

It was actually quite difficult at that time.

Would not fall asleep so early, Chen Yuwen got up again, stood in front of the window, thinking, no matter what difficulties, as long as you solve and face them, even if the process will be painful, there will be a day when you will get better in the end.

Humans grow up amidst constant difficulties.

So now, we still have to cherish and be happy.

Chen Yuwen called Chen Xiqing, listening to the other party's gentle voice, imagining that "home" would no longer be a place full of burdens for Chen Xiqing in the near future, and the dimples on her cheeks were particularly obvious : "Remember to go to bed early at night. Well, I didn't drink much... Well, yes, really... I drink very well!"

The moon climbed into the night sky, Chen Yuwen looked at the moon and talked with Chen Xiqing.

But at this moment, in City A, Xiang Song and Chen Xiqing also looked at the moon and listened to the voice of their lover who was on a business trip, and they became very relaxed.