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How to take care of children.

How to take good care of children.

How to take care of children in the most appropriate way.

... can be described as the problem of the century.

Yan Kaiye has no experience, the only experience he has with children is during Chinese New Year, when a group of children from various relatives get together.

When they yelled at the top of their voices and said "`^#*%&...", they didn't know the language of which planet, and suddenly dumped the whole box of toys on the floor, throwing them everywhere, almost nowhere When settling down.

Yan Kaiye just took out a stack of red envelopes from his pocket, waved his hand, and said unhurriedly, "Cough, only for... sensible children."

The next second, the audience was silent: "..."

The floor is not messy or dirty anymore, the toys should be put away, and there are children with a small broom, obediently coming to sweep the floor.

When a red envelope is handed over, even the naughtiest child can be as quiet as a chicken on the spot, and he is obedient enough to satisfy all the elders—even if it is only a temporary illusion.

With the development of science and technology, "cash" has rarely appeared in people's lives.

Therefore, what is contained in the red envelope is not cash, but a small magnetic card containing hundreds of Blue Star Coins, or a bunch of coupons for specially ordered toys from a certain toy factory, or a piece of cake from a certain cake shop. New year's new free tasting coupons...

In short, it is what children want most.

A time-tested trick that effectively avoids the disturbance of all the brats.

Therefore, Yan Kaiye didn't know much about the matter of "nursing children", and he really... didn't have the confidence to do it well.

But it doesn't matter, Jiang Mingen seems to have done worse than him, at worst, the two novices learn from scratch together.

"Bringing children? What are you afraid of? I don't know how! Me? Uh... I'm one of those kids who get red envelopes during the Chinese New Year."

Jiang Mingen blinked playfully after hearing him finish speaking, and continued in a brisk tone.

"Many uncles, aunts, aunts, and uncles have only seen each other for a long time, and they don't know my usual 'true face'... For Chinese New Year, I just want to be more festive! I was wearing a little red jacket and sat quietly. Reading picture books, comic books and so on on the sofa, they all said I was too good-looking!"

"..."

Yan Kaiye gradually showed a worried expression, obviously not comforted by his words.

Jiang Mingen clapped his hands indifferently, "Besides, don't children just wait to receive red envelopes during the Chinese New Year? It's a new year, a new beginning, happiness is the most important thing!"

Obviously, he was the leader of the bear army a few years ago.

Yan Kaiye didn't know what to say: "..."

It's cold.

Yan Kaiye finally decided to buy a few parenting guides and place an order after personally screening them.

On the terminal, there are many online parenting knowledge classes specially set up for novice parents. There are all kinds of them. You can choose according to your own situation. You can also communicate with the teacher and adjust the learning plan. The class is very advanced.

Jiang Mingen swiped his fingers, dazzled by what he saw, and immediately proposed with great interest: "Let's buy a few lessons and try it out? It's a good deal for the two of you to listen and learn together."

Yan Kaiye's gaze shifted from the paper book to the electronic device in his hand, and then glanced at the man's big belly.Even if he didn't say anything, at this moment, silence speaks louder than words.

Jiang Mingen: "..." Well, I will listen to you.

He threw the terminal aside to isolate it from radiation, took a copy of "A Beginner's Guide to Parenting" written by Colin Cooper, and opened the catalog.

"...This book completely collects the practical experience and happy experience of a senior dad raising a baby. It will teach you how to quickly change diapers, bathe, dress, feed, and deal with emergencies and diseases..."

This knowledge is exactly what they need.

Jiang Mingen, who had never taken care of a child before, seemed to have opened the door to a new world.The scenery that has never been seen before is like a long scroll, spreading out in front of him.

For the past 22 years, he has played the role of a carefree sunshine kid in his true colors.

The family is happy and happy, with no worries about food and clothing.

Parents first teach him to be a good person, and then, try to be a happy and positive person, and there are no other requirements.

Even though time has passed for a long time, Jiang Mingen still remembers——

When I was young, I smashed a vase I just bought, or knocked over a freshly baked cake. What I harvested in the first second was not scolding and criticism, not "How could I give birth to such a clumsy thing like you!" This kind can be pierced by an arrow. Words of a child's young heart.

Jiang Mingen clearly remembered that his father would stroke the top of his head with his big hand and ask him: "Xiao Ming, look, does the broken porcelain look like a beautiful painting?"

After sweeping away the small fragments that would pierce his fingers, his father taught him that large tiles are the best puzzle materials.

Jiang Mingen also remembered that his mother, who was usually a little strict, brought a plastic fork over, put it in his hand, and said encouragingly:

"Today, let's play a game together. The cake that falls on the ground can also be used to build a house!"

After building the house, his mother would take him along to clean the floor.

His world is colorful from beginning to end.

Now, when Jiang Mingen is about to turn 23, he has an opportunity to pass on this splendor.

Jiang Mingen flipped through the book with one hand, and put his other hand on his stomach, slowly stroking it one by one.

He really doesn't know what it means to be a "qualified" parent, and he doesn't have any experience at all, it's just...

He also wants to create a dream-building paradise for the children who are about to come to this world, just like his parents once did.

Yan Kaiye glanced at the people around him distractedly, surprised at Jiang Mingen's serious attitude, and seemed to be expected——

His boy has finally grown into a responsible and responsible man.

Gathering his mind, he continued to read the book intently.

The book in my hand was written by Michio Matsuda, a writer from Kochikuni.From the beginning to the end of the book, we are committed to alleviating the anxiety of novice mothers in raising children. At the same time, the words show full respect and understanding for the mother's hard work in raising children.

Yan Kaiye thinks that he is a character who wants to be a mother and a father at the same time. Being pregnant for ten months is a tug of war, and earning money to support a family is not easy at all.

But it's okay, the pleasure hidden behind the double experience is also doubled.

Yan Kaiye grew up with only a handful of illnesses, and of course it was after he could remember—or maybe when he was just born, "fragility" was once synonymous with him.

In fact, he was very afraid of not taking good care of the children. Just thinking about it made him feel a little at a loss.

He closed his eyes and imagined this scene.

The soft, small cub in his arms aroused his love and affection to a great extent.

but……

He suddenly thought, such a young child should not have a high immunity to germs, right?

What should I do if I am sick?

Yan Kaiye flipped the pages of the book a little anxiously, flipping through the pages, his eyes flicked around, and then he stopped suddenly - "The most common diseases and symptoms of children before one year old".

He looked it over carefully, and he probably had a bottom line in his heart. Not to mention that he was sure, at least he wouldn't be in a hurry when faced with a child's abnormal situation.

The point that has been repeatedly emphasized in the book is that mothers should not spend all their time on housework such as feeding their children and cleaning, but must spend as much time as possible on outdoor activities with their children. This is more important than anything else.

--"accompany".

Yan Kaiye learned another trick.

It is useless to patronize making money, and it is only valuable to grow up with children.

Yan Kaiye pondered deeply, spiritual abundance is far more important than material superiority.

Some people use a warm and happy childhood to heal their lives, while some people spend their entire lives repairing their dilapidated childhood.

So he sincerely hopes that his two little babies can be happy until they grow old.

When you are at a loss, the experience and guidance of the predecessors is particularly important. The reason why methods, coups and the like can be passed down is precisely because they are effective.

Yan Kaiye was thinking about whether to find some time to go home and find his mother to learn from.

As soon as the idea came out, Yan Kaiye's cell phone rang.

Is there really "telepathy" between relatives whose blood is thicker than water?

This problem has always been explained only by "metaphysics".

Yan Kaiye murmured a few words in his heart, picked up the phone, and looked at the caller ID - it was definitely his mother.

"Hey?"

This sound caught Jiang Mingen's attention, he turned his head to look, and silently asked with his mouth: "What's wrong?"

Yan Kaiye squeezed lightly, and he put his hand on the book, and replied directly: "My mother."

Jiang Mingen nodded, apparently the whole afternoon of parenting made him suddenly... miss his parents.

He has always known that their hardships are not easy, but it is the first time he has experienced it so personally.

Raising children is easy, but parenting is difficult!

Yan's mother heard their interaction and asked on the other end of the phone:

"Xiao Ye, come back to have a meal with Xiao Ming? Invite the father-in-law and mother-in-law together, let's get together as a family."

Yan Kaiye was startled, and thought to himself: Doesn't my mother have mind reading skills?

"Mom, why do you want to get together all of a sudden? Do you miss me?"

Yan's mother rolled her eyes that Yan Kaiye couldn't see, thinking about it in her heart, but she still said stubbornly: "A married son is just poured water! What do I think, what do I have to think about, hmph. "

Hearing this, Yan Kaiye couldn't help laughing, glanced at Jiang Mingen, and said to him silently: "Mom asked if you want to go home."

There is no way Jiang Mingen would not agree. He nodded in a hurry, closed the book, and put it aside, "Hui Hui Hui Hui, of course."

"Then ask, Xiao Ming..." Mother Yan continued to ask.

"He said back." Yan Kaiye quickly interrupted his mother, and said before her, "Mom, my son misses you."

Yan's mother wanted to say something more, but she was silent for a while, and finally said dumbly: "...Okay, Mom has cooked your favorite food, we will talk about it later when I come back."