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Chapter 30 Analogies Outside the Courtroom
The court clerk handed Xu Man a six-page A4 court trial record and asked her to sign it for confirmation after reviewing it.Xu Man quickly flipped through the pages and found that more than [-]% of them were her remarks.From the corner of her eye, Xu Man noticed that Zhou Lijuan and the official attorney were walking out of the court.Xu Man didn't raise his head to say hello, probably the other party also had no intention of paying tribute, although there was no deep hatred between the two parties inside or outside the court.Zhou Lijuan walked out of the court gate together with the young lawyer, and they will separate and return to their respective workplaces.Before saying goodbye, the lawyer said: "Director Zhou, I'm afraid we will lose this lawsuit." "It doesn't matter, let's be realistic. If we really made a wrong decision under the circumstances of insufficient evidence, we will obey the court's judgment and revoke the original decision." Zhou Lijuan said.
Zhou Lijuan looked at the time, and wanted to go home during the lunch break to see her son and have lunch, but she immediately gave up the idea. "Forget it, I didn't say hello to my mother-in-law in advance. If the meal is not enough, I have to make it again. It's not good to make my mother-in-law unhappy. I don't seem to be hungry, so go back to work." So Zhou Lijuan turned right onto Bo'ai Road , heading towards the development zone.
"What kind of Xueba am I? The name is not worthy of my name, and I have already revealed my secrets. Xu Man is called Xueba." Just entering the underground passage at the first intersection, Zhou Lijuan said to herself.Zhou Lijuan's undergraduate degree is a law major, but the gold content cannot be compared with a regular university of political science and law, although this degree has benefited her a lot.When she graduated from university, she chose another major and was admitted to the school as a graduate student in the direction of administrative management. After obtaining a master's degree, she applied for the civil servant examination and joined the Zhongshan City Labor Bureau.She later learned that she was able to stand out in the final interview because of her legal background.More than half of the administrative lawsuits across the country brought the labor bureau to court, including the specific job arrangement after she entered the job. The bureau fully considered this factor.Therefore, Zhou Lijuan is the person who has the most dealings with lawyers in the Labor Bureau. From this, she realized another benefit of her undergraduate degree—she can judge what kind of lawyer is a good lawyer.During the trial in the morning, Zhou Lijuan was completely overwhelmed by Xu Man's eloquence.Xu Man's sharpness is like the shadow of a sword, Xu Man's thinking is like flowing clouds and flowing water, and Xu Man's rhetoric is like a clever plan.When Xu Man refuted the defendant's fourth piece of evidence, she mercilessly satirized her colleagues from the Labor Bureau and tried her best to ridicule her.Zhou Lijuan was not embarrassed by this, but just felt sad and ashamed.All the responding materials submitted to the court were finally checked by the attorney, but she had handled the relevant documents in advance. In fact, like most public officials in the administrative agency, she has long been used to going through it without asking for further understanding.If there is something different about Zhou Lijuan, it is that, in the face of indisputable facts, she will not be embarrassed by her own faults, nor will she pretend to be wrong because of embarrassment.Embarrassment is unbearable, unbearable, and it is a stubborn resistance psychologically in order to maintain false self-esteem.Therefore, every embarrassing event is a severe test of human nature, a contest between light and darkness.To go to the light, the only thing you need is courage.In the face of the obvious truth, any cover-ups and disguises, sophistry and evasions are nothing but instinctive tricks or deliberate tricks used to anger others and protect themselves wisely.This is exactly the difference between Zhou Lijuan and Tian Xiaoyong, although she herself does not know this.She experienced similar embarrassment when she was a minor, and it can be said that the phoenix was reborn from the ashes.
Zhou Lijuan is an only child who is doted on by her parents.But savagery and willfulness have nothing to do with her. She has been a good girl since she was a child, and has always been like this.From elementary school to the first year of high school, her academic performance has always been among the best, and she is an invincible top student in the eyes of her classmates and teachers.She also believes that if she wins Tsinghua University and Peking University in the college entrance examination, she will finally prove to the people of Chaozhou and Shantou that her daughter's country is full of glory, and her ambition is not inferior to that of a man.Unexpectedly, Zhou Lijuan was stumped by a simple physics analysis problem just after the second year of high school.At that time, the teacher habitually called out the name of "Zhou Lijuan", and Zhou Lijuan habitually left her seat, walked to the podium to do calculations on the blackboard.This time, she was not able to show the correct answer as she did in any previous time, and then returned triumphantly and returned to her seat under all the envious eyes and the sound of "wow".In fact, from the moment she took the chalk from the teacher, Zhou Lijuan sensed the coming of the disaster season.Her mind was suddenly empty, and all the rote knowledge disappeared without a trace. She couldn't even write the most basic formulas and the most routine steps. The question on the blackboard, all characters including Chinese characters , have become strangers from heaven.Zhou Lijuan was sweating profusely, even soaking the chalk on her hands.She wished that while the chalk was still usable, she could draw a fake crack on the ground instead of the blackboard and let herself slip in.
All comfort is useless.Zhou Lijuan didn't want to make any attempts to prove that this sudden incident was just an accidental blunder.She said to herself: "It's not a horse stumble, it's not some suspicious insanity. No, absolutely not. Because I'm not a horse at all, not the Maxima I always thought I was. No, I'm not. I will at most be for' Adding a radical of "female" to the word "horse" becomes the most common "mother" in the world." A week later, in the last twilight of female school bully, Zhou Lijuan left the top science class, ending a ten-year long career Campus myths.She immediately transferred to the ordinary class of liberal arts, and surrendered to the team of picking up leftovers and filling in vacancies.There are also many talents in the liberal arts class, but Zhou Lijuan feels that she is not among them.She still worked hard, and was admitted to a regular university majoring in law in the second batch of filings after the college entrance examination.Now that the scenery is gone and she can't prove anything to her parents and folks, Zhou Lijuan decides to simply live in a different place, without contending with the world, and live a life of walking and riding a car.
Zhou Lijuan has never been in love.Of course she knows that girls from Tsinghua University and Peking University are not the only ones who enjoy love.Although she has ordinary qualifications, she is diligent and studious, and has her own demeanor in handling things, which is neither daunting nor easy to stop.As an adult, Zhou Lijuan is always loved by her friends, whether she is on the university campus or at work.But she just doesn't fall in love.When she was an undergraduate, Zhou Lijuan rejected the courtship of two classmates, one of whom was a fellow villager, and at the same time declined the love call of three seniors.During the postgraduate study, when the brother of the same school was about to make a move, Zhou Lijuan killed him in the bud.She told the senior that she already had a boyfriend, although the senior never saw any man appear beside the junior.If Zhou Lijuan discovered the limitation of personal intelligence in time and avoided going further and further on the road of narcissism, her appearance is by no means a force to fuel the flames.On the contrary, according to objective standards, her appearance is far beyond the average level.Zhou Lijuan is not an amazing woman, not even in her youthful youth.The beauty of her appearance is that during the entire procedural production process, when her builder was about to complete the project, he was finally tired of following the steps and following the rules, and could not help but relax and sway, causing the proportions and sizes of the facial organs to deviate from the plan blueprint.Zhou Lijuan's almond eyes are full of affection, but the distance between them is wider than that of ordinary people, so that a best friend once opened her thumb and index finger to measure the distance between her two eyes while teasing her: " Ajuan, you should never expect your other eye to assist this eye to see things. It is too far away to care about it."
But her girlfriend was wrong.Everyone, including this girlfriend, was fascinated by the special layout of Zhou Lijuan's eyes, because they found that in the face, which is a place where every inch of land is precious, bold and ingenious design, freeing up more space is really in line with the inner focus of attention logic.Zhou Lijuan said half self-deprecatingly and half proudly: "Stop measuring, you damn girl! Let me ask you, are the swans beautiful? Is the phoenix beautiful? When you see one of their eyes, can you find the other?" Eyes?"
My best friend is more than that wrong.For although man needs two eyes, he does not need one to assist the other, unless the other is incapable of doing so.For example, for high-end operations such as repairing high-end mechanical watches, watch repairers only need to use either eye.This incident fully shows that only when the other eye of human beings is in a suitable position can they play an active role and see a wider and farther world.Therefore, it can be said that Zhou Lijuan is born with a broad horizon, which no one can match.
Since Zhou Lijuan can see more scenes than all of us, it is not because she does not fall in love and delays in getting married, but because the time and place are not right.It wasn't until she was 28 years old that the work was done and the country was initially settled, and there was a timely rain that drifted from the southeast.Yang Guangzhi's mother, now Zhou Lijuan's mother-in-law, Chen Caixia, a trade union cadre who called the wind and rain, was first in Shantou, with the drive to eliminate all difficulties like minesweeping. The girl was right where her son was.Then she pretended to her son's local so-and-so, planned carefully, and acted swiftly, making it impossible for any mistakes to happen, thus achieving a marriage between heaven and earth.
Zhou Lijuan did not marry the wrong person.As for why her husband and his ex-wife parted ways, she didn't know.She didn't know that her husband, like her, still kept this unsolved mystery.But from the first day of marriage, she felt that Yang Guangzhi loved her, as if she had never loved anyone else.Until the birth of her son, she lived contentedly.If there are bound to be some shortcomings in marriage, for Zhou Lijuan, she only has one worry that is changing and intensifying with each passing day, and another doubt that even two wide eyes can't see clearly.Chen Caixia urged her son to divorce and remarry for nothing more than to carry on the family line of the Yang family. Zhou Lijuan lived up to expectations and became the number one hero of the Yang family.However, that's all the hero said, and the way of life will not change because of this. Besides, having a son is originally the duty of a daughter-in-law.Zhou Lijuan really couldn't imagine what life would be like as the daughter-in-law of the Yang family if she couldn't bear a son?Life provided another answer for Zhou Lijuan.Now her troubles are precisely because of the birth of a son.After Yang Guangzhi confirmed that the mother and child were safe outside the delivery room, he made a phone call to tell his mother.And Chen Caixia left without delay and flew to this city. From then on, Zhou Lijuan opened an era of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law beyond her imagination.
Accompanied by the baby's newborn breastfeeding, babbling, toddling, and growing up to the kindergarten preschool, Zhou Lijuan clearly confirmed one thing: the arrival of her mother-in-law did not increase the family population. It used to be a family of four, but now it is still a family of four , although the number is indeed five people - husband and wife plus two children, plus a mother-in-law.Because since her mother-in-law entered the house, Zhou Lijuan herself no longer exists.Not only does she not exist in the eyes of Chen Caixia alone, but she also does not exist in the overlapping images of her husband and mother-in-law.She first fights to make her mother-in-law aware of her existence, at least she is the mother of her grandson.After experiencing discouragement, she had to give up trying.In Chen Caixia's view, Zhou Lijuan is just a breastfeeding person, and only full milk is useful for her grandchildren. As a first-time mother with hands and feet, she doesn't know how to take care of children at all.After the child was weaned, Chen Caixia resolutely deprived her daughter-in-law of custody rights, doing everything by herself, as if she had a child when she was old.Zhou Lijuan had no choice but to fight for her existence in the eyes of her husband when she had not signed the alliance under the city but had been forced to cede land. This had some effect but was very limited, and it was only reflected when Yang Guangzhi was only a husband and not a son.Zhou Lijuan finally discovered that the only thing she didn't need to fight for was her existence in the eyes of her stepdaughter Jiaojiao.If Xu Man knew all this, how should he thank the Empress Dowager!Instead of being neglected because her stepmother added a son, her daughter gained more maternal love.
Zhou Lijuan looked at the time, and wanted to go home during the lunch break to see her son and have lunch, but she immediately gave up the idea. "Forget it, I didn't say hello to my mother-in-law in advance. If the meal is not enough, I have to make it again. It's not good to make my mother-in-law unhappy. I don't seem to be hungry, so go back to work." So Zhou Lijuan turned right onto Bo'ai Road , heading towards the development zone.
"What kind of Xueba am I? The name is not worthy of my name, and I have already revealed my secrets. Xu Man is called Xueba." Just entering the underground passage at the first intersection, Zhou Lijuan said to herself.Zhou Lijuan's undergraduate degree is a law major, but the gold content cannot be compared with a regular university of political science and law, although this degree has benefited her a lot.When she graduated from university, she chose another major and was admitted to the school as a graduate student in the direction of administrative management. After obtaining a master's degree, she applied for the civil servant examination and joined the Zhongshan City Labor Bureau.She later learned that she was able to stand out in the final interview because of her legal background.More than half of the administrative lawsuits across the country brought the labor bureau to court, including the specific job arrangement after she entered the job. The bureau fully considered this factor.Therefore, Zhou Lijuan is the person who has the most dealings with lawyers in the Labor Bureau. From this, she realized another benefit of her undergraduate degree—she can judge what kind of lawyer is a good lawyer.During the trial in the morning, Zhou Lijuan was completely overwhelmed by Xu Man's eloquence.Xu Man's sharpness is like the shadow of a sword, Xu Man's thinking is like flowing clouds and flowing water, and Xu Man's rhetoric is like a clever plan.When Xu Man refuted the defendant's fourth piece of evidence, she mercilessly satirized her colleagues from the Labor Bureau and tried her best to ridicule her.Zhou Lijuan was not embarrassed by this, but just felt sad and ashamed.All the responding materials submitted to the court were finally checked by the attorney, but she had handled the relevant documents in advance. In fact, like most public officials in the administrative agency, she has long been used to going through it without asking for further understanding.If there is something different about Zhou Lijuan, it is that, in the face of indisputable facts, she will not be embarrassed by her own faults, nor will she pretend to be wrong because of embarrassment.Embarrassment is unbearable, unbearable, and it is a stubborn resistance psychologically in order to maintain false self-esteem.Therefore, every embarrassing event is a severe test of human nature, a contest between light and darkness.To go to the light, the only thing you need is courage.In the face of the obvious truth, any cover-ups and disguises, sophistry and evasions are nothing but instinctive tricks or deliberate tricks used to anger others and protect themselves wisely.This is exactly the difference between Zhou Lijuan and Tian Xiaoyong, although she herself does not know this.She experienced similar embarrassment when she was a minor, and it can be said that the phoenix was reborn from the ashes.
Zhou Lijuan is an only child who is doted on by her parents.But savagery and willfulness have nothing to do with her. She has been a good girl since she was a child, and has always been like this.From elementary school to the first year of high school, her academic performance has always been among the best, and she is an invincible top student in the eyes of her classmates and teachers.She also believes that if she wins Tsinghua University and Peking University in the college entrance examination, she will finally prove to the people of Chaozhou and Shantou that her daughter's country is full of glory, and her ambition is not inferior to that of a man.Unexpectedly, Zhou Lijuan was stumped by a simple physics analysis problem just after the second year of high school.At that time, the teacher habitually called out the name of "Zhou Lijuan", and Zhou Lijuan habitually left her seat, walked to the podium to do calculations on the blackboard.This time, she was not able to show the correct answer as she did in any previous time, and then returned triumphantly and returned to her seat under all the envious eyes and the sound of "wow".In fact, from the moment she took the chalk from the teacher, Zhou Lijuan sensed the coming of the disaster season.Her mind was suddenly empty, and all the rote knowledge disappeared without a trace. She couldn't even write the most basic formulas and the most routine steps. The question on the blackboard, all characters including Chinese characters , have become strangers from heaven.Zhou Lijuan was sweating profusely, even soaking the chalk on her hands.She wished that while the chalk was still usable, she could draw a fake crack on the ground instead of the blackboard and let herself slip in.
All comfort is useless.Zhou Lijuan didn't want to make any attempts to prove that this sudden incident was just an accidental blunder.She said to herself: "It's not a horse stumble, it's not some suspicious insanity. No, absolutely not. Because I'm not a horse at all, not the Maxima I always thought I was. No, I'm not. I will at most be for' Adding a radical of "female" to the word "horse" becomes the most common "mother" in the world." A week later, in the last twilight of female school bully, Zhou Lijuan left the top science class, ending a ten-year long career Campus myths.She immediately transferred to the ordinary class of liberal arts, and surrendered to the team of picking up leftovers and filling in vacancies.There are also many talents in the liberal arts class, but Zhou Lijuan feels that she is not among them.She still worked hard, and was admitted to a regular university majoring in law in the second batch of filings after the college entrance examination.Now that the scenery is gone and she can't prove anything to her parents and folks, Zhou Lijuan decides to simply live in a different place, without contending with the world, and live a life of walking and riding a car.
Zhou Lijuan has never been in love.Of course she knows that girls from Tsinghua University and Peking University are not the only ones who enjoy love.Although she has ordinary qualifications, she is diligent and studious, and has her own demeanor in handling things, which is neither daunting nor easy to stop.As an adult, Zhou Lijuan is always loved by her friends, whether she is on the university campus or at work.But she just doesn't fall in love.When she was an undergraduate, Zhou Lijuan rejected the courtship of two classmates, one of whom was a fellow villager, and at the same time declined the love call of three seniors.During the postgraduate study, when the brother of the same school was about to make a move, Zhou Lijuan killed him in the bud.She told the senior that she already had a boyfriend, although the senior never saw any man appear beside the junior.If Zhou Lijuan discovered the limitation of personal intelligence in time and avoided going further and further on the road of narcissism, her appearance is by no means a force to fuel the flames.On the contrary, according to objective standards, her appearance is far beyond the average level.Zhou Lijuan is not an amazing woman, not even in her youthful youth.The beauty of her appearance is that during the entire procedural production process, when her builder was about to complete the project, he was finally tired of following the steps and following the rules, and could not help but relax and sway, causing the proportions and sizes of the facial organs to deviate from the plan blueprint.Zhou Lijuan's almond eyes are full of affection, but the distance between them is wider than that of ordinary people, so that a best friend once opened her thumb and index finger to measure the distance between her two eyes while teasing her: " Ajuan, you should never expect your other eye to assist this eye to see things. It is too far away to care about it."
But her girlfriend was wrong.Everyone, including this girlfriend, was fascinated by the special layout of Zhou Lijuan's eyes, because they found that in the face, which is a place where every inch of land is precious, bold and ingenious design, freeing up more space is really in line with the inner focus of attention logic.Zhou Lijuan said half self-deprecatingly and half proudly: "Stop measuring, you damn girl! Let me ask you, are the swans beautiful? Is the phoenix beautiful? When you see one of their eyes, can you find the other?" Eyes?"
My best friend is more than that wrong.For although man needs two eyes, he does not need one to assist the other, unless the other is incapable of doing so.For example, for high-end operations such as repairing high-end mechanical watches, watch repairers only need to use either eye.This incident fully shows that only when the other eye of human beings is in a suitable position can they play an active role and see a wider and farther world.Therefore, it can be said that Zhou Lijuan is born with a broad horizon, which no one can match.
Since Zhou Lijuan can see more scenes than all of us, it is not because she does not fall in love and delays in getting married, but because the time and place are not right.It wasn't until she was 28 years old that the work was done and the country was initially settled, and there was a timely rain that drifted from the southeast.Yang Guangzhi's mother, now Zhou Lijuan's mother-in-law, Chen Caixia, a trade union cadre who called the wind and rain, was first in Shantou, with the drive to eliminate all difficulties like minesweeping. The girl was right where her son was.Then she pretended to her son's local so-and-so, planned carefully, and acted swiftly, making it impossible for any mistakes to happen, thus achieving a marriage between heaven and earth.
Zhou Lijuan did not marry the wrong person.As for why her husband and his ex-wife parted ways, she didn't know.She didn't know that her husband, like her, still kept this unsolved mystery.But from the first day of marriage, she felt that Yang Guangzhi loved her, as if she had never loved anyone else.Until the birth of her son, she lived contentedly.If there are bound to be some shortcomings in marriage, for Zhou Lijuan, she only has one worry that is changing and intensifying with each passing day, and another doubt that even two wide eyes can't see clearly.Chen Caixia urged her son to divorce and remarry for nothing more than to carry on the family line of the Yang family. Zhou Lijuan lived up to expectations and became the number one hero of the Yang family.However, that's all the hero said, and the way of life will not change because of this. Besides, having a son is originally the duty of a daughter-in-law.Zhou Lijuan really couldn't imagine what life would be like as the daughter-in-law of the Yang family if she couldn't bear a son?Life provided another answer for Zhou Lijuan.Now her troubles are precisely because of the birth of a son.After Yang Guangzhi confirmed that the mother and child were safe outside the delivery room, he made a phone call to tell his mother.And Chen Caixia left without delay and flew to this city. From then on, Zhou Lijuan opened an era of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law beyond her imagination.
Accompanied by the baby's newborn breastfeeding, babbling, toddling, and growing up to the kindergarten preschool, Zhou Lijuan clearly confirmed one thing: the arrival of her mother-in-law did not increase the family population. It used to be a family of four, but now it is still a family of four , although the number is indeed five people - husband and wife plus two children, plus a mother-in-law.Because since her mother-in-law entered the house, Zhou Lijuan herself no longer exists.Not only does she not exist in the eyes of Chen Caixia alone, but she also does not exist in the overlapping images of her husband and mother-in-law.She first fights to make her mother-in-law aware of her existence, at least she is the mother of her grandson.After experiencing discouragement, she had to give up trying.In Chen Caixia's view, Zhou Lijuan is just a breastfeeding person, and only full milk is useful for her grandchildren. As a first-time mother with hands and feet, she doesn't know how to take care of children at all.After the child was weaned, Chen Caixia resolutely deprived her daughter-in-law of custody rights, doing everything by herself, as if she had a child when she was old.Zhou Lijuan had no choice but to fight for her existence in the eyes of her husband when she had not signed the alliance under the city but had been forced to cede land. This had some effect but was very limited, and it was only reflected when Yang Guangzhi was only a husband and not a son.Zhou Lijuan finally discovered that the only thing she didn't need to fight for was her existence in the eyes of her stepdaughter Jiaojiao.If Xu Man knew all this, how should he thank the Empress Dowager!Instead of being neglected because her stepmother added a son, her daughter gained more maternal love.
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