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Chapter 20 The Way of Saying No
Three days later, Tian Xiaohui happened to have an operation, Xu Man told Tian Xiaohui to leave it alone, and she was responsible for taking Xiaolei back to Guangzhou.Tian Xiaohui had previously mentioned whether she should contact Yang Guangzhi or Zhou Lijuan and ask Jiaojiao to play with Xiaolei, so that Xu Man could take the opportunity to see her daughter, but Xu Man said let's forget it this time.Xu Man called Ding Jianjun and agreed with him on the time and place of the handover.Reminded by Tian Xiaohui, she also called Tian Xiaoyong, asking if she would like to bring his daughter back when she went to Guzhen to pick up Xiaolei.Tian Xiaoyong was very surprised by this phone call, and he immediately said, "That's great, when will you pick them up?"
"I will go to the ancient town before noon, and it will be about lunch time when I return to the city." Xu Man replied.
"Okay. I'll book a restaurant, and I just invite you and the two children to have a meal together." Tian Xiaoyong suggested.
"No. You don't have to be so polite, Brother Yong. I'll hand over your daughter to you and send Xiaolei back to Guangzhou. I'm in a rush and I don't have time to sit down and eat." Xu Man said.
When seeing Tian Xiaoyong, Tian Xiaoyong packed two fast food from McDonald's for Xu Man and Xiaolei, Xu Man said thank you, and didn't even have time to get out of the car.Because Tian Xiaoyong told her not to work, he opened the car door and picked up his daughter.As soon as the car left, Tian Xiaoyong regretted endlessly, blaming himself for being too diligent and quick, so that he didn't see Xu Man's face clearly at all. He only felt that Xu Man was more beautiful and charming under the sun.Tian Xiaoyong didn't expect to see Xu Man again so soon, only his daughter felt his joy.She heard her father say to her: "Good girl, dad didn't pack McDonald's for you, but he wanted to ask you what you like to eat? Just tell dad, and dad will take you to eat."
Xiaolei didn't care that Xu Man picked him up instead of his mother. He heard that his mother had an operation and didn't pursue it. The child may have been familiar with the lifestyle of a doctor's family for a long time.After he ate up the hamburger and French fries and drank the big Coke, Xu Man almost drove to Guangzhou.Seeing Ding Jianjun, Xu Man got out of the car and told him about Xiaolei's situation, and then planned to go home.When Ding Jianjun asked if he had eaten lunch, Xiaolei immediately answered, "I ate it, but Auntie didn't." But Xu Man declined Ding Jianjun's kind invitation, saying that she was not hungry at all, and drank cold McDonald's coffee while talking.Before leaving, Ding Jianjun asked: "Xu Man, Xiaohui told me about Yang Guangzhi, and he did a great job of not letting you recognize his daughter. Now that you have returned to Zhongshan, how do you plan to solve this problem?" Xu Man replied, Let's talk about the future situation. After thanking Ding Jianjun for his concern, he drove back.
The next day, Tian Xiaohui received a call from Tian Xiaoyong in the hospital, saying that she and Xu Man would be invited to dinner on the weekend.Tian Xiaohui has never been polite when talking to her cousin, "Xiaoyong, what are you doing! Didn't you have dinner together just now? Why are you going to eat again?"
"Xiaohui, I didn't intend to invite you to dinner. Look, I asked the guest to pick up my daughter for me. I'm so sorry. Let's have a meal to express it." Tian Xiaoyong explained.
"I didn't intend to invite me to dinner. Why did you call me? Who do you want to invite?" Tian Xiaohui said rudely.
"Xiaohui, don't be such a small chicken, can you? I'm not familiar with Xu Man, so how could you invite him to dinner so rashly?"
"Aren't you familiar? Haven't you invited someone once?"
"Tian Xiaohui! I think you've been used to domineering since you were a child." After saying this, Tian Xiaoyong immediately realized that he was asking for help from others, and his tone softened again, "Good little sister, my dear cousin, give Brother Yong some face. Okay? Just help me arrange it."
"Yeah. That's about the same. But like this, Xiaoyong, Xu Man is very busy recently, and people from the headquarters need to come to attend the opening ceremony of their branch, so it's definitely not possible on weekends. Let's talk." Tian Xiaohui said.
"That's fine, Xiaohui, you remember this matter. I'll call you again in a few days." Tian Xiaoyong had no choice but to back down.
"How many days? Xiaoyong, don't act like you're dying. We'll talk about it in two weeks!" Tian Xiaohui seemed to issue an order.
Putting down the phone, Tian Xiaohui thought to herself: "It's hard to handle, it seems that my cousin is really interested in Xu Man. As the saying goes, if you are not afraid of the thief stealing, you are afraid of the thief thinking about it. What should I do?" Because the person the cousin is thinking about is Xu Man It's definitely not irrelevant, so Tian Xiaohui is naturally concerned about Xu Man, not only thinking about it: "If Xu Man is not... then it is a bit appropriate to marry Xiaoyong. It is not right, what is appropriate! How could Xu Man like it?" Him? I can only say that if Tian Xiaoyong can marry Xu Man, it will be smoked from our ancestral grave. No, no, even if Xu Man is not a lesbian, I can’t let Xu Man marry Xiaoyong. But look at Tian Xiaoyong's superficial virtue of being greedy for beauty, where is he "virtuous"? Yes, he is much more down-to-earth now, he does a good job, and he also looks like a person living a life, but with his vulgar appearance, there is no elegance at all. No, Xu Man lived with him?" At this moment, Tian Xiaohui's mind was full of the lingering and affectionate appearance of Xu Man on the bed, "This, this, this, it is a waste of money!" Just thinking of a man like Tian Xiaoyong getting involved in Xu Man, Tian Xiaohui Just felt sick.She seemed to save herself from the nightmare, "Bah! Bah! Bah! Thank God, such a thing is impossible to happen. Fortunately, Xu Man is a lesbian, let alone Tian Xiaoyong, any man treats her They are all insulators. In fact, I don’t have to worry about men at all.” Only then did Tian Xiaohui realize that there was still a worry in her that she didn’t need to worry about.
"It's all right now, don't worry about men, worry about half of it." Tian Xiaohui changed his mind again, "I'm afraid it's more than half. Men are too scary, because men are too greedy, they not only want women, but also the whole world. What? When a woman is in the hands of a man, they are just new for a while. Ding Jianjun doesn't say what he looks like, and the pious Yang Guangzhi is not much better. It seems that he is inseparable from Xu Man. What happened? It’s not about finding another woman right away. It seems that men are greedy snakes, and they are basically ruthless animals. I have seen through them, and living with men is not enough to worry about all day long!” No one reminded Tian Xiaohui, at least women Half the sky is also a competitive world, remove all men, after all, there is still half of the worry.And in fact, as Florentino experienced all his life among women, "in secret adventures, women are like men: the same cunning, the same whim, the same lack of guilt." [Note 1] "But Tian Xiaohui only loves Xu Man, as long as she doesn't worry about Xu Man, she doesn't need to worry about other women.Maybe Tian Xiaohui is right, at least she is smart.If she needs to worry about Xu Man, then she has to think about how to help Xu Man get rid of this uninvited guest in the man's world. "Tell me, how should we deal with this matter?" Tian Xiaohui continued to think, "Tian Xiaoyong is not someone else, he is my cousin, as he emphasized, he is still a cousin. Shit! There are cousins who don't But, what can I do? Tian Xiaoyong, Tian Xiaoyong, who is not good for you, you have to fall in love with Xu Man! But then again, you have good vision, if I were a man, it must be Xu Man No. No, no. I was confused by Tian Xiaoyong, a villain. Do I need to be a man? If I were a man, then I would be the one if you are the one. No, no, it’s not a question of sincerity. Fortunately, I am not a man, otherwise I would be an insulator, and I would have no chance with Xu Man. Based on this alone, I think there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian. By the way, I know how to tell my cousin, so I will tell him : "Xiaoyong, as a cousin, it's not that I don't want to help you. Seriously, I'd like to help you. But I can't help you. Or, you go for a sex change operation..." No, no. Where can I Tell Xiaoyong like this! Oh, I’m so annoying, I don’t know what to do? Forget it, I don’t want to. Let’s discuss it with Xu Man when I go home.”
That night, during the intermission between Tian Xiaohui and Xu Man's intimacy, she asked, "Xu Man, did Xiaoyong call you today?"
"No." Xu Man replied.
"Oh. He is quite knowledgeable." Tian Xiaohui said.
"What's the matter?" Xu Man asked.
"He called me at noon and wanted to treat you to dinner. Thank you for picking up his daughter. I told him that you are very busy recently, and I will talk about it in two weeks. I think he is looking for an excuse to approach you. He knows that you are divorced Being single obviously means pursuing you." Tian Xiaohui said.
"Xiaohui," Xu Man buried her head in Tian Xiaohui's arms, and said coquettishly, "I am your baby, and it is your duty to protect me from foreign enemies. Besides, Tian Xiaoyong is still your cousin, how can you block him?" Go back, I don't care."
"What are you invading?" Tian Xiaohui stretched out a hand to Xu Man's private parts, "Violating here?"
"You are so bad! Xiaohui." Xu Man found Tian Xiaohui's hand and pinched the back of it, "Not only there, but also here." As he spoke, he pressed his chest tightly to Tian Xiaohui.
"Then what do you mean?" Tian Xiaohui deliberately teased Xu Man, "other places are fine."
"Nowhere! The good mountains and rivers of the motherland will not give up an inch of land." Xu Man was very shy.
"I'm not willing!" Tian Xiaohui followed the trend, "Come on, baby Xu Man. Let me take a good tour of the beautiful mountains and rivers of the motherland."
Tian Xiaohui didn't seriously say until she took a bath with sweat and lay down again, "Xu Man, I thought about it all afternoon, and my head was about to burst, and I couldn't think of a good way to defeat the enemy. I can play the striker, but you have to take command Come on. Think about it too, and come up with a plan for me."
"Yeah. But, Xiao Hui, are you sure Tian Xiaoyong has that meaning?" Xu Man asked.
"It can't be wrong." Tian Xiaohui said.
"If that's the case, it should be sooner rather than later to cut off the cloud and rain in Wushan." Xu Man gave a principled opinion.
"I know this. The question is how to cut it off?" Tian Xiaohui asked.
"If Xiaoyong calls and invites us to dinner again, you can tell him directly that the effort is nothing to worry about, and there is no need to spend money. If you have other meanings, don't hide it, your family can say it clearly. If he expresses his feelings, you Tell him, let him ask me out directly, and I will have a showdown with him." Xu Man said.
"You're asking me to play football. The question is how do you catch the wave? What will you tell him when the time comes?" Tian Xiaohui asked again.
"This, I haven't thought about it yet. Anyway, the soldiers will cover it up." Xu Man replied.
"No, no. Xu Man, you think about it, I can't let you put yourself in danger." Tian Xiaohui disagreed.
"What is risking yourself? What are you worried about! Did he still eat me?"
"That's not the case. I'm not worried about it. I just think you're not very good at what to say to him. With your character, you definitely don't want to perfunctory him and say something insincere. For example, say that you haven't considered getting married yet Ah, either it's not suitable for him, or you lied that you already have a partner, I don't think you can say these words. If you tell me, how can you tell him? "
"Xiaohui, you really understand me. Although I haven't thought about how to tell him, I really won't be perfunctory. The real difficulty is that when we don't have to reveal our identities to any man, is there no suitable person?" The method, can make them give up their unreasonable thoughts? Oh, let me correct you. It is wrong to say that people have unreasonable thoughts. Loving someone is not an unreasonable idea. What to say, I always feel that there must be a suitable way, but we haven't thought of it yet. Moreover, this problem is not only a problem for any man, but a problem for everyone. Xiaohui, have you thought about it? What if There is a lesbian who is in love with you, and the person you love is me, what should you say to her? Therefore, this is not a question of identity, but a question of love or not. To a girl who shows love to you, it is a pity that you do not If you love him or her, how can you refuse?"
Tian Xiaohui thought of Wu Xiaolan all of a sudden, but she didn't share this experience.Because she knows that any problem is a problem shared by her and Xu Man.
The author has something to say:
[Note 1] Quoted from Marquez's "Love in the Time of Cholera", translated by Yang Ling, Nanhai Publishing Company, first edition in 2012, page 391.
"I will go to the ancient town before noon, and it will be about lunch time when I return to the city." Xu Man replied.
"Okay. I'll book a restaurant, and I just invite you and the two children to have a meal together." Tian Xiaoyong suggested.
"No. You don't have to be so polite, Brother Yong. I'll hand over your daughter to you and send Xiaolei back to Guangzhou. I'm in a rush and I don't have time to sit down and eat." Xu Man said.
When seeing Tian Xiaoyong, Tian Xiaoyong packed two fast food from McDonald's for Xu Man and Xiaolei, Xu Man said thank you, and didn't even have time to get out of the car.Because Tian Xiaoyong told her not to work, he opened the car door and picked up his daughter.As soon as the car left, Tian Xiaoyong regretted endlessly, blaming himself for being too diligent and quick, so that he didn't see Xu Man's face clearly at all. He only felt that Xu Man was more beautiful and charming under the sun.Tian Xiaoyong didn't expect to see Xu Man again so soon, only his daughter felt his joy.She heard her father say to her: "Good girl, dad didn't pack McDonald's for you, but he wanted to ask you what you like to eat? Just tell dad, and dad will take you to eat."
Xiaolei didn't care that Xu Man picked him up instead of his mother. He heard that his mother had an operation and didn't pursue it. The child may have been familiar with the lifestyle of a doctor's family for a long time.After he ate up the hamburger and French fries and drank the big Coke, Xu Man almost drove to Guangzhou.Seeing Ding Jianjun, Xu Man got out of the car and told him about Xiaolei's situation, and then planned to go home.When Ding Jianjun asked if he had eaten lunch, Xiaolei immediately answered, "I ate it, but Auntie didn't." But Xu Man declined Ding Jianjun's kind invitation, saying that she was not hungry at all, and drank cold McDonald's coffee while talking.Before leaving, Ding Jianjun asked: "Xu Man, Xiaohui told me about Yang Guangzhi, and he did a great job of not letting you recognize his daughter. Now that you have returned to Zhongshan, how do you plan to solve this problem?" Xu Man replied, Let's talk about the future situation. After thanking Ding Jianjun for his concern, he drove back.
The next day, Tian Xiaohui received a call from Tian Xiaoyong in the hospital, saying that she and Xu Man would be invited to dinner on the weekend.Tian Xiaohui has never been polite when talking to her cousin, "Xiaoyong, what are you doing! Didn't you have dinner together just now? Why are you going to eat again?"
"Xiaohui, I didn't intend to invite you to dinner. Look, I asked the guest to pick up my daughter for me. I'm so sorry. Let's have a meal to express it." Tian Xiaoyong explained.
"I didn't intend to invite me to dinner. Why did you call me? Who do you want to invite?" Tian Xiaohui said rudely.
"Xiaohui, don't be such a small chicken, can you? I'm not familiar with Xu Man, so how could you invite him to dinner so rashly?"
"Aren't you familiar? Haven't you invited someone once?"
"Tian Xiaohui! I think you've been used to domineering since you were a child." After saying this, Tian Xiaoyong immediately realized that he was asking for help from others, and his tone softened again, "Good little sister, my dear cousin, give Brother Yong some face. Okay? Just help me arrange it."
"Yeah. That's about the same. But like this, Xiaoyong, Xu Man is very busy recently, and people from the headquarters need to come to attend the opening ceremony of their branch, so it's definitely not possible on weekends. Let's talk." Tian Xiaohui said.
"That's fine, Xiaohui, you remember this matter. I'll call you again in a few days." Tian Xiaoyong had no choice but to back down.
"How many days? Xiaoyong, don't act like you're dying. We'll talk about it in two weeks!" Tian Xiaohui seemed to issue an order.
Putting down the phone, Tian Xiaohui thought to herself: "It's hard to handle, it seems that my cousin is really interested in Xu Man. As the saying goes, if you are not afraid of the thief stealing, you are afraid of the thief thinking about it. What should I do?" Because the person the cousin is thinking about is Xu Man It's definitely not irrelevant, so Tian Xiaohui is naturally concerned about Xu Man, not only thinking about it: "If Xu Man is not... then it is a bit appropriate to marry Xiaoyong. It is not right, what is appropriate! How could Xu Man like it?" Him? I can only say that if Tian Xiaoyong can marry Xu Man, it will be smoked from our ancestral grave. No, no, even if Xu Man is not a lesbian, I can’t let Xu Man marry Xiaoyong. But look at Tian Xiaoyong's superficial virtue of being greedy for beauty, where is he "virtuous"? Yes, he is much more down-to-earth now, he does a good job, and he also looks like a person living a life, but with his vulgar appearance, there is no elegance at all. No, Xu Man lived with him?" At this moment, Tian Xiaohui's mind was full of the lingering and affectionate appearance of Xu Man on the bed, "This, this, this, it is a waste of money!" Just thinking of a man like Tian Xiaoyong getting involved in Xu Man, Tian Xiaohui Just felt sick.She seemed to save herself from the nightmare, "Bah! Bah! Bah! Thank God, such a thing is impossible to happen. Fortunately, Xu Man is a lesbian, let alone Tian Xiaoyong, any man treats her They are all insulators. In fact, I don’t have to worry about men at all.” Only then did Tian Xiaohui realize that there was still a worry in her that she didn’t need to worry about.
"It's all right now, don't worry about men, worry about half of it." Tian Xiaohui changed his mind again, "I'm afraid it's more than half. Men are too scary, because men are too greedy, they not only want women, but also the whole world. What? When a woman is in the hands of a man, they are just new for a while. Ding Jianjun doesn't say what he looks like, and the pious Yang Guangzhi is not much better. It seems that he is inseparable from Xu Man. What happened? It’s not about finding another woman right away. It seems that men are greedy snakes, and they are basically ruthless animals. I have seen through them, and living with men is not enough to worry about all day long!” No one reminded Tian Xiaohui, at least women Half the sky is also a competitive world, remove all men, after all, there is still half of the worry.And in fact, as Florentino experienced all his life among women, "in secret adventures, women are like men: the same cunning, the same whim, the same lack of guilt." [Note 1] "But Tian Xiaohui only loves Xu Man, as long as she doesn't worry about Xu Man, she doesn't need to worry about other women.Maybe Tian Xiaohui is right, at least she is smart.If she needs to worry about Xu Man, then she has to think about how to help Xu Man get rid of this uninvited guest in the man's world. "Tell me, how should we deal with this matter?" Tian Xiaohui continued to think, "Tian Xiaoyong is not someone else, he is my cousin, as he emphasized, he is still a cousin. Shit! There are cousins who don't But, what can I do? Tian Xiaoyong, Tian Xiaoyong, who is not good for you, you have to fall in love with Xu Man! But then again, you have good vision, if I were a man, it must be Xu Man No. No, no. I was confused by Tian Xiaoyong, a villain. Do I need to be a man? If I were a man, then I would be the one if you are the one. No, no, it’s not a question of sincerity. Fortunately, I am not a man, otherwise I would be an insulator, and I would have no chance with Xu Man. Based on this alone, I think there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian. By the way, I know how to tell my cousin, so I will tell him : "Xiaoyong, as a cousin, it's not that I don't want to help you. Seriously, I'd like to help you. But I can't help you. Or, you go for a sex change operation..." No, no. Where can I Tell Xiaoyong like this! Oh, I’m so annoying, I don’t know what to do? Forget it, I don’t want to. Let’s discuss it with Xu Man when I go home.”
That night, during the intermission between Tian Xiaohui and Xu Man's intimacy, she asked, "Xu Man, did Xiaoyong call you today?"
"No." Xu Man replied.
"Oh. He is quite knowledgeable." Tian Xiaohui said.
"What's the matter?" Xu Man asked.
"He called me at noon and wanted to treat you to dinner. Thank you for picking up his daughter. I told him that you are very busy recently, and I will talk about it in two weeks. I think he is looking for an excuse to approach you. He knows that you are divorced Being single obviously means pursuing you." Tian Xiaohui said.
"Xiaohui," Xu Man buried her head in Tian Xiaohui's arms, and said coquettishly, "I am your baby, and it is your duty to protect me from foreign enemies. Besides, Tian Xiaoyong is still your cousin, how can you block him?" Go back, I don't care."
"What are you invading?" Tian Xiaohui stretched out a hand to Xu Man's private parts, "Violating here?"
"You are so bad! Xiaohui." Xu Man found Tian Xiaohui's hand and pinched the back of it, "Not only there, but also here." As he spoke, he pressed his chest tightly to Tian Xiaohui.
"Then what do you mean?" Tian Xiaohui deliberately teased Xu Man, "other places are fine."
"Nowhere! The good mountains and rivers of the motherland will not give up an inch of land." Xu Man was very shy.
"I'm not willing!" Tian Xiaohui followed the trend, "Come on, baby Xu Man. Let me take a good tour of the beautiful mountains and rivers of the motherland."
Tian Xiaohui didn't seriously say until she took a bath with sweat and lay down again, "Xu Man, I thought about it all afternoon, and my head was about to burst, and I couldn't think of a good way to defeat the enemy. I can play the striker, but you have to take command Come on. Think about it too, and come up with a plan for me."
"Yeah. But, Xiao Hui, are you sure Tian Xiaoyong has that meaning?" Xu Man asked.
"It can't be wrong." Tian Xiaohui said.
"If that's the case, it should be sooner rather than later to cut off the cloud and rain in Wushan." Xu Man gave a principled opinion.
"I know this. The question is how to cut it off?" Tian Xiaohui asked.
"If Xiaoyong calls and invites us to dinner again, you can tell him directly that the effort is nothing to worry about, and there is no need to spend money. If you have other meanings, don't hide it, your family can say it clearly. If he expresses his feelings, you Tell him, let him ask me out directly, and I will have a showdown with him." Xu Man said.
"You're asking me to play football. The question is how do you catch the wave? What will you tell him when the time comes?" Tian Xiaohui asked again.
"This, I haven't thought about it yet. Anyway, the soldiers will cover it up." Xu Man replied.
"No, no. Xu Man, you think about it, I can't let you put yourself in danger." Tian Xiaohui disagreed.
"What is risking yourself? What are you worried about! Did he still eat me?"
"That's not the case. I'm not worried about it. I just think you're not very good at what to say to him. With your character, you definitely don't want to perfunctory him and say something insincere. For example, say that you haven't considered getting married yet Ah, either it's not suitable for him, or you lied that you already have a partner, I don't think you can say these words. If you tell me, how can you tell him? "
"Xiaohui, you really understand me. Although I haven't thought about how to tell him, I really won't be perfunctory. The real difficulty is that when we don't have to reveal our identities to any man, is there no suitable person?" The method, can make them give up their unreasonable thoughts? Oh, let me correct you. It is wrong to say that people have unreasonable thoughts. Loving someone is not an unreasonable idea. What to say, I always feel that there must be a suitable way, but we haven't thought of it yet. Moreover, this problem is not only a problem for any man, but a problem for everyone. Xiaohui, have you thought about it? What if There is a lesbian who is in love with you, and the person you love is me, what should you say to her? Therefore, this is not a question of identity, but a question of love or not. To a girl who shows love to you, it is a pity that you do not If you love him or her, how can you refuse?"
Tian Xiaohui thought of Wu Xiaolan all of a sudden, but she didn't share this experience.Because she knows that any problem is a problem shared by her and Xu Man.
The author has something to say:
[Note 1] Quoted from Marquez's "Love in the Time of Cholera", translated by Yang Ling, Nanhai Publishing Company, first edition in 2012, page 391.
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