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Xu Man checked the time, and there was still an hour before noon, so he drove back to the vegetable market near the apartment, bought dinner ingredients and went home.At noon, I simply made some food. In the afternoon, I was preparing to incorporate the Mingzheng Law Firm's plan in the study, and at the same time, I made an old hot soup according to the local custom.When it was almost time for Tian Xiaohui to leave work, Xu Man sent a private message saying that she was going to pick her up and asked if she could leave work on time.Tian Xiaohui replied yes, and Xu Man set off.Tian Xiaohui didn't know that Xu Man came from home, she was very happy to hear what Xu Man said about Mingzheng, and immediately suggested: "Xu Man, I won't cook tonight, let's find a place to celebrate." Xu Man hurriedly said: " It’s better to go home and eat, I’ve cooked the soup, the rice is ready, and the dishes to be fried are also ready, and it’s ready to fry when I get home.”

"You're already home, why bother to pick me up? I'll just call a car myself." Tian Xiaohui said.

"I have nothing to do, and besides, I want to tell you the good news earlier." Xu Man replied.

"That's true! Why don't I buy the car with you tomorrow? In the morning, after I finish the house inspection and arrange work, if there is nothing else, I will go home and pick you up. You wait at home." Tian Xiaohui said.

"Okay." Xu Man agreed.

During dinner, the two of them spent their time discussing which car to buy. They discussed back and forth until Tian Xiaohui wiped the stove and walked out of the kitchen before deciding to buy back the upgraded version of Xu Man's original Mercedes-Benz, about 40. Ten thousand.Then the two went into the study again and sat down as they did last night, knowing what to discuss next.Tian Xiaohui spoke first: "Xu Man, you will be on vacation soon, I guess you don't plan to go back to Wuhan for the New Year?"

"Yes. No answer." Xu Man replied.

"I don't want you to go back to Wuhan either. Unless something special happens in the future, we will celebrate the New Year together. Not only the Spring Festival, but all holidays. The two of us are a family, so of course we should be together." Tian Xiaohui said.

"Xiaohui, I'm very glad you said that." Xu Man said, "I can't bear to leave you."

"Okay, then let's discuss how to spend this year's Spring Festival?" Tian Xiaohui continued.

"Anyway, I'm alone, so I'll let you arrange how I live?" Xu Man said.

"What do you mean you are alone anyway?" Tian Xiaohui asked.

"I'm alone! My family is not here." Xu Man replied.

"Xu Man, first of all I have to criticize you. Your attitude is wrong. Secondly, I have to criticize you. You said two sentences at once, but none of them are correct." Tian Xiaohui said seriously.

"Xiaohui," Xu Man stared at Tian Xiaohui's eyes, "don't be so serious, okay? Tell me what's wrong? Isn't it okay for people to correct their mistakes?"

"Xu Man, you are deceiving me on purpose, I know it." Tian Xiaohui gave up her serious face and put on a persuasive tone, "First, are you alone? No, you still have me. From now on, you are no longer I’m alone, and neither am I. Second, isn’t your home here? Then where are you now? Who does this home belong to? Let me tell you, this is your home, and it’s also my home, our shared home .”

"Xiaohui, good Xiaohui, I know I'm wrong, I accidentally said the wrong thing." Xu Man said while twisting her body from side to side, as if begging for mercy.

"Accidentally say the wrong thing? My barrister, when have you ever been careless?" Tian Xiaohui insisted, "Xu Man, go to the bathroom and look in the mirror, keep this movement, and see how you look like a rascal!"

"Are you still a doctor? Xiaohui, if I keep doing this, how can I go to the bathroom?" Xu Man continued to play tricks.

"I'm not a doctor now. What kind of doctor am I at home?" Tian Xiaohui said.

"I'm not a lawyer either. I'm also at home." Xu Man argued.

"Then what are you?" Tian Xiaohui asked.

"I..." Xu Man began to act coquettishly, "I'm a baby."

"You won, baby Xu Man. Now let's get down to business and talk about the New Year." Tian Xiaohui surrendered.

"Xiaohui, I elected you to be the head of our family, so you can arrange it." Xu Man said.

"In the past, Lao Ding and I, no matter how we usually took care of ourselves, he still took the children with me to my parents' house for New Year's Eve dinner on New Year's Eve. This is how I think about it, Xu Man." Tian Xiaohui paused, then said, "I As for you, the situation is quite special, and we don’t necessarily have to go to someone’s parents’ house to reunite. But I just got divorced this year, and my parents must think it’s a pity that I’m all alone. , I think you will go with me to my parents' house for New Year's Eve dinner, the family is so lively, if they make a fuss and want to keep the New Year's Eve, we will keep it with them, and then no matter how late, we will go back to our own home to continue the New Year's Eve, you See if this arrangement is good?"

"Xiaohui, I think it's pretty good. I'm willing to go with you, and I'm willing to follow you wherever you go. Even if I go, will your parents think I'm a bit strange?" Xu Man asked.

"Cough! What's so strange about that?" Tian Xiaohui said, "There are many people from other places, and no one may return to their hometown every year to celebrate the New Year. Everyone knows that during the Spring Festival travel season, there are huge crowds. Is it easy to go back home? Oh, by the way, Xu Man, you want to say that you will make my parents feel strange when you go out to celebrate the New Year alone? That's nothing strange. Think about it, now that their daughter is also divorced, how can they account for it? What's the matter with you. Honestly, I have to go back, and I'm worried about going back to see them. I know, since I got divorced, my parents have become ants on the hot pot. Baby girl no one wants Now, they are more anxious than sad, and they have already started Finding Nemo, maybe when they go back to the New Year’s Eve dinner, there will be a Chinese New Year forced marriage drama, and I am ready to watch it on the Spring Festival Gala.”

"Hehe, that's good, Xiaohui." Xu Man said, "I'll go back with you this time, just to beat the side drums and pretend to cooperate with them."

"Xu Man, do you think that the parents of our generation are all born in the same mold? They seem to live according to the 24 solar terms, everything has a strict timetable, what to do. When it comes to people, it is plausible to say that when a person reaches a certain age, he has to do what he should do at that age. Therefore, in their eyes, he has to marry when he reaches the age of marriage, and it doesn’t matter if he marries a cat or a dog. I'm also cold-eyed and picky, but I don't really care. The premise is that you must marry someone, and you have the opportunity to let them pretend to make irresponsible remarks. I don't feel that I have wronged the parents of the world by saying this. If they really care about whether you marry well or not Well, if life is happy or not, as long as your daughter is married, you will not let you have a child as soon as you look forward to the stars and the moon. Once the child is born, no matter how bad the son-in-law is, he will become the father of the child. At most, he will hate iron and steel I'm sure I don't want you to divorce him. If you really divorced, they would inevitably beat their chests and stamp their feet. Regardless of whether the daughter was really kicked out or the daughter wanted to divorce, it would be a shame for them anyway. Then they felt unwilling But what they say is that they are worried about you. Who will take care of you when you live alone? What will you do when you get old? So they will spare no effort to help you make up for it, and automatically lower the standards and conditions for remarriage. Just throw the daughter to any man. And all of this is for your own good, you can't just ignore it and hurt your parents' hearts." Tian Xiaohui talked a lot like a cannonball.

"My parents are like that too." Xu Man continued, "I got divorced and returned to Wuhan. At first I thought about being alone, so I simply went home and lived with my parents. Before I lived there for a few days, they started to take care of me. I'm worried about getting married. Because I made a statement to them in advance. First, I asked for the divorce. Second, I don't plan to remarry. My parents know that I have a young temper, so they don't say anything on the surface, and they dare not talk too much Nagging. But, they don’t care what you think, they just stick to what they say and do things according to their own thoughts. It’s like not forgetting the original intention, they don’t realize it at all, they have been living on prejudice, and they have been poor slaves of ideas all their lives My dad is still a professor of aesthetics. I don’t understand. Where did all his knowledge go when it’s his turn to deal with the world? It’s really planned and premeditated. On the surface, it’s calm, but it’s secretly acting carefully. It even created a scene for me to have a fatal encounter in a TV series. I may be born with a heartless person, and I only give my parents one chance. I told them After that, I fulfilled my obligation to inform in advance, so I immediately rented a house and moved out to live by myself. Of course, I hurt my parents' heart by doing this, but at least I felt at ease, and at least they were at ease. If you say This is called selfishness, and I admit it.”

"Or Xu Man is Xu Man," Tian Xiaohui said sincerely, "I just admire your courage. With you and my life together, my confidence is doubled."

"Xiaohui, I was scolded bloody by you just now, and this is another compliment. But I think, when it comes to dealing with people, I still have to learn from you, be more understanding, more flexible, and not like me. Such a willful way." Xu Man said.

"Don't put a high hat on me, Xu Man, to be honest, before you beat the side drum, my heart is beating. I really don't know how to deal with the situation in my parents' house. Tell me, if they give me Introduce someone, arrange a blind date, should I refuse generously, or pretend to cooperate and flatter me?" Tian Xiaohui asked.

"Well, let's see the specific situation at that time. Anyway, I believe that with your wisdom, you will be able to handle it freely, try not to hurt your peace, and achieve the best of both worlds." Xu Man said.

"Xu Man, get it." Tian Xiaohui decided to bypass the tempting reef of praise and self-praise, and continue sailing on the original route.She said: "You said how comfortable our Chinese men's life should be!"

"Where do you start with this?" Xu Man asked.

"You see, they are still in the womb of their mothers, and they have become people selected by God. They must rely on them to carry on the family line. Of course, it is not easy for men, because the task is quite heavy. They have to devote their lives to honoring their ancestors and honoring their wives and children. When I was a stallion, I couldn't make any mistakes. In the past, the one-child policy was a one-shot decision, and the risk was too great. Although women can be blamed for not having sons, men can't hold their heads up. But don't forget, Xu Man Yes, a man shoulders the mission, but he is born with arrogance and natural grace. All women are prepared for them and serve them. Look at the parents of this generation, even if they have daughters , and half of them are daughters themselves, but aren’t they escorting men all their lives? The "San Zi Jing" says that "at the beginning of human beings, nature is good", I can see through it, even if people are really good in nature, men are very good. You can quickly see that society is very good for them. If they don't go bad, there's no one else. Sometimes I think that if the men were more capable, they wouldn't have to turn to unreliable women for offering incense. Then they will be relieved, what the hell are we women doing? I am an ophthalmologist, but I regret that I didn’t specialize in male infertility. Let’s see when biomedicine can advance to allow men to sow their own seeds and give birth to their own children. The world is really peaceful!"

Tian Xiaohui's words completely shocked the friends around her.Xu Man can at least be sure that it is impossible for Tian Xiaohui to return to the man again, which makes her feel very relieved and at ease.Only now did Xu Man realize that Tian Xiaohui hated men to such an extent, which was different from her own situation.Her lesbian journey originated from the awakening of her own sexual consciousness. She just lacks sexual needs for men, and she doesn't disdain men so much, and she can still uphold a fair position.And Tian Xiaohui may not be able to clearly distinguish in her whole life, whether she was born to stay in the world of women, or because she was bullied and tortured in the society of men, she finally became unbearable, so she had to drink this glass of wine and get along with her. Cheers to the past.Then pack up your bags, shake off the dust all over your body, and embark on a long journey to return to your hometown from a foreign land.