Blessings of Time Traveling

Women seem to be vulnerable groups in many cases, not because they are weak, but because society has always had prejudice against them.

In the matter of Ji Liang's mother's remarriage, she can be said to have done nothing wrong, but the world will say that she was wrong.Those who disagree with her remarriage say she has discredited her ex-husband.People who think that there is nothing wrong with her remarriage, because of the unfair treatment Ji Liang received, couldn't help but say to Qi Shi: "You, you should have endured it back then. If you took a step back then, Ji Liang stayed in the Ji family, why is it so difficult now?"

However, Qi Shi always believed that he was not wrong.Ji Liang also thinks that his mother is not wrong.

Qi Mingcheng would not think that they were wrong, and said with emotion: "Many times, the person concerned cannot retreat. If she takes a step back, they will take a step closer, and in the end she will find that she has lost her heart unconsciously. A lot of rights. Ji Liang's mother did the right thing."

If Ji Liang had stayed in Ji's house, the child's three views would have been influenced by those close to him, so what kind of person would Ji Liang have grown up to be?The current Ji Liang is only affected by the fact that he left the clan. If he stayed in the clan, he might have no future at all!

Leaving aside the matter of Qi's remarriage, from the point of view of the whole society, perhaps at first a man's requirement for a woman is only chastity, if a woman obeys without resistance, it will eventually evolve into, when she falls into the water Well, in order to save her, a strange man pulled her arm, but in order to maintain her chastity, she had to cut off this arm and throw it away.That's not right, of course, and it's not fair.

Although women in the Jing Dynasty could remarry, this situation was more common among commoners.To put it bluntly, it is because life is really difficult. For example, for Ji Liang's mother, remarriage is the only way to survive, so she must marry!Among the dignitaries and dignitaries, some chastity archway has already appeared faintly.If no one resists this, then after ten or twenty years, the lives of folk women will become more and more difficult.

Bad habits such as being widowed and bound feet, can these things suddenly appear in an era when women's status is very high?

no.

There is a process in it, no matter how long or short the process is, it is the gradual oppression of women by men.

Zhao Dalang didn't know that Qi Mingcheng had already thought a lot. Seeing that he didn't make irresponsible remarks like those people outside, he felt that Qi Mingcheng should marry into their family. Didn't he see that they all thought the same thing?This kind of mood is the so-called "three views are the same to be friends".

Ji Liang is a potential stock that the Zhao family is optimistic about.

This kind of "optimism" is optimism without any utilitarianism.To put it bluntly, what the Zhao family valued was Ji Liang's character.

The world is not optimistic about this family, there are three reasons.Firstly, Ji Liang is a man from the clan, which is a stain in his life. A person who has been thrown out of the clan must never marry; The children don't have family relatives to help them; thirdly, Grandma Ji Liang's body can't last long, so the marriage of Zhao Xiaomei is a bit rushed, and there are two older brothers in front of her who haven't married yet!

The Zhao family is very optimistic about this relative, and there are many reasons.What's the point of being out of the clan? Thirty years in Hedong and 30 years in Hexi, maybe in a few more years, people will not think that Ji Liang was exiled from the clan, but those tribesmen were exiled by Ji Liang.What is it without the help of clan relatives?It doesn't matter if you don't want such a clan, not to mention that the Zhao family has many brothers, who can take care of their little sister at any time!What is a hasty marriage?As long as Ji Liang is a good person, it doesn't matter if he is in a hurry, and if Zhao Xiaomei can serve Ji Liang's grandma after her death, wouldn't Ji Liang look up to her?

In addition, Zhao Xiaomei will be able to be the master of the house as soon as she gets married, Ji Liang was sick in childhood and now she is in good health... Needless to say these things!What the Zhao family valued most was Ji Liang's character. It was a pity for others to leave the clan for Ji Liang, but they praised him because of this, he is a good man and responsible!

Before Ji Liang was around, Zhao Xiaomei shyly hid; now everyone in the family is talking about her future husband-in-law, although she blushed all the time, she didn't hide.Zhao Xiaomei peeled a chestnut and held it in her hand, she said in a soft voice: "He...he has seen a lot of criticism of his mother since he was a child, and he can understand the difficulty of his daughter's family, and he will never follow such and such rules in the future Come and criticize me. He can tolerate a woman in the first place."

Zhao Xiaomei is very satisfied with her marriage. She may have some reasons, but the most important point is what she just said.

Ji Liang's experience makes him definitely respect women more than most traditional men of this era.

This respect is very important.

What is the most important factor in maintaining a marriage?Some people say it’s money, some people say it’s love, but in Qi Mingcheng’s view, the most important factor in keeping a marriage long-lasting and harmonious is respect. You have to learn to respect yourself and your partner at the same time.

Qi Mingcheng said with a smile: "I agree with my little sister's statement. Besides, I just saw Ji Liang like that, and I clearly care about my little sister!"

Zhao Xiaomei threw the peeled chestnuts towards Qi Mingcheng, and said with some embarrassment: "Brother Mingcheng, use chestnuts to cover your mouth!"

Everyone couldn't help laughing.

The weather is getting colder and colder, but the taste of the year is getting more and more full.Qi Mingcheng's deepest feeling about this is that there are so many delicious food during the Chinese New Year. Since he was a child, he has made some fresh food at home almost every day.Will make more each time.In this season, I am not afraid that if I can't finish it, it will go bad.

People at this time really attach great importance to the matter of "Chinese New Year". Qi Mingcheng didn't have any idea at first, but he always followed everyone's instructions seriously. If he was asked to worship the ancestors, he would worship the ancestors, and if he was asked to worship the gods, he would worship the gods If you let him watch the year, he will watch the year... After he has experienced everything, he will be able to feel the meaning of it.Chinese New Year is to say goodbye to the old and welcome the new, to reunite, to be grateful for everything that exists, and to yearn for a better life.

In the first lunar month, people are still busy.What to do in the first year of junior high school, what to do in the second year of junior high school, the rules are set and cannot be wrong.

Shen Shun asked someone to bring New Year's goods to the Zhao family in his own name.Along with it, there are also things that Qi Mingcheng asked him to get.

Qi Mingcheng looked through the New Year's goods, and found that Shen Shun had put his heart into it.Take the fabrics he sent as an example, Shen Shun didn't buy any flashy silks and satins, all he sent was thick cotton cloth, which was very suitable for the Zhao family to cut into clothes.The rest of the rice, salt, sugar, etc. are also available to the Zhao family.

Ah, what surprised Qi Mingcheng the most was that Shen Shun also sent some salted sea fish over.This is not available in Lidong Town.

Qi Mingcheng directly gave Saburo and Shiro the papers of the scientific examinations over the years. As for the power analysis spectrum in the capital, he kept a copy first.Qi Mingcheng likes to plan ahead, so it is necessary to understand the situation.Even if he is not an official, he must know who he cannot offend.

Of course, for ordinary people, the rich and powerful can't afford to offend them.

When the other family was busy with New Year's greetings, the people in the Zhao family were very idle.

The Zhao family didn't have any relatives, and Qi Erniang and Qi Mingcheng just went to Wu Shun's house for a walk.The eldest sister is like a mother, and Wu Shun's brother-in-law's family can barely be regarded as Qi Erniang and Qi Mingcheng's natal family, so Mrs. Zhao carefully prepared a generous gift and told them to take it with them when they went out.

Mrs. Zhao also joked: "When the New Year comes next year, it's time to go to Xinmeier's husband's house!"

Saburo and Shiro smiled at their sisters.

Mrs. Zhao turned to look at her two sons, and said, "You guys are coming soon. Once you get married, you should go to Yue's house!"

Well, this time it was Zhao Xiaomei's turn to smile at her two brothers.

Actually, Qi Mingcheng and the others should still go out with the Qi clan.However, in Qi Erniang's words, all of these people pretend to be ignorant with their understanding. Although they don't do evil things in normal times, when they want to seek help and justice, they can't count on them at all, otherwise they will not do anything wrong in the future. The son born before the mother was obviously from the Wu family, why did he make a mistake and force the girl to death, but asked the Qi family to pay for it?

Therefore, Qi Erniang only took Qi Mingcheng to a good cousin's house to pay New Year's greetings, and ignored the rest.

Qi Erniang stood at the gate of Grandpa Tang's house, eating melon seeds, pouring bitter water on the villagers coming and going, saying: "If Mingcheng is now the head of the Qi family, then he must get closer to the Qi family's family members." , even if the house is empty, even if his bones are dismantled and his blood sold, he still has to collect some annual gifts to show his affection to the clan. What a pity, Mingcheng is married! Now he is a member of the Zhao family Yes! People who get married are just splashed water, and the Qi family clan must treat us as outsiders. If that's the case, well, we won't come to ask for this. "

Although there were thorns in her words, she was not wrong in general.Qi Mingcheng couldn't laugh or cry when he heard it, and secretly gave Qi Erniang a thumbs up.

On the eighth day of the first lunar month, Qi Mingcheng and others went to Lidong Town to pay New Year greetings to Sanni.It is inconvenient to go to Beijing in winter, Mrs. Zhou spent this year in another courtyard.Her children and grandchildren, except for those who are inseparable from important positions, all rushed here after the year.Therefore, the other courtyard was extremely lively.

Sanni had to serve the old lady by her side during the day, and sometimes she had to be on duty at night. It took a lot of effort to make some clothes, shoes and socks for the children. At this time, she gave them all to Qi Erniang, saying: " When the weather gets warmer in spring, the old lady will leave for Beijing... When I have a chance to see my sister in the future, I am afraid that the little nephew in my sister's stomach will call someone. Sister, you have to tell my nephew that my aunt loves him Woolen cloth."

Children's clothes are more labor-intensive to make than adult clothes.The skin of the doll is tender, the materials must be good, the threads must be cut into fine pieces, and the ends of the threads must be handled well.Moreover, children's clothes also need to be embroidered with that kind of pattern with a good meaning and a special style.

Seeing that Sanni was so tired that even her eyes were a little red, Qi Erniang patted Sanni on the shoulder unceremoniously, and said, "You... how can you say hello if you are called sister? This child has not yet Coming out of my stomach, he made his aunt tired like this, so it can be seen that he is a beggar."

Sanni smiled and said, "What's so tiring... My eyes were smoked by sandalwood while I was chanting scriptures with the old lady."

When he first traveled through time, Qi Mingcheng especially missed his eight-pack abs, but now what Qi Mingcheng misses the most is his branded down jacket.Qi Mingcheng said tremblingly in the cold wind: "Third, third sister, I, I will go to the capital once in summer, to, go to see you."

"Okay!" Sanni blinked at Qi Mingcheng.

Qi Erniang looked at her younger brother, then at her younger sister, and flung herself into Mrs. Qi's arms pretending to be exaggerated, and said, "My brothers and sisters are starting to keep secrets from us!" Smiling, seeing that his younger brother was really cold, he handed over the stove.

The family laughed together in the alley.Saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new, a new year, a new beginning.