do you still love him
Chapter 39. Marriage is not enough to have love
Cheng Xue described what Hao You did to Zuo Lin in a few words but in an orderly manner.
Zuolin has a general understanding over there, but there are still a few questions to ask: "That is to say, Mr. Hao has been absent from several important occasions due to work?"
"Yes," Cheng Xue felt that something was wrong when something that was understandable was suddenly brought out.
"Then, in fact, Mrs. Hao can understand and support every time she is absent?"
"Yes," this was something Cheng Xue couldn't understand. Mrs. Hao herself understood and supported her, so why did she make such a fuss?
"Then why does that Mr. Hao always leave his wife aside every time he deals with the problem?" Why can't he deal with it together?
Cheng Xue forwarded the question to Hao Youqian, and Hao Youqian's answer was: "I don't want my wife to worry about such troublesome things at work. My wife just needs to be responsible and enjoy life."
"Then why can't you always accompany your wife during her confinement period?"
Cheng Xue turned on the hands-free function of her phone, and Hao Youqian came up to him and replied, "She is such a beauty-loving person. Wouldn't it make her unhappy to see her sloppy side?" After thinking about it, he honestly added , "Besides, the child was not good-looking at that time!" Moreover, during that time, work was indeed quite busy!
Zuolin sighed: "Your wife understands righteousness, so she always wronged herself and accommodated you. However, you are always absent on important occasions in her life, and she will inevitably have pimples in her heart. Moreover, the relationship between her family and friends I think she has endured a lot of pressure. However, she doesn't have enough contact with your life, so she will inevitably feel left out. "
"Perhaps, you men think that it is good to live a good life by yourself. However, women still hope to make everyone around them feel happy! Maybe, you men think that it is better to deal with the problems at work alone. But , women still hope to be by their lover's side and tide over difficulties with him!"
Zuolin took a sip of water before continuing: "Take the birth check-up as an example, or, in your opinion, as long as someone is with you, that's enough. But, that person is not you! If anyone can replace you , why did she marry you?"
Zuolin turned around a few times: "Let's talk about confinement, women will suffer from postpartum depression. However, when she needs your company and care the most, you actually abandoned her and the child because of external factors." Don't pay attention to it. Do you know what she thinks during the countless nights when she gets up to breastfeed? Maybe, she thinks that you don't love her anymore, and you don't like the child she gave birth to."
"I didn't!" Hao Yougan said hastily.
Zuolin sighed, feeling sorry for that woman: "But, you weren't by her side, were you?" How many women, because of postpartum depression, committed suicide with their children in their arms? "She has given birth herself, so she understands the pain.
Hao Youqian didn't say anything. He had actually seen those pornography.
"Marriage is not about love. Love is not enough! It's more about companionship, understanding and tolerance!" After hanging up the phone, Zuolin ran to find Zhao Gang, ignoring the stains all over his body when he was playing with his children in mud, and rushed over to hug him. Lived him, "Thank you, husband!" How lucky I was to meet you.
And here, the few men who hung up the phone all looked confused.
Xun Lan scratched her head, and her face was almost tangled into embarrassing words: "What does Zuolin mean? Women are really troublesome, but fortunately, I am looking for a man!" , However, it is definitely more worry-free than women.
Cheng Xue tried to use reason to figure out a woman's small thoughts: "That is to say, a woman needs a man to accompany her. On important occasions in her life, you have to show up. When she is busy with official duties, you also have to bring her to the office. Beside? When she is in confinement, in order to prevent her postpartum depression, you have to accompany her regardless of her image? There are also things like prenatal checkups, even if others can do it for you, you have to accompany her personally, pay attention next time. " Although Cheng Xue wanted to help Hao Youqian clear his mind, his mind was actually in a mess.
Xun Lan pulled the braids on her head one by one: "Then if you say that, doesn't it mean that you don't do anything for a day and just stay with you?" Oh my god, the two of them do nothing every day The picture of being tired and crooked together is a bit too much to think about.
It's not the young man who just fell in love, everyone is familiar with each other, and everyone has their own things to do.
Hao Youqian still couldn't understand: "I probably understand that we should give her face and let her have more face with friends and relatives. This point is not difficult. Take her to work together on weekdays, and don't let her be too far away from my world. Far away, I can do it too. However, if you are tired of being together every day and do nothing, what will you eat and wear? Where do her beautiful clothes and bags come from? And the baby's milk powder diapers, no All money? My wife and children, Hao You, how can I be wronged in terms of food and clothing?"
Cheng Xue is still a bit confused about women's thoughts, but fortunately, he has always been good at facing problems positively: "Do you still love her?"
Hao Yougan nodded immediately, his tone as sure as if he could categorically say, "Of course I love you!"
Cheng Xue nodded: "That's fine, let's take our time, try all the methods we can think of, and finally find the most suitable mode of getting along with the two of you!"
Xun Lan nodded, then shook her head again: "Cheng Xue is right, but don't expect me to come up with any solutions!"
Cheng Xue herself didn't expect Xun Lan to use her brains: "Okay, you don't need to use your brains, I will directly contact your family Zilu if I have something to do."
As soon as Zilu was mentioned, Xun Lan smiled immediately, as if a flower was blooming on his face: "Yes, yes, you can find my Zilu, he is very smart, there is nothing my Zilu can't solve The problem!"
"That's the way it is!" Xun Lan reported everything that happened today to Zilu in one breath, before panting heavily.
Zilu was very distressed, and pulled Xun Lan to sit down beside him, poured another glass of water, tested the temperature, and then fed him: "Slow down, don't rush."
Cheng Xue looked at Huadao who had been leaning on the chair silently, and always felt that he was looking at her with probing eyes, which made her want to turn around and run away.
"You used to stare at me all the time, now, why, do you dislike me?" Huadao casually rested his right leg on his left leg, which should have been a heroic gesture, but he did it incomparably handsome.
Cheng Xue shook his head quickly, and held on to Huadao's left hand: "Huadao, I need time." At first, he thought he had let go of the past.But now, when he touched it again, he realized that it still hurts.
Huadao lowered her head, and withdrew the sarcasm that had already jumped to the corner of her mouth: "Okay, I'll wait for you." Cheng Xue has been waiting for him for hundreds of years, why can't he wait for him?
Cheng Xue couldn't help putting his right hand around Huadao: "Thank you, Huadao!" Then, he noticed that Huadao was wearing a normal and ordinary white shirt with gold trim and black trousers!
Cheng Xue really wanted to shout, but he held back.Only he knows how easy and shy his Huadao is!
Cheng Xue looked down at her white shirt with gold trim and black trousers, and felt that the taste of ikebana was really great!
Zilu, who finally fed Xun Lan a glass of water over there, finally cared about the task: "What are you going to do?"
Now Cheng Xue only cares about whispering to Huadao, how can she care about Zilu's words?
Zilu had to cough a few times before calling the attention of the two people who were suddenly bored: "Talk about work, be serious." He was so stimulated by the sudden change of painting style today that he came back. Do you have to be stimulated by two people who suddenly started to get bored?
Cheng Xue blushed a little: "Start with an apology, then re-date and re-propose. The main thing is to want Madam Hao to see Hao Youqian's sincerity!"
Although it's a bit old-fashioned, this is the best that the three big men can think of.Otherwise, it would be troublesome to throw Madam Hao directly on the deserted island according to Xun Lan's wishes.
Zilu nodded, even though he had lived for thousands of years, he still didn't understand women's thoughts very well.
Huadao held Chengxue's right hand instead: "The devil captured the aura of the intruder at the beginning, and then successfully found the intruder." I have to say, this devil was just a soldier back then, but now that he has grown up like this, Huadao is still pretty good. appreciated.
"Who is it?" To be able to take people away from the hands of the Demon Lord, it should not be an unknown person!
"The uncle of the youngest son of the Elephant Trunk King," Hua Dao couldn't help but lose his appetite when he thought of the man crying with tears and snot in the hands of the demon king, "If you dare to do something worthless, you should dare to bear it." As soon as he saw the Demon Lord, he fell to his knees and confessed everything.
When Cheng Xue heard this name, she froze all over suddenly, and then recovered: "I really didn't think of it."
Huadao held Chengxue's hand all the time, and naturally felt Chengxue's stiffness when she heard that name.However, he didn't say anything.
Xun Lan frowned when she heard this: "Don't the Elephant Trunk Kings claim to be the most honest race? How did they do such a thing? Although it is said to be a branch, it is also their race!" Elephant Trunk Doesn't Wang himself often act as an arbitrator?If this matter is exposed, who will dare to find them in the future?
Cheng Xue lowered her head, and her waist-length hair hung down, blocking his face.His voice floated through his long hair, always feeling weird: "It's just a person who is just trying to catch fame!" There seemed to be a spark of fire, and he laughed wildly in the air.
"And then?" The careless Xun Lan naturally didn't notice Cheng Xue's change, "Have you found anyone?"
Huadao shook his head: "How is it possible? He was just ordered by someone. According to him, when he brought the person out, it was that person who attracted the attention of the demon king and led him out. Then, after leaving, that person Just take this pair of mother and child away." In other words, finding such a person is completely useless.
Zi Lv nodded: "It seems that that person deliberately wants us to find the Elephant Trunk King." Otherwise, with that person's ability, he can take the person away by himself, so why bother?Besides, that person asked the Elephant Trunk King's men to take away the devil's wife and children, but turned around and took away the devil's wife and children by himself?
Huadao suddenly smiled: "I really like the way this demon lord does things! After knowing the culprit, he directly attacked and wiped out the entire branch!"
Then, he firmly grabbed Cheng Xue's trembling hand that wanted to escape, and he refused to let go!
Zuolin has a general understanding over there, but there are still a few questions to ask: "That is to say, Mr. Hao has been absent from several important occasions due to work?"
"Yes," Cheng Xue felt that something was wrong when something that was understandable was suddenly brought out.
"Then, in fact, Mrs. Hao can understand and support every time she is absent?"
"Yes," this was something Cheng Xue couldn't understand. Mrs. Hao herself understood and supported her, so why did she make such a fuss?
"Then why does that Mr. Hao always leave his wife aside every time he deals with the problem?" Why can't he deal with it together?
Cheng Xue forwarded the question to Hao Youqian, and Hao Youqian's answer was: "I don't want my wife to worry about such troublesome things at work. My wife just needs to be responsible and enjoy life."
"Then why can't you always accompany your wife during her confinement period?"
Cheng Xue turned on the hands-free function of her phone, and Hao Youqian came up to him and replied, "She is such a beauty-loving person. Wouldn't it make her unhappy to see her sloppy side?" After thinking about it, he honestly added , "Besides, the child was not good-looking at that time!" Moreover, during that time, work was indeed quite busy!
Zuolin sighed: "Your wife understands righteousness, so she always wronged herself and accommodated you. However, you are always absent on important occasions in her life, and she will inevitably have pimples in her heart. Moreover, the relationship between her family and friends I think she has endured a lot of pressure. However, she doesn't have enough contact with your life, so she will inevitably feel left out. "
"Perhaps, you men think that it is good to live a good life by yourself. However, women still hope to make everyone around them feel happy! Maybe, you men think that it is better to deal with the problems at work alone. But , women still hope to be by their lover's side and tide over difficulties with him!"
Zuolin took a sip of water before continuing: "Take the birth check-up as an example, or, in your opinion, as long as someone is with you, that's enough. But, that person is not you! If anyone can replace you , why did she marry you?"
Zuolin turned around a few times: "Let's talk about confinement, women will suffer from postpartum depression. However, when she needs your company and care the most, you actually abandoned her and the child because of external factors." Don't pay attention to it. Do you know what she thinks during the countless nights when she gets up to breastfeed? Maybe, she thinks that you don't love her anymore, and you don't like the child she gave birth to."
"I didn't!" Hao Yougan said hastily.
Zuolin sighed, feeling sorry for that woman: "But, you weren't by her side, were you?" How many women, because of postpartum depression, committed suicide with their children in their arms? "She has given birth herself, so she understands the pain.
Hao Youqian didn't say anything. He had actually seen those pornography.
"Marriage is not about love. Love is not enough! It's more about companionship, understanding and tolerance!" After hanging up the phone, Zuolin ran to find Zhao Gang, ignoring the stains all over his body when he was playing with his children in mud, and rushed over to hug him. Lived him, "Thank you, husband!" How lucky I was to meet you.
And here, the few men who hung up the phone all looked confused.
Xun Lan scratched her head, and her face was almost tangled into embarrassing words: "What does Zuolin mean? Women are really troublesome, but fortunately, I am looking for a man!" , However, it is definitely more worry-free than women.
Cheng Xue tried to use reason to figure out a woman's small thoughts: "That is to say, a woman needs a man to accompany her. On important occasions in her life, you have to show up. When she is busy with official duties, you also have to bring her to the office. Beside? When she is in confinement, in order to prevent her postpartum depression, you have to accompany her regardless of her image? There are also things like prenatal checkups, even if others can do it for you, you have to accompany her personally, pay attention next time. " Although Cheng Xue wanted to help Hao Youqian clear his mind, his mind was actually in a mess.
Xun Lan pulled the braids on her head one by one: "Then if you say that, doesn't it mean that you don't do anything for a day and just stay with you?" Oh my god, the two of them do nothing every day The picture of being tired and crooked together is a bit too much to think about.
It's not the young man who just fell in love, everyone is familiar with each other, and everyone has their own things to do.
Hao Youqian still couldn't understand: "I probably understand that we should give her face and let her have more face with friends and relatives. This point is not difficult. Take her to work together on weekdays, and don't let her be too far away from my world. Far away, I can do it too. However, if you are tired of being together every day and do nothing, what will you eat and wear? Where do her beautiful clothes and bags come from? And the baby's milk powder diapers, no All money? My wife and children, Hao You, how can I be wronged in terms of food and clothing?"
Cheng Xue is still a bit confused about women's thoughts, but fortunately, he has always been good at facing problems positively: "Do you still love her?"
Hao Yougan nodded immediately, his tone as sure as if he could categorically say, "Of course I love you!"
Cheng Xue nodded: "That's fine, let's take our time, try all the methods we can think of, and finally find the most suitable mode of getting along with the two of you!"
Xun Lan nodded, then shook her head again: "Cheng Xue is right, but don't expect me to come up with any solutions!"
Cheng Xue herself didn't expect Xun Lan to use her brains: "Okay, you don't need to use your brains, I will directly contact your family Zilu if I have something to do."
As soon as Zilu was mentioned, Xun Lan smiled immediately, as if a flower was blooming on his face: "Yes, yes, you can find my Zilu, he is very smart, there is nothing my Zilu can't solve The problem!"
"That's the way it is!" Xun Lan reported everything that happened today to Zilu in one breath, before panting heavily.
Zilu was very distressed, and pulled Xun Lan to sit down beside him, poured another glass of water, tested the temperature, and then fed him: "Slow down, don't rush."
Cheng Xue looked at Huadao who had been leaning on the chair silently, and always felt that he was looking at her with probing eyes, which made her want to turn around and run away.
"You used to stare at me all the time, now, why, do you dislike me?" Huadao casually rested his right leg on his left leg, which should have been a heroic gesture, but he did it incomparably handsome.
Cheng Xue shook his head quickly, and held on to Huadao's left hand: "Huadao, I need time." At first, he thought he had let go of the past.But now, when he touched it again, he realized that it still hurts.
Huadao lowered her head, and withdrew the sarcasm that had already jumped to the corner of her mouth: "Okay, I'll wait for you." Cheng Xue has been waiting for him for hundreds of years, why can't he wait for him?
Cheng Xue couldn't help putting his right hand around Huadao: "Thank you, Huadao!" Then, he noticed that Huadao was wearing a normal and ordinary white shirt with gold trim and black trousers!
Cheng Xue really wanted to shout, but he held back.Only he knows how easy and shy his Huadao is!
Cheng Xue looked down at her white shirt with gold trim and black trousers, and felt that the taste of ikebana was really great!
Zilu, who finally fed Xun Lan a glass of water over there, finally cared about the task: "What are you going to do?"
Now Cheng Xue only cares about whispering to Huadao, how can she care about Zilu's words?
Zilu had to cough a few times before calling the attention of the two people who were suddenly bored: "Talk about work, be serious." He was so stimulated by the sudden change of painting style today that he came back. Do you have to be stimulated by two people who suddenly started to get bored?
Cheng Xue blushed a little: "Start with an apology, then re-date and re-propose. The main thing is to want Madam Hao to see Hao Youqian's sincerity!"
Although it's a bit old-fashioned, this is the best that the three big men can think of.Otherwise, it would be troublesome to throw Madam Hao directly on the deserted island according to Xun Lan's wishes.
Zilu nodded, even though he had lived for thousands of years, he still didn't understand women's thoughts very well.
Huadao held Chengxue's right hand instead: "The devil captured the aura of the intruder at the beginning, and then successfully found the intruder." I have to say, this devil was just a soldier back then, but now that he has grown up like this, Huadao is still pretty good. appreciated.
"Who is it?" To be able to take people away from the hands of the Demon Lord, it should not be an unknown person!
"The uncle of the youngest son of the Elephant Trunk King," Hua Dao couldn't help but lose his appetite when he thought of the man crying with tears and snot in the hands of the demon king, "If you dare to do something worthless, you should dare to bear it." As soon as he saw the Demon Lord, he fell to his knees and confessed everything.
When Cheng Xue heard this name, she froze all over suddenly, and then recovered: "I really didn't think of it."
Huadao held Chengxue's hand all the time, and naturally felt Chengxue's stiffness when she heard that name.However, he didn't say anything.
Xun Lan frowned when she heard this: "Don't the Elephant Trunk Kings claim to be the most honest race? How did they do such a thing? Although it is said to be a branch, it is also their race!" Elephant Trunk Doesn't Wang himself often act as an arbitrator?If this matter is exposed, who will dare to find them in the future?
Cheng Xue lowered her head, and her waist-length hair hung down, blocking his face.His voice floated through his long hair, always feeling weird: "It's just a person who is just trying to catch fame!" There seemed to be a spark of fire, and he laughed wildly in the air.
"And then?" The careless Xun Lan naturally didn't notice Cheng Xue's change, "Have you found anyone?"
Huadao shook his head: "How is it possible? He was just ordered by someone. According to him, when he brought the person out, it was that person who attracted the attention of the demon king and led him out. Then, after leaving, that person Just take this pair of mother and child away." In other words, finding such a person is completely useless.
Zi Lv nodded: "It seems that that person deliberately wants us to find the Elephant Trunk King." Otherwise, with that person's ability, he can take the person away by himself, so why bother?Besides, that person asked the Elephant Trunk King's men to take away the devil's wife and children, but turned around and took away the devil's wife and children by himself?
Huadao suddenly smiled: "I really like the way this demon lord does things! After knowing the culprit, he directly attacked and wiped out the entire branch!"
Then, he firmly grabbed Cheng Xue's trembling hand that wanted to escape, and he refused to let go!
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