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Yan Bozong didn't have this kind of warmth.

He is the son of Yan's parents, and when the old lady Yan Zhang Qiuping gave birth to him, it was the busiest time for the family.

At that time, the Yan family's company was just getting on the right track, and Zhang Qiuping was at odds with her mother-in-law, and she didn't want her to come and take care of her.Considering many factors, she once wanted to kill the child.

Zhang Qiuping is a strong woman, and before she became a mother, she was even more hard-hearted.But Mr. Yan disagreed. It was not easy for the two of them to have their first child. At that time, Zhang Qiuping was 29 years old and Mr. Yan was 33 years old.

But Zhang Qiuping was not idle when she was pregnant, and she was still at work a week before she gave birth with a big belly.But after the child was born, he was surprisingly healthy. According to Zhang Qiuping's words: "It really looks like my Zhang Qiuping's child."

After less than a month of rest after giving birth, Zhang Qiuping went to work in the company again, and the child was handed over to the nanny.In the two years between Yan Bozong's birth and the age of two, she could count the number of times she held the child. It was not until after she became pregnant with her second child, Yan Songwei, that the company stabilized, and Zhang Qiuping finally became interested in the child.

But she found that Yan Bozong was somewhat distant from her.After she was pregnant with her second child, motherhood suddenly overflowed for some reason, and the tenderness of a woman gradually emerged on her body, and she realized that she felt guilty for her eldest son.She tried to get close to her eldest son, but to no avail, Yan Bozong treated her better than the nanny.Immediately after the birth of her second child, she naturally devoted more energy to Yan Songwei.

Although she has already given birth to two children, she actually realized the cuteness of children only in Yan Songwei's body.

Yan Bozong is not cute.

He was not cute since he was a child. For two or three-year-old children, everyone praised him for being sensible, but no one praised him for being cute.He was not good at talking, and he didn't like to play. Zhang Qiuping once took him to see a psychiatrist, wondering if her eldest son was autistic.

But everyone praised the second son of Yan's family as cute, fair and clean and loves to laugh. Yan Songwei loved to laugh since he was a child, and he stuttered when he was just able to speak, but he looked even cuter because of it.Holding her second son in her arms, Zhang Qiuping felt her heart melt.In comparison, Yan Bozong was a little strange to her. Out of female jealousy, when Yan Bozong was four years old, she fired the nanny who had a more mother-child relationship with Yan Bozong than her.She tried to treat her two sons the same, but then she gave up.

Yan Bozong is precocious, if he wants to pamper such a child forcibly, it will be very tiring, and the effort may not be flattering.For example, when she came back from buying two gifts, Yan Songwei would jump and yell, and would throw himself into her arms and kiss her coquettishly, but Yan Bozong would just be dazed, very calm, and then say: "Thank you mom."

A child should look like a child, but Yan Bozong didn't. At first Zhang Qiuping felt that she owed her elder son, but maybe she gradually got used to it, and the guilt faded away.

Her husband comforted her and said: "Every child has the temperament of every child. If they are all carved out of the same mold, it would be quite scary."

Zhang Qiuping hugged her second son, looked at Yan Bozong who was playing Go in the corner, and sighed.

Then she gave birth to the third child, who looked even more precious. The couple raised Yan Yuan as a real daughter.As she grows older, the eldest child begins to love to follow her father, but the second child still loves to cling to her, and sometimes competes with her younger sister to be jealous.Although Zhang Qiuping has a headache, she is still proud.It is the mother's pride that the child kisses herself.

Yan Bozong followed his father to learn how to ride a horse, learn to play ball, and learn to fish, and he became more and more like the eldest son.Perhaps because of growing up, Yan Bozong has also become more caring. The first birthday gift she received from her children was from Yan Bozong.

She felt very relieved, and felt that it was good for Yan Bozong to be stable as her eldest son. Although he was not as close to her as the other two younger children, it was a good thing that the children were different.

Yan Bozong also has his good points. He has shown amazing intelligence and precociousness since he was a child. From elementary school to university, he is almost a top-notch figure in the school.Yan Bozong is the glory of the Yan family.

When Mr. Yan fell ill, Yan Bozong was in junior high school. After a few months of delay, he finally passed away in the winter of that year. It was also a coincidence that the day of his death happened to be Yan Bozong's birthday. Before he died, Mr. Yan asked someone to After buying a birthday gift, Zhang Qiuping also ordered a big cake for the family to celebrate the eldest son's birthday in the hospital.

In the end, the birthday cake was not eaten and was forgotten in the corner. The 14-year-old Yan Bozong stood in front of his father's body and shed tears silently, not crying like his younger siblings.

He has been quiet and sensible since he was a child.

Zhang Qiuping lost her husband in middle age, and she was so sad that she could barely get up. All the big and small things in the family were done by Yan Bozong with an uncle, and he couldn't even see him when he was sad.

It was also from that time that Zhang Qiuping began to look at her eldest son again, treating him as a man in the family and never interfering with his choices.When she was in college, Yan Bozong went to serve as a soldier for her father's unfulfilled long-cherished wish. She actually opposed it. Being a soldier is of no use to their family. It is better to read more books and learn more cultural knowledge.But she didn't say anything, she had both a subtle sense of strangeness and trust in the elder son.

Unlike the second child, who doesn't feel at ease if he doesn't look at her for a day, he doesn't know what trouble he will cause.She doesn't have to worry about the boss, Yan Bozong's life has been on the track very steadily, and she never suspects that he will deviate from the track.

Sure enough, after retiring from the army, he went to work in the company and got married to the Shen family he was married to. He was outstanding in his work and had a noble character. He was the face of their Yan family and greatly improved her face.

Zhang Qiuping is also getting old, so she retreated to the second line. Now this is the world of young people, she just wants to live a comfortable life and enjoy the blessings of her children and grandchildren.

It may also be due to old age, people's hearts are becoming softer and softer.When Zhang Qiuping looked back on the past, that sense of guilt gradually reappeared.

Human beings are born with the same nature.Regardless of whether it is good or evil, she has a childlike innocence when she was a child, but her eldest son doesn't seem to have it.This has something to do with her lack of being a mother.Her eldest son, it seems that he has never been laughing and innocent since he was a child.She felt that her eldest son was a little pitiful and very hard.

This is also one of the reasons why she dislikes Shen Yu more and more.Yan Bozong is too serious, tense all the time, too tired, he needs a gentle daughter, he is as hard and cold as steel, and needs someone to turn him into soft fingers.

But Shen Xi's temperament is also cold, she lacks the tenderness and warmth that she wants her daughter-in-law to have.

Especially when she thought that this eldest daughter-in-law was chosen by herself for her eldest son, she felt even more uncomfortable.Human nature is selfish. When she saw her eldest son's unhappy married life, she would feel guilty, but she wanted to escape this guilt, so she turned this guilt into disgust for Shen Xi.

Why, as a woman, Shen Xuan didn't have the softness of a woman to soothe the heart of her eldest son?

Contrary to the elder son, the second son was too indulged in the tenderness of a woman, which gave her a headache.Two sons, one is as pure and ascetic as a monk who can see through the color, and the other is as hungry as if he has been a bachelor all his life in his previous life. He changes girlfriends every day like changing clothes.

It would be nice if the eldest daughter-in-law could swap with the second daughter.Later, when she looked at the docile Qi Liangqin, she always thought so in her heart.At first glance, this Xiaoqin is a fiery and coquettish thing inside. She hooked up with her second son to do things like marrying a man that made her angry, but she is still honest and responsible. This kind of person should be given to her eldest son, and he will definitely melt. His heart is like an iceberg.Shen Xi's kind should be given to her second son, Yan Songwei lacks someone who can restrain and discipline him, preferably a man.

But in life, nine out of ten unsatisfactory things are really helpless.

Yan Bozong is like a pine and cypress tree, which grows in the cold pine forest all its life. It has a straight shape and a bitter and cold smell. Qi Liangqin is a delicate wild flower, gorgeous and gentle, with its own fiery color.

In love, human beings are often not looking for someone who is the same as themselves, but looking for complements. If you are good at Chinese, you will find someone who is good at mathematics; The cold ones look for the warm ones, the weak ones look for the strong ones, and they fall in love with those who have what they want but don’t have, so they become one, and after being together for a long time, they become more and more alike, soaked in the smell of each other , slowly possessing the qualities that he didn't have before, and finally became complete.

Qi Liangqin may be mediocre, but there is light and heat on his body, the light of passion, the heat of desire, once he gets close, his eyes can see his light, and his body can feel his heat.

But for Yan Bozong, who was used to being cold and cold, the light was too bright, and the heat was a bit scalding. He couldn't get used to it, so he rejected it.If Qi Liangqin's light and heat were restrained a little, it would probably make him comfortable, but right now Qi Liangqin who is seducing him unscrupulously, he doesn't like it, he even regrets his momentary soft-heartedness.So when he heard Yan Songwei say that Yan Songwei gave Qi Liangqin his old notes while he was away, he was a little unhappy.

After seeing that Qi Liangqin didn't even let his underwear go, he felt that no matter what he had in Qi Liangqin's hands, he would be raped by Qi Liangqin in disguise.He wanted to take the notebook back, but when he saw Qi Liangqin reading seriously through the window, he always had an illusion.

Or a kind of confusion, is this the shameless man?He sits in front of the window and reads the notes, and from time to time he picks up the pen to copy for a while. His lowered eyebrows and eyes are full of youthful vigor, and his well-proportioned shoulders have a very clean charm under the white T-shirt.

He felt that Qi Liangqin didn't bring his handwriting for the purpose of profanity, he read it very seriously, and he was very serious when he studied.Look at his younger brother Yan Songwei, he looks like a madman, he doesn't know anything.

He knows better than anyone what price he needs to pay to expose Qi Liangqin. It's not that if he exposes Qi Liangqin and drives him away, the Yan family will be pure and happy.On the contrary, it may cause indelible damage to the brotherhood between him and Yan Songwei. Even if he has nothing wrong, it will be the result of mutual damage.So he has been forbearing.

"Let Xiao Qi keep those notes, since he needs them," Yan Bozong said to Yan Songwei, "You don't have to return them to me."

"Brother, I found that you are really a nostalgic person. I thought you had thrown away these notes long ago. When I went to the storage room to find them, I found not only these, but also some old bus tickets and movie tickets, as well as your father's gift for you when you were in high school. You keep all the baseball caps and miscellaneous little things, and I also saw the birthday card Yuanyuan gave you when she was four years old, and you kept all the things drawn."

"It's all things that can be thrown or not, so they are all stored. In fact, they are useless, and I don't usually go to see them."

Yan Songwei smiled and wanted to tease his elder brother: "Yoyo, I can't tell that our always cold elder brother is also a warm person in his heart."

Yan Bozong smiled, the smile faded and disappeared from the corner of his mouth, and said silently: "I am also an ordinary person."

After half a month of cultivation, Qi Liangqin was finally alive and well.After passing the biggest difficulty, it means that there is still the last chapter of the plot, and he will probably be free soon.