Every time I wear a book, I am forced to turn around

The third child finally made up his mind and wanted to talk to Yan Jinyun.

For him, this decision was not easy.

Yan Jinyun is very good at judging people. When he taught Wu Shen how to behave in the world, he said to Wu Shen: "If you want to see through a person, you have to look at him from the root." From the root, the boss, The third child is a serious member of the Yu family, the second child was picked up, and the fourth child was entrusted by the benefactor on his deathbed.When the two elders of the Yu family hadn't passed away, they and Song Jinlai and his wife were all kind people.The so-called honest people mean that among the four children, they will subconsciously instill more responsibilities on the eldest and third child, and then care about the second and fourth child a little more.

It's not partiality, it's just that it's easier for parents to be "unkind" to their own blood.

In the face of such teachings, the boss is completely indifferent.Because he is lazy, and because the second child is so easy to bully, even if the boss often pushes work to the second child, the second child will not complain, and the boss becomes more and more lazy.When it comes to the third child, although there are two older brothers, one brother is too lazy and the other is too honest. He, the third member of the family, is forced to act like a "brother" and often has to help his brothers get money. idea.Under such circumstances, he listened to all the teachings of his elders. Since he was a child, he felt that he should shoulder the responsibility of the whole family.

In particular, the elders in the family disappeared and died one after another. Song Jinlai had to remarry due to the special circumstances at the time. There were only a bunch of sick children left in the family.

Later, the news of their biological father's death came, and the family had a quota of soldiers.This spot should have been given to the boss, and only the boss' identity and age are the most suitable.But the boss had no ambitions and didn't want to endure hardships. The third child stood up again, changed his age, and joined the army.As the only person in the family who has walked out of the mountains, the third child's thoughts of "I want to stand out and win glory for the family" are even more serious. He regards the whole family as his responsibility.

Under such circumstances, if the family members are in trouble, the third child will be very willing to help the family members.But when the third child is in trouble, he usually chooses to handle it by himself, because he doesn't want his family to worry about him.

Such a thing is impossible for him to find his family and tell his troubles.

But the third child was so distressed that he had no choice but to grit his teeth and finally made up his mind to talk to Yan Jinyun.

This chat is naturally related to Bai Fengling.

The youngest had a bit of confusion on his face: "Father, I think... Lingling doesn't seem to like me that much." After all, he still couldn't let go, so he didn't dare to speak too directly.In fact, what he wants to say is that I think she is greedy for my body!

Yan Jinyun thought to himself, isn't this nonsense, you kid finally found out?

But Yan Jinyun could only turn black on the face, and reprimanded the third child: "Nonsense! How nice Lingling is, you are not at home these years, and Lingling helped take care of the whole family. Your eldest brother and second brother's children are sick. She I am more anxious than anyone else. The year before last, all the children in the village had fevers and rashes on their bodies, and Aike was suffering day and night, and Lingling guarded him in undressed clothes... Now you are saying that Lingling has ulterior motives? See, you brat has no conscience!"

"Father! Father! You misunderstood, I didn't say that Lingling has ulterior motives." The third child's face became more and more confused, "I know that she treats you well, there is no doubt about it. But she seems to be like that to me. Thing...she doesn't seem to like me."

"If she doesn't like you, why is she being so kind to your family? Is she doing charity?"

"This is the strange place." The third child sighed deeply.

Strictly speaking, the marriage between the third child and Bai Fengling was not arranged by Yan Jinyun.Because in Yan Jinyun's view, the third child is a good son and brother, but he will definitely not be a good husband.But at that time, Bai Fengling fell in love with the "family" of Lao Yu's family, and the third child did not object to her pursuit, and finally their marriage was settled like this.

But when they got married, the two of them were unexpectedly "well-matched".

The other sons have been with Yan Jinyun for a long time, which can be regarded as getting along day and night, and Yan Jinyun has gradually corrected their tempers.He spends the least amount of time with the third child.Yan Jinyun wanted to take the opportunity to criticize the temper of the third child, so he asked: "In your mind, what can a woman do that can be called a good wife?"

The third child said: "She must be submissive, able to help me take good care of my family, so that I have no worries in the army. She doesn't like to care about small things, can help me unite and love my family, and don't have conflicts with my sister-in-law. She must be obedient , can’t dictate my affairs. Like the wife of our deputy head, she joined the army, and the deputy head sent his parents and brothers a few money every month, she would make a fuss and tear our deputy head’s face Throw it down and step on the ground. This kind of woman is too naive!"

Yan Jinyun said leisurely: "Help you take care of and unite your family, and don't tell me what to do with you. Lingling has done it all. She is still doing very well." So, if you have any dissatisfaction, Lingling should be your perfect wife ah!

The third child was choked up by his father's question.

Yan Jinyun deliberately looked at the third child with the look of "what else are you dissatisfied with, I'm really curious".

The third child wants to say, yes, she has indeed achieved all these three points, but she doesn't care about me at all.How can a wife not care about her husband at all?She never even talked privately with me. When she came back from two visits to relatives, she either did or did, and there was no other communication except doing... But because the things on the bed were too private, the third child had no face to talk about.

Yan Jinyun continued: "Lingling likes children very much. Looking at her affection for your nephew and niece, it is not difficult to see that she really likes children. Your second sister-in-law is pregnant again. Lingling must be envious. You can't act like those ignorant people Same, blame Lingling for not having children after several years of marriage. Don't even think about it, after you got married, you only stayed at home for a few days!"

Following Yan Jinyun's words and thinking about it, the third child gradually had an idea in his heart, could it be that Lingling has been pulling me because she wants a child?Regarding the matter of the child, the third child admitted that Yan Jinyun was right. He was the one who was sorry for Bai Fengling. He spent too little time at home.Therefore, it is understandable that Lingling would behave like this...

...I can understand the fart!

The third child quickly brought the topic back: "Father, don't you find it strange that some of the brothers in my army are married, and they receive letters from home every so often. Even if their wives are illiterate, they will ask the post office for help. Some dried meat, insoles and other things come here. But Lingling never thinks of sending me letters or things. She never misses me."

Yan Jinyun chuckled: "Haven't you never thought about sending her a letter or something?"

Third child: "..."

In fact, the family will send things to the third child every now and then, but they are all family letters written by Yan Jinyun, and the things are also prepared by Yan Jinyun.Indeed, Bai Fengling never took the initiative to send a letter to the third child.Why send a letter to a male?Is it because the elder sister-in-law is not mighty, the second sister-in-law is not gentle, and the younger siblings are not cute?Is it because the little lion and little Aike at home are not fun?In the limited free time after get off work, Bai Fengling prefers to use it on the females and cubs at home.

Yan Jinyun said to the third child in a letter before, don't send it to him when you send the allowance back, and send it directly to Bai Fengling. After all, Bai Fengling's character is passable, and the whole family trusts her.I've said it more than once, it's useless!Yan Jinyun also once said to Bai Fengling, it is better to put on a face, or else write a letter to the third child?Bai Fengling did hear this, but she didn't have anything in her heart to say to the third child, she couldn't hold back three words in ten days, and finally let it go.

There is indeed a problem with the marriage relationship between Yu Yonghong and Bai Fengling, but the problem is definitely not caused by one person.

They are actually a perfect match, a pair made in heaven, a pair made in earth.

If you keep getting along like this, it seems to be okay.Bai Fengling didn't have the attitude towards Yu Yonghong that an ordinary wife treats her husband, and she didn't care about him.For her, if she can join the current family through Yu Yonghong, Yu Yonghong has already made a contribution.Then, if Yu Yonghong allowed her to conceive a child, then he would have made a great contribution!

Yu Yonghong was also like this at the beginning. He thought he needed a wife who understood righteousness and dedicated silently, and Bai Fengling did it.Everyone in Yujia Village knows that Bai Fengling takes good care of her father-in-law, sister-in-law and nephew.

This strikes a balance.

However, Yu Yonghong gradually became dissatisfied, and he gradually wanted a wife who cared about him and cared about him.

Looking at it this way, it seems that Yu Yonghong is greedy.But Yan Jinyun, as Yu Yonghong's father, outsiders can not understand Yu Yonghong's behavior, they can spray him saying "straight men with cancer are not worthy of love", but as a member of the relatives whom Yu Yonghong regards as responsible, he enjoys Yu Yonghong's eccentric care, They can't spray him like this, but find a way to help him.

Yan Jinyun said: "My third son, there are tens of thousands of combinations of couples in this world, and different couples have different ways of getting along. But one thing is common, as much sincerity as you want to get, then you have to give as much sincerity. Look at your elder brother and second brother, none of them are as smart as you, but they are living a very good life now, and this is in exchange for sincerity."

The third child was silent.

Yan Jinyun continued: "You brothers were brought up by me, and the girl was also brought up by her parents. It has never been that their daughter who was raised as a baby will be a cow in our family as soon as she gets married. The principle of being a horse. I think Lingling is very good. Her parents loved her and taught her to be filial to her parents, so she is very filial to me. Her sister loved her and taught her to unite with relatives and friends, so she I have nothing to say to your brother, sister-in-law, brother-in-law and younger brother. Now it is your turn as a husband to love her and love her. When you teach her, she will love you and love you in turn."

Uh, this sounds reasonable, if Bai Fengling doesn't have the memory from the Leo galaxy.

But even if she is from Leo Star, the emotion of "gratitude" is common.If Tian Tian and Liu Huahua are all selfish ghosts, enjoying Bai Fengling's contribution for nothing but not feeling sorry for Bai Fengling at all, Bai Fengling will not be a fool!She can live happily in this family, the premise is because this family really gave her happiness and joy.Therefore, as long as Yu Yonghong is willing to open his heart to Bai Fengling, even out of gratitude, Bai Fengling will open his heart to him.

"Think about what I said carefully." Yan Jinyun said.

When he sent the third child Yu Yonghong out of the house, he saw the fourth child Yu Miaohong wandering in the corridor.The fourth child had a very exciting night last night, now his eyes are gray and gray, and he looks... well, the new daughter-in-law just finished the wedding night in the bridal chamber, happy and tired.

Yan Jinyun summoned the fourth child to ask, "What's wrong with you?"

Only the third brother and the old man stand here, both of whom can be trusted.The fourth child was so happy, he couldn't wait to find someone to share his joy, as if he hadn't thought about it, he said: "I, I didn't expect that Jing Jing has always been greedy for my body!"

The third child: "!!!"

The third child firmly held the fourth child's hand: "Okay, don't say anything, brother, I understand you!"

Everything was kept silent, and the third and fourth brothers seemed to hug each other.

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Third child: No one will believe me when I say it, we two brothers are so pitiful.

Fourth child: Third brother understands me, we two are happy people.

The only old father who knows the truth: ...