I'll forgive you when you're crazy

What is the sign of a mature man?

I have read this answer on Baidu, and the first answer is: first of all, it is to be able to understand and forgive the bad parts in this world.When you encounter difficulties or quarrel with your girlfriend, you will not show your particularly fierce side, and you can analyze it calmly.Secondly, you can appreciate the hard work of your parents, do things in a low-key manner, but don't forget your goals.

I admit that this is indeed standard enough, but I also think it is too standard, so standard that it makes me scoff.

In my opinion, the hallmark of a mature man is admitting his own inadequacy, confronting his own ordinaryness, and letting go of unrealistic dreams.

Today is the college reunion, and it is the first time we have reunited after [-] years of graduation. If it were not for the reason of "[-] years", the class leader who was in charge of the bureau would not be so active. After so many years, there is finally a A reason that is not easy to be rejected.

In fact, at the beginning, I refused in my heart. After so many years, everyone has gone their separate ways. At the beginning, I still cared about their news. Gradually, it became more and more indifferent. When a classmate got married and posted a post in the group, I just gave my blessings verbally, and I didn't even think about sending them in person.

At the beginning, I was really not like this, but as I grew older, I found that the money I got at random may never return, and the older I get, the more I don’t see other people in pairs. They are all in their thirties. I'm single, and the hope of getting married in the future is getting slimmer, so I don't want to go to the wedding even more.

I used to go to weddings with the excuse of "Young, no money, who will follow me", but now I have become an "older single youth". , deserves to be single", even an explanation is superfluous.

No money means no money, no money is the root of all evil, the point is no money, if I have money, it is not wrong for me to have high vision, but if I have no money, high vision means lack of self-knowledge and being spurned by others.

I made a lot of complaints, because I usually talk to myself, and occasionally someone can chat with me for a while, and I immediately become a chatterbox, but this is easy to backfire. I have personally proved that if you really want someone to accompany you more Chat for a while, listen more and talk less.

But I just couldn't hold it back. I asked myself long and hard: "Can I suffocate to death?" I replied: "Can I suffocate my mind."

Not all people came to the party today. When I was in school, those who didn’t integrate into the group would not come, and those who had a feud with someone in the class would not come. Who knows what's on his mind?Even if you forgive the other party, the other party may always make a joke about what hurt you in the first place, which is not guaranteed.

There are less than 30 people in one class. Most of them are married and have children. Some wives have just given birth and those who have to take care of their wives and children at home cannot come. Some are traveling abroad and cannot come back. Some have work needs. Even if you need to be on duty, you can't come. Counting your fingers, I predict that there will be more than a dozen people who will die in the end.

But just this few people are enough to make people feel a lot of emotion. Those who can come are still thinking about their classmates and their college days, so they will naturally want to see them again.

At the beginning, I didn't know who would come and who would not. If I knew he was coming, I couldn't prevaricate it by specifying eighteen thousand reasons.

When we returned to our alma mater, we all felt that the great changes in the past ten years could be described as "turning upside down".

Our place used to be a village like a "remote mountainous area". Not to mention the high-rise buildings around, there were bungalows all over the place. What is the countryside like here?

But now there is not only a direct bridge with Jiangnan, but also high-rise commercial buildings on both sides of the bridge. Even our campus has been taken in by the government because of road construction. There are no artificial lakes built from landfills, and there are no lovers' sanctuaries anymore.

Perhaps this is a gain and a loss. Although the environment here has become so modernized after we graduated, we can’t believe it, but we are full of happiness when we talk about the time back then. The prices were not so high at that time. Malatang is still old-fashioned, and a bowl costs only four yuan, but now, three times the price is not enough to eat.

Looking at the campus in front of me, I can't help recalling the bits and pieces of my schooling here. At that time, I was just a country bumpkin who had just come out of the countryside and had never seen the world. I was dark and fat. It's silly, it's the kind of "iron fool" that is popular on the Internet now.

How innocent was I at that time?I haven't even talked about love. Others have puppy love in junior high school and high school, but I am a late-maturing variety like a cactus blooming.

More and more people are coming. I am the first one to develop in the local area, waiting for the arrival of each classmate like a host in the school. Up to now, a total of five people have come together with me.

Today is the May Day holiday, the weather is warm and sunny, and many students came out to play. We were still a little itchy when we passed the outdoor basketball court, and played with the students for a while.

When I was in college, I didn’t have any other hobbies, just playing basketball. Now that I’m older, my physical fitness is not as good as before, but I still like playing basketball very much. It's so easy to abuse people who are shorter than me.

But if the opponent is a little more professional, I'm not a person, but generally you can't see a real professional on the entertainment field, and the professional doesn't play with people like us.

I voted for a few blues and didn't get in. I was in a bad mood. I pretended not to understand, it was embarrassing.

After the disheveled end, I hung my coat in one hand and prepared to take out my cigarette with the other hand, but just as I took out the cigarette, I was lectured by the monitor: "Be careful to meet the instructor and confiscate your cigarette!"

I thought to myself that I have graduated for so many years, even the principal is not entitled to confiscate my cigarettes, right?

But thinking about what he said, it should be a reminder to me that if we are discovered by the school's instructors or inspectors, we will have to ask which class I am in. If we say that we are not students, they will have to ask who we are, and in the end, although it may be just a misunderstanding One, but with this kind of opening to let the teachers know that we graduates go back to their alma mater, it always reminds me of the sentence "You are the worst class of students I have ever taught!", this is not just a matter of my personal honor , It also involves our current class of students, think about it or nothing, it is not an honor to make any troubles.

"When do you eat?" I asked the monitor.

It's easy to get hungry after exercising. It's noon now, and my stomach growls even more hungry.

The monitor replied to me: "Aren't I asking for everyone's opinions? Do you want to eat in the cafeteria or go to an off-campus restaurant?"

I lost my strength when I was hungry, so I just found a Dao Yazi and sat down and looked at the monitor: "I can do anything, even if I eat instant noodles right now! Just make a quick decision!"

However, I am really convinced that six people can have so many different opinions on these two options.

There are four canteens in the school. The one closest to our dormitory is the one we often go to eat. I heard that it is closed. One can only pay with meal cards but not cash. One is small and has no tables for six. The last one is big enough and can be used It's a pity that there is nothing to miss except egg-filled pancakes and Malatang.

If you come to school just to eat these two things, you always feel that it is almost a problem. If you go out to eat, it will be even more inconsistent. Some people say that the restaurant at the main entrance should be visited there, because the restaurant is big; The stuffed meat thief is authentic, and sometimes he thinks of it and drives 20 kilometers here just to buy the hot pot stuffed meat here.

At this time, I was starving with hunger, and my chest was pressed against my back. I sat on the road teeth with my legs bent and knees apart, my arms resting on my knees, my head drooped, and my blood sugar was already low.

In the end, I decided to eat the pot-packed meat. After all, it is possible for a person to brag like this. I am even more hungry when I think of the authentic pot-packed meat. Now if I have a plate, I can destroy it.

I walked to that restaurant like a walking dead, and I was almost paralyzed as soon as I sat down, with one arm slung on the back of the chair, half of my body, Ge You, lying on the chair, with no image at all.

"Hey, I said Xiaotao, when will Wu Tian come?" the squad leader asked me while pouring tea.

I said weakly, "How would I know? Is he coming?"

"He said he was coming, didn't he tell you? I thought I could tell you when you both wore a pair of pants when you two were in college." The monitor laughed.

As soon as I heard this, I sat up straight in shock, looked at the monitor with wide eyes and said, "Is he really here?"

"Isn't that nonsense! I personally notified him, and he himself agreed. If you don't believe me, call and ask again. Just ask him about when he will arrive." The squad leader rinsed everyone's teacups, and the rinsed water It splashed directly on the ground, then poured water again, and distributed it to everyone one by one.

When my brain was overloaded, how could I find a reason to get out, the squad leader's cell phone suddenly rang.

"Oh, you can't resist talking! I just asked Taozi when you will come... Oh, okay, let's go straight on the street at the exit of the back door. The place called XX Hotel, private room 101, you Come quickly! Alright!" As soon as the squad leader hung up the phone, I covered my stomach with an ugly expression.

"What's the matter, Taozi?" the squad leader asked with concern.

"Maybe I was blown away by the game just now, I'll go to the bathroom first..." After finishing speaking, I quickly got up and ran to the bathroom.

When I got to the toilet and closed the door, I didn't really go to the toilet. Instead, I was wondering whether to leave or stay.

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