Take down that tsundere
Chapter 10: Client or Patient
There was almost no one in the western restaurant in the morning. When Qin Ou arrived, he saw through the glass window that there was only a lady wearing gold-rimmed glasses sitting in the corner by the window. The environment was safe and there were no major problems.
As soon as he opened the door, he saw this lady waving at him.
"Hi! I'm Qin Ou." Qin Ou greeted the other party politely first, which made the lady opposite him show a knowing smile.
"Mr. Qin is indeed as talented as the rumors..."
After the politeness, Qin Ou ordered his own breakfast and ate it, while the other party ordered a brownie and coffee. The cake was placed without moving, and he only occasionally picked up coffee to moisten his throat.
Qin Ou had been quietly listening to the other party tell about his daughter's experience. After eating two avocado eggs Benedict and a bowl of Italian soup, he put down the tableware and wiped the corners of his mouth.
Take control of the discourse:
"I have roughly understood what you said. Your daughter still can't get over the death of her ex-boyfriend and doesn't accept other people. From my point of view, she should still be agitated, insomnia and even unable to control herself, so she At least there is a mental obstacle..."
The woman was slightly taken aback when she heard this, as if she didn't expect Qin Ou to find out about her daughter's condition, so she followed suit.
"I know what you said, but..."
Qin Ou raised his hand to interrupt her. As a psychiatrist, Qin Ou certainly knew that this lady must have concealed something from the matchmaking company. She probably just described her daughter's illness as common depression, which is why she became a VIP.
He said firmly: "However, she is 29 years old and she is going to be in her third year. You hope that she can find a new boyfriend as soon as possible, that's why you found me.
Ms. Du, you need to know that under normal circumstances, one of the ways for women to forget old relationships is indeed to find new ones, but your daughter’s situation is completely different from others, no matter whether your daughter and her boyfriend loved deeply or shallowly before, but She is guilty now. She thinks that the person she loves died because of her. Because of this deep guilt is too heavy, when a person is in an extreme situation, the brain will release a hint that stepping into a new relationship is tantamount to Betray the original feelings, even go on a hunger strike and commit suicide.Am I right? "
There was obvious resistance in Qin Ou's tone.
He is not afraid of accepting patients with this disease, but if the family members of the patient are like the other party, deliberately concealing the disease, he will use Fengqi Wutong's purpose: to find a suitable partner for the client.And then to achieve their own goals, then this is called despicable.
As a matchmaking consultant, he is very clear that if the other party's situation is not handled properly, his own brand will be ruined.
As a psychiatrist, he also understands that after experiencing this kind of stimulation, there are actually many people who can't help but act aggressively. In severe cases, they will self-mutilate or even commit suicide. Then it becomes schizophrenic.
Qin Ou has already guessed that she was not introduced to him by any client. After she learned the purpose of Fengqi Wutong, she should have urgently applied for a gold VIP card.After the consultants in the matchmaking company learned of this situation, none of them dared to take over.
Qin Ou couldn't accept the other party's relentless way of handling things, because if she didn't meet her requirements in the future, the consequences would be terrible.
However, the situation Qin Ou faced was that the whole company didn't know that the other party's condition was so serious, and they collectively left this hot potato to him alone.
Why are those people who tried their best to steal customers from him not showing up now?
Don't stop porcelain work without diamonds. These people take advantage of his business trips, stop the work, collect the money, and then throw it to others. It's really good.
So he was not only cheated by his colleagues, but also by the whole company.
Hearing Qin Ou's angry words, the middle-aged woman was at a loss: "Mr. Qin..."
"I'm very sorry, Ms. Du, I can't help you."
Qin Ou was angry and stood up, but was grabbed by the wrist with dark red nails. Ms. Du was afraid that the life-saving straw in front of her would go away, so she quickly admitted that she had concealed the fact about the matchmaking company. :
"You are right, I did not clearly explain my daughter's illness to the matchmaking company.
Five years ago, she...had received treatment. Later, we thought she was fine, and we sent her to study abroad because we were afraid that she would be upset when she saw the familiar environment.
But it wasn't until she returned to China that my husband and I realized that she hadn't gotten out of that relationship at all. When she was abroad, she even lied to us to make a new boyfriend, which was not the case at all. "
He has also come into contact with cases of this kind of situation. Even if the patient is forced by his family to accept a new relationship and marriage like a normal person, it is almost impossible, because for this type of patient, living is a burden.
The spouse who once had a disease admits that he loves the dead person in his heart, but there are no sages in the world, and a living person is worse than a dead person. The psychological resentment can be overcome in a short time, but if the other half can’t get out of it for a lifetime, the pain There are only two people, and as a psychiatrist, he has already witnessed the tragedy of the new man becoming the old man.
The success rate of this case is too low, and he is not sure.
Even though the other party's tone was very pitiful, Qin Ou still didn't waver, he didn't want to smash his own brand.
"Ms. Du, regarding your daughter's condition, I can only suggest that you continue to let her be treated. A twisted melon is not sweet, and her condition is not suitable... I still don't recommend you to put other pressure on her."
"I also know that this kind of situation is very difficult for others. Others have shirked it when they heard that my daughter has mental illness, but it is not a last resort, and I don't want to embarrass anyone. There is really no way... Half a year ago, I My daughter was still abroad, and her father found out that he had liver cancer. Fortunately, he discovered it early and had an operation without telling her. But the doctor said that the recurrence rate of liver cancer is very high, and even if he had surgery, he would not live for a few years...
We only have this one daughter, and our old Song's only wish now is to hold his daughter and hand her over to another person worthy of entrustment when he can still walk.
Mr. Qin, I know that you are both a psychiatrist and a matchmaking consultant. No matter which field you are in, your reputation is the best. help us!His wish was fulfilled..."
If Qin Ou was determined to refuse just now, he really couldn't bear to refuse now.
The human heart is full of meat. When he chose psychology in college, he chose psychology because he worked with his parents in post-war countries when he was a child. The war brought people not only poverty, hunger, but also pain. Physical pain will heal sooner or later, but psychological wounds can never be healed.
He has seen with his own eyes those children who have lost their parents. At an age that should be happy, there is only grayness and fear in their eyes. There is no color in their eyes, and even the scorching sun cannot dispel the haze.
Qin Ou's heart softened suddenly!
"Ms. Du, if you accept to treat her first, and then provide matchmaking services until she recovers, I can accept it."
As soon as he opened the door, he saw this lady waving at him.
"Hi! I'm Qin Ou." Qin Ou greeted the other party politely first, which made the lady opposite him show a knowing smile.
"Mr. Qin is indeed as talented as the rumors..."
After the politeness, Qin Ou ordered his own breakfast and ate it, while the other party ordered a brownie and coffee. The cake was placed without moving, and he only occasionally picked up coffee to moisten his throat.
Qin Ou had been quietly listening to the other party tell about his daughter's experience. After eating two avocado eggs Benedict and a bowl of Italian soup, he put down the tableware and wiped the corners of his mouth.
Take control of the discourse:
"I have roughly understood what you said. Your daughter still can't get over the death of her ex-boyfriend and doesn't accept other people. From my point of view, she should still be agitated, insomnia and even unable to control herself, so she At least there is a mental obstacle..."
The woman was slightly taken aback when she heard this, as if she didn't expect Qin Ou to find out about her daughter's condition, so she followed suit.
"I know what you said, but..."
Qin Ou raised his hand to interrupt her. As a psychiatrist, Qin Ou certainly knew that this lady must have concealed something from the matchmaking company. She probably just described her daughter's illness as common depression, which is why she became a VIP.
He said firmly: "However, she is 29 years old and she is going to be in her third year. You hope that she can find a new boyfriend as soon as possible, that's why you found me.
Ms. Du, you need to know that under normal circumstances, one of the ways for women to forget old relationships is indeed to find new ones, but your daughter’s situation is completely different from others, no matter whether your daughter and her boyfriend loved deeply or shallowly before, but She is guilty now. She thinks that the person she loves died because of her. Because of this deep guilt is too heavy, when a person is in an extreme situation, the brain will release a hint that stepping into a new relationship is tantamount to Betray the original feelings, even go on a hunger strike and commit suicide.Am I right? "
There was obvious resistance in Qin Ou's tone.
He is not afraid of accepting patients with this disease, but if the family members of the patient are like the other party, deliberately concealing the disease, he will use Fengqi Wutong's purpose: to find a suitable partner for the client.And then to achieve their own goals, then this is called despicable.
As a matchmaking consultant, he is very clear that if the other party's situation is not handled properly, his own brand will be ruined.
As a psychiatrist, he also understands that after experiencing this kind of stimulation, there are actually many people who can't help but act aggressively. In severe cases, they will self-mutilate or even commit suicide. Then it becomes schizophrenic.
Qin Ou has already guessed that she was not introduced to him by any client. After she learned the purpose of Fengqi Wutong, she should have urgently applied for a gold VIP card.After the consultants in the matchmaking company learned of this situation, none of them dared to take over.
Qin Ou couldn't accept the other party's relentless way of handling things, because if she didn't meet her requirements in the future, the consequences would be terrible.
However, the situation Qin Ou faced was that the whole company didn't know that the other party's condition was so serious, and they collectively left this hot potato to him alone.
Why are those people who tried their best to steal customers from him not showing up now?
Don't stop porcelain work without diamonds. These people take advantage of his business trips, stop the work, collect the money, and then throw it to others. It's really good.
So he was not only cheated by his colleagues, but also by the whole company.
Hearing Qin Ou's angry words, the middle-aged woman was at a loss: "Mr. Qin..."
"I'm very sorry, Ms. Du, I can't help you."
Qin Ou was angry and stood up, but was grabbed by the wrist with dark red nails. Ms. Du was afraid that the life-saving straw in front of her would go away, so she quickly admitted that she had concealed the fact about the matchmaking company. :
"You are right, I did not clearly explain my daughter's illness to the matchmaking company.
Five years ago, she...had received treatment. Later, we thought she was fine, and we sent her to study abroad because we were afraid that she would be upset when she saw the familiar environment.
But it wasn't until she returned to China that my husband and I realized that she hadn't gotten out of that relationship at all. When she was abroad, she even lied to us to make a new boyfriend, which was not the case at all. "
He has also come into contact with cases of this kind of situation. Even if the patient is forced by his family to accept a new relationship and marriage like a normal person, it is almost impossible, because for this type of patient, living is a burden.
The spouse who once had a disease admits that he loves the dead person in his heart, but there are no sages in the world, and a living person is worse than a dead person. The psychological resentment can be overcome in a short time, but if the other half can’t get out of it for a lifetime, the pain There are only two people, and as a psychiatrist, he has already witnessed the tragedy of the new man becoming the old man.
The success rate of this case is too low, and he is not sure.
Even though the other party's tone was very pitiful, Qin Ou still didn't waver, he didn't want to smash his own brand.
"Ms. Du, regarding your daughter's condition, I can only suggest that you continue to let her be treated. A twisted melon is not sweet, and her condition is not suitable... I still don't recommend you to put other pressure on her."
"I also know that this kind of situation is very difficult for others. Others have shirked it when they heard that my daughter has mental illness, but it is not a last resort, and I don't want to embarrass anyone. There is really no way... Half a year ago, I My daughter was still abroad, and her father found out that he had liver cancer. Fortunately, he discovered it early and had an operation without telling her. But the doctor said that the recurrence rate of liver cancer is very high, and even if he had surgery, he would not live for a few years...
We only have this one daughter, and our old Song's only wish now is to hold his daughter and hand her over to another person worthy of entrustment when he can still walk.
Mr. Qin, I know that you are both a psychiatrist and a matchmaking consultant. No matter which field you are in, your reputation is the best. help us!His wish was fulfilled..."
If Qin Ou was determined to refuse just now, he really couldn't bear to refuse now.
The human heart is full of meat. When he chose psychology in college, he chose psychology because he worked with his parents in post-war countries when he was a child. The war brought people not only poverty, hunger, but also pain. Physical pain will heal sooner or later, but psychological wounds can never be healed.
He has seen with his own eyes those children who have lost their parents. At an age that should be happy, there is only grayness and fear in their eyes. There is no color in their eyes, and even the scorching sun cannot dispel the haze.
Qin Ou's heart softened suddenly!
"Ms. Du, if you accept to treat her first, and then provide matchmaking services until she recovers, I can accept it."
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