Unlimited: Stop flirting!stop!

PUA is a kind of purposeful packaging through systematic learning, to establish a personality suitable for the target person, to induce the target person to associate with oneself, and to achieve the goal through continuous deception and brainwashing. Characters have sex, and even further for the purpose of defrauding more money.

The Pick-up-Artist at the beginning just shared how men can approach the person they like through techniques and psychological applications.

But gradually, this kind of "skills exchange" has further evolved into showing off the achievements of picking up girls, and sharing each so-called "practical experience" with other "apprentices" as their own qualifications .

False packaging and false feelings are just to achieve personal goals, and they use the deceitful feelings as their "record". When they get tired of playing, they will not hesitate to discard these deceitful goals, and The way to give up is to trick these targets into committing suicide.

In Lisanna's diary, it is recorded that from February 2th to May 27th, in less than three months, she and a man went from first acquaintance, to passionate love, to the point of broken love bit by bit.

"...I walked into that small tea room by accident, and saw him sitting in the corner, which is where I usually like to sit. His expression looked so sad and lonely, just like me. Same." Shen Yin read Lisanna's diary when she first met the man, "...This night, I heard his story, he has such a tragic past, I can feel that he is loathing this endless The world, like me."

After reading this, Shen Yin paused and explained: "The first step of PUA is to establish a character design. This character design does not need to be perfect, and even the flaws are far greater than perfection. It is best to be a bad one that breaks the rules. Image, in order to attract the attention of the target person, preferably sympathy.

Then, in this bad image, show the only good advantage, so that the target person will magnify his only good advantage on the basis of sympathy for the PUA man. "

As if confirming what Shen Yin said, the next paragraph of this diary reads——

【He smiled at me, this is the first time he smiled at me since this evening, maybe it's because my listening made him feel good?Or, was it because he sensed that I felt the same as him? 】

[Touching the heart, I heard its beating sound, is this the feeling of meeting the same kind? 】

[In this terrible world, can I also be lucky enough to meet the same kind? 】

In the following diary, it is a girl who has sprouted in spring and then fell into it.She was deeply attracted by this mysterious man and couldn't extricate herself.

This man is not perfect, he has several girlfriends, but he said that Lisanna is the most special one he has ever seen; he always looks sad, but only shows a faint smile to Lisanna ;He always touches the watch on his wrist, it was given to him by his ex-girlfriend, he misses it very much, he seems to be a man in love, and the word "love" makes a living Girl fetishes in homes rife with violence, name-calling, and beating.

Lisanna deeply loathes and fears her father who is always a domestic violence mother, and also deeply resents the pain and resentment that never knows how to escape and resist, but after suffering the beating while crying Mother who vented on herself.

Growing up in this kind of family environment, while hating the world, she yearns for caring more than ordinary people.

And that mysterious man gave her that kind of love-like care.

He knows that she likes tea with honey, so he will take the initiative to ask the waiter to bring a cup every time. He knows that she likes to hear the sound of rain, so whenever it is about to rain, he will send her a text message in advance...

The most let Lisanna confirm that she really fell in love with the other party, instead of treating the other party as a confidant and the same kind, was that on a quiet night, a man called and cried and told her that in fact, he didn't like to laugh. Smiling at her is not from the heart, it is just a habit and courtesy.

The man cried like a tearful man on the phone, and confessed to Lisanna in a hoarse and low voice.

Lisanna likes a man's smile, this is the first light spot that Lisanna saw on a man, but that night, the man personally destroyed this light spot.

However, Lisanna found that her feelings for the man were not lacking at all. She was not angry at all because of the man's deception, but felt more distressed by the man's experience.

What kind of painful things did you go through to stop laughing?

When a smile becomes a basic etiquette and a way to support a person's life in this world, what kind of despair should it be!

This man's smile is so pretty!

I want to protect him, I want to protect him, I want to make him smile from the bottom of my heart!

This kind of mood rushed into Lisanna's heart at that moment, rushed to Lisanna's mouth, and made her express her hidden thoughts in that silent night.

【I like you! 】

She took the initiative to confess to him!

This desire to protect the other party is so obvious!Maybe this is love!She felt that she really fell in love with this mysterious man!

……

When the diary saw this, many players showed expressions of disbelief.

"That's it? This is falling in love? Isn't it too easy?"

"Do women like this one?"

"This kind of man is a liar at first glance!"

"I think this Lisanna is cheap. She didn't say anything, so she posted it on her own."

"It's not like that." Shen Yin took out the next diary: "Sometimes, when you are deeply involved in it, the little things that other people can't understand. Although PUA has a unified routine, the details are different. Targeted, that is to say, this man had studied Lisanna's background in advance, so he chose to sit in that corner of the tea room at that time, at that place, and show that expression, which aroused Lisanna's background. Shanna's inner resonance."

Shen Yin flattened some unglued pieces of paper with his fingertips, and said: "If it were any other woman, she wouldn't be attracted to a man who showed such a side, because this is a deception only for Lisanna. Means, Lisanna's family background has affected her character, she is extremely inferior and sensitive, and even a little world-weary, so when a man shows the same mental state as her, it will arouse a strong resonance in her heart. "

I want to help him, I want to redeem him, I want him to smile, I want to help him out of pain.

She wants to redeem the other party, but in fact she regards the other party as herself, and the person she really wants to redeem is herself.

But she knew very well that she couldn't get rid of her original family, she couldn't get rid of her own pain, she couldn't redeem herself, so when someone similar to her appeared, she would transfer her feelings to that person.

Then she mistook this feeling for love and fell into it.

And when the target selected by the PUA man has reached this point, the PUA man will start to establish a contract for the target.

The content of the contract is not fixed and varies from person to person.For example, let the target person not deceive himself, or let the target person not explore his past, and so on.

This mysterious man chose the latter. He accepted Lisanna's confession and agreed to associate with Lisanna, but the request was that Lisanna should not explore her past.

However, after establishing such a contract, the man deliberately pretended to carelessly do some inductive actions such as stroking his watch and earrings, so that Lisanna, who was in love, would pay attention and lure Lisanna to explore. .

Because as long as Lisanna inquires, the man will tell her that she broke the agreement between them, and she destroyed all of this with her own hands, forcing the target person to feel deep self-blame and guilt, and thus obey the man's words more and more , trying to compensate.

You know, the man once told Lisanna that the watch and earrings he was wearing were given to him by his ex-girlfriend.

How can Lisanna bear with her boyfriend who still remembers his ex-girlfriend's things?

So Lisanna almost didn't hesitate to use the money she earned from working hard in the playground to buy more expensive watches and earrings, and then replace those "memorabilia" on the man.

And the man will show his resistance at first, but under Lisanna's hard work, he will put on these more expensive accessories half-heartedly.

Even though he was the recipient, the man seemed to have endured a huge inner struggle.

Lisanna was obviously the one who gave the gift, but she didn't get half a thank you. Instead, she was happy because the man was willing to wear the gift she gave her reluctantly.

This feeling of being clearly squeezed, but not aware of it, is one of the PUA routines. The self-worth of the target person is constantly belittled to nothing and worthless, making the target person feel that the perpetrator has become like this. She did it.

In this way, there will be an illusion in the target person's heart that only by trying hard to please and flatter the perpetrator can they find their own value.

Generally, when PUA reaches this step, it can already firmly control the target person.

She will do whatever she is asked to do, she will buy whatever she is asked to buy, as long as she is given enough hints, she will do anything for him.

And when the PUA man is bored with the target person, or drains all the remaining value of the target person, he will ruthlessly abandon the target person or induce the target person to commit suicide.

In Lisanna's last diary, she also wrote such a passage——

["I am a person who has been hurt by love. I don't believe that there is true love in this world. Maybe there is, but it definitely does not belong to me. Let's break up. For you, I am just a person who satisfies your selfish desires." It’s just a tool.” He answered me like this, his expression was so disappointed, I felt like my heart was going to be broken for my disappointment, I was too greedy, I hurt him, but, I really I love him so much!

Since he doesn't want to believe it, then I will prove it to him!

I love him!I am willing to die for him! 】