Jiang Fengyuhuo vs Ugly Mian [Entertainment]

"Hi everyone, my name is Yu Huo, I am an actor and I am also gay."

Yu Huo's eyes were gentle, and his clear and gentle voice resounded throughout the gymnasium:

"I like men.

It's not something to be proud of, let alone something to be ashamed of, it's just my self-orientation following my nature, just like some people like oranges and some people like apples, some people can't eat spicy food and some people don't like spicy food ——

Such a choice, which has not caused any harm and is based on free will, should not be cast with strange eyes at any time.

Would you discriminate against a person just because he likes coriander? "

There was a burst of laughter from the audience.

"From officially coming out to now, I have received encouragement and support from many people, but at the same time I have been insulted and cursed by many people.

I am often confused: I am an irrelevant individual, and my coming out is only my own business. Where does this profound malice come from?Just because I have different preferences from yours, do I become a different kind that must be dealt with quickly?

More than 2000 years ago, Huaguo used to be one of the most tolerant and enlightened countries in the world. We paid attention to equality and respect, and we insisted on seeking common ground while reserving differences. The romance and glory of this entire era will be engraved in the history books for future generations. Admired and admired by generations.

So, what changed history, what changed us, made us narrow-minded, hated, hostile, and xenophobic, step by step to where we are today? "

Ember's gaze slowly swept across the week: "It's fear. It's the fear caused by the wounds of thousands of years of war."

"There is an old saying in Huaguo, 'Those who are not my race will have different hearts'. Whether it is the war with intelligent robots or the war with Zerg, it seems to accurately verify this point.

The long war was too tragic, so tragic that many people have never even seen the scene of the war with their own eyes, but the leftover fear is deeply embedded in the bones and blood, so that even if they notice the slightest "abnormality" different from themselves, they will instantly be on guard , before attempting to understand draws an insurmountable gap between oneself and the other.

In the final analysis, all rejection and disapproval are just protecting ourselves in the way we think is right. "

Yu Huo paused, and continued: "An elder whom I respect very much once said to me: 'War can destroy our science and technology, and our living standards, but it shouldn't even affect our spiritual culture. shrinking recession'.

Yes, the robot rebellion is terrible, and the Zerg is terrible, but don't forget, we are the victors of the war.After paying so much to rebuild our homeland, what reason do we have to give up the progress we have worked hard for hundreds of thousands of years? How can we give up the tolerance and civilization that the Chinese nation was most proud of? "

"...the legalization of same-sex marriage is destined to be a difficult and long-lasting battle. Our greatest enemy in this battle is not our fellow countrymen who oppose the legalization of same-sex marriage, but the scars left by thousands of years of war.

The wound is deep, but there will always be a day of healing.

One day, we can make it clear to all those who don't know:

We are not monsters, we have no malice, don't be afraid of us, all we want is a right to express ourselves freely;

One day, we will be strong enough to turn prejudice into knowledge and scars into armor;

One day we will be able to understand differences through laws, make freedom truly come true, and let the same love get the same respect. "

After the last sentence fell, Yu Huo bowed to express his gratitude, and the audience applauded like thunder.And this speech has only just begun——

The embers are just an introduction, and the real content comes from the sharing of tens of thousands of people who have personally experienced it.

The first one to stand up was a man, wearing a suit and a bow tie, who had been working for a few years, with a mature face that had experienced things:

"My surname is Yan, and I am 28 years old. When I was 17, I found that I only liked boys, and when I graduated at the age of 23, I came out of the closet with my family. My mother cried all night, and my dad made me kneel outside the door all night. It was almost dawn. He said to me: "From now on, I don't have your son." This year is the fifth year that I have left home and worked alone."

There was nearly a dozen seconds of silence in the stadium, and then Yu Huo took the lead in applauding: for his courage, and especially for the sadness and grievance he has suffered all these years.

The man bowed and sat back, took a paper handkerchief from a girl next door and wiped his eyes.

The second one stood up was a boy, who looked only seventeen or eighteen years old, and his face was full of aggressiveness and vigor unique to teenagers: "I came out to my family last year, and my mother is so angry that I still don't care about it now." Me, my dad just broke three canes and beat me to the ground screaming. It’s useless to kill me. I also like men and call me a pervert. Bah, the son of a domestic violence underage It's perverted."

His tone was nonchalant, and he kept lifting his chin after he finished speaking, but he couldn't stop the tears.Pulling his sleeves and wiping his face a few times, before sitting down, he muttered in a nasal voice: "I'm not a pervert..."

The third one stood up was a woman, with short shoulder-length hair and curls, she looked gentle and capable: "What I want to share with you is actually the story of my mother, who was also lace, and she was more closed-minded at that time. After being discovered by the family, my grandfather and two uncles hung her up from the beams of the house, with half of her feet on the ground, without food, drink or sleep. Correct 'come over.

My dad knew about this when I met my mom, but he didn't care. He thought it was a good thing that my mom didn't like men. He was charming enough to be straight.

Because of this reason, my mother and I came out very smoothly. She sat on the bedside and watched over me in the middle of the night, and said sorry to me with red eyes, saying that it was because of her that I was also gay. "

The lady pointed at the camera, her eyes were red and she smiled generously and confidently: "Mom, it's nothing to do with you. I'm just such a tall person, and I'm so unique in my bones. Thank you for teaching me to raise me for so many years. My girlfriend brings you Palm Eyes, you two are the women I love the most in my life."

The one who stood up was also a lady, but it wasn't until she took off her wavy wig that everyone realized that this was a somewhat special "her".

"I'm a gender-agnostic patient. Growing up, I always felt like a princess trapped in a prince's body. No one could understand me. Others thought I should charge forward and fight with knives and guns. In fact, I just wanted to wear beautiful clothes. The little skirt is painted with beautiful makeup, waiting for some prince to come on horseback and take me home as a bride."

She put the wig back on again: "Does this look weird? It was even weirder when I plucked up the courage to wear women's clothes in public. In the past few years, I have saved up a little money to get regular hormone injections, and the Adam's apple and beard have gradually disappeared. Look normal. People often treat me as a girl when I walk on the street. When I earn more money, I plan to have a complete sex change operation. God accidentally gave me something, I will give it to him Also go back.

Have you ever been scolded?Yes, the most scolded ones are 'pervert' and 'shemale'. After getting used to it, it's actually okay. Just ignore them. If you are really anxious, take off your sleeves and roll your hair to reveal two big flowery arms. Immediately It can scare people away-don't look at those people who are more aggressive than anyone else when they are forced.My old lady is so beautiful, she can wear whatever she likes, really. "

"Well said!" There was thunderous applause in the stadium.

She didn't mention her parents and family from the beginning to the end. She seemed to want to say something before sitting down, but her lips moved, but she still didn't say anything.

Because of being ostracized and misunderstood, there is always pain in the stories everyone shares.Fortunately, not all stories are so heavy.

"I was relatively precocious, and when I was thirteen or fourteen, I realized that I had no feelings for girls." A boy wearing glasses stood up and took the microphone. I didn’t dare. I held back until I was 27. When all the relatives in my family tried to arrange a blind date for me to urge me to get married, one night I went out to eat with my parents and scalded the bowls in the restaurant seven or eight times. Finally couldn't help but say it.

At that time, there was no big reaction. My mother looked at me and said nothing, and my father held chopsticks in his hand as if someone had tapped his acupoints.Then he finished his meal in an eerie silence.

When I got home at night, my parents went back to the bedroom, and I went back to my own room, staring at the ceiling with my eyes open, and didn't fall asleep all night.

Early the next morning, my parents came to knock on the door. The dark circles under my eyes were scary, and my face was not very good-looking. It was even scarier to look at.I thought the two of them blocked the door because they wanted to beat me up together or expel me from the family tree or something. Unexpectedly, my mother reached out and hugged me with two peach eyes: "I like men and I don't know how to talk to my parents earlier." Said, how hard it must be for you to be alone for so many years'. "

The boy cried and smiled at the camera: "Mom and Dad, I love you! Comparing you!!"

The last person to share the story was a young girl, whose mother also came to the scene.

"Our family is a single-parent family, and I was raised by my mother alone." The girl put her arms around her mother's shoulders: "Don't look at my mother as delicate, this lady is amazing, she never made me suffer from it since I was a child." Wronged.

When I was a freshman, I came out to my mother. My mother stared at me for about half an hour, her face was full of sorrow and her brows were tightly furrowed: "Daughter, don't think that all the men in the world are like your father just because your mother is not married." The same is a bastard with a big pig's hoof, there are still some good men who search carefully. '

Later, it was determined that my orientation was inherently irreversible. This lady accepted it very quickly. She used to ask me how I ate and how I dressed when I went home, but then she only asked me if I was talking about a girlfriend.

When I was in my sophomore year, I talked about one, who was an alumni of the school, and I took it home for half a month during the summer vacation.There are a lot of gossips in our community, and they like to chew their tongues when they have nothing to do, so it didn’t take long for rumors to spread. One day I took my girlfriend out to watch a movie and came home, and I saw my mother knocking on a washbasin to stand. Scolding in the corridor:

'What's wrong with my daughter likes girls?Drink your water or eat your rice!After all, I can't look down on you, what are you afraid of!If you have the time to take care of other people’s homes all day long, why don’t you spend more time worrying about your son, do you have a car, do you have a house, how much is your salary, five insurances and one gold are all missing, you are not tall and you are not tall? Looks good, I can't find a wife in the future and plan to be a bachelor for the rest of my life?Bah, a gossiping woman who chews her tongue indiscriminately, she is not afraid that ghosts will cut off your tongue for drinking after death! '"

The girl put her hands on her hips and learned how to be lively, and finally hugged her mother and kissed: "This lady is awesome when she scolds the street, oh, people's faces turn red and they roll their eyes, and no one in the whole neighborhood is her opponent .”

"Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha……"

The gloomy atmosphere in the stadium was swept away. A reporter interviewed the mother: "Why can you accept your daughter's orientation so easily?"

The mother didn't see the grandeur when she scolded the street, she looked delicate and shy: "What can I do if I don't accept it? Is it her fault that the child grows up like this? No, who can change what God decides?" Come on, what's the matter with homosexuality, homosexuality is also a human being, but the object of her love is different from other people, and it is not inferior to others.

Many parents may be afraid when they hear that their children's orientation is different from normal people. If you think about it, you are afraid. Isn't your child afraid?How much courage he must muster to confess to you.We are the closest people to the child. If we don't understand or support, the child will really have no way out. "

Some people cry and some laugh, some cry and laugh at the same time.Yu Huo walked to the edge of the stage, and everyone in the stadium spontaneously stood up, giving the respect and tolerance that radiated because of love at this moment, and extended the warmest applause.

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*The story of the third short-haired lady and the fifth story of a boy with glasses is based on Zizhihu and Douban, and is hereby explained.