learning to be human every day

Even though he had been mentally prepared for a long time, Xia Yunze still felt uncomfortable when he heard her beating Yuanyuan so mercilessly, feeling empty and sad.

"Why?" He showed a sad look, looking at his parents stubbornly.

Three simple words can cover countless questions, but no reason can cover many answers. Ms. Chen stroked her forehead and waved her hand speechlessly: "Why do you have so many questions? You shouldn't be together." .”

Xia Yun twitched his lips, saying all day long that the brat is so unreasonable, that is, he has never seen his parents being questioned, making trouble for no reason.

He lazily leaned back, nodded and said, "Yes."

Ms. Chen was stunned, and Lao Xia poured tea almost on the back of his hand, looking at him with four eyes, like a searchlight trying to shine into the depths of his soul.

Originally, they thought they would have to go through an arduous struggle, but they didn't expect that someone would raise a white flag just after the exchange of fire. Instead, they felt a sense of loss, and secretly speculated whether they were fleeing in despair or luring the enemy deeper?

"Son..." Ms. Chen's eyelids twitched wildly. Her intuition is not so simple. Her son has been skinny since he was a child, and his bones are usually light and out of shape, but he is very stubborn inside, especially after a serious injury. She often feels strange. It is no longer possible to use simple and crude old methods to solve endless new problems.

Xia Yun sighed, and began to fall into sad associations: "I lost the love I love, heartbroken, the rest of my life, I will not be able to get what I want, I used to go to the sea, and I will die alone, so I will save you from worrying about who I should look for or not. Whoever, once and for all, everyone is happy, the whole thing is fine."

The tone was as if nothing had happened, and the demeanor was terribly miserable. He successfully soured Ms. Chen's teeth. Lao Xia couldn't bear it anymore, and said angrily: "What are you farting?! A man is going to die if he splits his hands, is it plausible?"

Xia Yunze's eyes shot out righteous light, his face was overjoyed, and he asked: "So it's all right to break up?"

The speed at which he changed his face confused his parents. Lao Xia looked at him suspiciously and nodded: "I just want you to break up. It's not like you don't know how difficult this road is."

He really doesn't know whether other people's roads are hard or not, but he and Brother Lu are like driving a forklift along the way, and the small trails have also been shoveled out of the flat river.

"That's no problem." Xia Yunze smiled, his whole face glowing, "As long as the relationship is not severed."

You can still be friends after breaking up, and then you chase after me, I chase after you, and after chasing back and forth, it will be a matter of course to get back together, and you can still remarry after divorce, who stipulates that breaking up means that you will never communicate with each other?

He and Brother Lu fell in love so smoothly, and he hasn't tried other dramas. He can make up for this regret in the future, and have some forced love, a small black house, and the domineering president kidnapping me... Although they can't hang the city gate, they can... There is a gantry!It is completely possible to toss about life endlessly!

He had a strange expression, and he laughed a couple of times when he realized the bloody scene, which made people think that he was over-stimulated and mentally disturbed.

Although it has never been normal...

Ms. Chen didn't guess his wishful thinking, and thought that her son was too sad to talk nonsense. After all, the old mother was soft-hearted, and softly comforted him: "It's okay, time will solve all problems, and it will be fine after a while."

He didn't like to hear these words anymore, and Xia Yun straightened his neck and argued with his mother: "I don't have any problems, but you insist on creating some problems for me, and then tell me that time will solve the problem?"

His mother was turned pale by him, and his father quickly stepped forward: "Why don't you know what's good or bad, kid, will we harm you?"

Under normal circumstances, when parents say this, it is tantamount to chatting to death, and the child has to swallow the big grievances. Unfortunately, Xia Yun's thinking circuit is never on the same track as normal people, and he deviates so much that he can't even pull it back. return.

"I just know that apart from Brother Lu, it is impossible for me to like anyone else." Xia Yun put away his playful look and looked at his parents solemnly, "I had a rough life before, I died once, met Brother Lu, I really understand what I want."

He played a word game with a pun, and his parents only knew one thing but didn't know the other. Thinking of his son lying in the ICU and having a sudden cardiac arrest, he couldn't help but feel chills all over his body, and even heard him mention that experience in an understatement.

Xia Yun was holding a teacup, speaking in the style of a veteran cadre, slowly and loudly: "We are a family connected by blood, we should unite and solve problems together, instead of letting problems tear us into opposing relationships, Dad, Mom , I would be very, very sorry if there was a rift due to this incident."

These words are threatening. After all, I can’t help myself. He even moved his household registration to Rongjiang, and he is financially independent. A broken kite?

It is impossible for Lu Yuanfei to give up, and family affection is also what he longs for. Neither party should use affection as a bargaining chip.

"I have only one question." His eyelashes trembled slightly to hide the melancholy in his eyes, "Why?"

His parents were questioned again.

I have to say that the stinky boy is worthy of being a gold medal coach, with first-rate speech skills, and he was flickering when he was happy and sad at first, which completely messed up their minds.

A question that has always been ignored came unexpectedly and hit the soul directly——

Why insist on breaking up a couple who love each other?

They never considered the cause and effect, and took it for granted that the matter of "contrary to the mainstream" itself was a mistake not worth discussing on the table.

But Xia Yun insisted on putting it on the table, breaking it apart and asking why.

Yeah, why?

They claim to be thinking about their son's future, but arbitrarily interfere with his right to choose as an adult.

Do not believe that he has grown up, that he can make independent judgments and bear the consequences.

The avenue has the prosperity of the avenue, and the small road also has the scenery of the small road. Why must he be stopped on the main road?

Old Xia Nan couldn't say anything, and it took him a long time to squeeze out a sentence: "But we still want to have a grandson, you can't be so selfish..."

"Is a grandson more important than a son?" Xia Yun sneered, "As the eldest grandson, I haven't received any preferential treatment in the old Xia's family, and I even went to the hospital for the New Year's Eve."

When this matter was mentioned, Ms. Chen didn't get angry. She gave Lao Xia a hard look, and then saw her son talking clearly and eloquently, which was very pleasing to the eye.

"If you're afraid of being judged by your relatives and friends, you should keep your contact with them less." Xia Yun continued to diverge his thinking, listing various possibilities, "Are other people's opinions more important than your own son's happiness? Life is not for others to see."

Even if you want to compare, his boyfriend is handsome and can fight. He is mighty and strong and will make money. Comparing with them is bullying them.

Lao Xia felt guilty, and was so bullied that he had nothing to say. Lao Chen cleared his throat and resisted stubbornly: "Don't make such a big deal, I can't accept it anyway."

"Mom, you love me the most, just trust me once." Xia Yun said shamelessly with his mother, throwing sugar-coated bullets out like money, "I have grown up, I chose the path myself, No matter what the consequences are, you have to bear it yourself, don't keep treating me like a child, I will protect you from the wind and rain in the future!"

To deal with an old mother with a knife mouth and a bean curd heart, the mouth should be sweet and thick. Anyway, the first priority of communication is to never engage in confrontation. What is there to talk about when the sword is at the edge?We must squeeze into the same trench and then minimize the big things, and try our best to reduce the shock of coming out to the parents and the anxiety of "the son will be abducted by a wild man".

Give them a reassurance, and emphasize that they will always be a family that loves each other, and the son will always be the caring old cotton pants of the parents, let alone a wild man, even a group can't pry them away.

By the way, let’s talk about heterosexuality, as it is sung in the nursery rhyme, the little magpie with a long tail married a wife and forgot her mother, saved half of his life and emptied his family’s money for his son’s marriage, and gave birth to a baby to his mother so that they could experience the pain of being dominated by shit and fart again , if the child has a bump, he may be posted on the Internet and get scolded by thousands of people, why bother?

Lu Yuanfei is different. He has a car and a house and is considerate and generous. Not only did he not kidnap his son and deny his mother, but he also wanted to be their cheap son and follow his filial piety.

True "I'm here to join this family, not to tear it apart."

Ms. Chen thought of all the chicken feathers in her square dance teammate's house, each piece was bloody and real, which made her gay son a clear stream.

Ms. Chen, who was precisely poked at the pain point, couldn't help but wonder, is this still her naive son with a brain not as big as a peach pit?Is it true that he is close to Zhu Zhechi, and his IQ has also been raised?

Thinking of Lu Yuanfei, she felt awkward again, hating herself for saying that if she wanted a daughter to marry him, who the hell would have thought it would be a prophecy!

Her worthless bastard son is having a hot head, and he can't move nine cows. As a parent, he has experienced life-and-death first aid once, and he is really afraid of hurting his muscles and bones again.

Lao Xia also had lingering fears, thinking that although Xia Yunze was stubborn and disobedient, at least a lively son was better than a dead son.

Xia Yun played both soft and hard ways, sometimes serious and serious, sometimes with a playful smile, and finally coaxed his parents to turn off the flames. Although he couldn't get over this hurdle for a while, at least he didn't rush to push his head to make him break up.

"You and Xiao Lu..." Ms. Chen seemed to be choking on a pigeon egg, unable to swallow or spit out, not to mention how uncomfortable, "How did you get together?"

If you want to talk about this, I have to refill my tea!

Xia Yun is eager to tell his parents about his love history as sweet as honey, and blow Brother Lu's rainbow fart by the way, so that they can accept this good son-in-law sooner.

In the end, he hadn't prepared the beginning yet, so his mother waved her hand and said angrily, "Forget it, forget it, I don't want to hear it."

As long as I don't listen, my son is still an innocent single dog.

……Fine.

The rainbow fart was held in his stomach, and he really wanted to hold back his fart.

His parents came in a hurry, and left in a hurry, Xia Yun couldn't stay, and wanted to ask Brother Lu to drive him off, but his parents turned him into a hedgehog, and the old couple didn't even want to talk to their son anymore. I got into a car and left together, the spring breeze couldn't blow away my desolation.

Xia Yun watched them leave, stood there for three seconds and then ran up like a cannonball.

"Brother, good news!" He was about to announce the good news when he entered the door. Just as Lu Yuanfei hung up the phone, he greeted him with open arms with a smile: "Passed?"

Xia Yun jumped on him, resorted to a set of old tree roots, and obediently admitted: "I may pass the test, you are a little difficult."

His parents' attitude has changed from being aggressive and forceful to being passive and avoiding war. They probably want to put aside the disputes and develop together, and wait until the army is strong before counterattacking.

Not to mention anything else, his mother still insisted on paying the house payment, and asked him to draw a clear line with Lu Yuanfei financially.

Brother Lu still has a long way to go if he wants to enter his house.

Lu Yuanfei was only worried about whether he would be embarrassing, but not afraid of the dangers ahead. Hearing this, he held his waist and breathed a sigh of relief, and said with a low laugh, "I also have some good news to tell you."