Doomsday Grain
Chapter 101 Preparing to Raise a Baby 【Insectless】
"She asked He Yangxuan why he didn't marry a wife, and I said he was dating me." Lin Qian said truthfully.
Grandpa is so smart, you can understand it in just two sentences.
"How is her daughter-in-law?" Grandpa changed the subject.
"good."
Grandpa raised his eyebrows: "Okay?"
"I'm not familiar with him, and I've only met twice until now, but I seem to be very active (active)." The word "active" can be understood as lively, but it can also be said to be dishonest.
"Your mother should be able to hold back. I'm not worried about your mother..." What grandpa was thinking in his heart was that Lin Qian's mother had that self-knowledge, so she wouldn't post it easily.But if her daughter-in-law couldn't figure out where she was, if she knew that Lin Qian liked men, she would instigate Lin Qian's younger brother to post it, or if she gave birth to a child and let her inherit the family property, it would be troublesome enough.
Grandpa said half of what he said, but Lin Qian didn't think about it, because he was thinking about another thing.
"Wenxuan and I were discussing on the way back, should our family raise a child?"
Grandpa stopped working and looked at the two of them carefully: "Have you two really thought about this?"
Lin Qian went over to make a deal with his grandfather: "We are not young anymore. The medical books you gave me and Wenxuan's jade pendants have to be passed on to someone else. We can't look for them when we are old. Our medical books are not available anyway. It will cause disaster, if Wenxuan's space falls into the hands of unworthy people, it will be a crime if they do something like murder and arson."
Grandpa nodded: "It's time to think so. But don't just think about finding an heir. If you really want to be a father, you have to look good. Think about how to be a father first. There is no woman in the family to help you. You have to learn how to be a father." There are a lot of things."
Lin Qian and He Yangxuan looked at each other.
If it is a normal couple, don't talk about other places, just say that in the village, in a family, the wife is the mother who looks after the children.In addition to making money, other things about raising children seem to be insulated from men.Although there are no absolutes, the environment here is like this.
Men and women think differently.How to raise children?How to teach children?Learn from the man next to you?But most of the teaching experience for children only exists in a few things such as amusing children, educating children and giving children money. Let them say how children eat, dress and play. He can't tell.Learn from women?It doesn't seem to be the case.
As soon as grandpa said this, it seemed that the two of them took the matter of raising children as simple.
"Then what do you think we should learn?" He Yangxuan asked.Grandpa did have a lot of experience as a father, and he raised Lin Qian so much by himself.
"Take your time." Grandpa stroked the leaves of the vegetable in his hand. "Before you become a father, you must first understand that your own children are different from those you see other people's children outside. If you don't say that your children are good, you can say that they are bastards." Just assholes, no matter how good a child is, there is a mischievous side, and no matter how naughty a child is, it is not hopeless. You two can be grandchildren, and the first thing you need to learn as a father is patience."
Although the two of them are old, they have always regarded themselves as juniors.When I saw a child, it belonged to someone else's family, so I passed away.When you meet a naughty child, you should clean up and tell the parents that there is rarely time to teach them patiently.
Lin Qian was still the same, it was okay to let him have rare children, but it was really troublesome for him to raise them by himself.
He himself doesn't like it very much, but if he raises the next generation with He Yangxuan, he doesn't hate it, and he will learn to be a good parent.
"Learn slowly." Lin Qian said with a smile, "There are only those who will be grandchildren from birth, how can they be fathers from birth?"
Grandpa knocked Lin Qian on the head: "You know a lot."
Lin Qian dodged for a while.
Both grandpa and grandson were right.Don't be afraid that you won't, as long as you are willing to learn and put your heart into it, and don't get into a dead end, then you won't fail too much.
It's another Spring Festival.
It was steaming hot in the kitchen.Grandpa took the spoon, Lin Qian cut the pie, and He Yangxuan made a cold dish and made dumpling fillings.
The sun is setting outside, and the visibility is gradually decreasing.
No matter how economical people are, this night will be extravagant.
In addition to the candles, there were also pieces of turpentine wood bought from Lin Qian's house.Order a few more, and the table is brightly lit.
There is no need to worry about the visibility of Lin Qian's house. At this time, it is rare for a family of three to get busy preparing a meal.
Because the productivity is not increasing, the electricity here has been unable to repair.And even if it is repaired, it will soon be damaged due to extreme weather, and it is already unable to bear the loss.Therefore, except for some parts of the city that are still providing electricity, the remaining places are basically cut off.
There are windmills for wind power generation near some areas, and the electricity generated is also used by nearby residents.
There is no one near Lin Qian's house. If you want to use electricity, only those with a generator like Lin Qian's house can afford such a luxury.
The dishes that need to be stewed for a long time are basically put into the pot, and the remaining stir-fried and mixed vegetables have been prepared.
Grandpa and Lin Qian stood in front of the computer, choosing which programs to watch later.In previous years, I would directly pick out my favorite Spring Festival Gala to watch the rebroadcast. This year, I only pick out my favorite programs and put them in a playlist. I want to watch whichever one I want to watch.
There are so many classics in previous years, the grandpa and grandson are really a little confused.
He Yangxuan prepared the shrimp dipping sauce, peeled a shrimp, dipped it in the dipping sauce, and stuffed it for Lin Qian.
Lin Qian bit the shrimp meat into his mouth, covered his mouth and closed his eyes for two seconds, then said after two seconds, "How much mustard do you put in!"
"A little mustard oil. How about it?"
"Exciting." Lin Qian chewed and swallowed the shrimp meat, "Give me two more."
"Eat slowly in a while." He Yangxuan turned back to set the shrimp plate.
"I can't eat spicy food." Grandpa raised his voice.
He Yangxuan who entered the kitchen replied: "I prepared two dipping plates, yours is not spicy."
After choosing the program, the stew over there is almost ready.Put a big table in the living room and connect the laptop to the big TV.
He Yangxuan put the dumplings into the pot, cooked them, fished them out and took out three plates, Lin Qian went out to light the firecrackers, grandpa pressed the play button on the TV, and the family went to another Spring Festival with "Spring Festival Gala".
On the third day of the new year, Lin Qian called the army and explained his intention to adopt a child.
These days, there are many families who have lost their children, but there are also many orphans who have lost their parents.Some parents are really gone, while others are abandoned by their parents.In the good times before, there were many abandoned babies, not to mention the difficult world now.
In fact, in this world, there are quite a few people who want to adopt children, and the government is also very supportive.But the prerequisite for this support is very strict, that is, the family who wants to adopt a child must have good enough living conditions.
Only this one, 80.00% of people in today's society are not qualified.
In addition to family conditions, the purpose of raising children must also be clarified.It is impossible for those who are obviously looking after themselves to raise children to be adopted successfully.
The government now protects children much more than it did before the end of the world.After the end of the world, the population has been greatly reduced. Children are the hope of the future, and even more the hope of the country. The country will spend a lot of money to bring them up.
Lin Qian made a call here, but the other party just hung up after a brief understanding. Five minutes later, another call came in, asking and understanding in detail about Lin Qian's adoption of a child.
Lin Qian talked patiently for more than half an hour. Except for what he couldn't say, he almost got his family's background clean.Of course, he did not hide his relationship with He Yangxuan.
Hearing that Lin Qian was from a gay family, the other party was a little silent, and finally gave the answer that there would be a meeting to discuss and asked Lin Qian to wait for a reply.
They would consider it because of Lin Qian's special situation, which was within Lin Qian's expectation.This is the end of the world. If it was in the past, Lin Qian would have rejected him the moment he reported that he was gay.
It's just that the post-apocalyptic situation is special, and relatively speaking, the death rate of women is higher than that of men. It is justifiable to find a same-sex partner.Moreover, Lin Qian's family's conditions were perfect, at least in terms of economic and environmental conditions, it was no problem to raise children.
Lin Qian waited for three full days, and only received a reply on the sixth day of the Lunar New Year, giving Lin Qian an address so that he would have time to come over for a detailed negotiation.If it is determined that there is no problem after meeting and talking, after signing a series of documents, you can choose to take the child away.
The address is in the city.In fact, the two of them are not very familiar with the terrain here.
Opening the electronic map downloaded earlier, the two studied the route for half a day before deciding on a route.
Judging by their attitudes, this matter is considered a one-off, and the family should be prepared accordingly.And even if they are not allowed to adopt over there, it is not bad to adopt children these days.
The reason why Lin Qian chose to take the official route was that his background was clear and upright, and he was not afraid of adopting abducted children.The second is that I am afraid that the child adopted nearby will be related to the child's original family, and then there will be some troubles.
Lin Qian is not the kind of person who said "Although I raised you, I support you in finding your biological parents who abandoned you, and I don't even object to you returning to them".He himself is a "unfeeling" person, let alone raising a child for others and sending it back with both hands.As long as it is determined that the child was abandoned, it is the water thrown by the thrown child, and there is no room for repentance.
So what Lin Qian wanted was to adopt the child from the government, and the news of the end times was blocked. Even if he was raised and let the child inherit the family property, he was not afraid that the child would bring back the things he had worked hard all his life to honor his own family.
To adopt a child, you still have to support it from an early age.As the saying goes, three years old is old, Lin Qian's psychological goal is to have a child around one year old, who has just been weaned and has just started to learn to speak.
The target is two children, one Ya and one small.There were originally three bedrooms in the building, two of which were upstairs.The bedrooms upstairs are warmer and more suitable for children.
So Lin Qian and the two moved to the downstairs bedroom and organized the original bedroom into the children's bedroom.
There is no problem with food, and the ingredients at home are sufficient, so we need to prepare for clothing.Because there are very few things suitable for children in He Yangxuan's space.
After all, when He Yangxuan was preparing, he never thought that he would raise a child one day.
Grandpa is so smart, you can understand it in just two sentences.
"How is her daughter-in-law?" Grandpa changed the subject.
"good."
Grandpa raised his eyebrows: "Okay?"
"I'm not familiar with him, and I've only met twice until now, but I seem to be very active (active)." The word "active" can be understood as lively, but it can also be said to be dishonest.
"Your mother should be able to hold back. I'm not worried about your mother..." What grandpa was thinking in his heart was that Lin Qian's mother had that self-knowledge, so she wouldn't post it easily.But if her daughter-in-law couldn't figure out where she was, if she knew that Lin Qian liked men, she would instigate Lin Qian's younger brother to post it, or if she gave birth to a child and let her inherit the family property, it would be troublesome enough.
Grandpa said half of what he said, but Lin Qian didn't think about it, because he was thinking about another thing.
"Wenxuan and I were discussing on the way back, should our family raise a child?"
Grandpa stopped working and looked at the two of them carefully: "Have you two really thought about this?"
Lin Qian went over to make a deal with his grandfather: "We are not young anymore. The medical books you gave me and Wenxuan's jade pendants have to be passed on to someone else. We can't look for them when we are old. Our medical books are not available anyway. It will cause disaster, if Wenxuan's space falls into the hands of unworthy people, it will be a crime if they do something like murder and arson."
Grandpa nodded: "It's time to think so. But don't just think about finding an heir. If you really want to be a father, you have to look good. Think about how to be a father first. There is no woman in the family to help you. You have to learn how to be a father." There are a lot of things."
Lin Qian and He Yangxuan looked at each other.
If it is a normal couple, don't talk about other places, just say that in the village, in a family, the wife is the mother who looks after the children.In addition to making money, other things about raising children seem to be insulated from men.Although there are no absolutes, the environment here is like this.
Men and women think differently.How to raise children?How to teach children?Learn from the man next to you?But most of the teaching experience for children only exists in a few things such as amusing children, educating children and giving children money. Let them say how children eat, dress and play. He can't tell.Learn from women?It doesn't seem to be the case.
As soon as grandpa said this, it seemed that the two of them took the matter of raising children as simple.
"Then what do you think we should learn?" He Yangxuan asked.Grandpa did have a lot of experience as a father, and he raised Lin Qian so much by himself.
"Take your time." Grandpa stroked the leaves of the vegetable in his hand. "Before you become a father, you must first understand that your own children are different from those you see other people's children outside. If you don't say that your children are good, you can say that they are bastards." Just assholes, no matter how good a child is, there is a mischievous side, and no matter how naughty a child is, it is not hopeless. You two can be grandchildren, and the first thing you need to learn as a father is patience."
Although the two of them are old, they have always regarded themselves as juniors.When I saw a child, it belonged to someone else's family, so I passed away.When you meet a naughty child, you should clean up and tell the parents that there is rarely time to teach them patiently.
Lin Qian was still the same, it was okay to let him have rare children, but it was really troublesome for him to raise them by himself.
He himself doesn't like it very much, but if he raises the next generation with He Yangxuan, he doesn't hate it, and he will learn to be a good parent.
"Learn slowly." Lin Qian said with a smile, "There are only those who will be grandchildren from birth, how can they be fathers from birth?"
Grandpa knocked Lin Qian on the head: "You know a lot."
Lin Qian dodged for a while.
Both grandpa and grandson were right.Don't be afraid that you won't, as long as you are willing to learn and put your heart into it, and don't get into a dead end, then you won't fail too much.
It's another Spring Festival.
It was steaming hot in the kitchen.Grandpa took the spoon, Lin Qian cut the pie, and He Yangxuan made a cold dish and made dumpling fillings.
The sun is setting outside, and the visibility is gradually decreasing.
No matter how economical people are, this night will be extravagant.
In addition to the candles, there were also pieces of turpentine wood bought from Lin Qian's house.Order a few more, and the table is brightly lit.
There is no need to worry about the visibility of Lin Qian's house. At this time, it is rare for a family of three to get busy preparing a meal.
Because the productivity is not increasing, the electricity here has been unable to repair.And even if it is repaired, it will soon be damaged due to extreme weather, and it is already unable to bear the loss.Therefore, except for some parts of the city that are still providing electricity, the remaining places are basically cut off.
There are windmills for wind power generation near some areas, and the electricity generated is also used by nearby residents.
There is no one near Lin Qian's house. If you want to use electricity, only those with a generator like Lin Qian's house can afford such a luxury.
The dishes that need to be stewed for a long time are basically put into the pot, and the remaining stir-fried and mixed vegetables have been prepared.
Grandpa and Lin Qian stood in front of the computer, choosing which programs to watch later.In previous years, I would directly pick out my favorite Spring Festival Gala to watch the rebroadcast. This year, I only pick out my favorite programs and put them in a playlist. I want to watch whichever one I want to watch.
There are so many classics in previous years, the grandpa and grandson are really a little confused.
He Yangxuan prepared the shrimp dipping sauce, peeled a shrimp, dipped it in the dipping sauce, and stuffed it for Lin Qian.
Lin Qian bit the shrimp meat into his mouth, covered his mouth and closed his eyes for two seconds, then said after two seconds, "How much mustard do you put in!"
"A little mustard oil. How about it?"
"Exciting." Lin Qian chewed and swallowed the shrimp meat, "Give me two more."
"Eat slowly in a while." He Yangxuan turned back to set the shrimp plate.
"I can't eat spicy food." Grandpa raised his voice.
He Yangxuan who entered the kitchen replied: "I prepared two dipping plates, yours is not spicy."
After choosing the program, the stew over there is almost ready.Put a big table in the living room and connect the laptop to the big TV.
He Yangxuan put the dumplings into the pot, cooked them, fished them out and took out three plates, Lin Qian went out to light the firecrackers, grandpa pressed the play button on the TV, and the family went to another Spring Festival with "Spring Festival Gala".
On the third day of the new year, Lin Qian called the army and explained his intention to adopt a child.
These days, there are many families who have lost their children, but there are also many orphans who have lost their parents.Some parents are really gone, while others are abandoned by their parents.In the good times before, there were many abandoned babies, not to mention the difficult world now.
In fact, in this world, there are quite a few people who want to adopt children, and the government is also very supportive.But the prerequisite for this support is very strict, that is, the family who wants to adopt a child must have good enough living conditions.
Only this one, 80.00% of people in today's society are not qualified.
In addition to family conditions, the purpose of raising children must also be clarified.It is impossible for those who are obviously looking after themselves to raise children to be adopted successfully.
The government now protects children much more than it did before the end of the world.After the end of the world, the population has been greatly reduced. Children are the hope of the future, and even more the hope of the country. The country will spend a lot of money to bring them up.
Lin Qian made a call here, but the other party just hung up after a brief understanding. Five minutes later, another call came in, asking and understanding in detail about Lin Qian's adoption of a child.
Lin Qian talked patiently for more than half an hour. Except for what he couldn't say, he almost got his family's background clean.Of course, he did not hide his relationship with He Yangxuan.
Hearing that Lin Qian was from a gay family, the other party was a little silent, and finally gave the answer that there would be a meeting to discuss and asked Lin Qian to wait for a reply.
They would consider it because of Lin Qian's special situation, which was within Lin Qian's expectation.This is the end of the world. If it was in the past, Lin Qian would have rejected him the moment he reported that he was gay.
It's just that the post-apocalyptic situation is special, and relatively speaking, the death rate of women is higher than that of men. It is justifiable to find a same-sex partner.Moreover, Lin Qian's family's conditions were perfect, at least in terms of economic and environmental conditions, it was no problem to raise children.
Lin Qian waited for three full days, and only received a reply on the sixth day of the Lunar New Year, giving Lin Qian an address so that he would have time to come over for a detailed negotiation.If it is determined that there is no problem after meeting and talking, after signing a series of documents, you can choose to take the child away.
The address is in the city.In fact, the two of them are not very familiar with the terrain here.
Opening the electronic map downloaded earlier, the two studied the route for half a day before deciding on a route.
Judging by their attitudes, this matter is considered a one-off, and the family should be prepared accordingly.And even if they are not allowed to adopt over there, it is not bad to adopt children these days.
The reason why Lin Qian chose to take the official route was that his background was clear and upright, and he was not afraid of adopting abducted children.The second is that I am afraid that the child adopted nearby will be related to the child's original family, and then there will be some troubles.
Lin Qian is not the kind of person who said "Although I raised you, I support you in finding your biological parents who abandoned you, and I don't even object to you returning to them".He himself is a "unfeeling" person, let alone raising a child for others and sending it back with both hands.As long as it is determined that the child was abandoned, it is the water thrown by the thrown child, and there is no room for repentance.
So what Lin Qian wanted was to adopt the child from the government, and the news of the end times was blocked. Even if he was raised and let the child inherit the family property, he was not afraid that the child would bring back the things he had worked hard all his life to honor his own family.
To adopt a child, you still have to support it from an early age.As the saying goes, three years old is old, Lin Qian's psychological goal is to have a child around one year old, who has just been weaned and has just started to learn to speak.
The target is two children, one Ya and one small.There were originally three bedrooms in the building, two of which were upstairs.The bedrooms upstairs are warmer and more suitable for children.
So Lin Qian and the two moved to the downstairs bedroom and organized the original bedroom into the children's bedroom.
There is no problem with food, and the ingredients at home are sufficient, so we need to prepare for clothing.Because there are very few things suitable for children in He Yangxuan's space.
After all, when He Yangxuan was preparing, he never thought that he would raise a child one day.
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