Raising children in an ancient county

"Brother Shuo, today! One day! Get rid of the cost, one or two plus six hundred Wen!" Qiao Shen almost wanted to scream excitedly.

"Tired?" Qi Shuo walked over and sat next to Qiao Shen, took Qiao Shen's hand, and rubbed Qiao Shen's shoulder with the other hand.

"If you're not tired, how can you be tired if you make money?" Qiao Shen was delighted.

"Why do you like making money so much?" Qi Shuo laughed because of Qiao Shen's infection.

"It's great to make money. In the future, we will always be happy to eat whatever we want, go to a private school, live in a big courtyard..." Qiao Shen gestured to the big courtyard, thought for a while, and added: "I'm not tired, Since we live together, how can we put the burden of life on you alone? You can suffer, but I don't want you to suffer, I am also a man. "

When Qi Shuo heard Qiao Shen's reluctance, he was already very moved. He didn't expect that Qiao Shen would feel sorry for him. He is a man.

Since ancient times, a man has married and established a business. As the pillar of the family, he has to take on the burden of supporting the family. In order to make the family eat well and dress warmly, he works every day. How can he have time to ask himself, are you tired?

Qi Shuo glanced at his son, taking advantage of Xiao Changle's lowered head, playing with the coin.Holding Qiao Shen in his arms, he couldn't say anything too nasty, and he couldn't express it, he just said, "I'm not bitter."

"And you can earn a lot of money, but if you work non-stop, Chang Le will not have a sense of security in his childhood without his father's company." Qiao Shen let him hold him obediently, and said softly.

When Xiao Changle heard her father calling her name, she raised her head, and seeing her father hugging her in a ball, he also came over.

"Sense of security?" Qi Shuo asked, he often heard Qiao Shen say some strange remarks, it was not surprising, but he liked to ask questions and listen to Qiao Shen's explanation.

Qiao Shen picked up Xiao Changle and placed it between the two of them. Little Changle sat half on his father's lap and half on his father's lap. He spread his two little meaty legs and swayed his feet.

Qiao Shen continued: "That's right, don't look down on children, they are born with a kind of admiration for their tall and stalwart father. This tall and tall father played with him, grew up with him, and prevented outsiders from bullying him. Only then can we have confidence in our hearts and have the courage to venture out.”

"This is the process of a child's healthy growth. Don't think that if you don't get sick, you are healthy. Mental health is very important."

Qi Shuo liked hearing Qiao Shen's views on raising sons very much. These were things he had never heard from anyone, not even from his mother.

Qi Shuo remembered that when he was mischievous when he was a child, Qi's father went back and beat him up. He was very sad at the time, but it was ridiculous to say that when he was bullied by an older child, he dared to hit him back with his fists raised.

Naturally, a child can't beat an older child, with a huge difference in size and strength, but he still charged forward. At that time, he thought in his heart, if I really can't beat him, I still have a father, and it hurts when my father hits me.

Childish thoughts are always laughable, so he doesn't get bullied anymore because he'll fight back.When he grew up, he dared to venture out, and his master carpenter said that he was courageous, courageous and resourceful.

"So, you, you can't always keep your head down and work hard. You have to raise your head to see Changle. You have to influence your son by getting along with your responsibility and reliability bit by bit. My Changle Le, I want him to be a calm and reliable man like you who loves his family and takes responsibility." After speaking, Qiao deeply touched Qi Shuo's face.

"Okay." Qi Shuo hugged Qiao Shen and Xiao Changle tightly.

Since then, when Qi Shuo returned to the yard, he would always accompany his son first, spending time observing Xiao Changle, getting to know Xiao Changle, and guiding Xiao Changle.

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After the two had a heart-to-heart chat, Qiao Shen put away the money. Although it seems that it is not enough to sell today, it may be that the common people are not interested in it for a while, so Qiao Shen decided to wait a few more days before planning to increase the amount.

After a busy day, he was tired and hungry. With his cute and tender appearance, Xiao Changle managed to get a full stomach in the shop, rubbing against the diners in the shop, and eating the delicacies made by his father.

Under his own eyes, Qiao Shen was very relieved. A child could not just be a flower in a greenhouse. A person spends his whole life dealing with people. He often encouraged Xiao Changle to take the initiative to contact people other than his family.

The adults joked in good faith, if anyone has no appetite, go to Qiaoji Braised Meat, the youngest son of the shopkeeper Qiao can accompany the meal, you are guaranteed to go, and your appetite will be whetted.

The shop door was locked early, and the two of them couldn't wait to go back to cook, so they simply took Xiao Changle to the restaurant.

Sitting down and chatting while eating, Qiao Shen said: "You can build a simple stove at the back door. Preserved chicken is common and not very easy to sell. I plan to cook some preserved chicken every day. Today everyone says the rice is delicious. It can also be regarded as an option for diners to add a staple food, Brother Shuo, what do you think?"

"Okay, I'll call the workers to do it tomorrow," Qi Shuo also helped.

"I'll make some sesame seed cakes, and I'll eat them in the shop later, and I'll have rice."

"Okay, I'll knead the dough for you tonight." Qi Shuo was very strong, and the kneaded dough was made into biscuits, which Qiao Shen especially loved.

The two husbands and wives had a lot to discuss, and they both felt relieved about the business income of the shop.

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Qiao Ji Lo-Mei opened smoothly and operates steadily every day. Qiao Shen's greatest pleasure after closing every night is counting money.

At noon that day, Li Lixuan brought Yong Yuan to Qiao Ji Braised Meat.Qiao Shen hurriedly welcomed the people in. It turned out that Li Lixuan's family went back to the village to pay homage to the festival a few days ago during the Cold Clothes Festival.

The Cold Clothes Festival is also called the Ancestor Worship Festival, and this day marks the coming of severe winter, so people commemorate their relatives who passed away in this way.

"Brother-in-law, you are welcome. Yongyuan has eaten at home. No, it will be the next Yuan Festival soon. I will take him back to buy some glutinous rice and tofu." When Qiao Shen opened, Li Lixuan was not in town when he returned home. As soon as he came back, he hurried to congratulate Qiao Shen. He had just said some auspicious words, and when he saw that Qiao Shen had filled a plate full of lo-mei for Yong Yuan, he hurriedly stopped him.

"You're welcome, it's just some snacks. I'm happy that you can bring Yongyuan more. Yongyuan, you can take whatever you like, and I'll make it for you after eating." Qiao Shen asked Xiao Changle to accompany him Yong Yuan ate together, seeing how delicious Chang Le's brother was eating, Yong Yuan couldn't resist the temptation, and gnawed on the chicken legs.

Qiao Shen saw that the two children were eating, so he continued to ask Li Lixuan curiously: "Xiayuan Festival? Why buy glutinous rice and tofu?"

"You, are you confused because you are busy with the shop? Grind glutinous rice flour and wrap tofu, and make it a feast for the god of the furnace."

October [-]th of the lunar calendar is the Xiayuan Festival, commonly known as "October and a half, Qianlong Tuanzi Zhai Sanguan".It refers to the blessings given by the heavenly officials, the forgiveness of sins by the earthly officials, and the relief of disasters by the water officials.

The Xiayuan Festival is the harvest season in the countryside. People use glutinous rice to grind it into flour and make it into noodles to wrap green vegetables and tofu.

The two chatted again, and Li Lixuan left with Yongyuan. Before leaving, Qiao Shen wrapped some braised meat in oiled paper and asked Yongyuan to take it back to eat.

Closing the shop was a bit late today, so Qiao Shen thought about going to buy glutinous rice the next morning, counting the money, and waiting for Qi Shuo to pick him up with Xiao Changle, then put out the fire and closed the shop door, and went back to the yard .

Little Chang Le held his father with his left hand, and his father with his right hand. After walking two steps, he raised his legs, and the two fathers lifted him up and walked two steps. Then, the family of three returned to the yard while playing.

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"Go, go and cling to your father." Qiao Shen pushed Xiao Changle out of the kitchen. He really had seen enough of this little troublemaker this day.

"Father, swoosh..." Xiao Changle was also straightforward, you push this way, I go that way, and then raised her short legs and moved in front of his father to hug him.

'Xuxiu' is a small game that Xiao Changle can only play with his father, because his father is useless and has no strength.In this game, Qi Shuo hugged him, threw him up, and then caught him. This feeling of weightlessness made Xiao Chang happy.

"Then you take the dirty clothes and put them in the basin. If you help daddy, daddy will reward 'xiuxiu. Ability, my son speaks late, so it's not because of his hands-on ability.

Little Chang Le pursed her mouth in displeasure, hugging her father's leg like a pendant, sitting on her father's instep, humming and acting coquettishly, trying to pass the test with cuteness.

"Huh?" Qi Shuo was not used to it either, he put his hands on his chest, and relaxed his body swaying with his son's movements.

"Hey ... Dad ... …… ... Woo ..." Qiao Shen found that Xiao Changle was particularly clever, his logical thinking ability was simply against the sky, and he didn't know who it was.

If you ask him to do something, give him a reward. The first time he knows that he needs to be rewarded first, and then do things for you.But Xiao Changle followed his father Qi Shuo and kept his word. As long as you reward him, he will definitely do something.

Seeing Xiao Changle's flattering face and smiling softly at him with his face held high, Qi Shuo compromised.In the posture of Xiao Changle hugging his legs and hanging on his feet, Qi Shuo lifted his legs resignedly, pinched Xiao Changle's armpit, and hugged him vigorously and placed him across his arms.

Little Changle bumped his arm, threw his son up with all his strength, and then caught him firmly again, and Xiao Changle laughed shrilly hahaha.

Hearing the shrieking laughter, Qiao Shen, who was making dinner, went to the door of the kitchen to have a look, and went back as usual.Qiao Shen has already experienced Qi Shuo's strength and endurance every night after Xiao Changle fell asleep, so he puts 120 hearts on it.

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