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Prehistoric Forum - Parent-child Edition

【Topic】For help, should we implement happiness education?

[Content] My baby is three and a half years old, and my child's father and I wanted to give him a happy education at the beginning without putting too much pressure on him.But recently, I found that he is far behind in all aspects compared with children of the same age. Other children can recite poems fluently, but my baby stutters even when he speaks.I'm afraid that if this goes on, the child will be adopted and abandoned. Dear mothers, should I continue to educate happily?

1L: Thousands!Ten thousand!Don't!Landlord, don’t look at the poisonous chicken soup of happy education!Let me tell you from the blood and tears experience of those who have been here, that happy education is deceptive. As long as it is education, it will not be happy. If you want your child to become a talent, you must start from an early age!

2L: I dare not agree with the views above.Happy education is not the same as waste education. I grew up under happy education, and I am doing well now.On the other hand, those friends who grew up under the high-pressure education of their parents, some of them have a psychological shadow on their studies and are very unhappy.

3L: If I were a child, I would hope that my parents would educate me happily.But if I were a parent, I would not educate my children happily.

4L: Happiness education... I suddenly thought of a certain boss who is famous for his happiness education. He should be regarded as the originator of the prehistoric concept of happiness education...

5L: I vaguely guessed who the boss is talking about... One thing to say, this boss is good everywhere, but the way of education is too casual...

6L: In fact, the master also realized this problem later, right?I remember that there was a period when he was quite strict with his apprentices.The effect is also obvious. It is said that many disciples made rapid progress at that time.

***

The quality of apprentices is uneven, most of them are wet-born eggs with scales and armor, and they can't get on the stage.This is a point that Tongtian has been criticized by Yuan Shi for a long time.Although he himself pursues teaching without discrimination, and does not value the background of his disciples, he is always unhappy when he is said too much.

What's more, what Yuanshi said is really true, many of his disciples can't even transform themselves clearly.Every time when the Penglai Conference is held, the twelve golden immortals at Yuanshi's side are all graceful and elegant, while on his side, flying in the sky, running on the ground, swimming in the water, and the noise is really shabby. .

Due to his personality, Tongtian doesn't like to force his apprentices to cultivate.What he implements is happy education. If the disciples want to make progress, he will teach them all. If they are not interested in learning, he will not engage in high-pressure policies.In this way, the disciples are even more lazy.

Going on like this is not an option, Tong Tian decided to take this opportunity to beat them up.

At least you have to master the transformation!Thinking of those apprentices who dragged their tails or used to walk on four legs, Tong Tian had a headache.

Alas, it's better to be a boater.He was born with a Taoist body, so he didn't have to worry about it at all.

***

After Fang Ritu learned the bad news from Xinyuehu, he was frightened and cried on the spot.

"Fox, what do you think I should do?" Fang Ritu tugged on Xinyuehu's Taoist robe and cried, his red rabbit eyes were full of tears, and the rabbit ears on his head were drooping listlessly, looking lifeless. Lovely expression.

Fang Ritu is also a disciple of Tongtian, unfortunately, he is one of the disciples that Tongtian said "can't change form".

Fang Ritu has been getting started for a while, and his fellow students such as Xinyue, Fox, Xing, Rima and others have successfully transformed from the main body to the Tao body, but he can't find the trick. Dragging a furry rabbit tail means keeping two long ears.

It's not that he doesn't want to practice or that his aptitude is not good, the main reason is that he has the common problem of the rabbit family - too timid.Every time there is a disturbance, I hide in the rabbit's nest in fear and dare not come out. I am worried all day long. It is strange to be able to calm down and practice like this.

Seeing that all the friends around him were successfully transformed one after another, but he was unable to transform for a long time, Fang Ritu was also very anxious, but the more anxious he was, the harder it was for him to concentrate on practicing, thus forming a vicious circle.

Xinyuehu is a good friend of Fang Ritu's. Back then, the two of them worshiped under the Tongtian sect almost in tandem, and they would exchange their cultivation experience together from time to time.Unlike Fang Ritu, Xinyuehu was one of the first disciples of their class to successfully transform.In front of such an excellent friend, Fang Ritu felt even more inferior.

"Fox, do you think I'm particularly useless..." Fang Ritu cried out of breath.

Xinyuehu skillfully took out a handkerchief to wipe away the tears on Fang Ritu's face, and comforted him: "Rabbit, don't worry. In fact, your cultivation is not bad, but you are too nervous."

Fang Ritu’s desire for a smooth transformation has almost become a kind of demon. Even if he can memorize the steps and principles of the fluid transformation backwards, he gets full marks in every theoretical test. When it comes to the practical part, he is challenged by various psychological reasons such as nervousness, panic and fear. fail.

"I remember you almost transformed into form last time?" Xinyuehu encouraged him, "If you work harder, you will definitely succeed!"

"I tried it, but it still doesn't work..." Fang Ritu was sobbing, not looking energetic. "I have worked very hard, but every time I miss it!"

"This..." Xinyuehu had no choice.Fang Ritu's main problem is nervousness and lack of self-confidence. This is a psychological factor. No matter how resourceful he is, he can't think of a better way.

"Why don't I give you my spiritual knowledge!" Xinyuehu made up his mind, and handed the spiritual knowledge he had just received to Xinyuehu, a pair of long and narrow fox eyes flashed a trace of reluctance.

"This is yours, I don't want it." Fang Ritu glanced enviously at Lingshentong, but still shook his head and refused.He knew how much Xinyuehu wanted to get a spiritual power, and he had been particularly active in the Leiyu operation before.

Xinyuehu had no choice but to go to Zhao Gongming for countermeasures.

"Fox, why are you here?" Zhao Gongming likes to deal with smart people, and he has always admired this smart and smart junior, and warmly entertained him, "It just so happens that Junior Brother Zhou just sent the small green vegetables he grew himself, and you also Come and taste."

Xinyuehu was not interested in delicious food, so he asked Zhao Gongming seriously: "Brother Zhao, do you know any way to overcome the demons in your heart?"

Zhao Gongming also had no idea, but he knew that someone might have a solution.

……

"Psychological barrier?" Liu Shuzhou frowned slightly, and under Xinyuehu's expectant gaze, he finally said, "I'll try my best."

"Thank you, Senior Brother Zhou!" Xinyuehu was overjoyed, and said in his heart that no wonder everyone likes Senior Brother Zhou, he is so nice and approachable, and extremely smart, he is like Penglai... No, Honghuang is the best!

***

"Rabbit, look what good things I brought you!" Xinyuehu shook the wine jar in his hand, "Brother Zhou made the wine himself!"

Nowadays, wine-making technology is no secret in Penglai Island. Coupled with the promotion of farming, both fruit wine and grain wine are very common.But for some reason, the wine made by Liu Shuzhou has a special taste, which is incomparable to other wines, and he can often come up with new ideas to make wine with different tastes, so the wine made by himself is still very popular. welcome.

Fang Ritu was in a depressed mood, but when he heard this, he just glanced at it lightly, and said in a low mood, "Oh."

Seeing his mournful appearance, Xinyuehu gave a "thud" in his heart, but he didn't back down, and continued to emphasize excitedly: "This is a new variety brewed by Senior Brother Zhou himself! I remember that you have always wanted to taste the rabbit. ?"

Fang Ritu looked at the sky melancholy: "But I want to change form even more."

Xinyuehu: "..." It's over, it seems that this incident has hit the rabbit hard.

Xinyuehu is not one to give up easily, he cheered up, opened the wine jar, poured a big cup full of Fang Ritu into his hand, and said involuntarily: "Brother Zhou said, this wine It must be drunk immediately after opening, otherwise it will affect the quality of the wine."

Fang Ri Rabbit is in the trough of rabbit life, and the whole rabbit is absent-minded and out of mind, so it doesn't shirk, and drinks it with its head up.

The clear wine enters the throat, and wherever it passes, there is a feeling of being burned, but it is not annoying, but the taste of the wine is more mellow and lingering.Fang Ritu came back to his senses immediately, staring blankly at the empty cup in his hand: "This is..."

"Haven't you ever drank it?" Xinyuehu blinked at him, "This is a new wine developed by Senior Brother Zhou. It is said to be Erguotou."

Once the taste is opened, it is difficult to stop, and it is a good wine that everyone in Penglai Island loves to drink.Xinyuehu observed the words and expressions, saw the anticipation on Fang Ritu's face, and asked with a smile: "Do you still want to drink?"

"Yeah!" Fang Ritu nodded sharply, then hesitated again, "Is it okay?"

"What's wrong?" Xinyuehu smiled, poured another full glass for Fang Ritu, and said generously, "Drink it boldly, I have plenty of wine!"

Yun Xiao, who was watching this scene in front of the Shuiyue Mirror, curled his lips: "The fox is really cunning, this wine was obviously given by you, senior brother, but he used it as a favor."

Liu Shuzhou shook his head with a smile, and defended Xinyuehu: "Brother Fang Ri is timid by nature, if Junior Brother Xinyue hadn't brought him wine, he wouldn't have drunk it easily."

"Junior Brother Zhou, do you think this wine can really help Junior Brother Fang Ri transform smoothly?" Bi Xiao blinked and asked curiously.

"Nothing is absolute, but how do you know if it will work if you don't try it?" Liu Shuzhou asked back, "Do you know that there is a saying called 'the wine is strong and the rabbit is brave'?"

"What do you mean?" How many people looked at each other?

Liu Shuzhou showed a mysterious smile: "I'll find out later."

In order to give Fang Ritu a strong dose of medicine, he even took out that thing. God bless, Fang Ritu happens to belong to the type of person whose personality is completely different after drinking before drinking.

On the other side of the Shuiyue mirror, Xinyuehu's persuasion is still going on.

There was less and less wine in the wine jar, Xinyuehu didn't dare to drink too much because he wanted to complete the task, most of it went into Fang Ritu's belly.

Fang Ritu's originally white skin was stained with rouge, and his eyes became more and more blurred, but his emotions became more and more elevated.

With a sound of "boom", he put the wine glass heavily on the table.

The highly nervous Xinyue Fox was startled, his hands shook, and a little of the wine in the wine jar spilled out.

"Fox!" Before Xinyuehu could wipe off the wine stained on his sleeves, Fang Ritu grabbed his hand. He raised his head and met a pair of familiar but unfamiliar eyes.

"Rabbit?" Xinyuehu didn't dare to withdraw her hand, and tentatively asked.