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"He likes a child very much and wants to play with him. He will do whatever the child does. Let the two children be together. Will this help his recovery?"

Mother Jiang asked the question when she saw the expert.

The expert was very gentle and shook his head with a smile.

"He is imitating, which will obliterate the original character of this child. Every child is independent and has his own personality. He obliterates that part of his personality and becomes another person completely. This is not conducive to He recovers. After a long time, he becomes someone else. That child has his own life, and it is impossible to accompany him every day. Once he loses the object of imitation, or he cannot imitate, he will be at a loss, and he will be at a loss for this world and others. People are more fearful and close themselves off."

This made Jiang's mother very disappointed. She thought that if Jiang Ling lived with Li Yiyue day and night, Jiang Ling would be able to speak and become lively and mischievous like Li Yiyue.In this way, Jiang Ling can be taken care of by Jiang Ya, and they only need to come and see regularly.

Li Huaiqing's family is rich, Jiang Ya is Jiang Ling's eldest brother, Li Yiyue can still help Jiang Ling, it is best to keep Jiang Ling here.No matter which aspect you think about it is good.They were also relieved easily.

"Parents must be patient, and tell him over and over again, don't yell, curse, or beat your child when he is yelling or rebellious and ignores you. This will scare him. Do everything with him. He said that if he didn’t understand, he said it slowly, this is a very long process, and the cooperation of parents is the most critical.”

It is estimated that Jiang's parents can't do this, the children didn't quarrel, they quarreled first.

"Actually, Dr. Yang in your city is also very good in this area. I have read his treatment plan, and it is very good. Let the children do more, learn to think, and play with other children. Parents are patient. This is not the case. It really takes a long time for a disease to be cured by medicine, and it may not be effective. Parents should not be impatient, but also be mentally prepared. By the way, don’t give your child random medicine. He is not sick physically, it is a psychological problem , Taking medicine indiscriminately is not good for children’s health.”

When the expert said this, Mother Jiang bowed her head in embarrassment.

When Jiang Ya saw it, she definitely gave Jiang Ling something she shouldn't have eaten.

"What did you feed him?"

"No, nothing, just, just, little tadpole."

Li Huaiqing almost gasped, what kind of feudal ignorance is this?

"I'm looking for a jump master, saying that this child is born with a lack of soul and mental retardation, so eat some tadpoles, scorpion centipede ten-year-old insect skins, etc. They are not eaten raw, they are boiled and mixed with talisman water. "

"Let's take Jiang Ling for an examination to see if there are any parasites in his body."

Li Huaiqing finally understood why Jiang Ya said that he liked a boy, but his family objected so much, and kicked him out of the house by beating and abusing him.With such ignorant thinking, it is not easy to raise a child.

Make Jiang Ya so angry, and say he didn't eat it raw?Can that thing be eaten?

I went to another hospital to check Jiang Ling. Jiang Ya moved quickly, running and bumping again and again. Li Huaiqing pulled Jiang Ling to follow, checked the stomach and blood, and Jiang Ling leaned to the side, indifferent to the outside world, with big eyes. Looking somewhere, Jiang Ya's parents were at a loss and didn't know what to do.

Li Huaiqing pulled Jiang Ling to his side, which felt a little strange. According to his seniority, this was his brother-in-law, but he was one year younger than his own son, so he didn't speak.

Li Huaiqing stroked his little hand, Jiang Ling looked good-looking, much better than Jiang Ya, but he didn't have Jiang Ya's vigor.

"Brother-in-law will build you a boat."

When Li Huaiqing said this, he laughed out loud.

Brother-in-law?Well, yes, this identity is very good.

He took out one of the many lists in his hand and folded a small boat. This was a little game that Li Yiyue made Li Yiyue happy when he was very young. Folding paper boats and putting a basin of water, Li Yiyue could play all afternoon.

Jiang Ling was attracted by the small paper boat, holding it in her hand and looking at it repeatedly.

"Brother-in-law will teach you."

Li Huaiqing took out two more slips, handed one to Jiang Ling, and shook the slip in front of Jiang Ling's eyes to attract his attention, so that Jiang Ling's eyes fell on the paper in his hand, and folded it in half.

Jiang Ling looked at it for a while, and followed suit.

Li Huaiqing felt that if the child was properly guided, he could really recover. Even if he was shy and unwilling to communicate with others, at least the daily conversation would be fine, but why didn't it work?This has been in treatment for several months.

"You have played all the checklists, what do you do when you use them?"

Father Jiang snatched it up.

Mother Jiang immediately quarreled with Father Jiang.No matter whether it is in the hospital or not, the quarrel is particularly fierce, blaming each other, and blaming each other.

Jiang Ling looked at them, her eyes lost her spirit again, and she leaned against the wall, repeating his movements, kicking the wall with her toes.

Li Huaiqing sighed.

In fact, this kind of child is really pitiful. Adults can't understand their world. What he sees and hears is only a very small world, and he can't get out and others can't get in.

So the doctor basically just said, be patient.

But what his parents lack most is patience.

Why don't you stay and raise him by your side, maybe this child will really improve.

It can't be said that he is malnourished, but this child is stunted, one year behind, a head shorter than Li Yiyue, thin and small.After getting back the inspection form, Jiang Ya lashed out at his mother.

What should I do if I feed my children everything?Is that what people eat?Feudal ignorance, listening and believing, don't wait until the autism is not cured, and then die because of food poisoning!Keep saying that you are good to him, is that good?Poisonous or not poisonous poured into the mouth?Why don't you eat it?What are you talking about eating frog tadpoles, not toady tadpoles?That sounds disgusting!

Li Huaiqing was pulling him aside to stop him bombarding his mother like a machine gun, Jiang Yaqi's face turned pale, and the good boy was spoiled by them.

Angry enough, seeing that the time was still early, I took them around the center of the city to buy some clothes and toys for Jiang Ling.

Like Jiang Yaqi, she swiped her card dry, then went to Li Huaiqing's wallet, took out the card and continued to swipe, Li Huaiqing was very satisfied with his unobtrusive behavior, just swipe, I am your husband, I will spend money for you of.

It's just duplicity, hard mouth and soft heart, and I don't like what I say, and I bought a lot of things for Jiang Ling.I bought two of some fresh ones, and Li Yiyue also had them.

After returning, Jiang Ya took out all the clothes bought for the two children, cut off the labels, and prepared to throw them into the washing machine for washing first.Jiang Ling's clothes were also dirty, so she wanted to wash them together.

Aunt Zheng wanted to take her away to help wash, but Jiang Ya refused, why is his own brother bothering others, he rolled up his sleeves and went to Jiang Ling, asking him to change clothes.

After looking around, I found Jiang Ling squatting at Li Yiyue's door, just squatting here, shrinking into a small group.

Jiang Ya squatted beside him, stroking his hair, but Jiang Ling didn't even look at Jiang Ya.

"Where are your parents? Jiang Ling."

"The old man and the old lady said they were tired and went back to the house to rest."

Uncle Zheng explained.

"The young master is studying, and the child just squats here, neither crying nor fussing, and he doesn't even need a bench."

"They don't care about Jiang Ling when they are tired? Don't they know how to change his clothes?"

Jiang Ya is a little disgusted with his parents, and now he just let go and close his eyes and don't care about anything, just like having a brother, he doesn't need his parents anymore.Whose son is it?

"Get up and change your clothes. After a while, you will finish your studies. Let me take you to play, okay? Come and change your clothes."

Jiang Ya wanted to pull him up, and pulled the hem of the vest to help him take it off, but Jiang Ling turned her butt towards Jiang Ya from a different angle, and didn't move.

"Come and listen."

Jiang Ya was very patient, circling around Jiang Ling, persuading her with a good temper.

Jiang Ling didn't move. Li Huaiqing was standing at the door of the main room looking at this side, but when he realized that Jiang Ya couldn't handle it, he also came over and squatted in front of Jiang Ling.

"Get up, change your clothes, brother-in-law will teach you how to write."

Li Huaiqing stretched out his hand to Jiang Ling, and Jiang Ya slapped him on the palm and rolled his eyes at him.roll!

"Who is the brother-in-law? Who is the elder sister? I am your husband, you are Mrs. Jiang!"

Both Uncle Zheng and Li Huaiqing laughed out loud.

"Uncle!"

Li Huaiqing changed his words, and Jiang Yade burst out laughing.

That's more or less.

"Come on, get up! Let's go, let's write calligraphy."

Li Huaiqing doesn't think of him as his brother-in-law, younger than his own son, but he feels like he is an old son.

Coax him, otherwise it would be pitiful for him to squat here.

As soon as Li Huaiqing pulled him, Jiang Ling shook off Li Huaiqing's hand, and when Jiang Ya came to pull him, he screamed.

Jiang Ya's nerves jumped up again, and she screamed sharply, closing her eyes and opening her mouth as if sounding an alarm. He was terrified to hear it, and wanted to cover his mouth, but he couldn't touch him, and he would scream even louder.

Jiang Ya almost knelt on the ground, really, this feeling is too uncomfortable.The whole heart is tense, and all the nerves are throbbing and hurting.

"Stop yelling, stop yelling, I was wrong, okay, I was wrong!"

Jiang Ya wanted to shout and raised the volume.

Li Huaiqing pulled him up and pushed him away.

"Go back to the house. He yells at you and he will be more frightened and frightened if you get angry. Don't irritate him!"

Li Yiyue ran out of the study.

"What's the matter? Stop shouting, I'll give you candy!"

Li Yiyue stuffed a piece of candy into Jiang Ling's mouth, and Jiang Ling's screams stopped abruptly.

"Be obedient, don't bark, be good, I'll finish my homework in half an hour, and then I'll play with you. OK?"

Jiang Ling froze for a moment, and stopped talking again.

"Let's go, sit on the side obediently, wait for me, don't make a sound."

Jiang Ling seemed to have come to her senses this time, she was a few beats slower and nodded.

Li Yiyue dragged him into the study, Jiang Ya turned to look at the East Wing, his parents watched through the glass and did not come out.Finding Jiang Ya looking at them again, they collectively shrank their heads, pretending not to hear, pretending not to know, and just not coming out.

Back in their small living room, leaned back on the sofa, and covered his eyes with his hands.

"It hurts."

Li Huaiqing asked softly.

"I don't know him, and I can't understand him, but I heard him shouting, I,,,"

"It hurts."

Jiang Ya sniffed.

"Actually, this child didn't completely close himself up. When I waited for the result with him today, I found that he still had feelings for the outside world occasionally. It's just that your parents are too impatient. Why is he shouting? He is lack of language and learning ability. Weak, unable to express their own ideas, will shout, your parents' education method is not good. It will make this child more and more autistic."

"Also the way of education, I can die of anger with this series of ways of raising children! Now it's a big mess, they will be fine if they dump the children to me, and come here to hide and relax! I should take care of them Children, they lie down and rest!"

"Would you like to keep the child and try to spend half a year with us, maybe it will really change."

"Do you think it's feasible? I don't have any confidence at all."

Jiang Ya was very upset.He took the cigarette and lit it.

Li Huaiqing didn't like him smoking so much.Watch him take a few sips and take it to extinguish it.

"Don't look at the monk's face and the Buddha's face. I don't want to care about this child with the attitude of my parents. But, if it really works, it's okay to raise it for a few years. I don't ask him to achieve anything. He is a little shy and can communicate normally. Yes. But I don't think that's likely."

For the sake of the child, Jiang Ya didn't want to ruin the child's life, and raised him for a few years. Who made him a son? He would bear the sins of his parents.Even if Li Huaiqing was wronged a little, Li Huaiqing seemed to have no objection.

But the kid didn't accept him.

Li Yiyue finished his study and brought Jiang Ling out. Li Huaiqing whispered something in his son's ear, and Li Yiyue pulled Jiang Ling.

"Let's go write calligraphy."

Entering Li Huaiqing's study room, Li Huaiqing tidied up all the coffee tables, and put the brush and rice paper aside. Li Yiyue learned to write with a brush since he was very young. He picked up the brush and deliberately slowed down his movements to let Jiang Ling watch, and Jiang Ling also learned. Li Yiyue picked up the brush, and Li Huaiqing corrected his posture while holding the brush. Li Yiyue began to write with the brush, and Jiang Ling also started to write, but he had no foundation at all. When the ink fell on the rice paper, Jiang Ling took the brush. leave.

"Brother-in-law will teach you."

Li Huaiqing pulled Jiang Ling over and taught him hand in hand, that's how Li Yiyue taught him.

Jiang Ling tore the rice paper, dropped the inkstone, and broke the brush.

"Don't worry, I'll teach you."

Li Yiyue gave Jiang Ling his brush, and wanted to teach him by hand, but Jiang Ling broke the brush again and threw the inkstone on the ground, splashing ink everywhere.

He started screaming as soon as his eyes were closed.