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After Bei Song thought of this, he implemented it in the same way. When he came back these few days, whenever he was chatting with his mother, he always mentioned Song Jinyang in front of a family of mothers intentionally or unintentionally.

For example, when shopping for vegetables or fruits together, Beisong will also mention to his mother unintentionally which vegetables, fruits and vegetables Song Jinyang likes to eat, and Beisong also unabashedly shows his love for Song Jinyang look.

At first, Beisong's mother didn't think about anything else, and she was even relieved that it was a good thing that Beisong could get close to the elders.But after a few days like this, Beisong's mother gradually felt something was wrong, just as Beisong expected.

It seems that Beisong has far more trust in this respectable and amiable Professor Song than he trusts in others.Even the relationship between the two of them is likely to be far more than the teacher-student relationship or the friendship relationship.

But at this time, Beisong's mother still didn't think about the possibility that her son was gay. She just instinctively felt that something was wrong with her son, but she couldn't tell what was wrong.

But when she was facing Beisong, seeing Beisong calmly telling her everything about Song Jinyang in front of her, and frankly expressing his admiration for Song Jinyang, she couldn't open her mouth to tell her son Some harsh words that hurt him.

Beisong's mother held back these thoughts for several days, and finally she couldn't hold back and posted a topic asking for help on the Internet, hoping that enthusiastic netizens could help her solve the confusion in her heart.

Beisong's mother registered a trumpet and told about Beisong's father's early death on the Internet. These two mothers and sons have been dependent on each other all these years. Later, the child was admitted to university and was carefully taught and cared for by a young and promising teacher. Thanks to the kindness, her children have a strong dependence and admiration for this teacher. Whenever they chat, eight out of ten sentences in her children's mouths cannot be separated from this teacher.

Although she is very grateful to this gentleman for taking good care of her son at school, isn't the relationship between their teachers and students a bit too good?

The usual work of Beisong's mother is to write the company's planning copy, and occasionally help the leader write speeches and so on.

Her writing is good, and she is also good at expressing her point of view and expressing her emotions through words. Therefore, after she repeatedly thought about writing such a post asking for help, she soon received some enthusiastic netizens' comments on related topic forums. reply.

Most of the people visiting the forum are young people, and those who like to actively reply are also mostly young people. They enthusiastically stood up and analyzed Beisong's mother's confusion.

Some people speculate whether she suspects that her son is likely to be gay, and earnestly popularizes the homosexual group with Beisong’s mother. Homosexuality is only a kind of sexual orientation. Although it is not a mainstream sexual orientation, it is not abnormal.And sincerely hope that Beisong's mother can understand the child's sexual orientation.

I also helped Beisong’s mother analyze that the reason why her son has such a strong dependence on the older teacher is most likely due to the fact that the child lost his father since childhood and developed an Electra complex for his teacher.

This kind of Electra complex can be regarded as a relative, and at the same time, it is very likely that love will arise from it. It depends on what the person thinks in his heart and how the people around him guide him.

Beisong's mother looked at these comments and replies one by one, her brows became more and more wrinkled.

It's not that she doesn't know what homosexuality is, but she never thought about it from the beginning that Beisong might fall in love with Song Jinyang, who is an older man of the same sex.

If this is the case, Beisong's mother feels that it is really necessary for her to have a good chat with her son.

Now that the topic of homosexuality has been touched upon, more and more people in the comments are talking about Beisong’s mother’s popular science on homosexuality. They told Beisong’s mother that the love between the same sex is also a concrete manifestation of the diversified development of human beings. Love Being gay is not something to be ashamed of.I hope that Beisong’s mother can rationally look at the fact that her son may like the same sex, and don’t feel discriminated against because of this. There are still many people in the outside world who don’t understand homosexuals, and even a lot of abuse and slander. If the family members say something hurtful and punishing The words of the heart, that child is really too pitiful.

Before today, Beisong's mother never had the term homosexuality in her mind, but now it is related to the issue of her son's sexual orientation. She who has always loved her son and regards him as a treasure will not feel prejudiced or even hostile to it. .

After reading the comments one by one, Beisong’s mother, who has a new understanding of this, also hopes to have a deeper understanding of the topic of same-sex sexual orientation, so she searches keywords on the Internet to see how other parents are. deal with such issues.

And seeing this, Beisong's mother felt even more unhappy.

Because sexual orientation is a complex issue, there is no distinction between different sexual orientations. At the same time, the sexual orientation of the vast majority of homosexuals is innate. There are even long-term experimental records that prove that homosexuality cannot be "corrected". Sexual orientation cannot be changed, it is not a choice, and it is not within one's control.

But most of the parents of this generation, like Beisong's mother, have no such concept in their outlook on life about homosexuality, and they have never seen such people in their past lives. Therefore, many parents know their children After being gay, the first thought is to "correct" their wrong view of love, put pressure on their children, and the surrounding environment and some social pressures will forcibly link homosexuals with AIDS. These factors force children to marry and have children of the opposite sex , thinking that this is for their own good, so that they can get back on track.

As everyone knows, what finally brought about was the misfortune of the two big families, and the innocent and poor little life that was born in such a sad family that was forced to join together.

Beisong's mother read the news reports about same-sex wives who married for gays every year because of fraudulent marriages, and finally committed suicide in misery. Do you...

It is precisely because of seeing these that the complicated thoughts in Beisong's mother's heart, which had been cut and sorted out and remained chaotic, gradually became clearer.

If my son really fell in love with Song Jinyang...

Although she is not optimistic about such a love that walks on the edge of a knife, she hopes that no matter what the ending is, she can be Beisong's last safe haven, instead of being cruel to be the last straw that crushes the camel.

Women are weak, but mothers are strong.