My wife is so vicious

The moment Qiu Yunmeng got the computer for the first time, Qiu Yunmeng was so excited beyond words.

However, when her mother heard that she had bought a computer, instead of being happy for her, she scolded her for wasting money.

Her mother felt that the money could be saved to buy a house for her younger brother in the future.

In fact, at that time, Qiu Yunmeng's younger brother, Qiu Yunze, was only 19 years old and had just entered his sophomore year.It is far from getting married and buying a house after graduation.

Moreover, Qiu's mother said that since her daughter is a graduate student, her son must study no matter what.

Then, Qiu Yunze's marriage will be later than expected.

The only person who is really happy for Qiu Yunmeng is Tan Jianjie.

And correspondingly, Tan Jian also bought a computer so that he could chat with her day and night.

——Of course, at that time, the two of them had already arrived in the same city.Because when Qiu Yunmeng chose a graduate school, he chose the city where Tan Jian was located.

At that time, Tan Jian had already graduated and worked hard to earn money.

Qiu Yunmeng is still studying, but he is also working hard to make money.

Of course, the two people earn money in different ways: Tan Jian entered the society and started from the bottom; while Qiu Yunmeng, as an ivory tower scholar, earns money in various ways from tutoring to professional academic part-time jobs. money.

Neither one is picky.

As long as it can make money, Tan Jian is willing to do it, even if he has three jobs at the same time.

The same goes for Qiu Yunmeng, as long as he can earn money, he will do anything.

In the end, the two saved more and more money.

Until one day, Qiu Yunmeng asked Tan to come out: "Guess, how much is our deposit already?"

Because the money of both of them is stored with Qiu Yunmeng, Tan Jian really has no idea how much money they have saved.

Tan Jian knows how to keep earning money anyway, and then keep transferring it to his girlfriend, who arranges it.

He absolutely trusted Qiu Yunmeng, whether it was Qiu Yunmeng's love for him or Qiu Yunmeng's financial management ability.

Qiu Yunmeng smiled: "After paying off your student loan, you have saved enough to buy a house. The down payment is 30.00%, and we will pay the mortgage every month in the future."

Tan Jian was very pleasantly surprised: the house!

That was something he never dared to think about before!

Since he was a child, his parents told him: Don't want everything, don't compare yourself with your classmates, you don't necessarily want what others have.Whatever you want, work hard, and earn money to buy it yourself in the future, and you must not forget to be filial to your parents, and the money you earn must be handed over to your parents, and your parents will keep it.

The experience of going through hundreds of schools since childhood made Tan Jian very wise.

He is very clear: if the money is handed over to his parents, it will no longer belong to him.

Parents will not "save it", they will only enjoy and spend it immediately.I won't test him even a little bit.

Therefore, all the money he earned was given to Qiu Yunmeng.

Qiu Yunmeng did not disappoint him, he used all kinds of financial management methods together, and also made money to add to the account... With the joint efforts of the two, Tan Jian was able to own his own house at the age of 23!

He was so happy that he hugged Qiu Yunmeng and spun round and round, thanking God for the gift he had given him.

After spinning, he shook Qiu Yunmeng's hand seriously: "This belongs to the two of us. Let's go get the certificate, so that the house can be written in our names."

Qiu Yunmeng was a little embarrassed.

She did not expect that the marriage proposal would come suddenly in such a strange way.

She couldn't help laughing: "No, I want a romantic proposal. Don't get married just to name the house."

Tan Jian laughed loudly, and kissed the other party's face: "Okay, let's have a romantic one. I'll buy this house first, and put it under your own name. We'll get the certificate after buying it. How about it, is it romantic?"

Qiu Yunmeng smiled and frowned: "This is still very realistic, where is the romance?"

"Why not romantic? I will register our future home under your name."

Is it romantic?

maybe not.Because when it comes to houses, it's realistic.

But isn't it romantic?

Qiu Yunmeng knew: This is the most romantic proposal in the world.

Not only because Tan Jian speaks literary and artistically, but also because he took the initiative to give up the house.

When it comes to the house, other people have their own calculations, and there is a see-saw in terms of name registration and payment.

Only Tan Jian offered to register the joint house under the name of the other party only.

Qiu Yunmeng knew that meeting this man was also a gift from heaven to him.

So, the two identified each other.

Of course, Qiu Yunmeng did not marry Tan Jian before graduation.

She has her own persistence.

It was not until after Dr. Qiu Yunmeng graduated that the two really got together.

All the money saved during this period was in Qiu Yunmeng's name.

This is Tan Jian's trust in her and his consideration for her.

"I know that a girl's youth is very precious. You are willing to accompany me. I am grateful enough for you to be with me from a worthless poor boy all the way to the present. If there is a day when we really do not have a chance to be together, I also hope that you can stay A little sense of security. And I, if I hadn’t met you, I would be nothing.”

Tan Jian said as he held Qiu Yunmeng's hand.

Indeed, without her, his life is nothing.Because he won't fight, or even live well.

Because he knew from a young age: his life is hopeless and loveless.Even, no matter how much he earns, he will squeeze it dry for his parents.

And it is.

His parents didn't love him and didn't give him any hope in life.They live day by day, as long as they have enough money to eat, they immediately quit their jobs and go home to rest.For life and retirement, they all count on Tan Jian.As long as he grows up and shoulders everything, he can enjoy himself.

Later, they did not implement it.

At the beginning of Tan Jian's earning money, they were overjoyed, thinking that their son could earn money, and they could finally enjoy happiness, so they both quit their jobs and went home to rest.Let the son pay money back every month to support them.

At that time, Tan Jian was dumbfounded.

Although he knew that his parents were lazy and extremely selfish, he didn't expect that they would really come to this point.

After all, he was still a college student at that time, but he just used his spare time to work and study.Besides, he hasn't even paid off his student loan!

Unexpectedly, his parents didn't feel sorry for him at all. Instead, they said: "What's the rush for student loans? You can earn money now, and you will definitely earn more and more money in the future, and you will also get married in the future. When you get married, you will still have your wife." Let’s earn together. Don’t rush, just pay back slowly.”

At that moment, Tan Jian deeply felt the horror of his parents.

From then on, he became even more determined to only tie his own finances to Qiu Yunmeng.

Qiu Yunmeng also felt the same way.

After learning that Qiu Yunmeng had her own house under her name, Qiu's mother's first reaction was to ask her to transfer it to her younger brother.

"What kind of house do you want for a girl's family? The man who gets married in the future will naturally prepare it! Your brother is a boy, so he really needs a house!"

This is Qiu's mother's argument.

Qiu Yunmeng was stunned.

She bought the computer and the house by herself.Not only did he not ask for a penny from the family, but he also sent money to the family every month.Unexpectedly, instead of a gentle apology, the family members wanted to give all these things to her brother.

In fact, Qiu Yunmeng doesn't mind that the family has no money.

As long as her family really loves herself, she can be very happy.

For example, if her parents can say "Thanks for your hard work" softly when she pays for herself, buys a computer, or buys a house, she will be happy for a long time.

Unfortunately, the family did not see her hard work, only her assets.

And jealous.

They agreed that Qiu Yunmeng's house should be transferred to his younger brother Qiu Yunze's name.

This matter was proposed and insisted by Qiu's mother.

The other family members did not speak.

In fact, if you don't say anything, you just acquiesce.

Qiu Yunmeng is not stupid.She is very clear about this.

At the same time, she was disappointed.

In fact, she also loves her brother.If the family really loves her, she doesn't mind giving part of the money she earns to her younger brother-of course, this house is not included, because it is the money for her and Tan to see each other.

No matter how much you love someone, you shouldn't drag other people's wallets to be generous to others.Qiu Yunmeng is very clear about this.

However, the family really doesn't love themselves very much.

So, she shook her head and was very firm: "This is my house, no one will turn it around."

"Why are you so stubborn, you damn girl?" Mother Qiu poked her daughter's head with her finger, even gnashing her teeth, "Are you mean? Other girls spend men's money and live in men's rooms. How come Are you going to buy a house by yourself now? What’s the use of me raising you? You only think about yourself, not your younger brother! Your heart is too dark! But let me tell you, the most important thing for a woman is to be good-looking and know how to handle a man Hold on tight, everything a man owns is yours. If you can’t handle it, no man wants you when you rush to buy a house or a car! If you buy a house by yourself before you are married, in the future men will look down on you and you will cry all your life! "

Qiu Yunmeng was stunned by Qiu's mother's remarks.

For the first time, she knew that it was self-deprecating for a woman to create wealth for herself.

That's the house with my name on it!

Is it more noble to be poor and have nothing?What is the logic!

It was at this moment that she realized that she didn't need to talk to her mother any more.

To be exact, there is no need to tell all the family members.

Yes, all families are of one mind.The mother is just a spokesperson who has been pushed out.

It's just that she is too stupid, so she often jumps up and down, pulling out all the hatred.

If the daughter has a slightly lower IQ, I'm afraid she will only hate her mother for the rest of her life.

When she gets old in the future, she will be the only mother who is not accepted and suffers a lot.

As a father, younger brother, and grandfather, they will not be affected by hatred, but appear so innocent.

Even, whenever Qiu's mother scolded her daughter very badly, they would stand up and act as peacemakers to persuade her.

If she is a confused daughter, she may really think that they are all good people, they are all on her side, and they all love her, it's just because her mother is too patriarchal and too strong.

In the future, I will even be grateful to them for being such good people as peacemakers, and will sincerely honor/take care of them.

But Qiu Yunmeng is not a low IQ daughter.

She is neither confused nor stupid, and she can see through the essence at a glance: in this family, although the mother is the one who jumps up and down to hate, the vested interests are actually the men.

From the beginning to the end, my mother is the one who does the most and enjoys the least at home.

It's just that she herself is stupid and ignorant, not only taking it for granted, but also desperately maintaining this model of male superiority and female inferiority.

So, there really isn't much to say.

No matter to whom, Qiu Yunmeng didn't want to waste any more saliva to explain a word.

Because what everyone wants is never an explanation, but a benefit.

Giving up the benefits is good.

It is wrong to refuse to give up the benefits.

In such an unfair environment, there is really nothing to say.

It's better to save some time, energy and mentality to make money.