Finding Love After Divorce

"You deserve it! If you don't die, you won't die. These words were invented entirely for you! You charged ahead presumptuously, leaving everything behind you to Ren Zixuan, relying too much on him unconsciously, but foolishly giving up on him, As a result, after he left, your life was in chaos. If you were not successful in your career, you would not only be half useless, but completely useless!" Situ Kuang on the other end of the computer pointed at Ling Ye and yelled harshly.

"..." As a good friend, is it really okay for you to speak sarcasticly like that?Besides, isn't it normal for a person to take care of himself like this and rely on him wholeheartedly?

Ling Ye only dared to rest assured that he would be reprimanded by pointing his nose when he said it.

"Since you want to spare time to find Ren Zixuan, do you have to find a nanny to take care of Jia and Xiaochen first? Of course, you can also do it yourself, an elite man with multiple jobs." Situ Kuang couldn't help mocking.

Ling Ye, who has always disliked outsiders intervening in his private life, didn't care about his friend's sarcasm, and replied without thinking: "I don't invite anyone, I'll do it myself, how can such a small housework be difficult for me!"

Situ Kuang on the opposite side of the video raised the corners of his lips and smiled playfully: "That would be great, I've been looking forward to it for a long time."

"......"What's the meaning?

On the night when Zixuan left again, Ling Ye, who originally wanted to find a friend to complain about his grievances, was severely complained by his friend for half an hour when he mentioned that his life had become a mess due to Xuan's departure.

"Lingye, don't be self-righteous, let alone proud. There are too many things in life that are not as simple as you think."

"Cut." Ling Ye sneered at this statement, "Just wait, I'll do it perfectly for you to see!"

"It's up to you, just don't slap yourself in the face." After Situ Kuang finished speaking, he cut off the video.

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I don't know who said it, but the easiest way to understand a person, a person's life, a person's difficulties...is to participate in it.

Therefore, Lingye shifted the focus of his life from work to family. He wanted to experience Zixuan's state of mind, angle and mood in taking care of the family and them.

As for how to take care of a home, according to Ling Ye's perception, it is nothing more than buying a dish, cooking a meal, making a dish, and then tidying up the house and taking care of the yard, and then there is nothing more.

Shopping for vegetables is easy. Go to the supermarket and buy all the things you often eat and like to eat, and eat them for a few days, and it will be done in a week.Repeat the cycle again and again, and then one month, one quarter, and one year can be easily done in this way.

It is easier to cook rice, wash the rice and add water to the rice cooker, press the switch, it is fully automatic.

As for cooking, which everyone thinks is the most difficult, he learned a lot when he took care of the injured Zixuan. Although he hasn't done it for many years, it shouldn't be difficult to get started again.

As for housework, it is basically the same thing. As long as it is something that an individual can do well, it is not like work. You can’t do it well if you have the heart and ability. What about wealth?

After evolving everything on the paper, he nodded towards the empty room, he will do well, not only to prove to his friends, but also to show Zixuan, let him know that he cares about this family , I will accompany him to take care of this home and protect this home.

Many times, it is easier said than done, and easier to think than to actually do.

So, on the first morning, Ling Ye received such a question.

"Daddy, have you boiled the soy milk long enough?" Ling Yuchen stared at the cup of soy milk on the table and looked suspiciously at his father.

Ling Ye was puzzled by the question: "I turned off the fire only after it boiled." He still has common sense that raw soy milk must be boiled before drinking.

The soymilk machine is too noisy, and it is even more obtrusive in the quiet morning, so the soymilk they drink for breakfast is freshly ground in a nearby store. , so Zixuan orders from his family every year.In addition to being fresh, their soy milk has another advantage, that is, the sweetness can be adjusted by yourself. The inconvenience is that their home is raw soy milk, and you need to cook it yourself when you buy it.

"You turned off the fire as soon as it boiled?"

"???"if not?Wait for it to boil until it rolls out before shutting it off?

Ling Yuchen rolled his eyes at his father: "Daddy, don't you know that when the soy milk is heated to 80 degrees, there will be a false boil? After that, it needs to be boiled for another 3-5 minutes before it really boils."

"So particular? The maximum temperature of the water in the water dispenser is 80 degrees. Your daddy and I have been drinking it for many years. Why are you so particular about it?"

After Ling Ye finished speaking, he received a letter from his son, who looked like an idiot and almost jumped.

The sashimi is eaten raw, and the water can be drunk directly, so what if the soy milk is not cooked?

After thinking about it, he picked up a cup of soy milk and poured it down.

Ling Yuchen couldn't stop her, so she simply leaned on the back of the chair and folded her hands on her chest, and said in a cool tone: "Daddy, if you drink uncooked soy milk, you may have diarrhea."

Ling Ye, who always had ready-made soy milk to drink and had a strong stomach, patted his swollen belly indifferently: "Look, Daddy will be fine if he drinks it."

"You really want me to drink?"

Seeing his son holding the cup, squinting his eyes, with a face of "I'll drink it if you let me drink it, but you have to be responsible for the consequences", Ling Ye suddenly became unsure. Cause gastroenteritis, or... Forget it, let's not bet on it.

So, a certain father who had never understood his son's physical condition snatched the cup from his son's hand and pushed the porridge over, "You can drink the porridge today, and Daddy will buy you soy milk later on the way."

Ling Yuchen curled her small mouth while drinking the porridge, thinking that his dad really still cared about him.

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"Daddy, carrots and white radishes can't be cooked together!" Ling Yuchen twisted her small body to face his father, with her little hands on her waist, and said plausibly with her little mouth.

Ling Ye turned to look at his son, wondering, "Why?"

"It's not conducive to nutrient absorption."

"..." Feeling that he no longer cares about whether the food is nutritious or not, but he can't help but care about his son, Ling Ye snatched the pot of radish and pork ribs soup, and "grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr" .

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"Daddy, you can't eat this dish!"

"This is edible, your daddy and I used to eat it." Ling Ye spooned a spoonful of tofu mixed with shallots and ate it, and then smacked his mouth to show that the taste was excellent.

"Because they are cooked together to form calcium oxalate that is not easily absorbed by the body, and it is easy to form stones in the body."

N years ago, when I was practicing cooking, Ling Ye, who liked and cooked this dish most often: "..."

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Such dialogues have been frequently staged at home since Ling Ye started cooking. He has been educated too much by his son, and Ling Ye has a little suspicion that he has lived a fake life and a fake life before.

One night two weeks later, the father and son lay on the same bed and had a heart-to-heart talk.

"Son, who taught you those things? Your father?" When he recalled carefully, he could still roughly remember what happened when Zixuan just resigned.

"Except for tofu mixed with shallots, they are all taught by my father."

"Your father is amazing!" Ling Ye sighed sincerely.

"That's right!" Ling Yuchen patted his small chest proudly. He has the best father in the world.

Ling Ye was looking forward to chatting with his son about Zixuan, hoping to have as many chats as possible, and it would be best if he could get news.But he was also afraid to talk about it, every time the more he talked about Zixuan, the more he felt like a scumbag, and the more uncomfortable he felt.

"Who taught you how to mix tofu with shallots?"

"Teacher."

"Ha, your teacher still teaches you this?"

"No, she was just talking casually. A classmate lost an eraser that day, and she said it was a very beautiful eraser, which her father brought back for her from abroad. Then she suspected that the eraser was taken by her deskmate, but she The deskmate said that he didn't take it at all, and he didn't like the girl's eraser because it was too ugly. The classmate who lost the eraser in the end insisted that her deskmate must have taken it, and her deskmate only said at the end, "Anyway, I am tofu mixed with shallots." —clear and clear, absolutely innocent'."

"Finally?"

"Finally, the teacher found the eraser in a small pocket next to the schoolbag of the classmate who had lost the eraser. Someone asked what the phrase 'scallion mixed with tofu' meant, and the teacher explained it to us, and then added the sentence 'Actually You can’t mix shallots with tofu, you’ll get stones’.”

"What about calcium oxalate?"

"That's what Dad said. Daddy, calcium oxalate can form stones, so is the stone just calcium oxalate? If there are stones in your body, how do you get rid of them?"

"..." Son, stone = calcium oxalate, can this equal sign be drawn like this?

Ling Ye, who had no time to answer his son's question, soon heard his son's questioning voice: "Daddy, don't you know?"

Then, Ling Ye once again received the "Daddy, you are so stupid" look from his son. He has received a lot of this look during this period, and he has more and more the illusion that he is the "son".

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To be honest, it may be enough to have talent to make a delicious dish, but it is really not that easy to cook a table dish with heart.You have to consider everyone's taste, everyone's constitution (whether they are allergic or not), in addition to that, you also need to consider the nutritional balance of the food, and more importantly, the taboos of food matching and other issues.

Ever since, cooking alone has stumped Ling Ye.

He began to look through books and literature, seeking help from nutrition and health experts.For the first time, he really felt that Zixuan was able to take care of the family and them so well, it was really hard work, and it was indeed not easy.

Of course, family life is not just cooking and housework, but also many details.

For example, Ling Yuchen has grown taller and put on weight. It is time for him to buy new clothes and shoes for his son; The son adds/undresses; the son accidentally gets sick, how careful he must be to take care of a weak little person...

He can do many things naturally bit by bit through learning, preparing in advance, or getting used to it, but there is one thing that is as uncontrollable as the weather-human emotions, which he hasn't figured out yet.

For example, my son talked less today, why?Eat less food, why?Don't joke and don't like to play anymore, why?Getting angry, why?Very happy, why? ...

All of these are testing the sincerity of one person towards another.

Moreover, everyone has different personalities and preferences, and the same method of comforting and comforting others may not necessarily work for others.At this time, you need to know enough about that person.

How did Zixuan come here all these years?He taught his son to be so sensible, let him have no worries at all, and let his parents praise him... Zixuan, how much did he pay?

Lingye's chest was hot, and tears welled up. The hand holding the pen and summing up the experience kept shaking, leaving twisted lines one after another on the notebook.

Zixuan, I'm sorry, and thank you for being late and hard work!

Immediately afterwards, his hand holding the pen stopped suddenly, and the tip of the pen poked into the paper.

Zixuan took care of his family and them so meticulously, what about him?Is he taking good care of himself?

Lingye's memory is only the appearance of seeing Zixuan again some time ago, and then, only the memory of their marriage.He actually ignored Zixuan for so long?

And Zixuan was always paying attention to the changes in their emotions, so what about himself?Who noticed his mood change?Who cares if he's happy?Who saw his pain and sadness?who……

My son is too young and active, so he must not be that careful.So, is there no one?Yes, Zixuan has almost no family members, besides them, who else cares about him?

But what did you do?

Ling Ye knocked his head heavily on the table, what did he do before?What did he do to Zixuan who took care of his family, himself and his son so hard?For whom did Zixuan make his life so monotonous?It's him!It was he who made Zixuan only him and his son besides rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea!

Then what did he do, he felt that Zixuan was doing nothing?He thinks that Zixuan is out of touch with himself and the society, and won't understand the difficulties he encounters at work, won't he understand his pain?

Heh, what Zeng Zhe said is true, how well he cursed!He really is a complete jerk!

What is work for, to make life better, but he has put the cart before the horse, and ruined everything that Zixuan worked hard for work.

With him like this, is he still qualified to recover Zixuan?