Xue Bawang's daily life

Xu's dowry head was carried to Xue's at noon Congratulations to the ones you picked up, because the amount is relatively small, most of the children followed along to loot it, so it won't cause confusion

The Xue family only has two brothers, Xue Pan and Xue Bian. Jinling also sent someone to come first to give the New Year gifts. The name is Xue Tie, because he has separated from his clan. Even though those groups wanted to repair the relationship with this one, they couldn't hold back their face, so they just sent a child who was scattered in the family with no father and no mother, and that was Xue Li.

Xue's mother likes this kid quite a lot. Xue Tiao has been working as a boy in a shop of Xue's family since he was a child. It is calculated that Xue Pan's branch can support him. Later, the big head of the Xue family's clan is naturally in Xue Pan's other clans. The ancestral property also has some property, but the Xue family is originally a big family member, Ding Xing is very prosperous, and there are few people in the property, but they all have to be resettled, so Xue Li, who has no father and no mother to support, is squeezed out.

Fortunately, he has worked as a clerk in a shop since he was a child, not to mention that he has a lot of experience, so he can support himself if he finds a job. The job of giving gifts and running errands for the Chinese New Year is either hard to eat or shameless. He got this trick

Xue Tiao gained face from Xue Mu and returned to Jinling. After taking care of his own affairs, he returned to Shangjing and was still helping in a shop of Xue’s family. Now Xue Biao is married and is also Xue Tiao’s nephew and nephew. Naturally, she was called by Mother Xue to help

There are really not many brothers in the Xue family, and there are no male elders to help Xue Pan, so he can only stay at home to take care of him. Fortunately, it is not too busy to have Xue Bi to help, and Xue Biao invited a few friends from the Imperial Academy to come with him to welcome the relatives. The woman’s family made up ten poems to remind her to make up, and finally got the promise to enter the house.

How lively Xue Pan is at the woman's house, I don't know that Xue's house can already busy him to death

Finally, the welcoming team of the Xue family came back in a lively manner. Xue Pan led a group of people who came to the wedding banquet to welcome them in front of the door. The smile on his face made Xue Pan feel sick just looking at it

Walking to the front of the house, Xue Biao got off his horse in a flirtatious manner, first saluted the people watching the ceremony, and then took down the bow and arrow hanging from the sedan chair, but he only shot three empty arrows as a pretense It's all about looks, although he has also learned the six arts of a gentleman, but since the first two years, a groom who was not good at learning the arts almost missed shooting an arrow into the sedan chair and startled the bride.

After driving away the evil spirits brought by this road, the bride is carried by the strong bride, crosses the brazier and saddle, which symbolizes prosperity and safety, and then the groom leads her all the way to the inner room, worships the ancestors, parents and elders in the high hall, and the husband and wife pay respects to complete. After this ceremony, the two are considered to be officially married.

Xue's mother is the only elder in the Xue family now, she is the aunt Xue, she naturally sat on the main seat with Xue Biao's deceased Gaotang tablet, Xue Biao took the second seat as the only elder brother in the family, and also received the ceremony of the newcomer The Ninth Prince is also sitting next to him. Although everyone knows that the relationship between the two is unclear, the Ninth Prince is a noble person, so naturally no one will make irresponsible remarks.

After all the ceremony, the bride is sent to the bridal chamber, and the groom will naturally be left to drink. Although Xue Biao invited a few colleagues and friends to welcome the bride and drink, they are all scholars after all. Drinking is not so good, but after a while, he was so drunk that he couldn't find his way. Fortunately, Xue Li was careful and arranged for proper servants to see that everyone who was drunk would help them down and settle them down.

Later, even Xue Pan had to show up. On the first day of the wedding, it would be unreasonable if the groom was drunk and the bride was left alone. If you don't move well, you can only drink your own in peace

After the banquet was almost over, Xue Bian and a group of young people went to Xue Biao's house to make a bridal chamber, but he didn't really do anything. He just coaxed the two of them to drink two glasses of wine and asked Xue Bian to feed the bride to cook. The half-baked dumpling asked a few jokes and that’s all. After all, the bride just entered the house, it’s not too much, and this trouble is also the meaning of the warm house so that the bride has a sense of belonging.

After a lot of laughing, everyone dispersed. A couple of newlyweds still have their ceremony to complete.

In the morning of the second day, the newlyweds went to the mansion to invite An Xue and his family had already been waiting. Xue Biao took Xue Xu by the hand and was led by the maid into the house to pay homage to Xue's mother, Xue Pan and the two sister-in-laws, and Xue Pan led them there. After entering the ancestral hall, Xu's boudoir name was added after the name of Xue scorpion, and this was officially entered into the genealogy of Xue's family and became Xue's wife.

This is the only chance for a daughter-in-law to be able to enter the ancestral hall. Xue Xu looked it over carefully and kept the appearance of the ancestral hall in mind. After worshiping the ancestors and adding their names, they went back to Xue's mother together.

It turns out that no matter how lenient a new daughter-in-law enters the house, the daughter-in-law should be asked to set a day's rules, but Xue's mother is not her serious mother-in-law. He asked her to sit down and talk with her

Naturally, Mrs. Xu has met Xue's mother in the past, and knows that Xue's mother is a good-natured person, but Mrs. Xu has already said at home that although there is no father-in-law and mother-in-law in the family, there is an aunt who is only a mother-in-law and respects the established rules. I want to stand up, but if I don't live in one place, I can't stand for a few days, so I ask my girls to be patient and filial.

I don't think that Mother Xue is really a kind person, but the rules don't let her stand up for a day, Mrs. Xu is naturally grateful for Mother Xue's kindness, and she respects Mother Xue more and more, without mentioning it.

Several female family members of the Xue family sat together and gossiped about Xue Pan and Xue Biao, how could they follow anyone to be disgusting? They all found excuses and went out.

Seeing that they were gone, Mother Xue sent the two girls out again. Fang smiled and said to Xu that your son-in-law is soft-tempered and he takes care of everything outside.

Mrs. Xu smiled shyly, my daughter-in-law will take good care of the master, it’s just that there are so many things outside the house that my aunt needs to help me make up my mind and take care of my child. Teach me, Xue Biao has become a pro, and now he has changed from the second master to the master

Xue's mother ironed the posts in her heart and loved her more and more. She pointed to Baochai and Baoqin and said, how many people are there in our family? Only you two girls are going to marry in the future, and I need you to help me more in the family. You are the one who can be the master of the house. In the future, I have to ask you to take care of the house here. If you don’t understand, just ask me. It’s just that you have worked hard.

Xue Biao had already mentioned to Mrs. Xu that Xue Pan would adopt one of their sons to inherit the family business in the future. Hearing what Mrs. Xue said, Mrs. Xu just agreed.

Xue's mother called several women in charge of the family to visit Mrs. Xu. After rewarding things one by one, two beautiful girls came in. Xue's mother said that these two were the maids serving in the yard. The family doesn’t keep the common room, they just take care of the scorpion’s daily life, and now they are all given to you. You can keep them to continue to take care of them, or point them to others, it’s up to you

Mrs. Xu hurriedly said that she didn't dare

Mother Xue laughed and said, "Dare you dare?" Serving before getting married, apart from two careful personal servants, some food and daily affairs, there are servants to take care of the rules of our house. Men can only take concubines when they are forty and childless, except for this formal concubine's room, which will be used later. It's only you girls who have the final say and I will never interfere again

Xue's mother's words are straightforward, even vulgar, but they are extremely reasonable. Xu's face is blushing, and her heart is extremely ironic, but she is modest. What does a daughter-in-law know? Everything is decided by her aunt.

Mother Xue laughs at my daughter-in-law, don't think my wife is vulgar, it's because there are no outsiders here, that's why I said that to my daughter-in-law

Mother Xue told Mrs. Xu all the affairs of Xue Biao's courtyard to Mrs. Xu. You are a hard-working person. There is no mother-in-law to help you. There are only two brothers and sisters in the courtyard. My aunt's help is limited now. Baoqin is also preparing to marry her. Although she lives with me, it is necessary for you, the elder sister-in-law, to worry about her affairs.

Although she is busy, Mrs. Xu is the one who cares about everything. The two maids in Xue Biao's courtyard did not send them away. In order to show magnanimity, I have to accept the face of my aunt

It's just that it's hard for such two people to dangle in front of me, especially when she heard that the name contained fragrance, Xu felt a little jealous, so she decided to change the names of the two, one named Lurui and the other named Cui Tao, this Rui, Tao Ah Cui is a name commonly used by maids, Xu's heart is ironed

Xue Biao mentioned this matter with Xue Biao, but Xue Biao didn't feel that there was nothing more than a name. Xu, who needed to worry about these things, felt more and more at ease.

The newlyweds were at the time when the honey was mixed with oil. The Xue family had a simple population. The couple opened their own house. The sister-in-law Baoqin also lived with Xue's mother. It couldn't be more leisurely, and Xue's mother didn't want her day Those who go to ask for peace every day just follow their young couple's wishes. Only Xu Shi is alone at home every day, whether there is any serious matter at home, she also serves Xue Biao every day, and then goes over there to ask for peace. Happy to have something for her

It's not that Mrs. Xu is greedy for such an idea, it's just that there are only a few people in the family now. Xue's mother was kind and in the past, she just talked, and sometimes she left food, but she didn't want her to serve Xue's mother. Isn't it just to serve the master? If you need to serve and support them in everything, what's the use?

Mother Xue also often feels that I am accumulating blessings for your two younger sisters. Now that you are in our family, I will only treat you as your own daughter. When your two younger sisters get married in the future, I don’t expect other people’s mother-in-law to be their own girls. don't make it difficult

This is the heart of a loving mother