Mr. Jia who was infected with the virus [Red House]

Jia Zheng smiled shyly, and asked impatiently after hearing the conclusion, "When can I see the rainbow?"

"I'll go back and prepare. I'm ready to call you." Jia Dairu said, there are some watering cans for watering flowers in his system space, but they need to be improved before they can be taken out.Even if he is a system, he has seen the Internet, and he knows that plastic products cannot be shown casually.The nozzle doesn't matter, just find a blacksmith to do it.

Jia Zheng nodded to show that he understood, and wanted to say something else, Shi smiled at him gently, "Don't you also want to donate things to poor people? Why don't you go back and let Yan Li see if you can't wear it?" clothes and footwear."

Jia Zheng's face was not very happy, and he said what was in his heart, "If you want to give it away, you can give it to a new one, why bother to use the old clothes to bury people?"

Hearing his non-human remarks, Hongxia smiled and said, "Oh, my young master, you don't know that your old clothes are very popular even for ordinary people. Although the colors are not so bright, But it's all the best material, thick and soft."

Jia Zheng blushed, and bowed seriously to Hongxia, "Thank you sister Hongxia for your advice."

Shi Shi said, "Hurry up!"

Jia Zheng hurriedly followed a big girl named Pipa down.

When Jia Zheng disappeared, Shi hurriedly asked, "I just saw that the third brother seems to have something to say, I don't know what it is?"

Jia Dairu frowned, "Zheng'er is too restrained and quiet."

Shi Shi laughed when he heard this, and explained: "He has such a calm temperament since he was a child."

Although Mrs. Xu didn't understand what kind of obsession they had with their uncles and sisters, she nodded along, "That's right, Zheng'er and She'er have different personalities. They like to be quiet and talk less. Today is the time for him to talk a lot."

From Shi's slightly proud face, it is not difficult to imagine that she is very proud of this.

In her opinion, it is something to be proud of that her son has an adult demeanor at a young age. If others see this, they may not say much even if they think there is a problem. But Jia Dairu is still unable to accurately discern the hidden emotions of human beings.He shook his head, "No, Zheng'er doesn't simply like to be quiet, it's a manifestation of his lack of social development. He tries to avoid contact with people as much as possible."

Without waiting for the two to respond, he explained directly, "Before the age of 3, children are in the critical period of emotional development, language development and social development. In this period, it is only through loving upbringing and parents' nagging that children can form a good life. A sound character, I think Zheng Er is definitely lacking in this aspect."

"What is social development?" Shi Shi didn't understand Jia Dairu's technical terminology.

Jia Dairu was silent for a moment, and his brain was running fast. At this time, the benefits of the human brain were revealed, making an explanation less professional but enough for people who don't know psychology at all to understand.

"It's the ability to deal with people."

The faces of Shi Shi and Mrs. Xu changed suddenly. They were not ignorant women who thought their children were fed and clothed enough.As the female family members of officials, they are well aware of the influence of character on human destiny.In a family like theirs, whether the child is smart or not is no longer the decisive factor. Compared with a smart child, a child who knows how to do things can support the hope of the family. Being able to be friends with most people or even the emperor is much more important than simply being smart .Even if they ask their children to study hard, they definitely don't want to create a person with a bright head and a poor record. It is not so much to say that learning is a kind of compulsion for them.After all, many court officials disdain dealing with people who are not well-educated.

Now hearing that Jia Zheng has a character defect, how can he not be flustered.

Especially the Shi family, Jia Zheng was brought by her herself, and she knew Jia Zheng's behavior like the back of his hand. Jia Dairu's words reminded her of many details that she didn't care about before.

"Third Uncle, can he still recover?" Seeing that Shi's family is on the verge of collapse, Mrs. Xu hurriedly asked, "The child is still young, so he must be able to recover, right?"

Shi Shi looked at him expectantly.

"Yes, but it takes more effort." Jia Dairu nodded affirmatively, "Before the age of 12 is a critical period for the formation of a child's character, and it can be remedied."

His words made Shi's and Shi's complexions much better.

"The third brother will talk more about this aspect, let us study hard." Shi said calmly.

Jia Dairu was very satisfied with Shi's eagerness to learn. Now that he is a teacher, he naturally hopes that everyone will be eager to learn.

"My sister-in-law will tell me even if you don't ask me. In fact, before educating children, you must first tell your parents how to be a qualified parent." Jia Dairu said, "In fact, many personality problems that appear in children are rooted in parents. Children need a series of special training to restrain willfulness, prevent depression, resist impulse, prevent selfishness, and prevent squeamishness. As a parent, you need to train your child purposefully in daily life by rewarding snacks, resisting temptation, encouraging and group activities .”

"The way to make a child not self-willed is to say no to him early and let him understand that some things cannot be done..."

In the end, Jia Dairu concluded, "A child's appetite is brought out by feeding, temper is brought out, ideas are born out of nagging, cruelty is born out of loneliness and helplessness, and shamelessness is born out of indulgence in every possible way. A person grows up Love is needed in life, and human nature is brought up through love, so if we provide care and help to helpless children within our ability, the world will be better in the future!"

Jia Zheng's words made everyone present nod repeatedly.

Old lady Xu's other big girl, Bigui, nodded again and again, with a sudden enlightenment expression on her face, coupled with her extraordinarily immature face, people couldn't help but laugh.

"What do you know?" Hongxia teased her softly.

Bigui tilted her head, "Although I'm not married, I have younger brothers and sisters at home, and everything the third master said can fit everything."

After finishing speaking, she nodded very seriously, and looked at Jia Dairu obsessively.

The image of the third master is so tall!

The little girl is a little bit excited.

When Jia Dairu had finished speaking, Shi suddenly asked, "What about those who can't sit still like Xi'er?"

Shi was a little anxious, the eldest son was a jumping bean in her heart, the kind of naughty son who would keep jumping as long as he was awake, and get mad at Mr. Six.

"He can keep quiet for a long time when he is playing leaf cards." Jia Dairu said realistically, "She is not short of patience, but what he lacks is a willingness to learn."

Jia Dairu's words hit the nail on the head, Shi Shi was a little bit heartbroken.

"Yes, yes, Xi'er is quiet. I don't blame Xi'er if I don't want to learn. It's because those gentlemen used to have eyes on the top of their heads. Seeing that Xi'er's nose is not a nose and eyes are not eyes, it seems that they teach Xi'er to insult them. Yes." Mrs. Xu took the opportunity to complain, "I still don't let Xie'er ask questions. If you ask a question, you have to make a prototype first, and even explain a lot of who can understand it. The most annoying thing is to sue, saying that Xie'er naughty."

Mrs. Xu wiped her tears, feeling sorry for her grandson.

Only then did Shi know the truth, the eldest son was basically brought up by his mother-in-law, and whenever he had troubles, he would always ask his mother-in-law and never tell her.

"It turned out that I was wrong to blame She'er. I thought that as long as a Jinshi is a famous teacher, they misunderstood my son." Shi Shi sighed. The identity of the master is there, so there are naturally people who want to fawn on him. Unexpectedly, the carefully selected Jinshi enlightened his son, but it was wrong. child.It is said that scholars are noble, is that so noble?Don't apply for the job if you have the ability, what a hero to vent your anger on a child, Shi Shi hated a scholar who claimed to be 'noble'.

"Mediocre teacher!" All of a sudden, Jia Dairu had the confidence to become an excellent teacher, and he didn't know how good he was without comparison.

The author has something to say: Many of the above views are those of Teacher Li Meijin. For details, you can go to Youku to read Teacher Li Meijin’s analysis and countermeasures of common psychological problems among teenagers, as well as the book "The Subtle Human Nature".They are all good things worth brushing twice, brushing three times or even ten times!

I've brushed it 8 times, and I'm about to do it nine times.

The price of pork dropped yesterday, and my mother bought a large pork rib for 28 yuan per kilogram, and it was still fresh!

Let's quote the pork price together!

Yesterday pork chops cost 28 yuan per kilogram

Pork belly 35 yuan a kilogram

Lean meat 37 yuan per kilogram

The fine row is above 40, I don't know the specifics.

It is said that the price will increase today.

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