Forced Marriage [Cultivation]

"What do you think is the most confusing thing for you in the process of getting along with him now?"

"...he always likes to make small awkwardness and make small tempers at every turn."

"For example? Are there any performances that you think he is making a fuss and making a temper tantrum?"

"Let's take this time as an example, he just wanted to get angry with this deity, and he willfully messed around."

"In your opinion, why do you think he did that?"

"...Isn't he just to anger the deity? What other reasons could there be?"

"Yes, we all know that he is angry with you. But why is he angry with you? Only you know this best."

"...For the deity to show up? Is it the deity's fault for co-authoring?"

"No, no, that's not what I meant. Let's not talk about who is right and who is wrong. In the matter of feelings, there is no right or wrong. I think you came to me today with sincerity. It means that you really want to solve this problem, right?"

"...That's right. I just don't know what's going on in his little head all day long. Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad. It's cloudy."

"Yeah, then we have to analyze how this happened, so that we can know what he is thinking, right?"

"Okay, then analyze quickly."

"Hmm, so back to our topic just now, you think he wanted you to show up to anger you, right? Then why didn't you show up? You know he did this to get you to show up, Let you stop him, why didn't you stop him, but let him mess around? You want to stop getting angry, I'm not accusing you, and I'm not looking for your one-sided reasons, because feelings are mutual between two people For both sides, if you want to figure out his side, you must also figure out your side.”

"...You asked why the deity didn't show up? Because it's not the deity who is wrong in this matter. If the deity shows up, isn't the deity compromised with him?"

"Do you think you can't compromise with him as a god? Even if he is your partner?"

"...It's not about that. This deity is not the kind of person who puts on airs. The key is that he is too outrageous this time. It's fine for him to mess around by himself. This time, he made the whole West City follow. If he succeeds, then he thinks he is right. What if he still messes around like this in the future? Today he is the headmaster of Xicheng, so he can make the whole Xicheng follow him. If you get angry with this deity, he should mess around with the entire Six Realms."

"...Yes, this is really his fault. He shouldn't have let the entire West City play a joke, mobilize people and waste money. You didn't compromise with him. If this is the reason, it is very tenable."

"Yeah."

"Hmm...but why did you leave West City in the first place?"

"...The deity finds that you are always looking for the cause of the deity? Didn't you just say that this is the reason for both of you? Didn't you just say that it was him who was wrong in this matter?"

"Ahem, it's true to say so, but isn't he not here now? I can only straighten out your side first, can't I? Besides, I think your understanding is still a bit one-sided. You see, you still I especially care about who is right and who is wrong. As we said, there is no one who is right or wrong in a relationship. Relationships are originally a process of mutual integration and adaptation between the two parties. If he is wrong, you should tolerate him; you have the status of a god, He should also understand; if you blindly search for who is right and who is wrong, then the final result may turn into a quarrel, and even you two will turn this into a war. Then you may win in the end, But do you think winning or losing is important?"

"...Isn't it important?"

"...Have you ever thought about what will happen after you win? Can the two of you reconcile as before?"

"..."

"You are the Heavenly Venerable, your status is noble and lofty, and you have face; but you have to think from his point of view. He has been the head of the Jiang family since he was born, and he became the head teacher of the West City at a young age. The highest position in the world. Doesn't he care about his own face?"

"...You mean, he feels that with me, my status is higher than his, so that he doesn't... lose face?"

"Maybe there is a reason for this. You have concluded it yourself. But first I have to ask you, do you really think it is important to win or lose a fight between partners?"

"Some things are not important, but some things are very important. For example, as the head teacher, he can't make fun of Xicheng at will. This is a matter of principle. He made this mistake, and the deity is very angry."

"That's right, he did something wrong. But in other words, as his partner, are you responsible for his mistakes?"

"...You say it's my fault??"

"Do you understand what a partner means? There is no difference between 'I' and 'him'. If this is a problem for the common people in the world, it should be 'we'. You are not only his partner, but you also think that you are helping him Dear Emperor, now I ask you, are you responsible for making such a big mistake?"

"...I understand when you say that, it's 'it's the father's fault if he doesn't raise it, it's the laziness of the teacher' if he isn't strict'?"

"...You are his teacher, we reluctantly agree, but are you his father?"

"..."

"Have you noticed a problem? During the process we talked about just now, you always regarded yourself as his elder and teacher, did you notice?"

"……Is not it?"

"Let me ask you, do you think you are his elder and teacher?"

"……Is not it?"

"...I think we should come here first for today's consultation, okay? The ghost king power in me is about to explode."

"No, keep talking. If you speak well, I promise that I will get rid of the ghost king for you after the matter is completed."

"Hehehehe, thank you Tianzun, but I dare not promise you this matter. Because I am an outsider after all, I can only help you analyze some problems, but I can't solve the problem. Just now we have found the crux of a problem, but we must It’s up to you to figure it out. If you can’t figure it out, we can’t move on to the next step, and there’s no such thing as ‘it will happen.’”

"...You still put on airs, don't you?"

"No, no, that's not what I mean. You, just think about the question we just asked, that is, the question of 'are you his elder and teacher'. After you think it through, you can tell me something else Answer. Okay?"

"..."

The above is the first consultation process of director Gao, an emotional expert, to Tianzun. Tianzun left the Suomo Palace that night, returned to Qingxiu Garden, and talked with his former uncle, Elder Qiu, and asked Elder Qiu: "Isn't this deity his elder?" ? Not his teacher? So what is the deity? Gao Mianliu is still playing tricks, refusing to say it directly, and letting the deity think for himself."

"I don't know much about this issue, but I think Xiaoliu must have his reasons for not telling you directly. Although I have no experience in relationships, this thing should be the same as cultivation. If someone else just tells you the formula, but It's useless if you can't comprehend it yourself."

"...But this deity is really puzzled. Isn't this deity his elder? This deity is already 20 years old. Although he is still very young in the God Realm, it is indeed true when compared with those ancient gods who are millions of years old. He is very young, but Jiang Suxing is not even a hundred years old, the disparity in seniority is too great. Besides, he still has a long way to go before he can grow into a Tianjun. Can't the deity call himself his teacher?"

"You are his elder and teacher, it must be right." Qiu Shishui felt that what Tianzun said made sense, and he could not refute it.He even frowned and said: "And let me tell you something from the bottom of my heart, the disparity in your seniority is too great. Jiang Suxing was too presumptuous in Brahma Territory that day, talking about dual cultivation. He was the head teacher of Xicheng in the past, and you are Gu Baitang. There's a difference, but it's not that big, it's fine if you mess around; now that you are the body of a god, the difference is even bigger, one is in the sky and the other is in the ground, and the world knows you are shouting, it's just a joke for people to see Xicheng .”

What Qiu Shishui said all of a sudden was his own truth, that's what he thought.It's just that for Gao Mianliu at the beginning, he thought that Tianzun also liked Jiang Suxing, so he took advantage of the situation to match her up.But now Tianzun has said it himself, and the disparity in seniority is too great. When he said that Qiu Shishui was in his heart, he also said his own opinion.

But what he said was heard in Tianzun's ears, but Tianzun felt a sudden tug in his heart and felt very uncomfortable.

"You can't say that..." Tianzun frowned slightly, and covered his heart with his hands, "He, he is because he has me in his heart, and he was angry with what I said to him that day... It was my fault, I shouldn't say anything "Clean up both grievances", "No more entanglements"...I broke his heart..."

Tianzun was really uncomfortable, the pain made his eyes foggy.It was like a needle pricking his heart, it wasn't his own pain, when he thought about how what he said back then would make Jiang Suxing sad, he suddenly felt that it was really all his fault.

"No, I have to go to him, I can't make him sad anymore."

Tianzun stood up and was about to go to Yuding Palace.

Qiu Shishui hurriedly stopped him, wondering why Tianzun suddenly became like Gu Baitang, so impulsive: "Hey, don't go now if you want to go, don't you want to ask Xiao Liu for advice? The matter hasn't been settled yet Before you know it, if you go, the problem between you and him will not be resolved, but will become more serious?"

"...You are right, then I have to go to Gao Mianliu quickly. I know I was wrong, please tell me what to do."

Qiu Shishui persuaded him to go again at dawn, but Tianzun had to go immediately.Helpless, Qiu Shaoshui could only lead Tianzun to lock the Demon Palace.When the two came out of Qingxiu Garden, it was the hour of Chen, because Tianzun was in a hurry, so he didn't deliberately avoid people, and the law enforcement disciples saw their whereabouts.

The author has something to say: Well, there is more! Today, today I am on vacation~

Director Gao: 'It's a fault of not raising a godfather, lax laziness and laziness'. The curvature of your brain is also quite strange. Are you his father?Is it his elder?

Tianzun: ... Isn't this deity?

Director Gao: ...We won't talk anymore, I can't restrain my Ghost King power anymore.

[Pig brain!You are his elder and his father, how can you be his husband! 】