The person who wears fast takes tea and cools

Yan Shisan: "Brother Yin, I can't wait any longer."

Xue Chenyin: "Can't you really wait for me? I'll catch up soon."

Yan Shisan looked at Xue Chenyin who had just reached his chin, and shook his head: "Brother Yan, six years is already too long, and I really can't wait for another three years. Besides, it's not like I won't come back, What are you doing like this?"

"But……"

"Are you afraid that I will be like Dad?" Yan Shisan smiled, and lifted the firewood on his back. It seems that his bundle of firewood cannot be sold today.Seeing Xue Chenyin nodding, he dragged Xue Chenyin to sit under the tree and tidied Xue Chenyin's slightly messy clothes.

After thinking for a while, Yan Shisan opened his mouth in deliberation: "Brother Yan, you have to understand that this life is too short to afford it. I know you are thinking of me, but many things cannot be tolerated. .”

"Father taught me that life is nothing more than a back-and-forth exchange between waiting and forbearance. Sometimes there is waiting in patience, and hope in despair. When there is nothing to wait, just bear it for the last time. At worst, you will die and you will be completely liberated. In the infinite river of time, you and I are just small and tiny waves. But in life, you must do your best to leave a mark in the long river of time and history, and use your own value and role as a country, king, people, Family members, close friends. Of course, this is my idea, you don’t have to think like me.”

It is very disgusting for a person to measure his own sense of worth or shape himself by his own standards.And imposing your own ideas on others is equally annoying.

This is the idea of ​​the original owner, and Yan Shisan just inherited it, and in the next few decades, Yan Shisan, who borrowed the body of the original owner, will carry out the idea of ​​the original owner to the end.

"But Brother Yan, you are still young, aren't you? But it's only three years, can't you wait a little longer?" Xue Chenyin unconsciously clasped the dirt under his buttocks with his hands, and looked at Yan Shisan unwillingly, hoping to dispel him. The idea of ​​letting him wait for himself.

"Brother Yin, being young doesn't mean age is long." Yan Shisan raised his hand and tore off a leaf from the branch above his head, picked up another leaf from the ground, brought it in front of Xue Chenyin, and began to educate the child.

"Look, Brother Yin, these two leaves grew out this spring. If I don't pick this leaf off, then maybe it will fall in autumn, and it is more likely that it will not fall until next year. , it still has a long time. But this leaf is different, you see it has fallen to the ground long ago, it is gone, it has no time. You can't waste time just because you are young, waiting for the next time. This world In life, everything can wait, but time cannot. Because both history and life are a long and turbulent river. As soon as one sees one thing, it will be taken away, and another thing will appear to replace it, and this It will also be taken away and cannot stay forever. Time is a post, it will dilute people's feelings, and it will make people willing to obey."

Xue Chenyin was silent. It's not that he doesn't understand these principles, but so what if he understands them?He couldn't stop the thought of keeping Yan Shisan, he wanted Yan Shisan to wait for him, just wait a while, let him catch up with him.Except for Xue Chenyin himself, no one knew how much he wanted to walk side by side with Yan Shisan, or even surpass him.

Boys are competitive, especially good boys.

From Xue Chenyin's point of view, the difference between him and Yan Shisan is only two years. After two years, he passed the examination as a scholar, so that the two are equal.In this way, they can go to the township examination together to see who can compete and win.

Yan Shisan touched Xue Chenyin's head. He taught twelve outstanding students in the last world. It is not uncommon for him to have a mentality like Xue Chenyin's.

They are all excellent existences, and they are extremely eager to show their excellence. They feel that they are no worse than anyone else, so when they see peers who are about their own age but better than themselves, they will naturally be unconvinced and want to compare themselves naively. .

Wei Anjiu is such an example. Yan Shisan arranged Zhou Zisang to be with Liang Xiuzhu. Wei Anjiu made a fuss at that time. He felt that he was no worse than Liang Xiuzhu. Why didn't he arrange him to be with Zhou Zisang.

In later time, Wei Anjiu compared with Liang Xiuzhu overtly and secretly more than once, and even seriously affected Zhou Zisang. During a group outing, Wei Anjiu hurt Zhou Zisang and Liang Xiuzhu because of his uncontrollable jealousy, and also broke Zhou Zisang's relationship with Wei Anjiu. goodwill and future.This can be regarded as an unintentional insertion of willows and willows!Wei Anjiu pushed Zhou Zisang away at his own risk.

"Brother Yin, you have been following me all this time, have you reviewed your homework?" Yan Shisan asked, changing the subject.

Xue Chenyin raised his head and said triumphantly, "I remember all of that! I can't beat me! I will definitely pass this exam!"

Yan Shisan touched Xue Chenyin's little head, and remembered Cheng Changan, that well-behaved child. In the previous world, the scientific examination regulations were very strict. Even Liang Xiuzhu and the others were not sure that they could not fail the examination, although Cheng Changan's failure was unexpected. Among them, but after the child went back, he locked himself in the room and recited the book, vowing to pass the exam next year.That kid was also tenacious, and actually passed the scholar examination at the age of 16, and after Yan Shisan sent Cheng Chang'an to the officialdom, he completely rested, and then... After that, he seemed to follow Liang Xiuzhu to the battlefield.

Yan Shisan frowned, why did he feel that something was wrong, he felt as if he had forgotten something.But there is no gap in his memory, he has always had this feeling, Yan Shisan suppressed his doubts, looked at the proud Xue Chenyin, and shook his head secretly, as expected, he was still a child, and his temperament was unstable.

"Brother Yin, you're getting restless." Yan Shisan revealed Xue Chenyin's incorrect state of mind.

Whether it is an emperor or a scholar, the most fearful thing is impetuousness and self-satisfaction.Otherwise, if you fail to meet your own standards, your mentality will be unexpected.Now that Xue Chenyin is young, he is no worse than the original owner, and his arrogance is normal, but Xue Chenyin's identity is doomed that he cannot be as proud and conceited as ordinary people.

A good emperor must learn the lessons of the downfall of various dynasties. He must know people and be good at their duties, accept advice with an open mind, be people-oriented, be modest and prudent, employ people without doubting others, and so on.Just like Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty who opened up the prosperity of the Tang Dynasty, we must use history as a mirror and human beings as a mirror.

The world is so big and the world is so big, everything needs to be discussed more with civil and military officials, and planned with wise and talented people, so as to be reasonable and understandable, and to make up for the gaps.Being too suspicious and acting arbitrarily in every detail will not only make you tired, but your actions may not be reasonable.

It is difficult for one person to make decisions alone.

A trace of thought flashed in Yan Shisan's eyes. He thought that in the next few years, he should train Xue Chenyin's character well so as not to suffer a big loss in the future.

Xue Chenyin, who noticed Yan Shisan's eyes, suddenly became sober. He dared to speak nonsense in front of Yan Shisan. You must know that Yan Shisan was only 11 years old and passed the examination of scholar, who was a full year younger than him. !He is so conceited, isn't he bringing shame on himself, playing tricks on others!

Seeing Xue Chenyin's blushing face and erratic eyes, Yan Shisan knew that Xue Chenyin wanted to understand.

As the ancients said, don't play tricks.But in Yan Shisan's view, if the ax can't be obtained by the class, it will be useless!If you want to play with an axe, you must dare to play in front of Lu Ban!What do you do with an ax in front of others?As a joke?Isn't it bullying if you play it!Go to play in front of Lu Ban, if he points out the shortcomings and shortcomings, you will know where your shortcomings are, and if you correct it, you can show it to Lu Ban next time.If he nods, it means that his kung fu is mastered, and maybe he can make someone else play an ax in front of him as Luban!

Xue Chenyin dared to fight in front of Yan Shisan, which showed that he had real skills, not half-baked.

"Brother Yin, you have to remember that there are people outside the world and there is a sky outside the sky. You are very powerful, but the world is so big that there are many people who are more powerful than you. You haven't met them yet." The teaching this time was very successful, and Xue Chenyin The child calmed down a bit, and probably in the future he would not be so talkative and hot as he is today.

"I know." Xue Chenyin fiddled with the mud on the ground with his fingers, lowered his head and muttered, "I won't be complacent next time."

"Brother Yin, it's not that you can't be complacent. If you have the ability, you can naturally be complacent. But just because you are complacent doesn't mean you can despise the knowledge and scientific research in books. Learning is like climbing a tower. At the top level, you don’t know people at the age, but you can also know the words.” Yan Shisan taught Xue Chenyin earnestly, “Learning can’t be interrupted, and you can’t just fish for three days and spend two days fishing just because of your talent. If you learn, you will be wise. If you don’t learn, you will be stupid. ;Learning leads to governance, not learning leads to chaos. Since ancient times, there has been no sage or sage who achieved success through learning. Brother Yin, you are already 12 years old and you have to take responsibility.”

There is a traditional early marriage in Bodhi Village, and it is not uncommon for people to get married at the age of twelve or thirteen.Like the original owner, he was also engaged, but he came and left early after the father of geese passed away and the mother of geese left.

"Brother Yin! Brother Yin! Where are you?" A delicate female voice came from the direction of the village to Yan Shisan and Xue Chenyin's ears, and they both looked back at the same time.

I saw a green commoner holding a pot of clothes with his sleeves rolled up, and a woman with a gentle face came towards them with small steps. It was Xue Chenyin's A Nianglin.

"Aniang! I'm here!" Xue Chenyin jumped up from the ground when he saw his mother, and ran in the direction of Mrs. Lin.

"Slow down, don't fall." Mrs. Lin looked at Xue Chenyin with love and respect in her eyes, "Brother Yan, go home."

"Brother Yan, I'm leaving!" Xue Chenyin waved his hand behind Yan Shisan's back, and followed Mrs. Lin back to the village.

"You child, bid farewell to Brother Yan!" Mrs. Lin raised her hand and knocked Xue Chenyin's head, and smiled softly at Yan Shisan who was sitting on the ground, "Brother Yan, Brother Yin I'm not sensible. I'm sorry to bother you. I'm the mother who didn't manage him well. Brother Yan, please bring the firewood to my house later. The family just needs firewood. Brother Yan, don't go to town at this time , sell it to Niang Lin."

Yan Shisan smiled back at Mrs. Lin and nodded.

Mrs. Lin took good care of and educated Xue Chenyin, but perhaps it was because she had been a court lady for many years. Mrs. Lin's subconscious awe of the royal family and her speech and behavior made Xue Chenyin proud.

Education is the process of shaping a complete person. Morality, upbringing, words and deeds, conversation... These are engraved into the child's subconscious in childhood. If the child is not in a good environment when he is young, then The child must have certain very obvious and serious defects in character and personality.

The earliest education in early childhood is the foundation of shaping a complete person, and it should be paid attention to when it is infancy. The unconscious contact between the child's growth in childhood is the essence and deeper level of shaping the child.Because these things will be imprinted in the subconscious of the child, no matter what kind of person the child will become in the future, he will not be able to change the things similar to the essence that he acquired when he first came into contact with this world.

A perfect man is created.

Mrs. Lin shaped Xue Chenyin's personality very well. She gave Xue Chenyin qualified love, and also gave Xue Chenyin enough respect and normative etiquette. ability.

Perhaps it was because she was not her own child that Mrs. Lin gave Xue Chenyin enough respect and distance.

After all, the average mother has a very strong desire to control her child.It's just because they conceived and gave birth to the child in October, and then raised it for ten years. Since they were young, they have been busy worrying about the child and getting used to the child's dependence and admiration.So it is difficult for them to accept the alienation and growth of their children. In their view, the children belong to them, so they are used to control. Once they leave, it is normal to go crazy.

There are also some immature mothers who think that being a mother is giving birth to a child.But after the child was born, they didn't think about it at all, which not only ruined themselves, but also ruined an innocent child.

After giving birth to a child, how to think about education, so that the child born will become a complete person in the future.