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Yan Fei sent the members of the Bai family home, he took the initiative to apologize in the car, and asked the members of the Bai family not to take it to heart.

Bai Shilin said: "Our family background is mediocre, incomparable with your Yan family, but when we look for in-laws, we never look at the other party's family background, but the person who will live with my child for the rest of my life."

Yan Fei felt even more ashamed: "Dad, I apologize for them."

With a cry of dad, the atmosphere in the car eased down.

Chen Qian smiled and said: "The life of you young couple will be lived by the two of you in the future. Our elders often think differently from you, but our love for you is the same. We didn't do well, you and Don't worry about your family, Xingzhe is with you, we are very relieved."

Before Yan Fei could be happy, Grandma Bai sighed.

"Yan Fei, it's rare to see two families in the future. You and Xingze go to one family to celebrate the New Year every year. It's not that I am narrow-minded, but sitting together, I can't talk much, and the two families are uncomfortable."

Their elders are incapable, causing their children to suffer and suffer. If they don't get involved, the two children will be better.

Yan Fei's chest was heavy, and he could only nod his head in agreement. He understood the elders, but felt a little uncomfortable.

After Yan Fei sent the Bai family members home, he returned to the car, but was in a daze.

After thinking about it, he finally called Su Yue.

Su Yue, who was already asleep, was woken up again, not wanting to disturb Liu Tanyu's sleep, so she quietly went to the study to answer the phone.

"It's on vacation now, it's midnight, the boss didn't squeeze the employees, how can the employees squeeze the boss instead?" Su Yue really didn't know what she owed Yan Fei.

"I want to ask you something." Yan Fei's voice was low.

Hearing this tone, Su Yue couldn't blame her: "Say."

"Your family and Liu Tanyu's family, that is, the families of both parties, how do you arrange and get along with each other? Is it during the holidays?"

Su Yue smiled, he understood what Yan Fei meant, and said, "I've never met, do you believe it?"

"Are you serious?"

"Otherwise, Xiao Tanzi and I went abroad to get married. His parents simply arranged it and invited close relatives and friends. The same is true for me. It's fine if you want it."

"Before the holidays, we prepare some things and send them to his parents. At most, we go to my house to have a New Year's Eve dinner, and then we go out for a trip, or stay at home."

"Yan Fei, there is no need to force some things, as long as the etiquette is met, there is really no need for a family to sit down as if they are reunited, it is embarrassing for both families."

Yan Fei knew that Su Yue was telling the truth, but the feeling in his heart was wrong.

"Won't Liu Tanyu have any ideas?" You treat his family like this, and you don't even have a formal meeting.

"He is the one who strongly asks each family to manage each family well. He knows how difficult his parents and family are. Sitting with my family, he is afraid that he will not dare to say anything, or his father will talk nonsense after drinking a few drinks. He is ashamed, and he is also afraid that his mother, who is uneducated, will unknowingly put on the posture of a village aunt to make jokes, and he is even more afraid of his younger brother's shameless flattery, which is better than us forcing the two families to sit down and smile. It is the best etiquette for family members to leave ** face to face."

Yan Fei was puzzled: "His parents are so unbearable?"

"It's not that they are unbearable, but that they are like that. Xiaotanzi hates them more than anyone else in his heart. That's why he struggles so hard. He dreams of getting rid of such a family. He doesn't treat them harshly, doesn't deny their lives, and does his best. Being able to take care of and give money is his biggest bottom line."

Yan Fei felt depressed, as expected, every family has a difficult scripture to recite.

But the situation of each family is different. Bai Xingze's parents are well-educated and reasonable. Although they are not high-ranking officials, they are also rich in business.They are not timid, and they are better than their own family members in caring for their children.

"Su Yue, I'm worried, as time goes by, will the lives of two people really not be affected by two families?"

The union of two people is really not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. Su Yue can't open her eyes and talk nonsense.

"The influence is inevitable, but it depends on the personalities and courage of the two people. Xiaotanzi should decide to block the embarrassment of the two families. If he has the decisiveness and financial independence, he will not be influenced by his family, then everything will be fine. Easy to say."

"But if he is stupid, filial and indecisive, then needless to say, his father would come to our house for a drink every three days, get drunk and drag me to talk. Think about that scene. And her mother brought seven aunts and eight aunts Everywhere I look at the houses developed by our family, I just ask for discounts and internal prices. Not to mention that his brother works in the company, so it’s not a big deal, and it will cause big trouble sooner or later.”

"None of these things happened, and they won't happen. Xiaotanzi knows what his family is like. He strictly restrains them more than anyone else. He tries his best to get out and won't allow anyone to pull him back."

Yan Fei frowned: "The situation in our family is not that complicated, but it seems more complicated than this."

"What's the matter?"

Yan Fei briefly explained what happened. He was about to die from a headache. He was afraid that his family's attitude would cause the Bai family's dissatisfaction, which would turn into Bai Xingze's rift against him. It would last forever, and he didn't know how to balance it. .

After listening, Su Yue said: "The internal conflicts in your family have spread out in front of the Bai family this time. Whether you intend to or not, you have gone too far. On the contrary, the Bai family is really a good family."

"I'm ashamed and helpless now. I know my family is wrong, but I can't go back and get angry at them. I want to communicate with them. I don't know how to say it. If I say something bad, I'm afraid they will think it's wrong. It is the Xingze family who have ideas. They will feel that there is nothing wrong with their ability to help their children."

Su Yue smiled: "It seems that you are going to owe me a favor."

"If you can help me solve it, any favor will do."

"I asked my old man to invite your old man to dinner? Teach him some experience."

Yan Fei's eyes lit up: "Good idea."

"Boy, are you serious this time?" Su Yue said with a smile.

"Yeah, I didn't expect it to be like this, but it's pretty good." Yan Fei also smiled.

"Then it's decided. I'll go home for dinner tomorrow and tell my grandpa. I'm going to bed. Don't look for me when the sky falls. Oh? Madame, why are you up?"

Liu Tanyu came over to take the phone and saw that it was Yan Fei.

"It's all on vacation and you still work overtime. If you have something to say, you can't talk during the day. If you have to talk at night, you have to talk behind my back." Liu Tanyu hung up the phone.

Yan Fei thought that this kind of trivial matter should be handled by Su Yue by herself, and she should go home and sleep.

When Bai Xingze returned home, he arranged all the members of Yan's family, and then walked into Yan Cui's room.

"Sister-in-law? Do you want to ask me about my brother's past?" Yan Cui smelled gossip and was about to have a night talk with Bai Xingze Bingzhu.

"No, I have a favor for you, do you want to unite with me?"

Yan Cui's eyes lit up immediately, and she nodded in agreement.

After staying in Yan Cui's room for more than ten minutes, Bai Xingze withdrew to Yan Fei's bedroom, washed himself up, and was about to lie down and wait for Yan Fei to come back.

There was a knock on the bedroom door, and he got up to open it.

"Grandma, are you still up?" Bai Xingze's heart rose to his throat again.

Duan Xiaoqi smiled kindly: "I wanted to chat with you tomorrow morning, but Yan Fei didn't come back, and I really couldn't sleep. Are you sleepy? If you are sleepy, go to bed first."

"I'm not sleepy. I'm used to working overtime. I still have to wait for Yan Fei. Grandma, let's go to the living room. I'll make you a cup of calming tea."

"Okay." Duan Xiaoqi was very satisfied when he heard that Bai Xingze had to wait for Yan Fei to come back before going to sleep.

In the living room, Bai Xingze and Duan Xiaoqi were each holding a cup of tea in their hands, and the two of them would at least talk about Yan Fei's return before they could leave.

"Xingze, I actually disagreed at the beginning." Duan Xiaoqi has an elegant demeanor, sitting there like a painting of beauties in the Republic of China, even if he said something unpleasant, it would still make people unable to get angry.

Bai Xingze smiled: "Yes, I guess, there must be many excellent children around you who are good enough to match Yan Fei."

She couldn't get along with Grandma Qin, and she always looked down on Grandma Qin in her heart, so how could she like the person Grandma Qin was looking for.

"Then you don't ask, why did you agree later?"

"You agreed? I thought you were going to tell me that if you disagree, I'll have to pack up all night." Bai Xingze made a joke to adjust the atmosphere.

Duan Xiaoqi smiled: "Yan Fei knows all the children around me. If there is fate, they would have already done it. Why wait until today."

"I didn't agree with you at the beginning, but I just felt that the person Yan Fei's grandma was looking for might not be suitable."

"Grandma, can I ask you why you can't get along with grandma? I guess it won't be so sharp at the beginning, otherwise you wouldn't marry your daughter into their family."

Duan Xiaoqi sighed: "Don't you young people like to say on the Internet now, if you don't have a child, you don't know who you are marrying. I have a child by myself and everything is fine. When it comes to my daughter , On the contrary, it really made me see my in-laws clearly."

"When Huai Yanfei was pregnant, the two elders began to choose names. They were all educated people, and they all wanted to choose a good name."

"Yan Fei was born. My grandfather and I meant that the child's name should have two surnames. Grandma Yan Fei said that the first child will take their family name, and the second child will take our family name."

"At that time, I looked at my pale daughter who had just given birth, and my heart suddenly became angry. Is my daughter a reproductive machine when she marries into their family? Why is it decided that there will be a second one?"

"As soon as I got angry, I said to call Yan Fei's father and see what he said."

"Yan Fei's father is a sensible person. He said let my daughter decide, whoever is born will decide."

"But Grandma Yan Fei opened her mouth. It doesn't matter what the child's surname is. Why should our family argue about it? Isn't it just looking for trouble? Hehe...Since it is not important, why is she arguing that the surname must be Qin?"

"I won't back down this time, the child will take our family name."

"The enmity between the two families was forged at that time. My daughter stood with me, and Yan Fei's father also said his surname was Yan. So you know why Yan Fei and Yan Cui don't have nicknames, right? I like to have both names. The last name is called."

Bai Xingze is not good at judging the matters of the Yan family and the Qin family, but he can understand Grandma Yan Fei.

If he has a daughter, who has been carefully cultivated by him since he was a child, and grows up with a lot of kindness, the child will also work hard to achieve his dreams, and his career will be promoted.

But just because of the marriage, not only the whole family has to use power and financial resources to support her husband who is inferior to her in everything, but also has to face in-laws who have completely different views and levels, and has to become a reproductive machine, so he will explode on the spot.

Duan Xiaoqi never looked down on the lack of money and power of the Qin family, but looked down on the pedantic and selfish nature of the Qin family.