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Niu Lingling felt that Chen An shouldn't be a confinement wife, that would really be a waste of her talent, and it would be too condescending.

She should simply be a treasure woman!

Chen Anke is not only fully qualified for the job of a confinement wife, but she can also rub her head. She also helps Niu Lingling to breastfeed, which is the first time she feeds her child.

Niu Lingling's body is really a bad one. Her breasts swelled after giving birth, and the milk was blocked. It was Chen Anke who helped pass the milk. Chen Anke's techniques were sophisticated and professional, and she was very experienced.

In fact, because of these postpartum problems, Niu Lingling had already planned to go to the hospital for treatment, but Chen Anke helped her solve everything.

When Niu Lingling first heard about the salary her father hired Chen Anke, she was taken aback, thinking that a confinement wife is so expensive!But now, Niu Lingling felt that the money was well spent.

Especially when Zhanxi has a mobile phone and understands that it is best for women to undergo professional postpartum repair after childbirth, she asks Niu Lingling to choose a postpartum repair class with good reviews.

As a result, Niu Lingling found that these postpartum rehabilitation classes were too expensive. She has no job now, and her children and herself are supported by her old father. She really can't make up her mind to sign up for these expensive postpartum rehabilitation classes.

Later, when Niu Lingling talked about it sadly, Chen Anke was surprised, and even smiled: "Postpartum repairs? Didn't I already help you? Don't worry, I will do all these things, don't waste money and be wronged." Money. I have been helping you restore your body shape, haven’t you noticed it yourself?” As for postpartum psychological restoration, it has already achieved initial results, but you, the client, did not notice it.

At this moment, Niu Lingling felt that she seemed to be taking advantage of Chen Anke.

Chen Anke can do everything, she can do skin care, beauty, make-up, massage, massage, cupping, prescribing breast milk, all of which can save her money for postpartum repairs...

The child is still breastfeeding now, and there is no need to buy expensive milk powder for the time being, which saves a lot of money for milk powder, and the father hired a confinement wife who is worth every penny. The biggest room in the house is where she and Chen The sister-in-law still has the baby sleeping, and sister-in-law Chen is taking care of the child at night. Actually, Niu Lingling has nothing to worry about.

But the state of that child still made Niu Lingling not at all relieved.

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Chen Anke is very experienced in taking care of children. With the help of Chen Anke, Niu Lingling took care of Niu Huxiu.

Chen Anke is the one who really works hard. She not only has to take care of her mother, but also takes care of her children.

But Chen Anke always looks glamorous, no matter how busy she is, she will never give up working on her appearance.Chen Anke is always full of energy, he works quickly and neatly, and never procrastinates.

Niu Lingling is really admired and ashamed sometimes, because facing her child Niu Huxiu, she really feels that she cannot be a good mother.

Niu Lingling loves this child even though it was her labor-intensive pregnancy, but after giving birth, Niu Lingling still felt that she was not so healthy psychologically.

She worked hard to feed this child, she hoped that the child could give a smiling face, cry and fuss, the child could look at the mother, but Niu Huxiu did not cooperate throughout the whole process, he seemed unable to learn to cry, he was not like ordinary Child, he always looks at the ceiling with his eyes open, and sleeps by himself when he is sleepy.

As for the person holding him, whether it was his mother, confinement wife, or grandfather, he never cared.

When he sleeps, the person who shakes his crib is his mother, grandpa, or rhubarb, he never cares, he doesn’t even need others to shake his crib, he lives in his own world, he sleeps whenever he wants .

This may be an easy child to take care of, but Niu Lingling still feels broken. The more negative emotions accumulate, the more serious her psychological problems will be.

Although it is the time of mother-child affection, Niu Lingling always feels like she is singing a one-man show.

After a long time, Niu Lingling couldn't bear it any longer. She didn't dare to let her father know about her situation, but dared to hide in bed by herself in the middle of the night and cry bitterly.

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"Men can't understand women's hard work, and most of the time, women who are also women can't understand either." Chen Anke gently patted Niu Lingling's hand, "You've been too nervous these days, take it easy, actually To put it bluntly, it's not just that other people can't understand women, it should be said that it's hard for people to understand other people, after all, the joys and sorrows of human beings are not interlinked, aren't they?"

Chen Anke noticed Niu Lingling's problem, and Niu Lingling had faint signs of postpartum depression. These words were also specially said by Chen Anke to advise Niu Lingling.

Fertility is a problem that is difficult to describe 100%. During pregnancy, women experience unavoidable physical and psychological changes due to hormone changes in their bodies. However, not everyone can understand these changes. Women during pregnancy are often complained about as "hypocritical", "seeking trouble for nothing", "nervous", "emotional", "problematic", "crazy", "inexplicable" and so on.

Such complaints are not only made by men, women who are also women will occasionally roll their eyes - "I don't understand, I am also a woman, but isn't it just to have a baby, as for such a big fight?"

Women who have never given birth cannot empathize with the hardships of childbirth.

And even for people who have given birth in the same way, not everyone’s birth process is the same. Some people go smoothly, while others struggle.

It is also about taking care of children, not all children are the same. Some children obediently laugh during the day, eat and sleep, and are easy to take care of. Crying, always refusing to drink milk...

Mothers who are easy to take care of children cannot understand the hardships of mothers who are difficult to take care of children.

This is essentially the same as men who cannot understand the hardships of women's childbirth.

Because you can't be in the same environment, you can't empathize, so you can't understand, or even forgive.

Niu Lingling would have been looking for solutions on some mother and baby forums with a lot of traffic, looking for how postpartum women like herself adjust their moods, but in these forums, there will also be some terrible netizens, wantonly venting With his own malice.

"You say you can't handle the crying of the child. If the child does not cry, you say that you are under a lot of psychological pressure. Why do you women have so many troubles? Are you making the child cry, or are you not letting the child cry?"

"This one is even more ridiculous. What about postpartum depression? In my opinion, it's hypocritical. Why don't you just stop having a baby? It's going to happen again, and there are so many things."

"What the hell is depression? Isn't it just having a baby? My wife is still pregnant, isn't she just eating and drinking? If there are so many things like you, I would have divorced her long ago!"

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Such remarks made Niu Lingling start to reflect, is it true that it is all her own problem? !Is it because she is too hypocritical and has something wrong?

In the end, Chen Anke simply asked Niu Lingling not to go online anymore.

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A child born with autism is a huge test of the parents' psychological endurance.

The doctor has already said this to Zhan Xi.

How could someone as sensitive as Zhan Xi not be aware of Niu Lingling's state, but Zhan Xi thought that people should learn to stand up by themselves, and some difficulties must be learned to overcome by themselves.Since Niu Lingling didn't intend to say anything, Zhanxi was just observing silently, giving her a chance to adjust herself.

If Niu Lingling really couldn't do it, as a father, he would naturally try his best to help her.

Chen Anke also mentioned this matter to Zhanxi in private: "Uncle Niu, I think Lingling's condition is not very good, do you want to help untie it too? You are the father, she might say what you say A little more listening."

Zhanxi smiled and shook her head: "That's not the case. Some people won't listen to some words if they are told by close people, but people will not listen to them if they are told by strangers, such as psychiatrists. I can hear a little bit."

"That's true." Chen Anke was actually not too worried, after all, she was already an old-timer when it came to confinement sister-in-law.

Chen An has seen too many women like Niu Lingling who have postpartum depression and postpartum emotions. Many people will gradually recover by themselves, and many people can also self-regulate with the help of Chen Anke. If not, then go and see You can also see a psychiatrist.

This is the first time Chen Anke has seen a child with severe autism like Niu Huxiu. Even Chen Anke, who considers himself a veteran, has to admit that this child is really a test.

Chen Anke thinks that patience is much, much better than the average person, and she has loved children from the bottom of her heart since she was a child, and likes to take care of children for ten years. For Niu Huxiu who didn't give any response, even Chen Anke couldn't help but feel a little frustrated sometimes.

Not to mention that Niu Lingling, who is already sensitive, has been affected by pregnancy, and has just given birth, will only feel that the child she gave birth to desperately will not be able to be caring with the mother, and will be more easily stimulated. .

Chen Anke cooked meals for the family, and told Zhanxi to invite everyone to come for dinner, and she hurriedly went to see the child again.

Zhanxi said: "I'll have to work on your thoughts during this time."

"this is necessary."

Zhanxi doesn't intend to talk to Niu Lingling. Original families like Yuanshen and Niu Lingling are not suitable for talking about these things. Even if they love their family members deeply in their hearts, they don't know how to express them, and they are shy about expressing their feelings. Mind.

Niu Lingling was ashamed to tell Chen Anke about her emotional problems, but if she wanted to tell Zhanxi, she would definitely not be able to tell.

Not forcing her to reveal her heart and giving her space and time is another kind of consideration.

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Rhubarb is a misbehaving dog. Niu Huxiu likes to shut himself up, but it always wants to break into his world everywhere.

When Niu Huxiu was in a daze, Rhubarb was beside him, cocking his buttocks and wagging his tail to tease him. Niu Huxiu ignored it, and it could play happily by itself.

When Niu Huxiu was drinking milk, Rhubarb squatted beside him drooling, and Niu Huxiu occasionally gave him a little look.

Rhubarb has [-]% curiosity and [-]% playfulness towards this child. It always rocks the crib, and it also brings out its experience and its own sense of rhythm.

Niu Huxiu was often shaken to sleep by rhubarb when he didn't want to sleep.

When it was time to go to bed, he couldn't sleep again.And when he couldn't fall asleep and looked at the ceiling with his eyes open in the middle of the night, Da Huang was sleeping on the sofa, floor, and chair next to him, lying on his back! ?

Still snoring!Still drooling!He will also talk in his sleep!

The author has something to say: This article will enter V on February 2st (that is, this Saturday). The day of entering V will be tens of thousands, and there will be red envelope rain in Wan Geng Zhang. I hope everyone will support it, bow orz!

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I went to bed today and dreamed that the vaccine came out, and when I woke up, I found it was a dream, and suddenly felt very uncomfortable.

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Jinjiang Literature and the author wish dear readers and friends: Happy and safe Spring Festival holiday!At the same time, we warmly remind everyone to wash hands frequently, wear masks, ventilate more and avoid gatherings

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感谢在2020-01-2901:00:56~2020-01-2915:49:24期间为我投出霸王票或灌溉营养液的小天使哦~

Thanks to the little angel of the irrigation nutrient solution: 4 bottles of Luo Xomi; 1 bottle non-stop;

Thank you very much for your support, I will continue to work hard!